Redeemed Identity After Divorce | Christian, Divorce, Encouragement

Dana L Williams, Author, Podcast Host, Founder of Redeemed-Identity Ministries

Redeemed Identity After Divorce is a Christian divorce recovery podcast for believers who are ready to heal, rebuild, and walk confidently in their God-given calling after divorce. Hosted by Dana Williams — a divorced Christian, ministry leader, and former pastor’s wife — this podcast offers biblical encouragement, practical strategies, and real conversations to help you: Overcome shame, guilt, and judgment (from others and yourself). Heal emotionally, spiritually, and mentally after divorce. Understand what the Bible really says about divorce and your worth. Reclaim your identity in Christ and the purpose God has for you. Step boldly into ministry, leadership, and your next chapter of life. Dana knows firsthand the pain of walking through divorce in the church. After years of judgment, misunderstanding, and spiritual silence, she discovered a life-changing truth: divorce does not disqualify you from God’s love or calling. Your identity in Christ is secure, and His plan for your life is still in motion. Whether you are freshly navigating divorce, amid rebuilding, or stepping into leadership after loss, Redeemed Identity After Divorce will give you hope, biblical wisdom, and practical tools to help you move forward with confidence. It’s time to break free from shame, silence the lies, and rise up in the redeemed identity that has always been yours. 📧 Share your story with Dana: Dana@Redeemed-Identity.com

  1. 16H AGO

    Ep 85, Stuck in Betrayal Trauma After Divorce? You’re Not Broken, You’re Healing with guest Denise Stiffler

    Betrayal doesn’t just break a relationship—it can leave you feeling frozen long after the divorce papers are signed. If you’ve ever wondered Why am I still stuck? Why does this still hurt? Why can’t I just move on?—this episode is for you. In this deep conversation, we’re talking about betrayal trauma—what it really is, how it impacts your nervous system, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself again, and why healing often takes longer than we expect. More importantly, we explore what actually helps when fear, grief, and overwhelm feel paralyzing. This isn’t about rushing your healing or slapping spiritual clichés on deep wounds. It’s about understanding what’s happening beneath the surface and taking grounded, compassionate steps forward. In this episode, we discuss: What betrayal trauma is and why it’s different from ordinary heartbreak Common emotional and physical signs you may still be living with trauma after divorce Why restoring a sense of safety is the foundation of healing Questions you can ask yourself to help break out of the “stuck” cycle How to move through paralyzing fear during major life transitions Rebuilding trust with yourself after betrayal Navigating faith and spiritual confusion after relational trauma Practical tools and rhythms that support real, lasting healing If you’re navigating life after betrayal and wondering whether healing is even possible, this conversation will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re healing.   💛 Encouragement Healing from betrayal trauma doesn’t mean going backward or failing to “move on.” It means learning how to feel safe again, trust yourself again, and take the next right step—at your pace.   To watch this episode on Youtube, go to: https://youtu.be/VxuUdQJNBjQ   TO CONTACT DENISE STIFFLER: See her Link Tree here: https://linktr.ee/denise.lifecoach7  For her weary heart prayer guide, go to her website:  https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/d5be2d9c     DANA’S CONTACT INFORMATION: WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   To receive the free ebook, email me at Dana@redeemed-identity.com and I will send you a PDF.   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447 YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

    22 min
  2. FEB 10

    Ep 84, Healing After Divorce, Guest Appearance on From Run Down to Renewed

    Guest Appearance Spotlight: From Run Down to Renewed This past week, I had the honor of joining Mackenzi and Denise on their podcast, From Run Down to Renewed. With their permission, I’m sharing this conversation with the Redeemed Identity After Divorce community. This episode originally aired on Wednesday, February 4, 2026, and it’s one of those conversations that feels more like an exhale than a teaching. This Episode Is for You If: You feel tired, worn down, or emotionally drained You’ve walked through loss, divorce, trauma, or a painful life transition You’re longing for healing but don’t know where to begin You desire to live abundantly—but not the world’s definition of abundance This conversation is an invitation to pause, breathe, and remember a powerful truth: God is your source—not your circumstances. We talk about how abundance isn’t about having more—it’s about living from fullness instead of emptiness. Together, we explore how healing begins when you: Shift from striving to trusting God Allow Him to fill what life has drained Root your identity in Christ—not outcomes, roles, or relationship status 👉 WATCH the full conversation on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxCdy9WggE-Q5g9-t6UVx6MTXu9i9hE6L_ Stay Connected with From Run Down to Renewed Website & Socials: 👉 www.fromrundowntorenewed.com 🎓 Upcoming Webinar – February 28 👉 https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/… Stay Connected with Dana Website: www.redeemed-identity.com YouTube: @redeemedidentityafterdivorce Apple Podcasts: Redeemed Identity After Divorce

    1 min
  3. FEB 3

    Ep 83, Exhausted After Divorce? The Missing Key to Healing, Pt 2

    Divorce is exhausting—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. And yet, rest is often the first thing we sacrifice while trying to “hold it all together.”   In this episode, Dana sits down with life and leadership coach Misty Hughes to talk about why rest isn’t optional during or after divorce—it’s essential for healing. Misty shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding her life, along with practical wisdom for women who feel overwhelmed, depleted, or stuck in survival mode. Together, they unpack what real rest looks like (hint: it’s more than sleep), why grief requires personalized rhythms, and how trust, community, and reflection play a vital role in emotional recovery. This conversation is honest, grounding, and permission-giving—especially if you’ve been pushing yourself to “be strong” while quietly running on empty. If you’re exhausted after divorce and wondering why healing feels so hard, this episode may help you exhale and reset.   In This Episode, We Finish with Misty and discuss: Why rest is critical during and after divorce The difference between collapsing and intentional rest How grief and healing look different for everyone Creating life rhythms that support peace and stability The role of trust in emotional recovery Why community support accelerates healing Journaling and reflection as tools for processing pain Making space for joy and fun for yourself and your family How coaching can provide clarity and support during hard seasons.   Misty's Contact Information:   Misty Hughes, Transformational Speaker, Podcast Host, Gratitude Guide, Celebration Coach P: 816-297-9919 E: misty@lead-herminisries.com lead-herministries.com mom2mommentoring.com

    22 min
  4. JAN 26

    Ep 82, Exhausted After Divorce? The Missing Key to Healing, Part 1

    Divorce is exhausting—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. And yet, rest is often the first thing we sacrifice while trying to “hold it all together.”   In this episode, Dana sits down with life and leadership coach Misty Hughes to talk about why rest isn’t optional during or after divorce—it’s essential for healing. Misty shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding her life, along with practical wisdom for women who feel overwhelmed, depleted, or stuck in survival mode. Together, they unpack what real rest looks like (hint: it’s more than sleep), why grief requires personalized rhythms, and how trust, community, and reflection play a vital role in emotional recovery. This conversation is honest, grounding, and permission-giving—especially if you’ve been pushing yourself to “be strong” while quietly running on empty. If you’re exhausted after divorce and wondering why healing feels so hard, this episode may help you exhale and reset.   In This Episode, We Cover: Why rest is critical during and after divorce The difference between collapsing and intentional rest How grief and healing look different for everyone Creating life rhythms that support peace and stability The role of trust in emotional recovery Why community support accelerates healing Journaling and reflection as tools for processing pain Making space for joy and fun for yourself and your family How coaching can provide clarity and support during hard seasons   Memorable Quotes: “You can’t tell me I’m a bad mom.” “I had to fight to believe the truth.” 🎧 Listen now and discover why rest may be the missing piece in your healing journey.   Misty's Contact Information:   Misty Hughes, Transformational Speaker, Podcast Host, Gratitude Guide, Celebration Coach P: 816-297-9919 E: misty@lead-herminisries.com lead-herministries.com mom2mommentoring.com

    22 min
  5. JAN 20

    Ep 81, Healing from Divorce is a Different Kind of Battle

    Healing after divorce can feel like a nonstop fight—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. You’re doing your best to stay strong, pray harder, and keep moving forward… yet you still feel exhausted and overwhelmed. In this episode, we look at 2 Chronicles 20 and the powerful story of King Jehoshaphat—a leader who faced an impossible battle and discovered that victory doesn’t always come from fighting harder. Sometimes, it comes from trusting God in a completely different way. We talk about the importance of prayer, worship, honesty with God, and community while healing from divorce—and why isolation, silence, and self-reliance can actually slow your healing. If you’re feeling outnumbered in this season, this conversation will help reframe the battle and remind you that God meets us in the middle of the fight. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why healing after divorce feels like spiritual warfare What 2 Chronicles 20 teaches us about prayer and worship The danger of isolating while trying to heal Why honesty with God matters more than “perfect” prayers How worship shifts the battle—even when circumstances don’t change What it looks like to trust God when you don’t know what to do   Reflection Questions: Where do you feel most overwhelmed or outnumbered right now? Why is it hard to be completely honest with God in prayer? What does worship look like in your daily life—passive or active? Are your prayers rooted in fear, frustration, or trust?   Homework (Yes, Really): Find a prayer partner and commit to praying together Practice honest, unfiltered prayer Spend intentional time in praise and worship Pray Scripture over your situation instead of rehearsing the problem   Scripture Referenced: 2 Chronicles 20:1–30 (NIV)   Keywords: healing after divorce, Christian divorce recovery, worship and prayer, divorce healing, spiritual warfare, biblical healing, Christian encouragement, faith after divorce   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana     FREE EBOOK:   https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!     WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#     Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce To watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KjDTU8d7j5I   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   For country music: Music by: https://www.bensound.com License code: B11SABINWV4BESSF         Hashtags:   #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

    22 min
  6. JAN 20

    Ep 80 - The Spiritual Reset You Didn’t Know You Needed After Divorce

    In this episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, we unpack the biblical purpose of fasting and why it can be a powerful spiritual reset after heartbreak. Drawing from Isaiah 58 and 2 Chronicles 7:14, we explore how fasting brings clarity, humility, healing, and deeper intimacy with God. You’ll learn what fasting actually is (and what it’s not), how to fast safely, and why fasting isn’t about earning God’s attention—but realigning your heart with His. Whether you’re navigating emotional exhaustion, spiritual fog, or longing for renewal, this episode offers practical guidance and hope for your healing journey. In This Episode, We Cover: What fasting really means according to Scripture Why fasting is especially powerful after divorce How fasting brings clarity, healing, and spiritual breakthrough The connection between fasting, prayer, and humility Different types of fasts and how to begin safely How fasting helps realign your heart with God’s will Scripture References: Isaiah 58 2 Chronicles 7:14 Daniel 10:2–3 Keywords (Apple SEO): fasting after divorce, Christian fasting, healing after divorce, prayer and fasting, spiritual disciplines, biblical fasting, Christian healing, divorce recovery, spiritual renewal Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope and healing after divorce. 📖 Isaiah 58 (NKJV) https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+58&version=NKJV 📖 2 Chronicles 7:14 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Chronicles+7%3A14&version=NKJV 📘 Practical Guide to Biblical Fasting – Cru https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/fasting.html 🩺 Health Considerations for Fasting – Cleveland Clinic https://health.clevelandclinic.org/intermittent-fasting   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce https://youtu.be/6tUVXQoGd5k

    17 min
  7. 12/23/2025

    Ep 78, Your Truth vs. God’s Truth: How Pain After Divorce Delays Healing

    Pain has a way of reshaping how we see the world—especially after divorce. In this episode, we explore how living from pain instead of God’s truth can quietly delay healing, purpose, and forward movement. Using Matthew 28 and the story of the women at the tomb, we unpack how grief distorted their expectations—and how we often do the same thing when we’ve been wounded. They came prepared to bury what they believed was dead, unaware that resurrection had already happened. If you’ve been navigating life with a broken compass—led by emotions, fear, or past experiences—this episode will help reorient you back to true north: the Word of God. This is a call to stop carrying spices for what God has already promised to raise, to trust that the stone has already been rolled away, and to step into healing with faith instead of fear. In This Episode, You’ll Hear: The difference between your truth and God’s truth Why pain can distort perspective and delay purpose How the women at the tomb forgot Jesus’ promise—and how we often do the same What it means to stop praying only from pain and start praying with expectation Why emotions make a terrible compass after divorce How God is already working on obstacles you’re still worrying about The danger of carrying “grave clothes” into your future How to leave the past at the foot of the cross and press forward Key Scriptures Referenced: Matthew 28:1–8 – The women at the tomb and the rolled-away stone Hebrews 11:1 – Faith as the substance of things hoped for Isaiah 65:24 – God answering before we even call Philippians 3:13–14 – Forgetting what is behind and pressing forward Psalm 91:1 – Dwelling in the shelter of the Most High Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted Hebrews 13:5 – God will never leave or forsake you Reflection Questions: Are you living by God’s truth—or by pain-shaped emotions? What are you still carrying spices for that God has already promised to raise? Are you focused on past hurt so much that you’re missing future purpose? What truth will you take into your next season? Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be stuck between pain and purpose. And remember—resurrection isn’t something you earn. It’s something you receive when you trust His truth over yours.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana This video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5qvBdlbTsyk WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

    11 min
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Redeemed Identity After Divorce is a Christian divorce recovery podcast for believers who are ready to heal, rebuild, and walk confidently in their God-given calling after divorce. Hosted by Dana Williams — a divorced Christian, ministry leader, and former pastor’s wife — this podcast offers biblical encouragement, practical strategies, and real conversations to help you: Overcome shame, guilt, and judgment (from others and yourself). Heal emotionally, spiritually, and mentally after divorce. Understand what the Bible really says about divorce and your worth. Reclaim your identity in Christ and the purpose God has for you. Step boldly into ministry, leadership, and your next chapter of life. Dana knows firsthand the pain of walking through divorce in the church. After years of judgment, misunderstanding, and spiritual silence, she discovered a life-changing truth: divorce does not disqualify you from God’s love or calling. Your identity in Christ is secure, and His plan for your life is still in motion. Whether you are freshly navigating divorce, amid rebuilding, or stepping into leadership after loss, Redeemed Identity After Divorce will give you hope, biblical wisdom, and practical tools to help you move forward with confidence. It’s time to break free from shame, silence the lies, and rise up in the redeemed identity that has always been yours. 📧 Share your story with Dana: Dana@Redeemed-Identity.com

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