Brandon The Dom

Brandon The Dom
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

  1. 9h ago

    BDSM Q&A: Slowing Down Eager Partners & Creating Safety for Communication

    Join Brandon the Dom for an AMA session covering how to slow down impatient or eager partners, and creating a safe environment for feedback and communication. Get clear answers. This October AMA session focuses on community questions submitted via YouTube and the Red Room. Instead of short text replies, Brandon provides detailed explanations on complex topics within kink education. Subscribe for weekly kink education breakdowns, and comment your own questions below to have them answered in the next session. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:14) - Q1: Slowing A Partner Down (08:52) - Q2: Safe Communication ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ Q&A Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvESfrB2ULYyzLCGAgjFx4zDia_6T5ohR📖 Sensory Deprivation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sensory-deprivation📖 Orgasm Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations

  2. 9h ago

    Self-BDSM Practices, Solo Play, and Getting Freaky with Yourself

    Curious about self BDSM? Learn how to explore kink on your own, build real skills, discover your desires, and prepare yourself for powerful D/s relationships—whether or not you have a partner. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:35) - Why Practice BDSM By Yourself? (04:33) - How to Engage in Self-BDSM (06:44) - Types of Solo Play (12:31) - Self-BDSM Practices for Anyone (18:13) - Self-BDSM Practices for Dominants (29:33) - Self-BDSM Practices for Submissives ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Self-BDSM Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/self-bdsm📖 Shadow Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play📖 Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Subsapce: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Orgasm Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control📖 Munches: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline

  3. 10h ago

    Sensory Deprivation: Why Less Stimulation Creates More Intensity

    What if removing your senses could make pleasure more intense? Sensory deprivation is one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to amplify sensation, deepen connection, and create entirely new experiences in the bedroom. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:34) - What Is Sensory Deprivation? (01:59) - Why Do People Enjoy Sensory Deprivation? (04:15) - How to Engage in Sensory Deprivation (07:09) - Sight (08:15) - Hearing (09:23) - Touch (10:50) - Smell (11:41) - Taste (12:31) - Combination (13:09) - Putting It Into Practice ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Sensory Deprivation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sensory-deprivation📖 Pain Kinks: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink📖 Subsapce: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Tantric Touch: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch

  4. 10h ago

    How To Have Your First Threesome

    What is your first threesome actually like—and how do you lead one as a Dom without anyone feeling left out, uncomfortable, or pressured? In this conversation, @Andy_Wells and I talk candidly about our experiences with threesomes: what we got wrong in the beginning, what we’ve learned after having more experience, and how to create an experience where all three people feel safe, desired, and included. We cover everything from navigating jealousy and couple’s privilege to performance anxiety, consent, communication, and the practical logistics of leading two submissives at once. We also talk about why real threesomes usually look nothing like porn—and why that’s a good thing. Most importantly, a great threesome isn’t about perfectly executing a fantasy. It’s about three actual people—with their own desires, boundaries, insecurities, and needs—creating something together. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - What We’re Talking About: Threesomes (00:44) - Learning How to Have a Threesome (03:14) - Making Sure Both Women Feel Safe (05:04) - What Being With Another Woman Is Actually Like (09:49) - Consent & Communication With Three People (12:03) - Why Threesomes Require More Communication (15:11) - How to Structure Your First Threesome (17:52) - Making Sure Nobody Feels Left Out (19:10) - Why Threesomes Aren’t Like Porn (24:16) - When Nobody Knows What to Do (26:05) - Your First Threesome Doesn’t Need to Be Sexy (27:58) - The Scarcity Mindset & Trying to Do Too Much (29:28) - Is Your Relationship Ready for a Threesome? (31:54) - Make the Experience Add to Everyone’s Life (33:17) - Couple’s Privilege & the “Third” Person (35:18) - Talk About Jealousy & Insecurities BEFOREHAND (36:27) - Safewords, Slowing Down & Speaking Up (38:04) - Building a Triad vs. Adding a Third (40:46) - Couple’s Performance Anxiety (42:30) - It’s Okay to Not Be Okay (47:20) - Nobody Should “Take One for the Team” (50:15) - Checking In During a Threesome (51:30) - Performance Anxiety as the Dom (53:08) - Vulnerability Makes Leading Easier (01:04:19) - Praise, Reassurance & Helping Partners Feel Confident (01:06:00) - Everyone Experiences Performance Anxiety (01:07:08) - Share Your Insecurities Before You Start (01:08:18) - Set an Intention for the Threesome (01:11:32) - Ask What Everyone Actually Wants (01:12:17) - Creating a Threesome “Bucket List” (01:13:47) - Helping Submissive Partners Voice Their Desires (01:15:31) - Sometimes the Dom Should Step Back (01:19:10) - The Beauty of Watching Two Partners Connect (01:22:50) - The Best Parts of a Threesome (01:27:00) - Learning to Surrender Control as the Dom (01:40:49) - Treat Everyone Like It’s Their First Time Together (01:43:00) - Move at the Slowest Person’s Pace (01:44:23) - "How Are We All Feeling?” (01:45:22) - How Bad Threesomes Happen (01:47:23) - A Threesome Horror Story (01:49:48) - When the Third Person Feels Used (01:50:43) - What Great Threesomes Can Look Like (01:52:23) - Why We Love the Triad Dynamic (01:54:59) - The Multiple Relationships Inside a Threesome ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ Other Interviews with Andy: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvESfrB2ULYxEUgAhgcwNsTu0z2prKr5D

  5. 10h ago

    BDSM Q&A: Asking Partners For Needs, Deepening Your Voice, Repairing Mistakes

    Join Brandon the Dom for an AMA session covering asking your partner to be Dominant, learning to deepen your voice, and how to atone and repair multiple mistakes. Get clear answers. This September AMA session focuses on community questions submitted via YouTube and the Red Room. Instead of short text replies, Brandon provides detailed explanations on complex topics within kink education. Subscribe for weekly kink education breakdowns, and comment your own questions below to have them answered in the next session. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:10) - Q1: Asking A Partner For A Need (07:41) - Q2: Deepening Your Voice (12:20) - Q3: Repairing Mistakes ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ Q&A Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvESfrB2ULYyzLCGAgjFx4zDia_6T5ohR📖 Topping From the Bottom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/topping-from-the-bottom📖 Consent as a Practice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/consent-as-a-practice📖 Atonement: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/mistakes📖 Consent Academy: https://www.consent.academy/

  6. Sep 30

    Consent Is Not Just a Framework. It’s a Spiritual Practice.

    Consent is more than a rule; it is a daily spiritual practice. Learn to navigate relationships without resentment or obligation. Many people view consent as a checkbox, but it is the foundation of how we live, love, and interact with partners. We explore how to move away from manipulation and fear-based dynamics, framing consent practice as a way to maintain clarity in your daily life. We look at how to effectively balance meeting needs while maintaining healthy relationship boundaries. When you stop operating out of obligation, you create space for genuine connection. Whether you are new to power dynamics or looking to refine your approach, this discussion provides a framework for sustainable, honest BDSM communication. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:19) - Consent as a Practice (03:41) - We Have Needs (12:23) - Option 1: Meeting Needs On Your Own (15:11) - Option 2: Ask Someone to Fulfill the Need (19:45) - Option 3: Ask Someone Else to Fulfill the Need (21:55) - Option 4: Accept the Need Goes Unfulfilled and Cope Accordingly ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Consent Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/consent-as-a-practice📖 Control is an Illusion: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline📖 D/s Relationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Attachment Styles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style📖 Grief: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/grief

  7. Sep 30

    The Truth About BDSM Negotiation (And Why It Matters)

    Curious about BDSM negotiation and why it's so important? Learn how to negotiate BDSM scenes with confidence with 100+ questions for discussing consent, desires, limits, safety, aftercare, and communication so every experience is safer, more fulfilling, and built on informed consent. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Free Negotiation Checklist: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/bdsm-negotiation-checklist👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:58) - What Is Negotiation in BDSM? (03:38) - Why Have Negotiations? (05:59) - Misconceptions About Negotiation (11:46) - How to Negotiate in BDSM (15:14) - Goal of the Scene (18:03) - Needs & Boundaries (21:09) - Desires & Limits (26:55) - Safety & Risks (32:01) - Relevant Disclosures (35:12) - Aftercare (36:13) - Re-Negotiation ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Negotiation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-negotiation📖 Risk Profiles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/risk-profile📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support📖 Aftercare: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/aftercare📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Pain Kink: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink📖 Roleplay: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/roleplay-sex📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Free Use: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink

  8. Sep 30

    Aftercare Isn't Just Cuddles: What You Really Need After a BDSM Scene

    What is aftercare, and why can it make or break your BDSM experience? Learn how aftercare helps you recover from drop, process intense emotions, and create a personalized protocol that supports your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:17) - What Is Aftercare? (02:08) - Why Is Aftercare Important? (08:41) - How to Build Your Own Aftercare Protocol (10:00) - Physical Aftercare (16:56) - Mental Aftercare (21:56) - Emotional Aftercare ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Aftercare Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/aftercare📖 Pain Kink: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Tantric Touch: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Rough sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/rough-sex

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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

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  • Creator
    Brandon The Dom
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    99
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Brandon The Dom
  • Show Website
    Brandon The Dom

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