Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

Jacqueline Roessler, CDFA
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Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast! Join your host,  highly sought-after speaker and experienced Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this engaging  and down to earth show.  Along with her guests, Jacki offers clear and detailed advice to improve your financial decisions before, during and after divorce so you can survive divorce rich! New episodes are posted every  Thursday!  You can reach Jacki through her Michigan-based firm, Roessler Divorce Consulting, located at 600 S. Adams, Suite 300, Birmingham, MI 48009 or by email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com.

  1. 6d ago

    Reverse Mortgages and Grey Divorce with Laura Phillips

    Send us Fan Mail Keeping the house after divorce can feel like the last thread of stability, but the numbers do not always cooperate. If you are over 60 and facing a gray divorce, you might be sitting on substantial home equity while struggling to come up with the cash needed for a buyout, repairs, or everyday income. We wanted a real, practical conversation about one of the most misunderstood tools in divorce financial planning: the reverse mortgage. We’re joined by Laura Phillips, a reverse mortgage specialist, to break down what a reverse mortgage actually is, how an FHA HECM works, and why “no monthly mortgage payment required” can be a game changer for retirees who would never qualify for a traditional refinance. We walk through an easy-to-follow example of using a reverse mortgage to pay a spouse and set up a growing line of credit for future needs. We also cover who qualifies, why age affects how much equity you can access, and when a proprietary jumbo reverse mortgage may be worth comparing for higher-value homes. Then we get honest about the concerns. Reverse mortgages can be expensive, and negative amortization is real, but so are the protections: mortgage insurance, non-recourse rules if the market drops, and updated spouse and partner safeguards that prevent the horror stories many families remember. We also spell out the rules that matter most, like paying property taxes, keeping the home as your primary residence, and staying on top of annual occupancy certifications, plus what happens if assisted living becomes part of the plan. If you’re trying to decide whether staying put is realistic, listen, take notes, and share this with someone who’s house rich and cash poor. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what would you need to feel confident using your home equity? To reach out to Laura Phillips, https://calendly.com/laura-559/informational-consultation?month=2026-07Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Reverse Mortgages and Grey Divorce with Laura Phillips

  2. Jul 16

    Prenups and Divorce: What a CDFA Actually Looks For

    Send us Fan Mail Everyone assumes a prenup is a legal document you sign once and forget about. But when a marriage ends — five years later, or twenty — someone has to go back and figure out what that agreement actually means in today's dollars, today's assets, today's reality. That's where a CDFA comes in. In this solo episode, Jacki breaks down what's really inside a prenuptial or post-nuptial agreement from a financial (not legal) point of view — separate property schedules, appreciation clauses, income allocation, spousal support waivers — and walks through a real-world case where a business grew from $300,000 to over $2 million during the marriage, and what that meant for the settlement. Jacki also busts a couple of myths she hears constantly from clients, explains why a CDFA's role isn't to decide if a prenup is enforceable, and makes the case for bringing a financial professional into the room before the wedding — not just after the divorce filing. In this episode: What's actually inside a typical prenup or post-nupThe difference between passive and active appreciation (and why it matters)Two common myths clients believe about what a prenup can and can't doA real case study: a business, twelve years of marriage, and a very different outcome depending on how one clause is interpretedWhy getting a CDFA involved before the wedding protects both spouses, not just the wealthier oneWhether you're an attorney with an old prenup sitting in a client file, or you're the one about to sign one, this episode will change how you think about that document. Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Prenups and Divorce: What a CDFA Actually Looks For

  3. Jul 2

    More Than Meets the Eye: Valuing High-End Property in Divorce with Kelly Knoll, ISA CAPP

    Send us Fan Mail People don’t usually think they’re going to “lose it” over a lamp, a ring, or a set of dishes, until divorce turns personal property into a power struggle. We sit down with Kelly Knoll of Heritage Appraisals to get brutally clear about what household items, jewelry, art, antiques, and collectibles are actually worth, and when they are not worth the fight. We talk about practical steps you can take early, like setting a value threshold, documenting portable items, saving receipts and certificates of authenticity, and understanding when photos are enough versus when an in-person inspection is needed. Then we zoom out to trends shaping valuations right now, including softer demand for many traditional antiques, continued strength in modern and mid-century aesthetics, the market shock to natural diamond prices from lab-grown diamonds, and why more buyers are shifting toward colored gemstones. We even touch on designer handbags and how scarcity and brand discipline can make or break resale value. If you’re negotiating a divorce settlement or trying to protect your financial future, this conversation helps you stop guessing and start making clean, defensible decisions. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. To schedule a complementary consultation with Kelly Knolll for your persona property questions in divorce, CLICK HERECenter for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    More Than Meets the Eye: Valuing High-End Property in Divorce with Kelly Knoll, ISA CAPP

  4. Jun 25

    From the Archives: Divorce and Teenagers with Sarah Kuretzky Rossington

    Send us Fan Mail Teens can look like they’re doing great while their world is quietly cracking. When parents divorce during adolescence, kids may keep their grades up, stay active, and joke with friends, yet still feel fear, anger, confusion, and a deep sense of loss about the family they thought they had. We sit down with national board certified mental health professional Sarah Kuretzky Rossington to talk about teen divorce recovery and why this stage is so often neglected.  Ciick HERE to listen to Sarah on her podcast, the Hardcore Therapist, https://www.thehardcoretherapist.com/To schedule an initial consultation with Jacki, Click HERE https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2026-06Send your questions to us at divorcerichpod@gmail.comIf this helps you, subscribe, share it with a co-parent or friend, and leave a review so more families can find support when they need it most. Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    From the Archives: Divorce and Teenagers with Sarah Kuretzky Rossington

  5. Jun 18

    Her Safety Net

    Send us Fan Mail A divorce can expose one truth faster than almost anything: if you don’t have cash you can access today, you don’t have real options tomorrow.   In this episode, I share the idea that has been living rent-free in my head since hearing Jean Chatzky talk about it on Her Money: “her safety net” a personal, liquid account in your name that exists before you ever need it. I walk through why this is not just an emergency fund for surprise expenses. A safety net fund changes how you make decisions at work, at home, and across the divorce table because it reduces panic and protects your ability to say no. You’ll hear a story from my professional experience about how short-term cash pressure and growing credit card debt can push someone to accept a long-term divorce settlement that isn’t truly fair, even when marital assets will eventually pay the bills. If this resonates, take one small step tonight, then subscribe, share the show with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find financial clarity when it matters most. To schedule a complimentary 30-minute consult with Jacki, Click HereCenter for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Her Safety Net

  6. Jun 10

    Expert Roundtable: The House Standoff with Katherine Krysak Frampton, Esq., Brian Mutter, CDLP, Jodi Douglas, CDRE

    Send us Fan Mail A 2.75% mortgage rate sounds like a gift until divorce turns it into a trap. We bring you a real case study from Northville, Michigan where the marital home is valued anywhere from $750,000 to $900,000, one spouse refuses to sell, and the other spouse wants their fair share of the equity. With two minor kids and a massive income gap, the question stops being “Who wants the house?” and becomes “What is legally possible, financially feasible, and emotionally smart?” We sit down with Katherine Frampton, Esq. (Michigan family law attorney), Brian Mutter, CDLP (divorce mortgage specialist), and Jodi Douglas, MS, CDRE™, RCS-D™ to compare how each professional sees the same problem. We talk candidly about what courts often do when couples cannot settle, why refinance deadlines and default protections matter, and the uncomfortable truth that a lender’s appraisal and underwriting rules do not care what your divorce agreement says the home is worth. You will also hear the lending realities that surprise most people: when child support and spousal support can count as income, the three-year continuance requirement, and why six months of documented receipt can affect your timeline. We close with practical first steps for the first 30 days so you can make a housing decision with eyes wide open, not just hope. Subscribe, share this with someone navigating a divorce and the marital home, and leave a review so more people can find these divorce financial planning and housing insights. To reach out to Katherine Frampton, Esq. https://rubinframpton.com/katherine-frampton/To reach out to Brian Mutter, CDLP: https://www.goforwardmortgage.com/contact/To reach out to Jodi Douglas, MS, CDRE™, RCS-D™; https://www.howardhanna.com/Agent/Detail/Jodi-Douglas/67640To Listen to Our Primer Episode on this topic, click the link below https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-marital-home-in-divorce-experts-weigh-in-sell/id1735150222?i=1000702062111Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Expert Roundtable: The House Standoff with Katherine Krysak Frampton, Esq., Brian Mutter, CDLP, Jodi Douglas, CDRE

  7. May 11

    Can You Afford to Live to 95 After Divorce? with Logan Dimitrie, CFP

    Send us Fan Mail Divorce can make you feel like you’re rebuilding from scratch, but the real challenge is longer than the settlement paperwork: how do you stay stable, independent, and confident for the next 25 to 40 years? We sit down with Logan Dimitrie, associate financial planner at the Center for Financial Planning, to unpack longevity planning in plain language and make it practical for anyone navigating divorce or life as a newly single adult.  Logan also shares details on the Center’s virtual Longevity Conference for caregivers (May 21, 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.), https://www.centerfinplan.com/longevity-virtual-conference-2026.with resources on dementia caregiving, community support, scams, fraud, and the key legal steps to protect your family.  To Reach out to Logan,  https://calendly.com/logan-dimitrie/introduction-call-clonehttps://www.centerfinplan.com/logan-dimitriehttps://www.linkedin.com/in/logan-dimitrie/ Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Can You Afford to Live to 95 After Divorce? with Logan Dimitrie, CFP

  8. May 1

    Finish Line Whiplash and Divorce

    Send us Fan Mail You’re finally at the end of your divorce, you sign the agreement, and for a moment you can breathe again. Then the doubt rushes in and it feels like your brain is replaying every conversation, every number, every “what if I went to trial” scenario. We call that finish line whiplash, and it’s one of the most common patterns I see after years of divorce financial analysis and divorce settlement support. The hard truth is that urgency to be done and panic after it’s done are both terrible places to evaluate major money decisions.  Click here to book a complimentary consultation with Jacki by clicking here https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min?month=2024-03Click here to download your Post Divorce Gameplan worksheet https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/post-divorce-gameplan-fillable.pdf Center for Financial PlanningStriving to Improve Lives Through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/DAWNDivorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for MichiganDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case. Center for Financial Planning The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/ DAWN Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan

    Finish Line Whiplash and Divorce
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Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast! Join your host,  highly sought-after speaker and experienced Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this engaging  and down to earth show.  Along with her guests, Jacki offers clear and detailed advice to improve your financial decisions before, during and after divorce so you can survive divorce rich! New episodes are posted every  Thursday!  You can reach Jacki through her Michigan-based firm, Roessler Divorce Consulting, located at 600 S. Adams, Suite 300, Birmingham, MI 48009 or by email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com.

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