The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Neeki Motabar
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Join Neeki, your favourite Machiavellian Barbie, every Wednesday to learn how to take advantage of the patriarchy's loopholes and to unlearn the patriarchal conditioning keeping us small, quiet, nice girls. "To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" 💋 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude

    4d ago

    Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want a better, expanded version of the first 20 Patriarchy Hacks in book format? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Doing anything with the expectation that we’ll be appreciated and recognized is a surefire path to disappointment. However, it’s something many women and people pleasers continue doing. In this episode, we’ll discuss: 3 things about gratitude we need to learnA deep-rooted misconception that we need to unlearnA textbook example of why gratitude keeps us waiting for a reward that never comesThe mindset shift you need to finally stop begging for validation Let’s stop appealing to the past. The past is dead, the future is unborn, and the only thing alive is the present. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro2:02 3 things to learn14:36 A misconception to unlearn19:01 A textbook example of this hack27:24 What this means for you 36:19 Exceptions If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    40 min
  2. Your anger towards men is quietly marginalizing you

    May 27

    Your anger towards men is quietly marginalizing you

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Female rage can move mountains. As women, we have so much to be angry about, and rightfully so. However, many women get caught in the trap of channelling their anger towards men. Don't get me wrong, that anger is justified. But anger without an outlet becomes, at best, resentment, and worst, self-destruction. In this episode, I'll help you unlock a new level of consciousness about your anger and how it could be rooted in things you never thought of. I highly suggest you also listen to my episode "7 ways to make your feminine rage work for you" on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro2:26 The power of female rage8:35 The truth about anger & why we repress it14:48 A new level of consciousness about anger21:21 The antidote to anger If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  3. “Treat people how you want to be treated” is a scam

    May 20

    “Treat people how you want to be treated” is a scam

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. This week's episode is a bit counterintuitive. Every culture and religion (yikes) has a variation of "The Golden Rule": Treat people how you want to be treated. This principle has brainwashed many women into a false sense of fairness and reciprocity with the world. It keeps us running in a hamster wheel, waiting for a reward that never materializes. Worst of all, it makes us oblivious to the way the world really operates. Listen to find out how The Golden Rule may have damaged your relationships, and four new rules to replace it with. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro2:18 Why The Golden Rule is so harmful11:55 You're prob doing too much20:56 The four PLATINUM rules If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min
  4. The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered

    May 13

    The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone "pay" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, "If I were in their shoes, I would've never done that." Well you're not in their janky Crocs. In this episode, I'll discuss: Why people want to trigger you to begin withHow to spot energy vulturesHow to pull an uno reverse on themWhy being unbothered is the best form of revengeWhy reacting to an energy vulture is dangerous Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:49 Why people want to trigger you 6:08 A textbook example of an energy vulture 12:37 The psychological power of being unbothered 15:58 How to be unbothered 20:50 The power of ambiguity If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  5. Girly law of power #34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead

    May 6

    Girly law of power #34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Most of us are so caught up in arguing, trying to get the last word, or shattering someone's ego that we fail to realize how GOOFY we look. Not to mention arguing and trying to be understood are forms of emotional labour. So cut it out. Besides, why would you want to shatter someone's ego when you can trigger it? In this episode, you'll understand that real power is making your opponent look goofy, often without saying a word. I'll discuss: - Two things we need to unlearn - Why there's no such thing as winning an argument - The real reason people want you to argue with them - A crazy example of how I implemented this law - The silent, Machiavellian strategy of winning ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:08 Unlearning the crap (#1) 7:58 Unlearning the crap (#2) 17:16 The law in the wild (and I mean WILD) 23:19 What this means for you (#1) 30:17 What this means for you (#2) 34:59 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
  6. The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle"

    Apr 29

    The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle"

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Over the last few years, Shera Seven's content has taken social media by storm. Her "sprinkle sprinkle" philosophy preaches that women should be gold diggers and marry a man solely based on his ability to financially provide. Don't get me wrong, I love the woman and agree with most of what she says. However, there are some flaws in her advice that at best, get bastardized and misinterpreted, and at worst, lead to deeply engrained patriarchy. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:00 Spending money on someone is a cop out 8:42 Reality isn't real, it's mediated 13:34 The 9 to 5 trap 19:36 The femininity trap 26:31 The dark side of sprinkle sprinkle 32:31 Do all men cheat? 38:57 What should we do? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays #sprinklesprinkle #sheraseven #wizardliz #patriarchy #capitalism #itgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min
  7. You don't fear failure, you fear your own success

    Apr 22

    You don't fear failure, you fear your own success

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Most of us want best for ourselves. We want the dream job, salary, house. But that's all it is: a want. You can't want something and have it at the same time. So you stay in a perpetual state of want to prevent yourself from getting the things you desire. Then you breathe a sigh of relief, because nothing has to change. Unfortunately, stagnation feels more comfortable than success because your brain and nervous system want to keep you safe and comfy. On top of that, you've internalized a lot of crap about how women should behave and what we should aspire to be. In this episode I'll discuss exactly how to stop standing in the way of your own success so you can finally build the life you deserve. BTW here's the lifetraps quiz I mentioned. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:15 Your body’s been programmed for misogyny 6:15 You’re a parasite to yourself 11:13 Reinvent yourself in 3 steps 20:51 A VERY important note 23:59 Never fear success again If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    30 min
  8. Life in a patriarchy is a game...and it's time to win

    Apr 15

    Life in a patriarchy is a game...and it's time to win

    🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Life is a game and it’s rigged. Some say we should opt out altogether. Others say we should play by the rules and hope for the best. There’s no shortage of terrible advice that will make us lose. We’re in the game whether we want to be or not, and it’s our responsibility to ourselves to win. Once you understand not just the code of the game, but the blueprint of the universe, hacking the game becomes a breeze. Life in a patriarchy is a game, and it’s time to win. It's time to hack the patriarchy. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:06 How we’re programmed to lose 7:32 Is it even possible to win? 10:47 Taking back control of reality 20:52 How to hack the game If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    32 min
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Join Neeki, your favourite Machiavellian Barbie, every Wednesday to learn how to take advantage of the patriarchy's loopholes and to unlearn the patriarchal conditioning keeping us small, quiet, nice girls. "To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" 💋 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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