The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Neeki Motabar
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Join Neeki, your favourite Machiavellian Barbie, every Wednesday to learn how to take advantage of the patriarchy's loopholes and to unlearn the patriarchal conditioning keeping us small, quiet, nice girls. "To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" 💋 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 4d ago

    The psychological tricks influencers don’t want you to know

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Is it the end of the influencer era? In this episode I discuss the lies and exploitation keeping most influencers relevant. I'll also get into some data and history because the math ain't mathing y'all. PS I highly recommend watching this on YouTube so you can see the visuals 3 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 10:12 Why do they all look the same? 13:26 The rise of the middle class influencer 17:33 How influencers prey on your insecurities 35:40 Is being anti-influencer a disguise for misogyny? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources: Creator Earnings Report 2023From Norway to Wisconsin, children want to be social media influencers when they grow upThe Creator Economy Has a New Middle ClassThe Post-Pandemic Workplace: The Experiment ContinuesReport: How Brands Can Succeed at Influencer Marketing Episodes mentioned: The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle" (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)Everything you need to know about your menstrual cycle & how to sync it with your life (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The psychological tricks influencers don’t want you to know

  2. Sep 2

    Patriarchy Hack #38: Create an alter ego

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Creating an alter ego is a cheat code not only in navigating the patriarchy, but in navigating life. It enables us to create a version of ourselves that's not weighed down by our fears and limiting beliefs. It's no surprise so many celebrities have an alter ego...and that religions (literally) demonize people who channel them... ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:55 Unlearning the crap 18:49 The law in the wild 24:16 What this means for you 28:36 Exceptions and final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources: Not I, but she: The beneficial effects of self-distancing on challenge/threat cardiovascular responsesSelf-talk as a regulatory mechanism: how you do it matters__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Patriarchy Hack #38: Create an alter ego

  3. Aug 26

    I worked with some of the most powerful female execs: 7 things you need to know

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. I worked with some of the highest-ranking women in corporate Canada. Here are 7 behaviours I observed among all these women.  As Machiavelli says in The Prince, appearances matter more than reality. Enjoy ;) Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:05 Behaviour 1 4:30 Behaviour 2 12:54 Behaviour 3 14:34 Behaviour 4 17:05 Behaviour 5 21:14 Behaviour 6 24:11 Behaviour 7 26:23 Bonus behaviour If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned: Patriarchy Hack #33: Trigger people’s need to prove themselves to you (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    I worked with some of the most powerful female execs: 7 things you need to know

  4. Aug 19

    Has short form “women empowerment” content quietly redpilled you?

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Short form content has enshittified a lot of the discourse around women empowerment. A lot of “feminist” content has been condensed into easy to digest soundbites that follows a specific formula (which I’ll get into). In this episode I’m going to discuss three big cases of what I call “brain rot feminism” (aka pseudo women empowerment or choice feminism) that have probably shown up on your feed at some point. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:08 The formula 7:46 Example 1: Having a bf is embarrassing 18:09 Example 2: “As he should” 27:22 Example 3: Being a girl’s girl 32:30 The solution If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned: Is falling in love a patriarchal trap? (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)Smart women can’t afford to romanticize love (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Has short form “women empowerment” content quietly redpilled you?

  5. Aug 12

    Beware the most dangerous type of friend | Machiavelli for Women Ep. 2

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Welcome to the second episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head. In this episode, I discuss the most dangerous type of friend in our circle. This person hides in plain sight and their danger might be dormant for years, until triggered. And sometimes, that dangerous friend is not even a person at all... BTW this article by Elizabeth Stice was my inspo for the AI angle of this discussion.    xoxoxo Neekolo Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:57 What Machiavelli says 13:04 Two reasons women aren't united 23:12 The MOST dangerous of all 29:48 How to take back control If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Beware the most dangerous type of friend | Machiavelli for Women Ep. 2

  6. Aug 5

    Patriarchy Hack #37: Always have one foot out

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Commitment and loyalty are glorified ways of infantilizing ourselves. Patriarchy needs to mentally capture women in order to function, and one of its PR team's favourite marketing tactics is "commitment." In this episode I'll discuss: Why you've been conditioned to think your worth depends on how committed you areHow people play mind games to make you commitThe different disguises loyalty wearsAn example of a baddie who committed, got screwed over, became unattached, and found huge success 4 strategies to never fall victim to loyalty again In a world full of sheep and wolves, be a fox. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:02 Unlearning the crap 21:35 The law in the wild 27:32 What this means for you 41:00 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Patriarchy Hack #37: Always have one foot out

  7. Jul 29

    There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Patriarchy has made us believe we’re separate. It has pitted men against women, women against women, women against men. But this division is based on manufactured fear and scarcity. The truth is, we were never separate and we never can be. In fact, the ancients revealed five fundamental truths about humanity, the meaning of life, and what it means to be you. Those truths tell us exactly how to escape from the patriarchy. And it all starts with the consciousness you’re about to gain.  Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:34 The first truth 15:53 The second truth 21:53 The third truth 30:37 The fourth truth 34:43 The fifth truth If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps The inspiration behind this episode: https://youtu.be/ADYdypHZb2A Sources: When Fear Shrinks the BrainWhat Is the Spooky Science of Quantum Entanglement?__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts

  8. Jul 22

    Patriarchy’s secret that Disney tried warning us about

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Classic Disney villains aren't just baddies with red nails, colourful eyeshadows, and arched eyebrows, they're a goldmine of information. Just like its Hidden Mickeys, Disney left some hidden messages about patriarchy, female power, and self-actualization among its baddie villains. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 4:58 The first truth 19:39 The second truth 24:57 The third truth 32:21 Recap + closing thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned: There's an entire side of patriarchy you know nothing about (listen on Spotify or Apple) Do NOTHING for men | Machiavelli vs Patriarchy Ep. 1 (listen on Spotify or Apple)__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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