The Gifts of Trauma

Compassionate Inquiry

Presented by Compassionate Inquiry®, the Gifts of Trauma is a weekly podcast that features personal stories of trauma healing and the gifts revealed on the path to authenticity. Compassionate Inquiry® is a psychotherapeutic approach created by Dr. Gabor Maté over several decades while working with both patients and retreat participants.Join us to hear what it was like for our guests to live with the tension of trauma, and what happened when they turned inward with compassionate curiosity. These highly relatable stories illustrate how they transformed their trauma generated fear, anger, pain or shame triggers into understanding, acceptance and love. www.compassionateinquiry.com

  1. 1D AGO

    Rosemary Davies-Janes on, Living Mythically, Aligning Multipotentialism, Unveiling Magnetism

    Hosted by Kevin Young and J'aime Rothbard. Produced by J'aime Rothbard.  What if your resistance to self-marketing is actually a trauma block? This week, our very own Gifts of Trauma co-host Rosemary Davies-Janes shares her journey from corporate marketing exec to authenticity recovery coach to Magnetic Presence Marketing creator. Hosts Kevin and J'aime dive into how she helps heart-centered professionals heal their 'marketing trauma,' shed their masks and attract ideal, right-fit clients Together they reflect on: - Why marketing blocks are almost always trauma blocks in disguise - How holding 7 different roles can make complete sense when you find your through-line - The role of Compassionate Inquiry® and why we need to do our inner work first - Why Gabor Maté's magnetic presence inspired an entirely new approach to marketing In this intimate conversation, Rosemary also explains why helping people access their authenticity is her driving passion, what it means to be a multipotentialite, why living a mythic life requires courage and grit, and how she learned that a wild spirit and authentic love can go hand in hand. About Rosemary Davies-Janes Trauma Therapist, Podcast Manager/Host, Magnetic Presence Marketing Creator  For nearly 30 years, Rosemary has worked at the intersection of authenticity, psychology, and healing. After two decades in corporate marketing leadership, she founded MIBOSO® to support the holistic integration of mind, body, and soul—through authentic branding, ethical marketing, and natural healing practices. She began podcasting in 2002, producing 150+ episodes with guests including Byron Katie, James Redfield, Gary Zukav, David Whyte, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Today Rosemary manages and hosts Compassionate Inquiry's The Gifts of Trauma Podcast.  In 2021, The Wisdom of Trauma movie led her to pursue intensive trauma-therapy training in Compassionate Inquiry®, Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy and Internal Family Systems. Rosemary now specializes in complex trauma work with clients globally, particularly those navigating cultural displacement, intergenerational trauma, and early life adaptations. Inspired by Dr Gabor Maté's own unique magnetic presence, Rosemary's blend of marketing expertise and trauma-informed psychology led her to create Magnetic Presence Marketing. This approach, launched in 2025, teaches heart-centered professionals to market their work authentically, without manipulation. Born in Canada and raised across three continents, Rosemary now lives in Costa Rica, where she continues her work supporting people in integrating their internal authenticity with their external expression. Promotional Message: Your journey with Compassionate Inquiry® matters. Your work in the world matters. If you have a story to share about bringing compassionate inquiry into the world, we'd like to amplify your voice. Spotlight episodes are full length Gifts of Trauma podcast interviews offered exclusively to CI community members. You'll not only share your story with 55,000 healing professionals across all platforms, you'll receive a pre interview strategy session plus three promotional video clips. We're offering only 10 Spotlight episodes per year and production realities require a financial contribution. Follow these links  to access full details and express your interest. Spotlight Guest Sponsorship Resources Websites: Professional Website Related Links: Magnetic Presence Marketing The Gifts of Trauma Podcast Compassionate Inquiry® Training Integrative Somatic Therapy Training  Internal Family Systems Training (IFS) Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Psychometric Profiles:  Myers Briggs DISC Strengths Finder Enneagram The Kolbe A Index 360 Degree Assessment Book: The Naughtiest Girl in the School Podcasts: Navigating Adoption's Emotional Turbulence Quotes: "A brand is a living entity—and it is enriched or undermined cumulatively over time, the product of a thousand small gestures." - Michael D. Eisner "A lot of times people tell me they share things they've never shared with another human before, things that might be deeply linked to shame or some early trauma that they haven't yet named. People have mirrored back to me, is, it's because I bring my authenticity." - Rosemary Davies-Janes " …that idea of masking and false safety is not something that comes with being a Multipotentialite and living across all these jobs and following your heart. There's a courage in there as well, I would presume, to living like that." - Kevin Young "There's a practice we go through in Magnetic Presence Marketing. Check with your head brain, your heart brain, your gut brain. Check with your five senses. Check with your intuition, check with your alignment with your spiritual connection, whether that's cosmological or collective or whatever it might be." - Rosemary Davies-Janes "As within, so without, as above, so below."- Hermes Trismegistus "Follow your heart and the universe will conspire to help." - Juliano Innocente Social Media: Facebook  Instagram LinkedIn

    58 min
  2. FEB 12

    Sat Dharam Kaur, ND, on 'Bridging the Gap'

    Hosted by J'aime Rothbard, Kevin Young and Rosemary Davies-Janes. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. What if the chaos we're witnessing is humanity's collective trauma playing out on a global scale? Sat Dharam Kaur invites us to "mind the gap"—the space between our tumultuous present and unknown future—by mindfully pausing our reactivity and leaning into collective wisdom.  Our guest and hosts reflect on: - How powerful peoples' unhealed childhood wounds have and are impacting entire populations and ecosystems - The potential for men to heal their trauma, with healed 'wise' feminine support - How providing healing support from preconception through early childhood could end 'inherited' trauma - Shifting towards a "culture of care" inspired by communities in nature Sat Dharam concludes by inviting us toL "Step up. Go inside and feel…discern… What's my role, my passion, my destiny? What can I do? How can I be of service? it's [already] in our hearts. Then follow the thread, let it unfold. We're all unfolding together, it's this synergy between us that's creating this profound shift." About Sat Dharam Kaur, ND Compassionate Inquiry® Co-Director, Training Facilitator, Circle Leader, Certified Practitioner A practicing naturopathic doctor (since 1989) with a focus on women's health, cancer and mind-body approaches to healing, since 2012, Sat Dharam has been studying, hosting, working and teaching with Dr. Gabor Maté. She structured his work in a teachable format; the Compassionate Inquiry® Professional Online Training, and since 2019, she has incorporated it into her naturopathic practice.  Sat Dharam holds a BA (Psychology & English Literature) and a BSc (Biology). She completed her postgraduate studies at the Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine where she also taught stress management and women's health for 10 years.  The author of multiple *books on women's health, Sat Dharam also presents at global events, including Oxford 2025,  Europe's largest trauma, mental health and wellbeing conference. An expert instructor in Kundalini Yoga, which she has practiced and taught for over 45 years, Sat Dharam has developed yoga-based curricula in addiction recovery, trauma, and breast health; specialties in which she offers training to teachers around the world. Sat Dharam and her husband live in an off-grid home on 105 acres of beautiful land where she nurtures fruit trees and a large garden. She enjoys hiking, cycling, and communing with plants. She has three adult children and two grandchildren. Resources: Websites: Professional Site Compassionate Inquiry Profile Courses:  Beyond Addiction Compassionate Inquiry Presentations: Oxford 2025 Books: *The Complete Natural Medicine Guide to Women's Health *A Call to Women: The Healthy Breast Program & Workbook *A Naturopathic Guide to Preventing Breast Cancer *The Complete Natural Medicine Guide to Breast Cancer Home Is Where We Start From: Essays by a Psychoanalyst The Evolved Nest The Upanishads Podcasts: Sat Dharam, Your Addiction Reveals Your Hidden Pain Zach Bush, MD & Eva Dalak, Relating to Our Original Imprint Quotes: "An infant who's held well enough is quite a different thing from one who has not been held well enough…in the early stages of emotional development, before the senses have been organized…very severe anxieties are experienced…The order of infant distress at this stage being of the same order as that which lies behind panic…a defence against the agony that makes people commit suicide rather than remember. You see two infants, one is being held …not just physically held but emotionally.... And there is nothing to prevent the rapid emotional growth according to inborn tendencies. The other has not had the experience of being held well and growth has had to be distorted and delayed, and some degree of primitive agony has to be carried into life and living." - DW Winnicott  "...this idea of allomothering, for the parenting not to be solely by one person, [as] what happens if that one person has a crisis…becomes ill or… is exhausted. And to recognize that in our human history as well as in the history of other species, like elephants and whales and cows, there can be an interdependency of mothering." - Sat Dharam Kaur "...look at the [prevalent] models of the divine masculine. They're the abandoned elephant models. …We're talking about creating a culture of nurturance whether it's through the father's older brothers or uncles that have wisdom, or whether it's through the matriarchal side and the mothers." - Sat Dharam Kaur "You are what your deep driving desire is. As your desire is, so is your will. As is your will, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny. - The Upanishads Social Media: Instagram

    58 min
  3. FEB 5

    Paul Noiles on, The Malevolent Nature of Emotional Abuse

    Hosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes & J'aime Rothbard.  Produced by J'aime Rothbard. How do smart, accomplished people end up in emotionally abusive relationships without realizing it? As both a trauma coach and former victim, Paul illuminates how emotional abuse operates through fear, manipulation, and control—and why it's so difficult to recognize and name. He also touches on common signs; chronic invalidation, gaslighting, control disguised as concern, walking on eggshells, confusion, toxic shame, and how our earliest attachments can create susceptibility.  In this conversation, Paul shares - The seven common signs of emotional abuse, from chronic invalidation to walking on eggshells - Why acknowledging "it was wrong and it wasn't your fault" creates profound healing release - The crucial difference between being victimized and staying in victim mode - How compassion—for ourselves and our wounded inner child—can open a path to freedom. Healing requires both acknowledging our childhood wounds and taking 100% responsibility for our recovery. This conversation offers crucial insights for anyone who is (or has) experienced (or perpetrated) emotional abuse. It invites unaware abusers to recognize these patterns and engage in their own healing. About Paul Noiles,  Trauma, Addiction & Awakening Coach Trained and certified in the 1-year intensive Compassion Inquiry® Course with Gabor Mate, as well as Suicide Prevention, Motivational Intervening and Spiritual Awakening, Paul has practiced daily mediation for 17years. He has worked at 4 world-class treatment centers, served on the board of Possibilities Treatment Center (Saskatoon), held roles in Marketing, Health and Wellness, Fitness and Health Education and Facilitated Family and Aftercare Programs.  As a person of long-term recovery, Paul believes all addictions track back to the pain of a Mistaken Identity. The solution is knowing our innate truth through an awakening of consciousness. His raw, intimate sharing of his experiences, in his book Mistaken Identity: A Sacred Journey from Addiction to Awakening, restores hope for many in the grip of addiction.  Promotional Message If you've been listening to our podcast and are curious about the transformative power of Compassionate Inquiry®, join us for a 6-hour online experiential introduction to the Compassionate Inquiry approach and community.  This link takes you to a web page where you can get information and, if you choose, register for the CI Experience.  Resources: Websites: Paul's Professional Website:  Related Links: What is Emotional Abuse? National Domestic Abuse Hotline Emotional and Psychological Abuse Statistics Books: Mistaken Identity If He's So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad? The Gift of Fear Courses: Compassionate Inquiry Intensive 1-Year Course How and When to Leave a Relationship Videos: 7 Warning Signs of Emotional Abuse 7 Signs You're Emotionally Abusive To Others  Quotes: "Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows." - Nisargadatta Maharaj "Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth." Just as a knife does not cut itself, fire does not burn itself, light doesn't illuminate itself. It's always an endless mystery to itself" - Alan Watts ""Love is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you." - Eckhart Tolle "When I was young and stupid, at age eighty, I was quite capable of being a two year old emotionally depending on what was  triggering me" - Gabor Maté "Only when compassion is present will people allow themselves to see the truth." - A.H. Almaas Social Media FB: IG: TT: YT LI

    1h 1m
  4. JAN 29

    Mandy Rodstrom & Debbie Mason on, Creating Spaces for Stuttering to Exist

    Mandy Rodstrom & Debbie Mason on, Creating Spaces for Stuttering to Exist Hosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. What if traditional fluency-focused approaches designed to "fix" stuttering cause more harm than healing? In this conversation, speech therapists Mandy Rodstrom and Debbie Mason share personal and clinical insights that reveal how trauma, nervous system dysregulation and social stigma profoundly impact those who stammer. They highlight the critical importance of connecting people who stutter with supportive communities where stuttering is welcomed and celebrated as authentic expression.  Debbie and Mandy also reflect on: - The neurological underpinnings of developmental stammering - How an overburdened nervous system is related to functional stammering - How fluency-focused approaches can disconnect people from their authentic selves - how suppressed grief and emotion can manifest as functional stammering This conversation connects stuttering to so much more than verbal expression. It's about feelings, thoughts, environments, community, trauma and the courage to exist authentically in a world that demands fluency.  About Mandy Rodstrom,  Speech-Language Therapist After spending 30+ years hiding her stutter and her Self—Mandy made the life-changing decision to embrace her authentic voice and her community. Many who stutter carry invisible wounds from years of being silenced, interrupted, or misunderstood in ableist systems that prioritize fluency over authenticity. Through compassionate trauma-informed conversation, Mandy provides greater understanding of stuttering as a deeply embodied experience which shapes, and is shaped by, societal narratives and how we relate to ourselves and others.  With 19 years of school-based experience, she specializes in developmental stuttering through a client- and family-centered, neurodiversity- affirming, and trauma-informed lens. In her private practice, Mandy's stuttering-affirming therapeutic approach honors each person's unique journey. A passionate advocate for transforming how speech therapists understand and support people who stutter, Mandy supervises graduate clinicians and shapes the next generation of speech-language therapists through the university stuttering courses she teaches. Mandy is a STARR Commonwealth Certified Trauma and Resilience Specialist / Coach, holds the Spero Ally of Stuttering seal and is a Special Projects Ambassador for Spero Ally of Stuttering, who works to expand access to affirming care and professional development. She's also a freelance audio narrator for The Informed SLP, using her openly stuttering voice to challenge conventional narratives about fluency and representation. Her international presentations—including the International Conference on Stuttering in Rome and the World Congress of Stuttering and Cluttering—advocate for a paradigm shift that celebrates stuttering as part of human diversity rather than something to fix. About Debbie Mason,  CI, IFS and Hypnotherapy Trained Speech & Language Therapist Debbie has worked with children and adults who stammer for 30+ years. In her private practice, she supports them in reaching their potential by connecting to their intuition, values and personal truth. Currently she is interested in functional stammering, which is increasing significantly in the UK.  Debbie also leads a National Health Stammering Service in South West England, delivers trainings and workshops to Speech and Language Therapists, students and people who stammer. She co-hosts a group; "Stammering and Spirituality" for Stamma, the British Stammering Association and is committed to supporting the goals of the Stammering Pride movement which aims to create a society that understands, values and honours the stammering voice.  To support a positive and affirming view of stammering, Debbie has acted as an advisor on several plays featuring characters who stammer. She has also written about the use of NLP with people who stammer and been part of a research project that examined the impact of the Covid-19 pandemic on adults who stammer in the UK. Always interested in the role of the unconscious mind and the mind-body link, Debbie has trained in Compassionate Inquiry, Internal Family Systems, Hypnotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Neuro-Linguistic Programming.  She practices meditation and enjoys exploring the links between psychology and spirituality.  When not working with clients, students or movements, Debbie enjoys recharging in nature, and taking long country walks with her partner and friends which may involve a beach, definitely involve a dog, a pub and lots of treats. Promotional Message The Compassionate Inquiry Suicide Attention Training is for therapists, health professionals and others working in therapeutic, healing, educational, medical, or coaching roles. If you're seeking sensitive training to help you recognize and support people in your communities who may be experiencing suicidal distress, tap this link. It will take you to a web page where you can learn more about this training, and decide if it's a good fit for you.  Resources: Websites Mandy's Professional Website Debbie's ASLTIP Profile Related Links: Stuttering Commons Library of Dysfluent Voices The National Association of Young People Who Stutter Arthur M. Blank Center for Stuttering Education and Research British Stammering Association  Action for Stammering Children Podcasts: Stutter Talk Around the Block Video: Open Stutter YouTube Channel Books: Out With It Every Waking Moment the-book;Life on Delay On Stuttering Stammering Pride and Prejudice Stammering Therapy from the Inside Articles: Enacted stigma and felt stigma experienced by adults who stutter Fostering Positive Stuttering Identities Using Stutter-Affirming Therapy  "Hide and survive:" A conceptual model of stuttering concealment Concealing Stuttering at School: "When You Can't Fix It…the Only Alternative Is to Hide It" Quotes: "Trauma is not what happens to you, it's what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you." - Gabor Maté "It takes two to stutter." - Dr. Joshua St. Pierre "...there's no other area of parenting where a child is obviously struggling to master something, where the parents don't offer support in some way. And I'm not sure why we see stammering as different." - Debbie Mason "If we meet someone who stutters, how can we support them? Slow down for more connection, be as present as possible, neutral [in your body language] and non verbal. But also ask, how can I support you?" - Mandy Rodstrom  "...people who tend to have difficulty saying no, who suppress emotion, who are hyper responsible, take on the problems of everyone else and ignore their own needs, are more susceptible to functional stammering."  - Debbie Mason Social Media: Mandy's IG  @arod.581

    55 min
  5. JAN 22

    Cat McCarthy on Emergent Authenticity & Rewriting Scripts

    Hosted by Kevin Young. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. What happens when we stop performing and start being? Cat guides us through her transformational journey from codependent conditioning to embodied authenticity. With wisdom drawn from 30+ years of yoga practice, plant medicine journeys, and navigating her own healing from Breast Cancer, Cat reveals why the answers we seek aren't outside ourselves, but waiting to be uncovered within. Cat reflects on: - How shedding her protective layers enabled her to access her true strength - Her expanded her capacity to be present, hold space for others and become a conduit for transformation - How humor helps her navigate life's challenges, as everything is funny... eventually - The importance of receiving—from others and ourselves Through humor, vulnerability, and profound insight, Cat shares many life lessons, including how learning to trust her innate healing capacity revealed the ease that comes from truly holding ourselves from the inside. About Cat McCarthy,  Trauma-informed Somatic Coach Cat integrates the practice of Yoga, the empathy skills of Compassionate/Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and trauma-Informed somatic movement therapy. Her approach to the relational container in which others safely explore the heart-mind-body terrain is deeply respectful. She supports Compassionate Inquiry's year-long and Circles programs, and co-leads its NVCI Focus group.   A dedicated yoga practitioner and international teacher/trainer, Cat holds certifications in Anusara Yoga, Kripalu Yoga, NYCNVC Facilitation, Compassionate Inquiry® and is registered with the Yoga Alliance and the American Yoga Council. Her extensive studies span the traditions of Rajanaka Philosophy, Neelakantha meditation, The Breathing Project's Embodied Anatomy, and Polyvagal Theory practices.  As an experiential learner and fellow traveler, Cat holds space as a plant medicine journey integrator at a psychedelic wellness center in NYC.  She also leads Body-Mindfulness (meditation/breathwork/sound work) classes for the global Spinal Cord Injury population via the Back2Life Center at NYC's Mt. Sinai Hospital.   Cat's entertaining teaching style blends her vulnerable humor, dynamic clarity and attuned presence.  When not traversing the globe teaching and training, this Emmy-nominated filmmaker directs/produces non-fiction projects.  Her podcast, The Upside of Over, focuses on integrating NVC into our daily lives.  An avid singer who offers vocal and sound resonance courses for embodied self-expression and collective healing, Cat's aim is to support people in rewriting their self-narratives for evolution and growth. She's also developing  programs for actors using therapeutic approaches to character development. But her biggest offering is sharing lessons learned in her "cancer discovery" and ongoing life journey. Promotional Message If you're not a therapist or healer, but you've heard our guests describe the personal transformations they experienced during their Compassionate Inquiry® journeys, and wonder what that would be like for you... Circles is a 10-week small group experience offered to anyone who wants to experience the power of Gabor Maté's approach to trauma healing. Use this link to find out if this program is for you. Resources: Websites: Cat's Professional Website Cat's NYCNVC Profile Cat's Compassionate Inquiry Profile Related Links: The Upside of Over Podcast Center for Nonviolent Communication Compassionate Inquriy Year-Long Training Books: When the Body Says No  The Body Keeps the Score Waking the Tiger   In a Different Voice   The Myth of Normal In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts Divine Beauty Quotes: "I watched my mother die. Not of cancer, but of a type of resentment and grief about having to live, choosing to live a certain way when there weren't too many options for women." - Cat McCarthy "These beliefs that I held to be true, that I'm not enough…there must be something wrong with me…my opinion doesn't matter…I'm alone in the world… All these interpretations that helped me get very far, are not true. They never were true. But they needed to be true then." - Cat  McCarthy "We all have the healing capacity. We all can tap into the quantum field. We all get these downloads. It's not about doing more. It's actually about letting more and more of these layers, this armor, these protections, all these things that we have created to get through life, letting them go one by one and trusting that there is going to be a strength and a resource inside that might need to be mirrored from outside, but it ultimately is an inside job." - Cat McCarthy "We are not the healers. We are the context in which healing is inspired." - Ron Kurtz  "To be practicing together in communal spaces, building communities, sharing, caring, supporting. I think that's the Viva la revolution. Bring it on." - Kevin Young "I am a work in progress, constantly becoming a more essential version of myself." - Cat McCarthy "For Aquinas, beauty also included the notion of integrity...He understands that each thing is alive and on a journey to become fully itself. Integrity is achieved when there is a complete realization of whatever a thing is supposed to be...Integrity is the adequacy of a thing to itself." - John O'Donohue Social Media  Cat's IG Cat's FB

    1h 10m
  6. JAN 15

    Zach Bush, MD & Eva Dalak on ⁠Relating to Our Original Imprint: Nature & Collective Healing.

    Hosted by J'aime Rothbard & Rosemary Davies-Janes. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. What if the path to inner and outer peace—and to the survival of our species—runs through our biology, not just our psychology? In this bonus finale to our Relating Series, Eva and Zach guide us beyond the familiar terrain of human-to-human relating to the new ground of relating to our original imprint. This conversation weaves hard science with systems thinking and spiritual wisdom to show that rather than transcending our humanity, healing our separation wound is about fully embracing our original design as vessels of biodiversity, wisdom and interconnected intelligence. Our guests explain: - The energetic upgrade offered by, 'remembering through water' - How the victim-perpetrator-saviour triad (The Drama Triangle) has served us, and why it's time to transmute it - What constriction and expansion reveal about the human experience - Why the human colon holds more biodiversity than any other species If you've been seeking peace through fixing, escaping, or transcending the darkness, this episode offers a radically different perspective: "What if we came here to experience it all?"  Listen to this mind-expanding discussion to see how shifting from polarization to polarity, and welcoming both compression and expansion, can transform your own life journey. About Eva Dalak Founder, Peace Activation A skilled conflict transformation facilitator and peacebuilding trainer, for 20+ years Eva has worked with international organisations in 22+ conflict zones across Africa, the Middle East and Asia, blending systemic change with personal and collective healing. After 30+ years as a gender and conflict expert, she leads trauma- informed, soul-centered initiatives as a women's empowerment coach.  Growing up as a Palestinian-Muslim in Israel, Eva experienced a fragmented identity within a system designed to 'divide and rule.'. Fluent in five languages, she's trained in international development and law, spiritual psychology, and somatic experiencing.  Currently based in Costa Rica, Eva launched Peace Activation on October 7, 2023 in response to the escalating crisis in Palestine and Israel. A global peace initiative, it's rooted in the belief that sustainable peace begins within. Eva also hosts the Peace is Possible podcast and authors The Other Narrative Substack. About Zach Bush, MD A physician specializing in internal medicine, endocrinology and hospice care, Zach is an internationally recognized educator and thought leader on the microbiome as it relates to health, disease, and food systems.  He founded the Seraphic Group and the non-profit Farmer's Footprint to develop root-cause solutions for human and ecological health.  His passion for education reaches across many disciplines, including topics such as the role of soil and water ecosystems in human genomics, immunity, and gut/brain health.  Zach's education has highlighted the need for a radical departure from chemical farming and pharmacy, and his ongoing efforts are providing a path for consumers, farmers and mega-industries to work together for a healthy future for people and our planet. Promotional Message: If you're not a therapist or healer, but you've heard our guests describe the personal transformations they experienced during their Compassionate Inquiry® journeys, and wonder what that would be like for you... Circles is a 10-week small group experience offered to anyone who wants to experience the power of Gabor Maté's approach to trauma healing. Use this link to find out if this program is for you. Resources Websites: Eva Dalak Peace Activation Zach Bush Farmer's Footprint Related links:  The Drama Triangle The Other Narrative – Substack Earth One Transatlantic Crossing Earthrise Collective Pooven Moodley Ubuntu Burning Man Courses: Peace Leader Pathway Journey Collective Immersion Compassionate Inquiry Circles  Books: Dancing In The Dark: How I Found My True Vision For Peace. Human: From Crisis to Our Greatest Opportunity (Available Aug 18) Pleiadan Prophesy 2020: The New Golden Age Podcasts: Peace is Possible Podcast August 2025 Interview with Eva & Zach Quotes: "More so than the victim or the perpetrator, the savior is actually the one going in to poison the system and see who can survive." - Zach Bush, MD "I'm inviting people to come to that field, beyond right doing and wrongdoing. This field where you exist and you have all legitimacy to exist without doing anything." - Eva Dalak "...there is no saving a system that sees itself as its own enemy. And every cancer cell is an inherent part of every human body, and it is your self." - Zach Bush, MD "In Arabic, we say, "Yom asal yom basal." One day it's gonna be honey, and one day it's gonna be onion. When you're in a honey day, you know that tomorrow might be an onion, and it's going to stink." - Eva Dalak "... the loneliest cell in the body is the cancer cell… If you welcome it back into the fold, it will eliminate all of its own cancer properties and will actually call in stem cells to lay down healthy tissue." - Zach Bush, MD "Stop waiting for the king. Be a queen." - Caroline Myss "... abandonment disorder is the fundamental foundation of human behavior. In our improving sciences around addiction, we find addiction is the necessary and absolute reaction to abandonment disorder." - Zach Bush, MD "The way in which we tend to drown in guilt again is addiction. So our choice is either to perpetuate our own victimization through addiction, or hold our ground and switch the direction of guilt to shame as a weapon." - Zach Bush, MD Social Media: Eva's Instagram Zach's Instagram Eva's Facebook Zach's Facebook Eva's LinkedIn Zach's LinkedIn Eva's Youtube Zach's YouTube Zach's X

    1h 14m
  7. Unsafe! Navigating Domestic, Public and Systemic Violence, with Dr Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John and Jordan Decker

    JAN 8

    Unsafe! Navigating Domestic, Public and Systemic Violence, with Dr Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John and Jordan Decker

    Hosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes and J'aime Rothbard.  Produced by J'aime Rothbard. This vulnerable conversation continues exploring relating through the LGBTQ+ lens, as Vimalasara and Jordan share insights rarely disclosed to the heteronormative population. Jordan reflects on the inner work required to create safety for others—unpacking his own trauma so he can hold space for someone else's. Vimalasara addresses the harsh realities of domestic violence in LGBTQ+ communities, highlighting the barriers to seeking help—being subjected to transphobia, homophobia, or violence in shelters intended to provide refuge. They also explore: - Why trans women face the most heinous violence - The erosion of trans rights which give people "permission" to be openly transphobic - Why supporting trans youth requires parents' unconditional love - The trauma of conversion therapy, and the impact of 'unsafe' school policies  Both guests emphasize that change begins within as "humans are capable of transformation," and cultivating self-compassion allows us to see others more clearly. The conversation concludes with Jordan offering his mantra: "Every minute is a choice. I choose to get better by the minute." About: Dr Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John,  M.A (hon.doc)  Hailed by Dr. Ken Hardy as, "One of the premier social, cultural, and psychological healers of our time" Vimalasara is an award-winning author of 11 books including Detox Your Heart, Meditations for Emotional Trauma, and Eight Step Recovery Using The Buddha's Teachings to Overcome Addiction.  They are a co-founder of the secular 8-week course Mindfulness-Based Addiction Recovery (MBAR) and one of the new leading African Descent Voices in the field of Mindfulness Approaches for Addiction. Their latest book, a First Aid Kit for the Mind, Breaking the Cycle of Habitual Behaviours has been  described by Gabor Maté as distilling 'Aeons of Wisdom."  About Jordan Decker Jordan "SameHeart" Decker is a National and International Speaker, Course Creator of the HeartLine Approach to Gender Affirmation, Creator of the Alchemy of Authenticity Coaching, a Polarity Integration Consultant, a Plant Medicine Guide and Accidental Activist for Transyouth Suicide Prevention.  His background in Neuro-linguistic programming, Somatic Experiencing, Compassionate Inquiry® Training with Dr. Gabor Maté, and Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Certificate ground him in educating, consulting and healing trauma through hands-on bodywork.  Tapping into his Indigenous ancestry, he lives to be in alignment with the land, trees, water, air and self. In his spare time he is a cat whisperer and animal lover. Promotional Message: The Compassionate Inquiry® Suicide Attention Training is for therapists, health professionals and others working in therapeutic, healing, educational, medical, or coaching roles. If you're seeking sensitive training to help you recognize and support people in your communities who may be experiencing suicidal distress, tap this link. It will take you to a web page where you can learn more about this training, and decide if it's a good fit for you.  Resources: Websites: Vimalasara's Website Vimalasara's CI Practitioner Profile Jordan's Website Related Links: Vimalasara's Wikipedia Page  Sadhguru's Website Videos: How Not to Die We Are What We Think - TedX Let Go of Stories Courses:  First Aid Kit for the Mind Course Overcoming Addiction Course Inner Engineering Course Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training Books: First Aid Kit for the Mind Detox Your Heart Inner Engineering Quotes: "Humans are capable of change. Humans are capable of transformation and liberation of the mind and we are capable of true compassion." - Dr. Valerie Mason-John "If we look at the emotional component of a heart attack, it's a heartbreak. My heart broke." - Jordan Decker "Healing is not the erasure of pain, but the capacity to hold it with consciousness until it transforms." - Solea Anani "There needs to be more services, and to make it safe for [LGBTQ+] people to go somewhere and say, this is happening in my relationship. I need help."  - Dr. Valerie Mason-John "Every minute is a choice. So, yeah, I choose to get better by the minute." - Jordan Decker Social Media: IG:  @vmasonjohn       @_jdeck__ FB: Vimalasara - Valerie Mason-John       Jordan Decker

    42 min
  8. Gender & Identity, From Unconscious to Conscious with Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John and Jordan Decker

    JAN 1

    Gender & Identity, From Unconscious to Conscious with Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John and Jordan Decker

    Hosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes and J'aime Rothbard.  Produced by J'aime Rothbard. This thought provoking conversation explores relating through the LGBTQ+ lens, but not only presented to that community. Instead it is a vulnerable and honest sharing in which Vimalarara and Jordan offer insights and perspectives rarely disclosed to the heteronormative population. In this inclusive episode they touch on the: - Use of pronouns can create a sense of safety and inclusion - Perspective of gender as a social construct rather than a personal identity - Historical impact of religious and colonial beliefs on gender and sexuality - Concept of "care" being used to justify harmful practices (residential schools/conversion therapy)  This conversation concludes with reflections on the importance of self-awareness regarding one's own biases, and how understanding personal challenges can help in supporting others. It also pauses the conversation on care, which will be resumed in the second part of this episode. About: Dr Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John,  M.A (hon.doc)  Hailed by Dr. Ken Hardy as, "One of the premier social, cultural, and psychological healers of our time" Vimalasara is an award-winning author of 11 books including Detox Your Heart, Meditations for Emotional Trauma, and Eight Step Recovery Using The Buddha's Teachings to Overcome Addiction.  They are a co-founder of the secular 8-week course Mindfulness-Based Addiction Recovery (MBAR) and one of the new leading African Descent Voices in the field of Mindfulness Approaches for Addiction. Their latest book, a First Aid Kit for the Mind, Breaking the Cycle of Habitual Behaviours has been  described by Gabor Maté as distilling 'Aeons of Wisdom."  About Jordan Decker Jordan "SameHeart" Decker is a National and International Speaker, Course Creator of the HeartLine Approach to Gender Affirmation, Creator of the Alchemy of Authenticity Coaching, a Polarity Integration Consultant, a Plant Medicine Guide and Accidental Activist for Transyouth Suicide Prevention.  His background in Neuro-linguistic programming, Somatic Experiencing, Compassionate Inquiry® Training with Dr. Gabor Maté, and Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Certificate ground him in educating, consulting and healing trauma through hands-on bodywork.  Tapping into his Indigenous ancestry, he lives to be in alignment with the land, trees, water, air and self. In his spare time he is a cat whisperer and animal lover. Promotional Message: If you're not a therapist or healer, but you've heard our guests describe the personal transformations they experienced during their Compassionate Inquiry® journeys, and wonder what that would be like for you... Circles is a 10-week small group experience offered to anyone who wants to experience the power of Gabor Maté's approach to trauma healing. Use this link to find out if this program is for you. Resources: Websites: Vimalasara's Website Vimalasara's CI Practitioner Profile Jordan's Website Related Links: Eating Disorder Recovery Programs Vimalasara's Wikipedia Page  Sadhguru's Website Bayo Akomolafe's Website Resmaa Menaken's Website Videos: How Not to Die We Are What We Think - TedX Let Go of Stories Courses:  First Aid Kit for the Mind Course Overcoming Addiction Course Inner Engineering Course Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training Books: First Aid Kit for the Mind Detox Your Heart Inner Engineering Quotes: "... about heart disease… what these cardiologists are saying, it's not coronary disease, it's culinary disease. " - Vimalasara "...we don't think about gender. Because in a way… I really believe that these are social constructs. However, we do live in a world which is gendered, so actually we are treated differently. These constructs …have an impact." - Vimalasara "I am going with the flow. I'm definitely learning how to be in the river and float, not drown." - Jordan Decker "I'm not nonbinary in the sense of a third gender or something in-between. I'm nonbinary in the sense that the binary itself is the problem. … My gender is a disruption, a disidentification, a structural exit, a refusal of the classificatory logic that makes gender a legible commodity in the first place." -  Maxi Glamour Social Media: IG:  @vmasonjohn       @_jdeck__ FB: Vimalasara - Valerie Mason-John       Jordan Decker

    49 min
4.8
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Presented by Compassionate Inquiry®, the Gifts of Trauma is a weekly podcast that features personal stories of trauma healing and the gifts revealed on the path to authenticity. Compassionate Inquiry® is a psychotherapeutic approach created by Dr. Gabor Maté over several decades while working with both patients and retreat participants.Join us to hear what it was like for our guests to live with the tension of trauma, and what happened when they turned inward with compassionate curiosity. These highly relatable stories illustrate how they transformed their trauma generated fear, anger, pain or shame triggers into understanding, acceptance and love. www.compassionateinquiry.com

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