Moms Like Me Podcast by SupportNow

Jordan Arogeti

We dive into the messy middle of life's major moments and learn how everyday people make it through. Jordan Arogeti unpacks the struggles and successes during parenthood, hospitalizations, major diagnosis, loss, and more.

  1. Jul 28

    The 5 Stages of Grief Are Garbage" | A Mother's Story After Losing Her Daughter

    Six days before she died, Katie Boehm earned a full scholarship to nursing school. Then on an ordinary Tuesday night in December, she went out to run an errand — and never came home. Lisa K. Boehm had spent decades in oncology. She'd been trained in grief. And when it landed on her own doorstep, she discovered she knew nothing at all. In this conversation, Lisa tells Jordan Arogeti what the ten years since have actually taught her: why the five stages of grief made her feel like she was doing it wrong, why the people you expect to show up often can't, and how a conversation she overheard at a support group four days before Christmas changed everything. This one is heavy. It's also full of hope. As Lisa puts it: tragedy wasn't the end of her story — it was the beginning. In this episode: (00:00) Meet Lisa — and the night everything split into before and after (02:30) Who Katie was: a spark plug, a go-getter, six days from her scholarship (04:00) What shock actually feels like when the officer is in your living room (06:45) "The five stages of grief are garbage" — and why the model does harm (09:00) The quiet cruelty of feeling like you're grieving wrong (11:00) Why people ask "was she drinking? was she texting?" — and what's really behind it (13:30) When the people closest to you can't show up (and the strangers who do) (15:30) Driving the road where Katie died, three days before Christmas (17:00) Two women, one overheard conversation, and permission to grieve your own way (21:00) The single kindest thing you can say to someone who's lost a child (22:30) Tell the story until you don't need to tell it anymore (24:30) A beach, a smile, and the guilt that followed (26:00) Carrying grief in one hand and joy in the other (26:45) "When you smile, Katie smiles. Go give her something amazing to watch." Connect with Lisa K. Boehm: Website & free grief resources: https://griefsupportformoms.com Books: Journey to HEALING: A Mother's Guide to Navigating Child Loss and Now What? Podcast: Child Loss & Grief Support for Moms Moms Like Me is powered by SupportNow. Subscribe for more conversations with mothers we can look to for inspiration, not perfection. #Grief #ChildLoss #MomsLikeMe #GriefSupport #BereavedMothers #Motherhood

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We dive into the messy middle of life's major moments and learn how everyday people make it through. Jordan Arogeti unpacks the struggles and successes during parenthood, hospitalizations, major diagnosis, loss, and more.

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