Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace

Becky Kolb, Certified Life Coach specializing in family estrangement
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Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace Podcast When someone you love no longer wants you in their life, the pain can be overwhelming. You replay conversations, question what went wrong, and wonder if the relationship will ever be restored. Maybe your adult child has stopped speaking to you. Maybe it's a sibling, parent or another family member. Whatever the circumstances, you're left trying to understand what happened and determine how to live with a relationship you never wanted to lose. I'm Becky Kolb, A Certified Life Coach, specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. I've experienced estrangement in my own family, so I understand the heartbreak, rejection, guilt and unanswered questions that can become a part of everyday life. In this podcast, we talk about the things women struggle with most during family estrangement:      How do I cope when my adult child or someone I love cuts me off?      Should I reach out, or is it time to step back?      How do I stop blaming myself and replaying the past?      Can I let go of the pain without giving up hope for reconciliation?      How do I handle holidays, family gatherings and difficult emotions?      What if my adult son or daughter never speaks to me again?      Can I find happiness and peace when the relationship remains broken? We'll explore these questions and more, with honest conversations, practical steps, and encouragement to help you move forward. I believe you can love someone deeply, hope for reconciliation, and still build a meaningful life today. You can leave the door open without standing in the doorway. And you can become while when the relationship isn't. A little more help for you. Download my free guide "5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away" at https://beckykolb.com/guide If you'd like to talk about your situation and how coaching might help, I offer a free no-pressure 30-minute conversation. Just go to https://beckykolb.com/lets-talk You don't have to wait for someone else to change before you begin finding peace. And one more thing -  if you're finding value on this podcast, I would truly appreciate you leaving a review for me. It helps others like you find me too.

  1. Oct 27

    87: My Adult Child Won't Speak to Me - How Do I Move Forward

    You raised your child, loved them, worried about them, and did what you thought was best. Now that same child doesn’t want you in their life. Whether you understand why or have been left without an explanation, the pain of family estrangement can leave you wondering "How do I move forward from here?" You replay conversations, question what you might have done differently, and struggle with feelings of guilt, shame and rejection. One day you want to reach out, hoping to reconnect. The next, you're wondering if it's better to step back and wait for your adult child to make the first move. I understand those feelings because I've experienced them in my own estrangement journey.  In today’s episode of Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace, we’ll talk about the emotional struggle of being estranged from an adult son or daughter, the questions that keep you stuck, and how to begin moving forward even with the relationship remains unresolved. Here's what I want you to know: Moving forward doesn't mean you stop loving your child or give up hope for reconciliation. It means recognizing that your life matters too.  You can keep the door open without standing in the doorway. If you're ready to find more peace in your life while navigating family estrangement, I invite you to schedule a complimentary 30-minute conversation with me at beckykolb.com/lets-talk Becky Kolb, Family Estrangement Coach for Women Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/87. What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

    87: My Adult Child Won't Speak to Me - How Do I Move Forward

  2. Oct 21

    86: Family Estrangement: How to Stop Waiting for an Apology and Start Living Life

    How to Find Peace When You Never Get an Apology or Explanation Are you still waiting for that phone call? The one where you estranged loved one finally explains what happened, says they're sorry, or tells you they want to make things right? Maybe you've imagined that conversation a hundred times. You've rehearsed what you would say, hoped for an explanation, and wondered if today might finally be the day. But what happens when the phone doesn't ring? The text is ignored? One of the hardest parts of family estrangement is living with unanswered questions. We can spend so much time waiting for someone else to do something and end up putting our own happiness and peace on hold. In this episode of Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace we're talking about what it means to let go of expectations, stop waiting for an apology or explanation, and begin putting your energy into the things you actually can control. Moving forward doesn't mean you no longer love that person. It doesn't mean you've closed the door on reconciliation. It simply means you're choosing not to spend another day standing in the doorway waiting for someone else to open it. Find the full transcript for this episode at https://BeckyKolb.com/86 What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

    86: Family Estrangement: How to Stop Waiting for an Apology and Start Living Life

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    Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace

    Becky Kolb is a Certified Life Coach specializing in Family Estrangement. Although you can't control another person's choices about reconciliation, you can control you so that it doesn't define your whole life. You can leave the door open without standing in the doorway and discover peace to live joyfully - even amid estrangement. Download the free guide to "Things to Do When A Loved One Walks Away" at www.beckykolb.com/guide I offer a 30 minute free conversation to answer your questions about coaching, explain how I can help you discover wholeness and peace with coaching. It's a no-pressure and no-obligation conversation. www.beckykolb.com/consultation What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

  4. Oct 2

    85: Waiting for Your Estranged Loved One to Change

    Waiting for your estranged one to change is often postponing your own life. When someone you love walks away, waiting can become a way of life. You wait for the phone to ring. You check your texts. You wonder if today might be the day you hear from them. A birthday comes around and you wonder if they'll reach out. Then a holiday. Then another birthday. And somewhere along the way, without even realizing it, you can begin putting your own life on hold. I understand why. When a relationship is important to us, we want to fix it. We think if we can just find the right words, give it enough time, apologize one more time, explain ourselves better or reach out at just the right moment, maybe things will change. Hope isn't a bad thing. I don't believe you have to give up hope for reconciliation. But there is a difference between having hope and living in waiting.  And sometimes that difference is hard to see. Find the full transcript for this episode and resources for women navigating family estrangement at beckykolb.com/85 What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

    85: Waiting for Your Estranged Loved One to Change

  5. Sep 19

    Family Estrangement Support

    It's been a while since I've published a podcast, but don't give up. I am in the process of revamping my website beckykolb.com Expanding into family estrangement aligns with my own experience as well as what women are telling me they face. My podcast has been geared toward women with estranged adult children, but what I'm finding is more and more women are dealing with other estrangement too. Adult children have walked away. But so have daughters-in-law or sons-in-law. Grandchildren are estranged. Siblings, parents and other loved ones are part of the equation. So, stick with me and you'll find a newly revamped website and podcast right here on this channel coming soon. And I'm offering a new value item free to those who are signed up on my website. It's called What to Do When Your Adult Child Pulls Away. And you can get it free of charge by going to beckykolb.com/guide and enter your email address. When it is finished in a few weeks, I'll send it to you free of charge. Stay strong my friend and know that more support is coming soon. What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

  6. Aug 29

    84: 5 Steps to Let Go in Estrangement

    You’ve heard it before – just let go in estrangement. Let it go. Surrender and you’ll feel better. Well, I surrendered and decided to let go and guess what? I didn’t feel better. I still obsessed and grieved, and my broken heart didn’t heal.  This episode is a short but concise 5 steps to let go in estrangement. It’s an uncomplicated process but it requires your commitment and I promise you’ll find the peace you seek. Ready? Let’s roll today’s episode.  Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/84. What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

    84: 5 Steps to Let Go in Estrangement

  7. Aug 19

    83: How to Avoid Cynical Thinking in Estrangement

    Cynical thinking in estrangement is more common than you may realize. What exactly is cynicism? Do you have unrealistic or inappropriate expectations of others? Let me ask another way.  Are you hardened, bitter and jaded when you think of your estranged loved one? That’s a question that I would ask you to ponder in prayer before God. I would have said no to that question, but the reality is that cynical thinking was embedded deep within and I couldn’t see it.  Estrangement hurts deeply. The tendency to lash out, defend and even engage in cynical thinking is an outcome. The good news is there is a way to counter it – once it’s recognized. Let’s take a look.  Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/83.  What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

    83: How to Avoid Cynical Thinking in Estrangement

  8. Aug 12

    82: What Healthy Boundaries Look Like

    What are healthy boundaries? After all, you hear this phrase quite often these days. Especially between estranged parents and their kids. But what does the term mean?  They are healthy limits you set to protect your emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing as well as your time. It’s not about controlling others, which if you’ve listened to me long enough, you’ve heard me say a hundred times you cannot control anyone but you.  It is about deciding what you will accept in a relationship and choosing how you will respond to protect your peace, mental wellbeing, and your precious time. Today I’ll share some tips on establishing what healthy boundaries look like.  Find the full transcript for this episode plus resources for women at Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace at beckykolb.com/82. What do you struggle with most in family estrangement? What topic would you like to hear? Send me a text. A little more help for you If you're struggling with the pain of family estrangement, I've created a free guide, 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away. It offers practical steps to help you begin moving forward. Download your free guide at https://beckykolb.com/guide Schedule a free 30-minute conversation about coaching at https://www.beckykolb.com/lets-talk I'm Becky Kolb, a Certified online Life Coach specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. i help women find peace and begin living meaningful lives, even when someone they love is no longer part of their life. You can become whole even when the relationship isn't.

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Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace Podcast When someone you love no longer wants you in their life, the pain can be overwhelming. You replay conversations, question what went wrong, and wonder if the relationship will ever be restored. Maybe your adult child has stopped speaking to you. Maybe it's a sibling, parent or another family member. Whatever the circumstances, you're left trying to understand what happened and determine how to live with a relationship you never wanted to lose. I'm Becky Kolb, A Certified Life Coach, specializing in family estrangement coaching for women. I've experienced estrangement in my own family, so I understand the heartbreak, rejection, guilt and unanswered questions that can become a part of everyday life. In this podcast, we talk about the things women struggle with most during family estrangement:      How do I cope when my adult child or someone I love cuts me off?      Should I reach out, or is it time to step back?      How do I stop blaming myself and replaying the past?      Can I let go of the pain without giving up hope for reconciliation?      How do I handle holidays, family gatherings and difficult emotions?      What if my adult son or daughter never speaks to me again?      Can I find happiness and peace when the relationship remains broken? We'll explore these questions and more, with honest conversations, practical steps, and encouragement to help you move forward. I believe you can love someone deeply, hope for reconciliation, and still build a meaningful life today. You can leave the door open without standing in the doorway. And you can become while when the relationship isn't. A little more help for you. Download my free guide "5 Things to Do When a Loved One Walks Away" at https://beckykolb.com/guide If you'd like to talk about your situation and how coaching might help, I offer a free no-pressure 30-minute conversation. Just go to https://beckykolb.com/lets-talk You don't have to wait for someone else to change before you begin finding peace. And one more thing -  if you're finding value on this podcast, I would truly appreciate you leaving a review for me. It helps others like you find me too.

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    Becky Kolb, Certified Life Coach specializing in family estrangement
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
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