If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I still reacting like this even though I know better?” — this episode is going to hit. In this episode of Straight Up With Steph®, I sit down with EMDR therapist Dana Carretta-Stein to break down what trauma actually is, how it shows up in your daily life, and why healing isn’t just about awareness — it’s about rewiring your nervous system. We go way beyond surface-level mental health conversations and talk about why so many people stay stuck, how patterns form, and what actually creates lasting change. I also share more of my personal journey with alcohol, getting sober, and how EMDR was the piece that truly helped me stop reacting the way I used to and start feeling more in control. This episode is powerful, practical, and honestly… one I wish more people understood. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: What trauma actually is (and why it’s different for everyone)Signs you may have unresolved trauma without realizing itWhat EMDR therapy is and how it worksWhy insight alone doesn’t create changeHow your nervous system drives anxiety, burnout, and reactionsThe connection between trauma, coping behaviors, and addictionHow EMDR helps you process — without re-traumatizing youGenerational trauma and how patterns get passed downWhy healing isn’t about “fixing” yourself, but understanding yourselfWhat to look for in a therapist (and how to find the right fit)If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it, follow the show, and leave a review — it helps more people find these conversations. 🔑 Topics Discussed: EMDR therapy, trauma healing, nervous system regulation, generational trauma, anxiety, burnout, mental health, therapy for trauma About Dana Connect with Dana: Instagram: http://instagram.com/the_emdr_coach Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_emdr_coach Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheEMDRCoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theemdrcoach/ Websites: The EMDR Coach: www.danacarretta.com Peaceful Living Mental Health Couseling: www.peacefullivingmentalhealthcounseling.com To watch on YouTube, click here Disclaimer: The opinions expressed by guests on this podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of Polished Posture. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for any health concerns or before making significant lifestyle changes. Send me a message, I’d love to hear from you! Click here for Mirror Gear Covers 🌟Cordless polisher: Click here and use code PODCAST150 for $150 off 🌟Click here for my free intro course To connect with me: 🦷Polished Posture Club ➡️Instagram 💻My Website 📨Email: stephanie@polishedposture.net 💌Newsletter signup