Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Matilde Crocini
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Hi, I'm Matilde, your host! If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…  How do I know?? Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again! What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that: Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds and attachment trauma are causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survival mode. I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do. The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now! Your first step is to take this quick FREE assessment and discover your main Coping Pattern Profile👇 Take the assessment now This will help you on your healing jounrney! Because recovery from maternal narcissistic abuse is a journey and it starts today.  In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to support you in this moment of your life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest. If you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go! **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me! With Love🤍

  1. 17h ago

    Why regular healing and therapy are not enough to recover from maternal narcissistic abuse and what truly helps

    Do you want to know why despite years of therapy and other healing modalities you still feel guilt, anxiety, you still double-guess yourself and keep on people-pleasing? Do you want to know why you keep feeling stuck and you still get caught in the same patterns even though you have learnt all about them? This is because you are still carrying trauma in your body and talking does not heal trauma. It can help you become aware of it, but that's only the first step. If we remain stuck in talking, or in other tools that only work with rational thinking, we never truly break free. In this episode I share why every client I've worked with came to me feeling broken and defeated despite having tried many different healing modalities, and I share what made the difference. This is what made the difference in my own life too, as a daughter of a narcissistic mother recovering from abuse and trauma in my own body. I also share the price I had to pay before I realised that I needed to go deeper, so you don't have to go through the same pain too.  Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern👇Your Coping Pattern AssessmentRelated episodes:Episode 3 This Healing Doesn't Work! Am I broken??With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  2. Jun 30

    The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse

    Do you want to know the impact of maternal narcissism has on your life still today? To get that, you need to know your main coping pattern. There are four main coping patterns. These survival patterns affect your life no matter how much time has passed, no matter the distance between yourself and your narcissistic mother, no matter how many effective boundaries you've set.Very often, despite years of therapy, we still live a life of survival. Positive mindset and rational reframing won't heal these patterns either. But there's good news!! By becoming aware of which is your main coping pattern, you can then take the next step and intentionally repair these patterns, reclaiming your life, your joy and your freedom. The first step to recover from maternal narcissistic abuse is to become aware of how this is still impacting you in your life, relationship, career, parenting, health... Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern👇Your Coping Pattern Assessment Related episodes:Episode 125 Healing the mother wound with a narcissistic mother: 3 things you need With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  3. Jun 16

    What makes your mother’s silent treatment so triggering and what you can do to break free from this manipulation tactic

    Do you want to know why your narcissistic mother's silent treatment has such an effect? If this toxic behaviour leaves you feeling anxious, confused and hurting you are not alone in this. A narcissistic mother will use the silent treatment as a way to control and punish you, to get you to fall back in line. Each time it leaves you dysregulated and yet it doesn't have to be this way. High chances are your mother won't change, but there's something you can do to break free from this manipulation. 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up Related episode:Episode 149 What to do when your narcissistic mother goes no contact with you With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse

  4. Jun 2

    Minimising narcissistic abuse: a survival mechanism that will trap you in toxicity

    What is the impact of adapting to maternal narcissistic abuse? This survival mechanism, which has served you powerfully to get to here, has a downside: it impacts your life in more than one way, leaving you trapped in abuse and toxicity not only with your narcissistic mother or family, but also in career, friendships and romantic relationships. In this episode I share the 3 main ways this coping strategy impacts your life even now. The good news is: once you become aware you can take the first step and transform your life for good. 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes: Episode 125 Healing the mother wound with a narcissistic mother: 3 things you need Episode 91 Public perfection & isolation as manipulation by your narcissistic mother (secrecy part 2) With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse

  5. May 19

    10 ways your narcissistic mother puts down your creativity and the impact it has on your life

    Self-sabotage, perfectionism, procrastination... This is the impact of all the times your narcissistic mothers has put down your initiative and creativity. In other words, how she received your ideas when you shared them with her as a child and afterwards has determined how you feel about yourself today. If you feel trapped, hopeless and demotivated in your life, this comes from the conditioning you have received. The good news is, understanding this will transform your life completely. You can heal from your narcissistic mother's toxic abuse and reclaim your superpower today. In this episode I share the solution that will turn self-sabotage, procrastination and perfectionism patterns around. Listen till the end! 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes:Episode 135 Unpacking the wound of feeling like a failure for adult children of narcissistic mothers – where it comes from and 6 steps to turn it around from now Episode 123 8 signs the feeling of inadequacy rules your life and 5 steps to heal for daughters of narcissistic mothers With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse

  6. May 5

    How a narcissistic mother uses drama to manipulate you & the impact this has on your life

    How much is the drama your mother creates over nothing impacting your life? Are you putting her needs in front of your all the time just to avoid her drama? It is common for a narcissistic mother to use drama control and manipulate those around her, especially her children. This will not only often create patterns of people pleasing in her adult children, but also will impact their life. Self-sabotaging, lack of motivation, over-controlling and people-pleasing pattern are a common consequence of this over-dramatic and manipulative behaviour. As a daughter of a narcissistic mother you don't need the drama anymore, but there's something you need to be aware of, and this is what I'm sharing with you today. 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes: Episode 137 20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings – the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal Episode 131 How to stop people pleasing: a 3 steps process you can implement from now 💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With love!

  7. Apr 21

    How to break free from your narcissistic mother's abuse - this will surprise you

    How is your narcissistic mother's abuse impacting your life? Do you want to know why despite all the boundaries and maybe even going no contact, you are still not free from the pain she caused you? Breaking free from your narcissistic mother's abuse and toxicity requires two types of work, and most people stop at the first one, never truly breaking free. In this episode I share with you how to truly break free, all the way to completely transform your life, by taking care of the second and most important aspect of this healing journey. Missing this crucial step will affect everything in life, including your physical wellbeing, your relationships, your career, your parenting and your overall happiness.Taking this step, on the other hand, will completely transform your life!  💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes:Episode 144 What does not work when healing from maternal narcissism & the 3 steps that will make the real difference - Healing mother wounds 💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With love!

  8. Apr 7

    What to do when your narcissistic mother goes no contact with you

    Has your narcissistic mother cut contact with you? Does that leave you feeling she robbed you of your choice to go no contact? The she robbed you of your chance at closure? The silent treatment is a frequently used way by a narcissistic mother to punish her children, but she may not stop there. She can go all the way as to actively go no contact with you. And this can truly hurt. It will trigger the childhood trauma that is already there, in particular the abandonment wound that's related to having a mother who is emotionally unavailable. In this episode I answer the question of a listener whose mother went no contact, and share one thing that will truly help if this is the case for you. This solution can also be very effective in the case of a prolonged silent treatment. 💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast Related episodes:Episode 120 Grieving the mother you never had - the 6 stages of healing mother woundsEpisode 117 When your narcissistic mother tells you that you are the one with problems – this is what’s actually happening! 💌 Sign up to the Newsletter here:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With Love!

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Hi, I'm Matilde, your host! If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…  How do I know?? Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again! What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that: Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds and attachment trauma are causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survival mode. I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do. The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now! Your first step is to take this quick FREE assessment and discover your main Coping Pattern Profile👇 Take the assessment now This will help you on your healing jounrney! Because recovery from maternal narcissistic abuse is a journey and it starts today.  In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to support you in this moment of your life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest. If you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go! **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me! With Love🤍

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  • Creator
    Matilde Crocini
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    164
  • Rating
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    © Matilde Crocini - Women Reclaiming Their Fullness
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    Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

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