Marriage Unmasked

Adam and Cara Nitz
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Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are struggling alone.Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where certified marriage and life coaches, Adam and Cara Nitz, share real, raw, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your marriage.  We want to help you take your marriage from painful to peaceful, get deeply connected to your spouse and live fully loved by God and each other.Find your next step with our online marriage course, support groups, coaching and so many other helpful marriage resources at our website: https://www.thewayforlove.com/ Want to support our work? https://venmo.com/code?user_id=3045403754758144334

  1. 3d ago

    Is Your Spouse Manipulating You?

    Manipulation in marriage isn’t always obvious. Sometimes it looks like guilt, pressure, withdrawal, emotional intensity, playing the victim, or making your spouse feel responsible for your emotions. So often underneath manipulative behavior, there is fear, insecurity, unmet needs, a desire for control, or simply unhealthy patterns learned long before the relationship began. In this episode, we explore how to recognize manipulation, understand what may be driving it beneath the surface, and how to address it with honesty, boundaries, compassion, and maturity. Whether you’re wondering if your spouse is manipulating you or whether you may be doing it without realizing it, this conversation will help you navigate the issue in a healthier way. Need some help? We're here for you: Get Cara's FREE communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Get Adam's FREE training: 5 Essentials for Leading a Wife Who Seems to Crave Control.  Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Check out Return to Us, an intimate marriage retreat on a small private island in Belize, June 10-15, 2027.  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  2. Aug 25

    Is Your Husband the Problem? 4 Questions to Ask to Know for Sure

    Ever thought, “My husband is really the problem in this relationship”?  Maybe he’s passive, distant, defensive, controlling, or just not showing up the way you need him to. What if the problem on the surface is actually pointing to something deeper? And what if the opposite question is asked,“Is my wife the problem?”   In this episode, we talk through four questions that can help you look beneath the conflict and understand what’s really happening in your marriage. We're not here to blame husbands or wives, but to uncover the patterns, wounds, expectations, and other issues that may be hiding underneath the problems you face. Need some help? We're here for you: Get Cara's FREE communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Get Adam's FREE training: 5 Essentials for Leading a Wife Who Seems to Crave Control.  Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Check out Return to Us, an intimate marriage retreat on a small private island in Belize, June 10-15, 2027.  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  3. Aug 18

    4 Things Your Wife Is Probably Afraid to Say to You

    What if your wife's greatest need right now is just the freedom to finally tell you what’s been weighing on her heart?  Could it be that your wife has wanted to say something for years but kept quiet, because she’s not sure how you’ll respond? In this episode, we’re uncovering four important things she may be afraid to say to you.  Wives, this episode may help you put words to things you’ve struggled to express. Husbands, it may give you insight you didn't even know you needed.  A wife shouldn’t have to rehearse her words, brace herself for defensiveness, or wonder whether telling the truth will lead to an argument or a shutdown. Creating that kind of safety doesn’t mean agreeing with everything she says, but it means being the kind of man who can hear her heart and be curious instead of reactive.  Need some help? We're here for you: Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Get Cara's free communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Get Adam's Free training: 5 Essentials for Leading a Wife Who Seems to Crave Control.  Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Check out Return to Us, an intimate marriage retreat on a small private island in Belize, June 10-15, 2027.  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  4. Aug 11

    How to Reignite the Spark in a Marriage That's Hurting

    What if you love each other, but you don’t feel it anymore?  Does it seem like the attraction has faded, affection feels forced, or the spark that used to be there naturally now seems impossible to find?  Yes, you’re still committed to your marriage, but over time, hurt, resentment, disconnection, disappointment, or simply years of life together have changed the way you see each other. In this episode, we’re taking a deeper look at what may be happening underneath the lack of attraction and connection. Often, the missing spark isn’t the problem, it’s the symptom of something that has been building beneath the surface. Even if your marriage feels disconnected today doesn’t mean it's doomed to stay that way. There is a way forward and you can have hope for reconnection, healing, desire, and intimacy again.  Need some help? We're here for you: Check out Return to Us, an intimate marriage retreat on a small private island in Belize, June 10-15, 2027.  Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  5. Aug 4

    You Don't Need Another Date Night, You Need This First

    Date night, question cards, couple’s games…they can help your marriage, but they can’t bring true transformation. Deeper, lasting intimacy grows through honest conversations, emotional safety, and the courage to address what’s happening beneath the surface. What helps you get that kind of connection? How do you create space, margin, and safety to have the deeper healing and connection that your marriage really needs? In today’s episode we dive into all of that and offer you an opportunity you’re not going to want to miss.  Need some help? We're here for you: Check out Return to Us, an intimate marriage retreat on a small private island in Belize, June 10-15, 2027.  Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Get Cara's free communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  6. Jul 28

    Don't Change For Your Spouse

    So many spouses try to change out of fear. They fear conflict, rejection, disappointment, or losing the relationship. Fear might change your behavior for a little while, but it won't truly transform your heart or your marriage. In the end behavior modification will leave you resentful, frustrated and lost. There's a huge difference between changing for your spouse and growing naturally as the man or woman God made you to be.   True transformation has a different motivation and will invite more freedom, peace, and intimacy into your marriage. Need some help? We're here for you: Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Get Cara's free communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Get access to Adam's Master This Moment audio coaching library Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

  7. Jul 21

    Best of Marriage Unmasked: When You Don't Like Your Spouse

    What do you do when you realize you just don’t like your spouse right now? You still love them.  You’re still committed. It's just that what they say and do rubs you the wrong way. You feel disconnected, irritated, maybe even repulsed. You’ve prayed, you’ve tried to fix it, or ignore it, but the feeling lingers.  Every marriage experiences times and even seasons where the dislike settles in. This episode will give you some insight into what's going on under the surface and how to heal and reconnect again.  Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Free Leadership Self-Assessment and Guide for Men. Join Refined Adam's online men's membership. Get Cara's free communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives Ready for more connection and healing in your marriage? Start our Healing Your Marriage Course Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Donate to support our work? Click here. Send us Fan Mail

  8. Jul 14

    How to Get Off the Dysfunctional Marriage Rollercoaster

    You're up. You're down. You're good. You're not. Marriage can seem like a never-ending roller coaster of dysfunction that keeps you dizzy and sick.  One minute you're connected, the next you're not. One of you criticizes. The other withdraws. One pursues harder. The other shuts down even more. Eventually, you’re both exhausted, misunderstood, and wondering why you keep ending up in the exact same place.  In this episode we talk through why these patterns become so automatic, what’s really happening underneath the reactions and how to interrupt the cycle.  It doesn’t have to stay this way. You can learn to step off the roller coaster and begin creating a marriage with more peace, connection, and emotional safety. Need some help? We're here for you: Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com Get Cara's free communication master class for wives. Join Cara's Restored membership for wives. Get access to Adam's Master This Moment audio coaching library Join Refined Adam's online men's membership  Get the Marriage Check-in Journal: stay connected intentionally all year long and have regular, important conversations that build your relationship every week. Interested in couples or individual coaching? Click here. Connect with us on Instagram: @cara.nitz @faith.full.masculinity Send us Fan Mail

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Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are struggling alone.Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where certified marriage and life coaches, Adam and Cara Nitz, share real, raw, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your marriage.  We want to help you take your marriage from painful to peaceful, get deeply connected to your spouse and live fully loved by God and each other.Find your next step with our online marriage course, support groups, coaching and so many other helpful marriage resources at our website: https://www.thewayforlove.com/ Want to support our work? https://venmo.com/code?user_id=3045403754758144334

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  • Creator
    Adam and Cara Nitz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    91
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Marriage Unmasked
  • Show Website
    Marriage Unmasked

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