The Worthy Wife | Accepted, Self-confidence, Empty Nester, Marriage, Eggshells

Carrie Allemeersch Certified Life Coach, Christian
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What would life be like if you had the confidence to be yourself—without fear of rejection, disappointment, or needing others’ approval? What if you could speak up without walking on eggshells, stop people-pleasing, and finally feel accepted for who you are? Welcome to The Worthy Wife Podcast. I’m Carrie Allemeersch—Certified Christian Life Coach, wife, and mom—and this podcast is for Christian women who feel emotionally exhausted in their marriage, struggle with self-confidence, or feel like they’re constantly performing to keep the peace. If you’ve spent years trying to be a “good wife,” keeping everyone happy, and quietly shrinking yourself to avoid conflict, you’re not alone. Many women I work with feel unseen, unheard, and unsure of who they are anymore—especially in difficult marriages or during the empty nester season. Here, we talk about Christian marriage, emotional safety, boundaries without guilt, and mind management rooted in biblical truth. I’ll help you untangle your worth from your husband’s emotions, your children’s choices, or other people’s expectations, so you can live with peace, clarity, and confidence—without losing your faith or yourself. You’ll learn how to: Stop walking on eggshells in your marriage Build Christ-centered self-confidence and acceptance Release people-pleasing and emotional burdens that aren’t yours to carry Strengthen your identity as a wife, mom, and empty nester Lead your home with wisdom, courage, and grace For years, I believed the lie that my worth was measured by how well I kept others happy. It was exhausting—and it didn’t work. Scripture reminds us that our worth is rooted in Christ, not in performance, approval, or perfection. If you’re longing for peace, connection, and confidence in your Christian marriage—especially if you feel stuck, emotionally worn down, or unsure how to move forward—grab your earbuds and join me. You belong here. Learn more at www.coachedbycarrie.com Schedule a free 1-hour discovery call: https://meetings.hubspot.com/callemeersch

  1. 2D AGO

    Does Your Calendar Reflect Selflessness or Fear?

    Your Selflessness Might Be Fear: Why Christian Wives Walking on Eggshells Don’t Feel Worthy Christian marriage | walking on eggshells | self-confidence | boundaries without guilt If you panic at the thought of blocking time for yourself… this episode is for you.   One of the first ways I can tell a woman is struggling with feeling worthy isn’t by what she says about her husband or her marriage.   It’s by what happens when I ask her to commit to something that affects her calendar.   There’s hesitation. Guilt. A need to check with everyone. A tightening in her chest.   And I say this with compassion — not criticism.   Many Christian wives have quietly learned to believe that their time is not their own. That their needs are optional. That saying yes to their own growth requires permission.   In this episode, I’m naming something that may feel uncomfortable:   What we’ve been calling humility might actually be fear.   Fear of disappointing someone. Fear of being misunderstood. Fear of being seen as selfish. Fear of rocking the boat in our marriage.   And when fear disguises itself as selflessness, it slowly erodes our sense of worth.   We begin to believe that enduring more makes us more worthy. That disappearing makes us more godly. That exhaustion equals faithfulness.   But that is not stewardship.   And it is not peace.   We are called to steward what we’ve been given — not bury it, not abandon it, not hand it over out of fear. Your time is a gift. Your mind is a gift. Your emotional capacity is a gift. When you stop stewarding them, you don’t feel holy. You feel invisible. In this episode, we talk about: Why self-martyrdom feels righteous but produces resentment How fear hides underneath “being a good wife” Why overburdened calendars create overburdened minds How walking on eggshells is often connected to internal self-erasure The first small shift that restores self-confidence without rebellion     If your calendar feels suffocating… If your mind feels crowded… If you secretly resent how much you carry…   There is another way. And it begins with courage — not control. Workshop Invitation – February 28, 2026 This Saturday, February 28, I’m hosting a live workshop for wives who are ready to untangle their overburdened calendars and quiet their overburdened minds.   We will: Identify fear disguised as humility Restore ownership of your time without guilt Create breathing room in your schedule Cultivate emotional safety in your own mind Experience more of God’s peace in your heart Not by abandoning your responsibilities. But by stewarding them wisely. If this episode stirred something in you, I would love for you to join me. Details are in the link below. Resources & Next Steps * Join the Courageous Confidence for Christian Wives fb group here Email: hello@coachedbycarrie.com to request the zoom link the the upcoming Time Management Workshop Website: www.carrieallemeersch.com Call or text: (1) 604-302-3402 Subscribe to The Worthy Wife Podcast so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement to stay steady in her faith.

    15 min

  2. 6D AGO

    Who Owns Your Calendar? A Self-Confidence Wake-Up Call for Wives Walking on Eggshells -Bonus Episode

    If you constantly feel stretched thin, behind, or quietly resentful of how your time disappears… this episode is for you. So many Christian wives are living in reaction mode — responding to every need, every request, every emotional shift in the home — without ever realizing they have slowly handed over stewardship of one of God’s most precious gifts: their time. In today’s episode of The Worthy Wife Podcast, I’m inviting you into a gentle but powerful reframing. Your calendar is not just a productivity tool. It is a reflection of leadership. It is an expression of self-confidence. And yes — it can even become an act of worship. If you’ve been walking on eggshells in your marriage, overextending yourself, or feeling like your days belong to everyone else… this conversation will help you pause, reclaim responsibility, and realign your time with God’s calling for your life and home. In This Episode, I Teach You: Why time is the great equalizer for every Christian wife How women quietly surrender stewardship of their days The difference between living in reaction vs. living in calling Why self-confidence grows when you take ownership of your time A powerful mindset shift to help you stop walking on eggshells in your marriage How your calendar can become a peaceful act of obedience and worship A Gentle Invitation If you’re ready to stop living in constant reaction and start stewarding your time with intention and peace, I would love to personally invite you to my upcoming live workshop: 🗓 Time Management Workshop 📅 February 28 🕙 10:00 AM Pacific 🕚 11:00 AM Mountain 🕛 12:00 PM Central This is not about productivity hacks. Inside this workshop, we will: Look at what you may have unintentionally handed over Reclaim stewardship of your real week Ask God for direction together Intentionally offer your calendar back to Him We will spend the first part teaching — and the second part actually workshopping your real calendar. If you are ready to walk in courageous confidence instead of quiet reaction, I would love to see you there. Scripture Reflection “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” — Psalm 90:12 Resources & Next Steps ✨ Book a free discovery call with Carrie: https://meetings.hubspot.com/callemeersch ✨ Email: hello@coachedbycarrie.com ✨ Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement to stay steady in her faith. ✨ Website: www.coachedbycarrie.com ✨ Call or text: (1) 604-302-3402

    16 min

  3. FEB 17

    Accepted and Self-Confidence: Stop Walking on Eggshells by Managing Your Thoughts

    In this episode, I teach you how to intentionally cultivate thoughts that create self-confidence, emotional safety, and a stronger marriage — instead of living at the mercy of your reactions. You’ll learn how to stop walking on eggshells by understanding the power you already have to form thoughts on purpose so you can feel accepted, steady, and clear about why you do what you do. This is about mental leadership — choosing beliefs that support the life you desire as a wife, an empty nester, and a woman walking closely with God. free fb group Courageous Confidence for Christian Wives email me to join the Time Management seminar at Hello@coachedbycarrie.com  Click here to be added my email list for updates special offers and weekly podcast links

    18 min

  4. FEB 10

    You: The Best Asset in Your Marriage

    What if who you are isn’t the problem in your marriage—but the asset God intentionally placed there? In this episode, I’m talking to the Christian wife who has learned to apologize for her feelings, soften her opinions, and shrink herself to keep the peace. I want to gently challenge the belief that being authentic is selfish or dangerous in marriage. Together, we’ll explore why showing up as your true self isn’t something to fix or manage—but something your marriage actually needs. If you’ve been walking on eggshells, trying not to offend, and wondering if you’re “too much,” this conversation is for you. Who you are is not a liability. It’s part of God’s design—and it matters more than you’ve been told. FB group link https://www.facebook.com/groups/777760885020307 Free consultation call or text 604-302-3402 Ask to join my email list to recieve weekly emails for encouragement and deeper conversation

    22 min

  5. FEB 3

    You’re Not Broken: Why Your Brain Isn’t the Enemy

    Episode Show Notes The Worthy Wife Podcast Why your brain isn’t the problem—and how accepting your humanity builds spiritual confidence One of the greatest gifts I ever gave myself was the day I stopped rejecting my own humanity in the name of being “spiritual enough.” I realized something that changed everything: I have a brain in my head that is doing exactly what God designed it to do. And I don’t need to fight it, shame it, or silence it to be acceptable to God. In this episode, I walk you through why understanding your brain is not a threat to your faith—but actually a pathway to deeper peace, emotional safety, and spiritual maturity. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with yourself because you know what God is calling you to do—but part of you resists, hesitates, or reacts—you’re not broken. You’re human. And that matters. In This Episode, I Talk About: Why your brain’s main job is safety, energy conservation, and comfort—and why that’s not sinful The difference between reactionary brain responses and Spirit-led choices Why shame often comes after obedience—and how to stop letting it define you What Paul meant when he said, “The things I want to do, I don’t do…” How self-rejection keeps Christian women stuck, small, and emotionally unsafe Why accepting your humanity actually strengthens your walk with God How to respond to your brain with compassion instead of condemnation I also share how learning this freed me from self-loathing, spiritual performance, and the constant fear that I wasn’t “doing Christianity right.” You can acknowledge the thought. You can thank your brain for trying to protect you. And you can still choose obedience—without shame. That’s not compromise. That’s maturity. A Gentle Reflection for You This Week: The next time your brain offers you a thought like “I don’t want to do this,” pause and notice: Can I let this thought exist without judging myself? Can I choose love, obedience, or courage anyway? What would it look like to respond to myself with kindness instead of correction? You are allowed to be human and deeply faithful. Both can be true. Resources & Next Steps Book a free discovery call with me: Courageous Confidence for Christian Wives Facebook group for weekly encouragement and practical reflection prompts connected to each episode. Subscribe to The Worthy Wife Podcast so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with a friend who needs freedom from shame and pressure. Website: www.coachedbycarrie.com Email: hello@coachedbycarrie.com Remember—you’re not a disappointment. You don’t need fixing. And you don’t have to reject yourself to walk faithfully with God. I’ll be back with you next week. 💛

    16 min

  6. JAN 27

    Empty Nester: Is This Stealing Peace in Your Marriage?

    Stop Abandoning Yourself: Peace in the Empty Nest Begins Here The empty nest is often described as a season of freedom. But for many women, it feels more like an unsettling quiet—one that doesn’t restore, but unnerves. In this episode of The Worthy Wife Podcast, I speak directly to empty nest women who long for peace in their homes, their marriages, and most of all, in their own hearts—but can’t quite find it. What if the peace you’re craving doesn’t come from fixing relationships, filling the quiet, or reinventing yourself? What if it begins with stopping one thing you’ve been doing for years… without realizing it? In today’s episode, I unpack the hidden habit of self-abandonment—and how letting go of it opens the door to emotional safety, self-confidence, and true peace in this season of life. In this episode, I explore: Why the empty nest often feels restless instead of freeing How self-abandonment masquerades as humility, niceness, or “being spiritual” Why peace is not something you chase—but something Christ has already given you (John 14:27) How abandoning yourself erodes emotional safety in your marriage and relationships What it looks like to stay with yourself instead of blaming, shrinking, or self-betraying Why confidence doesn’t come from outcomes, approval, or productivity—but from agreement with God How peace becomes possible even when circumstances remain unresolved This episode is an invitation to stop measuring your worth by roles, reactions, or relational harmony—and to begin standing with yourself the way God already stands with you. Peace in the empty nest doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from agreeing with God and refusing to abandon yourself. Resources & Next Steps Book a free discovery call with Carrie: https://www.coachedbycarrie.com/email Email: www.coachedbycarrie.com Join the Fb group Courageous Confidence for Christian Wives Subscribe to The Worthy Wife Podcast so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement to stay steady in her faith.

    22 min

  7. JAN 20

    Empty Nester, Acknowledge Your Gifts and Believe!

    Many Christian women struggle with acknowledging what God has done—and is doing—in their lives. We downplay our gifts. We minimize our growth. We call it humility—but often, it’s something else entirely. In this episode of The Worthy Wife Podcast, I talk about the lie many of us have believed: that recognizing our God-given gifts and abilities is somehow prideful. And I invite you to consider a different perspective—one rooted in faith. Because this was never about you. It’s always been about honoring the work of your Creator. I share why refusing to look at who God has made you to be actually keeps you from fully trusting Him, how belief is something we must practice, and why shrinking back or burying your gifts is not humility—it’s fear. Using Scripture, real-life examples, and a powerful metaphor about strength and training, I’ll walk you through what it means to exercise belief, release outcomes to God, and step forward in faith—even when circumstances feel heavy or uncertain. You are not where you are by accident. You were placed here, now, on purpose. And to do the work of God, we must believe. Resources & Next Steps Book a free discovery call with Carrie: https://meetings.hubspot.com/callemeersch Join my free weekly email for encouragement, Scripture, and a simple journal prompt connected to each episode. Join the private Facebook group for thoughtful conversation with women learning how to live with emotional steadiness and honesty. Subscribe to The Worthy Wife Podcast so you never miss an episode. read more about self-confidence on the website  https://www.carrieallemeersch.com/self-confidence-in-marriage Website: https://www.carrieallemeersch.com Email: hello@coachedbycarrie.com Call or text: (1) 604-302-3402

    12 min

  8. JAN 13

    Does Keeping the Peace Have You Walking on Eggshells -

    Biblical Peace, Emotional Safety, and Boundaries Without Guilt for Christian Wives Show Notes For many Christian wives, “keeping the peace” feels like the loving, faithful thing to do. We stay quiet. We smooth things over. We manage emotions—our own and everyone else’s—so nothing escalates. But over time, that kind of peacekeeping often leaves us tense, guarded, and walking on eggshells. In this episode, I explore the important difference between keeping the peace and creating real, biblical peace. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and everyday family dynamics, I share why peacekeeping is often rooted in fear—and how God invites us into something steadier, freer, and more honest. We’ll talk about: Why peacekeeping quietly creates emotional pressure How 2 Timothy 1:7 reframes fear, power, love, and self-control The difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking (and why it matters in marriage and family life) A real-life example from family planning where “being nice” can actually block honesty How resentment grows when truth is avoided—even with good intentions A simple, practical way to begin creating peace without guilt or emotional over-functioning This episode is especially for the woman who loves her family deeply but feels worn down by the responsibility of keeping everything calm. You don’t have to choose between love and truth. God’s peace doesn’t require you to shrink, tiptoe, or carry what isn’t yours. One-Sentence Takeaway Keeping the peace manages fear — creating peace flows from inner security in Christ. Resources & Next Steps Book a free discovery call with Carrie: https://meetings.hubspot.com/callemeersch Join my free weekly email for encouragement, Scripture, and a simple journal prompt connected to each episode. Join the private Facebook group for thoughtful conversation with women learning how to live with emotional steadiness and honesty. Subscribe to The Worthy Wife Podcast so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with a friend who feels like she’s always walking on eggshells. Website: https://www.carrieallemeersch.com Email: hello@coachedbycarrie.com Call or text: (1) 604-302-3402

    9 min
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What would life be like if you had the confidence to be yourself—without fear of rejection, disappointment, or needing others’ approval? What if you could speak up without walking on eggshells, stop people-pleasing, and finally feel accepted for who you are? Welcome to The Worthy Wife Podcast. I’m Carrie Allemeersch—Certified Christian Life Coach, wife, and mom—and this podcast is for Christian women who feel emotionally exhausted in their marriage, struggle with self-confidence, or feel like they’re constantly performing to keep the peace. If you’ve spent years trying to be a “good wife,” keeping everyone happy, and quietly shrinking yourself to avoid conflict, you’re not alone. Many women I work with feel unseen, unheard, and unsure of who they are anymore—especially in difficult marriages or during the empty nester season. Here, we talk about Christian marriage, emotional safety, boundaries without guilt, and mind management rooted in biblical truth. I’ll help you untangle your worth from your husband’s emotions, your children’s choices, or other people’s expectations, so you can live with peace, clarity, and confidence—without losing your faith or yourself. You’ll learn how to: Stop walking on eggshells in your marriage Build Christ-centered self-confidence and acceptance Release people-pleasing and emotional burdens that aren’t yours to carry Strengthen your identity as a wife, mom, and empty nester Lead your home with wisdom, courage, and grace For years, I believed the lie that my worth was measured by how well I kept others happy. It was exhausting—and it didn’t work. Scripture reminds us that our worth is rooted in Christ, not in performance, approval, or perfection. If you’re longing for peace, connection, and confidence in your Christian marriage—especially if you feel stuck, emotionally worn down, or unsure how to move forward—grab your earbuds and join me. You belong here. Learn more at www.coachedbycarrie.com Schedule a free 1-hour discovery call: https://meetings.hubspot.com/callemeersch

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