Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast

Miriam Susan
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The Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast is your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of toxic relationships with your in-laws. Join your host, a seasoned Catholic wife who's weathered 3 decades of turbulence, as we tackle the tough issues of dealing with your in-laws head-on. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is an independent podcast hosted by a Catholic laywoman. It is not an official apostolate, ministry, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocese, and does not represent the views or teachings of any ecclesiastical authority.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 140: Telling Toxic In-Laws "We won't be discussing that further."

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan discusses the phrase, “We won’t be discussing that further,” and how it can help end repetitive, unproductive conversations. She explains how toxic in-laws may try to reopen decisions, especially when you’re tired, sick, or otherwise vulnerable. Drawing from Titus 3:9-11, Miriam Susan offers practical encouragement for setting boundaries with gentleness and protecting your mental and emotional energy. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  2. Sep 12

    Episode 139: Saying "I hear you, and the answer is still no" to Toxic In-Laws

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan discusses how to say, “I hear you, and the answer is still no,” when toxic in-laws keep pressing you to change a decision. She explains that listening with compassion doesn’t obligate you to agree, especially when you and your husband have already made a thoughtful decision. Drawing from Proverbs and her own experience, she offers encouragement for holding firm boundaries without abandoning charity or peace. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  3. Sep 5

    Episode 138: Why "I feel" Statements Don't Work on Toxic In-Laws

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan explains why saying “I feel like you’re...” may give toxic in-laws an opportunity to dismiss your feelings and challenge your boundaries. She shares how to communicate more carefully, keep conversations concise, and bring your heart to God instead of people who are unwilling to receive it. Catholic wives facing difficult in-law relationships will find faith-based encouragement and practical guidance for seeking clarity, discernment, and peace. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  4. Aug 29

    Episode 137: Saying "We've Already Made a Decision" to Your Toxic In-Laws

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan discusses telling your toxic in-laws, “We’ve already made a decision.” She explains how this simple phrase can communicate a respectful boundary when extended family tries to influence decisions meant for you, your spouse, and your children. Drawing on nearly 3 decades of experience with her own in-laws, she offers encouragement for honoring your marriage, your Catholic faith, and the direction God is leading your family. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  5. Aug 22

    Episode 136: Saying "I'm Sorry" to Your Toxic In-Laws

    Episode 136: Saying “I’m Sorry” to Your Toxic In-Laws In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the pitfalls of reflexively saying "I'm sorry" to toxic in-laws. Drawing on her personal journey and 30 years of experience, she unpacks why these automatic apologies can backfire and undermine boundaries. Listeners will gain practical encouragement for breaking the habit of false apologies and learn to prioritize honesty and peace with God over people-pleasing. If you struggle with challenging in-law dynamics, this episode offers thoughtful guidance to help you respond with truth and integrity. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  6. Aug 15

    Episode 135: Saying "That's Not Going to Work for Us" to Your Toxic In-Laws

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan breaks down why the phrase "that's not going to work for us" is so powerful when setting boundaries with toxic in-laws. She explores the difference between individual versus unified responses, drawing on her own thirty years of experience navigating these challenging relationships. If you're struggling to communicate boundaries or feel pressure to over-explain, this episode will empower you to claim your autonomy as a Catholic wife—always with charity and wisdom. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  7. Aug 8

    Episode 134: Telling Your Toxic In-laws’ that You’re Overreacting

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan dives into why you should avoid telling your toxic in-laws that you might be overreacting. She unpacks how self-doubt and years of conditioning can lead us to minimize our own hurt, and offers practical guidance rooted in faith and personal experience. If you’ve ever second-guessed your reactions or struggled for validation, this episode is filled with encouragement and actionable advice for navigating difficult in-law dynamics. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

  8. Aug 1

    Episode 133: Telling Your Toxic In-Laws "No"

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the challenging topic of telling your toxic in-laws "no" and standing firm in your boundaries. Drawing from her decades of personal experience, Miriam Susan unpacks why saying no is not only healthy but also authentically Catholic. If you struggle with guilt or fear when refusing family demands, this episode will equip you with practical advice and spiritual encouragement to respond with clarity and kindness. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction: Launching the series on "phrases your in-laws don't want to hear" 02:30 – Scriptural foundation: Matthew 5:37 on letting your "yes" be yes and "no" be no 03:06 – Being a "no" person vs. struggling to say no 03:38 – Marriage dynamics: Navigating differing comfort with saying no 05:03 – Family conflict: When saying no upsets in-laws used to hearing yes 06:49 – Enabling and tantrums: How toxic personalities train others to never say no 07:49 – Validating the experience of rehearsing a difficult "no" 08:44 – The anxiety and rehearsal leading up to saying no at family events 09:21 – The danger of overexplaining: How excuses are used against you 11:58 – The weaponization of excuses and the Christian guilt over saying no 12:56 – Overexplaining as fear, not virtue 14:58 – It's not wrong to say no: How reactions reveal family dysfunction 16:08 – Emotional honesty: Why a plain no unsettles enmeshed families 17:08 – Disrupting the web: The ripple effect when you break family patterns 20:10 – The cost of being a cycle breaker: Pushback and misunderstanding 21:45 – Critique of advice urging blind family loyalty over boundaries 23:07 – Don't mistake clarity for ease: No is often met with resistance 23:23 – The struggle of not having your no received 24:24 – Expecting pushback: It isn't un-Catholic to set limits 24:55 – Resource offer: Conversation scripts for difficult in-law talks 25:29 – Gathering community: Invitation to the free women's group

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The Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast is your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of toxic relationships with your in-laws. Join your host, a seasoned Catholic wife who's weathered 3 decades of turbulence, as we tackle the tough issues of dealing with your in-laws head-on. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is an independent podcast hosted by a Catholic laywoman. It is not an official apostolate, ministry, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocese, and does not represent the views or teachings of any ecclesiastical authority.

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