Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Kendall Lasha
  • 4.9 (71)
  • Parenting
  • Updated Weekly

The podcast community where moms can spill the true tea about navigating the complexities of motherhood and life, authentically, unapologetically and without judgment.

  1. Aug 18

    EP33: They Say New Age Grandmas "Suck". Let's Talk About It.

    NEW AGE GRANDMAS "SUCK" Apparently, the "new age grandma" is sad, selfish and doesn't show up like grandmothers used to. Well...let's talk about WHY. Today's grandmothers are still working, caring for aging parents, maintaining marriages, building businesses and living their own damn lives. And many of us are no longer willing to tolerate disrespect, entitlement or one-sided relationships just to maintain access to our children and grandchildren. In this episode, I'm talking about boundaries, reciprocity, the disappearing "village," transactional family relationships and why so much of the blame for broken family dynamics continues to fall on mothers and grandmothers. And while we're talking about these "new age grandmas"...where are the granddads in this conversation? CHAPTERS 00:00 The Return and the New Age Grandma 03:05 Understanding the New Age Grandma's Role 05:59 The Burden of Expectations on Grandmothers 08:50 The Village Concept and Its Disappearance 12:01 Reciprocity in Family Relationships 14:49 Boundaries and Respect in Family Dynamics 18:04 Transactional Relationships and Emotional Manipulation 21:05 The Critique of Women in Family Dynamics 23:56 The Evolution of Grandmotherhood 27:03 The Need for Mutual Respect 29:54 The New Age Grandma's Perspective 💚 GRAB BOTH OF MY BOOKS Moving Forward: A Guide to Finding Peace & Yourself, With or Without Reconciliation Reclaiming Your Identity Available at MumsTrueTea.com and on Amazon. KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA Website: MumsTrueTea.com Instagram: @MumsTrueTea Facebook: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast Share this episode, follow the podcast and subscribe on YouTube. Until next time, GO REST but GO LIVE!! 💚

    EP33: They Say New Age Grandmas "Suck". Let's Talk About It.

  2. Mar 24

    EP32: When Your Child Shows You They Don't Care — Believe Them

    What happens when your child's actions—not their words—show you they don't care? In this episode of Mum's True Tea, we're talking about the painful truth many parents face: accepting consistent disrespect, emotional distance, and lack of effort from adult children. When they show you they don't care, you need to believe them!  If you're dealing with estrangement, parental abuse, or feeling dismissed by your child, this episode will help you stop overextending yourself and start choosing your peace.   💚Grab Both of My Books "Moving Forward: A Guide to Finding Peace & Yourself, With or Without Reconciliation"  and "Reclaiming Your Identity" available at https://mumstruetea.com/merch-shop/  and on Amazon💚   KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast   THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LISTENING!

    EP32: When Your Child Shows You They Don't Care — Believe Them

  3. Jan 23

    EP31: Male Centered Moms Are NOT SAFE!

    In this episode, Kendall Lasha delves into the dangers posed by male-centered women, particularly mothers and daughters, who prioritize men at the expense of themselves and other women. She explores how this mindset can lead to harmful behaviors and societal norms that undermine women's safety and empowerment. Through personal experiences and insights, Kendall emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and being very cautious when dealing with these type of women.   💚Grab Both of My Books "Moving Forward: A Guide to Finding Peace & Yourself, With or Without Reconciliation"  and "Reclaiming Your Identity" available at https://mumstruetea.com/merch-shop/  and on Amazon💚   KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast   THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LISTENING!

    EP31: Male Centered Moms Are NOT SAFE!

  4. 10/28/2025

    EP30: You May Be Grown, But You're Not My Equal

    Summary: In this episode, Kendall Lasha discusses the growing mindset among young adults and teenagers who believe they are equal to their parents simply because they have reached adulthood. She explores the spiritual and ethical equality of all humans while emphasizing the sacred, non-peer role of parents. The conversation delves into the cultural and relational hierarchies that have existed for thousands of years, the impact of pop psychology on social media, and the importance of respecting the parental role. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the challenges that arise when modern parenting expectations clash with traditional values. Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction and Overview 00:00:00 Spiritual and Ethical Equality 00:00:00 The Sacred Role of Parents 00:00:00 Pop Psychology's Influence 00:00:00 Respect and Boundaries 00:00:00 Cultural Hierarchies and Parenting 💚Grab My New Book "Moving Forward: A Guide to Finding Peace & Yourself, With or Without Reconciliation"  and "Reclaiming Your Identity" both available on Amazon https://a.co/d/fvGPsa3  and https://mumstruetea.com/merch-shop/ 💚   KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast

    EP30: You May Be Grown, But You're Not My Equal

  5. 10/01/2025

    EP29: Are They Really Breaking Generational Curses?

    Join me as I unpack the complex topic of adult kids claiming that they are breaking generational curses. Are they truly breaking them, or merely creating new ones? This episode challenges the narrative and explores what genuine healing looks like and what generational curse breaking really looks like.  Please visit my website for more information and also subscribe to my newsletter: http://mumstruetea.com/ 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. https://www.youtube.com/@MumsTrueTea/?sub_confirmation=1 🔗 Stay Connected With Me. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MumsTrueTeaPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mumstruetea/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mumstruetea?lang=en Website: http://mumstruetea.com/ 📩 For business inquiries and appointments: info@mumstruetea.com =============================

    EP29: Are They Really Breaking Generational Curses?

  6. 09/05/2025

    EP28: OUR KIDS ARE OUR KRYPTONITE

    Summary In this episode of 'Mum's True Tea,' Kendall Lasha discusses the often unspoken reality of child-to-parent abuse, drawing parallels between the struggles of motherhood and the concept of kryptonite from the Superman narrative. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing when children become toxic and the need for mothers to prioritize their own mental health and well-being. Through personal anecdotes and statistics, Kendall advocates for breaking the silence surrounding this issue and encourages mothers to seek support and empowerment. Takeaways Moms often need to take a breather for their own healing. Children can become a source of emotional pain for parents. The concept of kryptonite symbolizes how children can weaken parents. Child-to-parent abuse is a reality that is often overlooked. Silence about child-to-parent abuse can be harmful. Mothers are often expected to endure pain without speaking out. Financial and emotional abuse from children is a serious issue. Estrangement can be a necessary step for self-preservation. It's important to seek support and not feel alone in these struggles. Mothers should prioritize their mental health over societal expectations.   KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast

    EP28: OUR KIDS ARE OUR KRYPTONITE

  7. 07/28/2025

    EP27: What in the Fresh Hell? The Absurd Reasons Behind No Contact

    Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Lasha discusses the absurd reasons adult children give for going no contact with their parents, particularly mothers. She critiques the influence of social media and modern therapy on parenting narratives, emphasizing that affection and involvement are often misinterpreted as control or abuse. Lasha argues that the blame for adult children's struggles is unfairly placed on parents, who often provided love and support. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional tools parents provide and the need to reclaim parental identity amidst societal pressures. Takeaways Moms are often blamed for their children's issues. Adult children use therapy as an excuse for estrangement. Affection from parents is misinterpreted as smothering. Generational wealth is misunderstood in parenting contexts. Social media influences perceptions of parenting negatively. Involvement in children's lives is not narcissism. Healing should focus on honesty, not manipulation. The phrase 'I didn't ask to be born' is problematic. Parents often struggle to provide while being blamed. True wealth includes emotional support and life skills. Chapters 00:00 The Blame Game: Parenting Under Scrutiny 02:46 The Ridiculous Reasons for Estrangement 05:31 Affection vs. Abuse: Misunderstandings in Parenting 08:43 The Impact of Generational Wealth and Stability 11:30 Social Media's Role in Parenting Narratives 14:07 The Misconceptions of Control and Involvement 17:15 The New Age of Therapy and Parenting Expectations 20:02 The Unasked Question: Why Did You Have Kids? 22:45 Healing from False Narratives 25:52 Reclaiming Parental Truths KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast

  8. 06/01/2025

    EP26: Abused By My Own Child

    Summary In this conversation, Kendall Lasha addresses the often-overlooked issue of parental abuse, discussing the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse that mothers may endure from their children. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing this abuse, setting boundaries, and taking action to protect oneself. The conversation highlights the need for mothers to reclaim their dignity and safety, encouraging them to speak up, seek support, and prioritize their well-being. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Parental Abuse 05:36 Setting Boundaries and Protecting Yourself 10:03 Finding Support and Healing KEEP UP WITH MUM'S TRUE TEA: WEBSITE: MumsTrueTea.com INSTAGRAM: @MumsTrueTea FACEBOOK: @MumsTrueTea TikTok: @MumsTrueTeaPodcast   Grab my book  💚Grab My Book "Reclaiming Your Identity: A Mom's Guide to Empowerment, Boundaries and Peace Amid Estrangement" Ebook + Paperback on MumsTrueTea.com or Amazon https://a.co/d/gn0MZBD 💚   THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LISTENING!

    EP26: Abused By My Own Child
See All (35)

4.9
out of 5
71 Ratings

About

The podcast community where moms can spill the true tea about navigating the complexities of motherhood and life, authentically, unapologetically and without judgment.

Information

You Might Also Like