Here Comes the Drama with Christa Innis

Party Planning by Christa

Get ready for the wildest ride down the aisle and beyond! Here Comes the Drama dives into the chaos, hilarity, and heartwarming moments of weddings and events. Hosted by Christa Innis, this podcast brings to life the jaw-dropping real-life wedding horror stories sent in by her over one million social media fans.   Each episode features live reactions, advice on setting boundaries, and discussions about all things drama in the world of weddings, parties, and beyond. From outrageous mother-in-law tales to bridesmaid betrayals that could rival reality TV drama and more, no story is too big—or small.   Whether you're a bride-to-be, party planner, or just love some juicy gossip, this show is your ultimate escape into the unexpected drama of some of life’s most celebrated moments. Listen, laugh, and maybe learn how to protect your peace along the way!   New episodes weekly. Follow Party Planning by Christa on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook for more drama, behind-the-scenes moments, and more!

  1. 6d ago

    Drunk Groomsmen, Reception Cancellations, and a Missing Truck

    Christa is back with a solo episode packed with wedding dilemmas, last-minute disasters, and family drama you couldn't make up. From helping a bride navigate an attention-seeking mother-in-law to reacting to a brother-in-law who nearly ruined an entire wedding weekend. She ends the episode with honest listener confessions about the family expectations that crossed the line. Apparently, "I do" also comes with a side of family chaos.  For this week’s episode we’re flying solo and diving into stories that remind us weddings rarely go exactly as planned. I weigh in on listeners’ wedding dilemmas about a future mother-in-law who seems more interested in stealing the spotlight than supporting the couple. I delve into two wedding stories: One couple is forced to find a brand-new reception venue after theirs suddenly closes just weeks before the big day. Another bride wakes up on her wedding morning to discover the truck carrying their marriage license has vanished. To wrap things up, I read listener confessions about unfair family expectations and shares why healthy boundaries matter long after the wedding ends. Whether you're planning a wedding or just love messy family drama, this episode has plenty to unpack. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Mother-in-Law Wants the Spotlight – A bride worries her future MIL cares more about her own grand entrance than celebrating the couple. 41 Days to Find a New Venue – A reception venue unexpectedly closes, forcing the couple to start over and proving that Plan B can still become a cherished memory. The Jail Cell, and the Marriage License – A groom's brother steals the couple's truck, nearly derailing the wedding after taking the marriage license with him. When Family Comes Before Your Marriage – Christa reacts to a husband repeatedly choosing his family over his new wife. Confessions About Family Expectations – Listeners share the unrealistic demands relatives have placed on them, reinforcing the importance of healthy boundaries. Ignoring Red Flags Doesn't Make Them Disappear – Wedding stress may reveal family dynamics that couples need to address long before they become marriage problems. Accountability Matters – Mistakes happen, but healing becomes much harder when someone refuses to take responsibility for the damage they've caused. Your Partner Should Handle Their Family – Setting boundaries with difficult in-laws is much easier when your partner is the one leading the conversation.  Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "When someone's not contributing financially or showing interest in being a part of the planning doesn't mean they don't support you or they're not interested." “You should not be having to tell him. He should be standing up for you. This is your husband now.” “As you get older, you choose who you want in your life, and if they treat you in a bad way, you don't have to let them around.”  “You are in charge of who you let into your space and how often they have access to you. I think we say that a lot. Boundaries, right?” “Lesson, guys. Don't drive drunk. Use an Uber.” *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  2. Aug 6

    UnHinged Stories, Passed Out Best Man, and MOB Who Took Over with Kristen Knutson

    Kristen Knutson joins Christa to talk about the generational quirks behind her viral "Boomer Mom" skits, the realities of parenting and content creation, and why humor helps bridge the gap between generations. They also react to outrageous wedding submissions, from bizarre gifts and controlling moms to a photographer's unforgettable wedding day horror story. A wedding day is supposed to be about the couple. Unfortunately, someone forgot to tell Mom.  In this episode, Kristen Knutson joins me to talk about wedding guests who can’t resist stepping in with their own cameras, plus the unhinged wedding gift stories she brought to the episode. It simply answers that sometimes the best way to support a couple is to simply let them enjoy the moment. We react to a photographer’s wild submission about a mother of the bride who couldn’t let go of control. After crashing the engagement session, she continued taking over the wedding day, creating chaos for the couple and vendors. And just when they thought they’d seen it all, the best man collapsed before the ceremony. Together, we talk about where support ends and control begins, and why protecting a couple’s experience sometimes means setting boundaries with the people closest to them. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Boomer Mom Origins  – Kristen explains how becoming a mom in 2021 sparked her viral “Boomer Mom” skits, starting with the now‑infamous almond‑for‑lunch story.  Snack Culture Mirror  – Christa and Kristen laugh about kids copying their parents’ constant snacking, realizing that the quirks they poke fun at are the same ones they pass down.  Unhinged Wedding Gifts  – Kristen brings in jaw‑dropping stories from mothers and mother-in-laws in weddings. Generational Parenting Shifts – They reflect on how past generations raised kids with one “right way,” while today’s parents face information overload and endless choices.  Reception Speech Meltdown – Mom gave a child‑sized ’90s backpack, and passed around childhood bathtub photos to the entire room.  Hijacked Engagement – The bride’s mom showed up uninvited, lurking behind trees and criticizing her daughter’s appearance  Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "Everyone knows who the moms are. You're gonna wear a beautiful dress, and it's gonna be special. You don't need a big spotlight on you for people to recognize." - Christa Innis “Don't change that about yourself.' I think it's great, and I do think that we're all products of our generation.” - Christa Innis "We're gonna have our thing that when they're older they're gonna complain about." - Christa Innis “You're scrolling through different people's talents, and I think it's really beautiful in that way 'cause it creates this community and creates this excitement for different kinds of talents and people kind of coming together." - Christa Innis "Maybe it's not meant for you. That's okay." - Christa Innis "Ultimately, your parents are responsible for their own feelings and their own day." - Kristen Knutson “When our boomer parents were raising us, it was just like there was one way of doing things, and that was the information that they were fed." - Kristen Knutson "You gotta go with your gut." - Kristen Knutson "Today there's like thousands of different ways of doing one thing in parenting." - Kristen Knutson "It's been fun 'cause I've been able to find my voice and just find my passion by just trial and error on my own."  - Kristen Knutson *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. About KristenKristen Knutson is a digital creator, storyteller, and comedian who became known for her “Boomer Mom” skits after starting content creation in 2021, when she became a mother. Her first viral video captured the generational clash between her own baby‑boomer mom, who could go all day without eating, and Kristen’s need for regular meals. That relatable humor set the tone for her work, which focuses on family dynamics and motherhood. Kristen rediscovered her childhood love of making skits through social media. Today she continues to grow her audience by turning everyday parenting chaos and generational differences into comedy that resonates across generations. Follow Kristen Knutson: TikTok Instagram Facebook YouTube Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  3. Jul 30

    The Golden Child, Jealous Bridesmaids, and Broken Boundaries

    Would you skip your sister's wedding after she ruined one of the biggest moments of your life? This week, I'm diving into two emotionally charged stories that had me thinking long after I finished recording. One centers on years of family favoritism that come to a head during wedding planning, while the other follows a bridesmaid whose jealousy turns into shocking boundary-crossing. From ruined dress shopping to friendship-ending confrontations, the drama is very real. I'm also sharing my hottest takes on weddings, friendships, family dynamics, and why protecting your peace sometimes means walking away. If you've ever questioned who deserves a place in your life—or at your wedding—this episode is for you. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments A Lifetime of Favoritism – A bride-to-be questions whether she should attend her sister's wedding after years of being treated as the "other" daughter culminate in a devastating dress-shopping experience. Should She Skip the Wedding? – I explain why honest communication should come before making a decision that could permanently affect a sibling relationship. Wedding Hot Takes – From child-free weddings to outgrowing friendships after the big day, I share rapid-fire opinions on some of the internet's biggest wedding debates. The Bridesmaid Who Wanted Chaos – A bride realizes one of her closest friends isn't celebrating her engagement—she's quietly sabotaging it. When Boundaries Aren't Respected – Dress shopping, bridal shower gifts, and repeated disrespect push one bride to ask her bridesmaid to step down. The Friendship Ends Immediately – Instead of apologizing, the bridesmaid walks away from the friendship entirely, revealing what I believed was there all along. Wedding Confessions – Listeners reveal the compromises they still regret years later, from surprise receptions to inviting difficult family members. Protect Your Peace – I close with a reminder that your wedding should reflect your relationship—not everyone else's expectations. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "Protecting your peace is more important than keeping everyone happy." "You don't have to put up with someone's behavior just because you've known them for a long time." "Sometimes we force ourselves to stay close to people because they're family, when really a little distance is healthier for everyone." "If someone can't have an honest conversation without ending the friendship, that tells you a lot about the friendship." "Always get on the same page as your partner first, then let everyone else in." "You can love someone and still realize they're not healthy to have in your inner circle." "Just because emotions are running high doesn't mean communication has to disappear." "A wedding has a funny way of revealing who truly supports you—and who just wants to be part of the spotlight." "The people who respect your boundaries won't make you feel guilty for having them." "Don't let fear of disappointing someone else rob you of the joy you're supposed to feel on your wedding day." *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  4. Jul 23

    Spicy Kids, Cold Feet, and a Singing Mother-in-Law with Mary Van Geffen

    What happens when you ignore every red flag? Christa sits down with parenting coach Mary Van Geffen to react to a wedding story filled with boundary-crossing in-laws, a husband who never stood up for his wife, and a bride who knew something wasn't right. They also dive into raising "spicy" kids, breaking generational cycles, and building healthier family relationships. "I knew I shouldn't marry him... but I walked down the aisle anyway." What happens when you ignore your gut? This week, Christa sat down with parenting coach Mary Van Geffen and reacted to a jaw dropping wedding story featuring a mother-in-law who refused to take no for an answer, a husband who never set boundaries, and the red flags that were there all along.  Then, they discuss raising strong-willed "spicy" kids, breaking generational cycles, and why healing yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. From trusting your instincts to navigating judgment and parenting with intention, this episode is full of honest conversations and practical takeaways. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments What Is a "Spicy" Child? – Mary explains the traits of strong-willed kids, why they're often misunderstood, and how their biggest challenges can become their greatest strengths. Healing Yourself While Parenting – The conversation explores how parenting often brings unresolved childhood wounds to the surface—and why self-awareness changes everything. Becoming the Calmest Person in the Room – Mary shares practical techniques for slowing down reactions, regulating emotions, and creating connection before correction. Handling Judgment from Other Parents – The discussion dives into unsolicited advice, public tantrums, and how to tune out outside opinions while protecting your peace. The Wedding That Never Felt Right – Mary opens up about marrying someone despite knowing in her gut it wasn't the right decision—and the lesson she learned from it. The Mother-in-Law Who Wouldn't Take No – Christa and Mary react to an unbelievable story of a mother-in-law determined to perform at the wedding, no matter what the couple wanted. Why Your Partner Must Set Family Boundaries – The pair discuss why spouses should handle difficult conversations with their own families and what happens when they don't. Breaking Generational Patterns – The episode ends with an empowering conversation about choosing healthier relationships, parenting differently, and trusting your instincts. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "The biggest red flags usually show up long before you walk down the aisle."- Christa Innis "Sometimes becoming a parent forces you to heal parts of yourself you didn't even know were hurting."  - Christa Innis "If your gut keeps telling you something isn't right, don't ignore it just because everyone else says it's normal."  - Christa Innis "The healthiest relationships are built when both people choose each other first."  - Christa Innis "Parenting isn't about being perfect—it's about being willing to grow alongside your child."  - Christa Innis "Sometimes the hardest boundary you'll ever set is the one that finally changes your family's future."  - Christa Innis "Connect with them before you correct, before you direct." - Mary Van Geffen "A lot of times when we have a strong-willed, spicy one, we kind of stop liking them. Shift your mind to: What do you like about this kid? What is good about them?" - Mary Van Geffen "You can't discipline, change, or help your child grow outside of a relationship. Connection has to come first." - Mary Van Geffen "If you're like, 'I'm not sure this is the right guy,' then trust it." - Mary Van Geffen "The son should be the one setting the boundary with his mother. He set his wife up to fail by making her be in that communication." - Mary Van Geffen *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. About MaryMary Van Geffen is a parenting coach, author, and creator of the "Spicy Ones" movement, helping parents navigate life with strong-willed, big-feeling kids through connection instead of control. After her own parenting journey led her to heal generational patterns, she dedicated her work to helping families build calmer homes and stronger relationships. Since 2011, Mary has supported thousands of parents through coaching, courses, and her bestselling book, Parenting a Spicy One. Her honest, compassionate approach encourages parents to embrace their child's unique personality, trust their instincts, and remember that neither they nor their child are broken—they're simply learning and growing together. Follow Mary Van Geffen: Website TikTok Instagram Facebook Spotify Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  5. Jul 16

    Top WILD Moments: Wedding Scams, Mother Manipulations, and Dilemma Update!

    Christa revisits some of the most unforgettable listener stories, from a maid of honor accused of stealing thousands, to a honeymoon crashed by a mother-in-law, to families who completely forgot whose wedding it was. If you love outrageous wedding drama, boundary-setting, and stories that make you say, "There's no way that actually happened," this one's for you. RSVP: bring a plus one, just don’t be surprised when it’s drama.  This episode pulls together wedding stories from past guests and wedding submissions. Trust gets stretched, boundaries get ignored, and somewhere along the way family members decide the wedding is also their personal stage.  I go back to a few of the most talked-about stories. A maid of honor situation that spirals into serious financial accusations. A honeymoon that was hijacked by a mother-in-law. And wedding after wedding where mothers and mother-in-laws shift from “supportive presence” to full-on control mode. Because nothing brings out family and friends dynamics quite like a wedding, where old feuds show up dressed for the occasion.  🎧 Stay for the drama, laugh at the chaos, and remember that protecting your peace is not a group decision.  My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Maid of Honor Scam – A shocking wedding scam uncovers years of alleged financial deception and betrayal.  A Honeymoon Hijacked – A controlling mother-in-law turns a honeymoon into chaos, forcing the newlyweds to stand united.  Wedding Spotlight Jealousy – One bride's mother copies her engagement ring, competes for attention, and creates drama throughout wedding planning.  Guests Tried to Get a Discount – Mothers of the bride and groom relentlessly criticize the wedding before hinting they deserve a major discount on the celebration. Toxic Family Cycles – Generational patterns of manipulation, jealousy, and unhealthy family dynamics. Wrong People in the Room – Not everyone around the bride should be part of wedding decisions if they’re adding stress instead of support.  Mother Mayhem – From controlling moms to impossible mothers-in-law, wedding celebrations spiral into chaos as family members compete for attention and control.  Boundaries Change Everything – Couples that learn to protect their marriage sometimes means standing up to toxic family members. Stress vs. Support System – The biggest takeaway: your wedding circle should calm you, not overwhelm you.  Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Peace is better than chaos and eventually boundaries have to be drawn.” - Christa Innis “They had spent around $300,000 to $400,000 of my family members' money. It's absolute insanity” - Jubilee Dawn “This is my best friend in theory and this is my wedding day. I can't imagine that she would do this” - Jubilee Dawn “You need that kind of support around you when you’re going through stuff like this.” - Beth Hoffberg “It’s so silly to me, because if you haven’t been communicating, how can you even know what was discussed? You’re not the deciding factor.” - Kendra Matthies “You don’t know anything about this person. They’re doing their jobs, they’re helping. Why make that kind of comment?” - Kendra Matthies “She knows exactly what she is doing.” - Beth Hoffberg “Some of the best training for marriage is drama and tantrums and they passed the test.” - Sara Margulis “Avoid talking about tough stuff you’re going through with family or even a lot of friends, because it can set up this me‑versus‑him dynamic .” - Sara Margulis “That's just toxic. They shouldn't even be in the wedding” - CliffNotes Gal “She needs to invite me to the wedding and I will be there in a heartbeat. I'll make sure her reception is a blast.” - CliffNotes Gal *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. About the GuestsJubilee DawnJubilee Dawn is a TikTok and Instagram creator who dives into religious deconstruction, purity culture, and wild youth pastor stories. She also hosts two podcasts: Heel Dish, sharing survivor stories, and The Overshare Hour, an advice‑driven show with her best friend.  Check out Jubilee’s episode: Apple Podcast YouTube Sara MargulisSara Margulis is the co‑founder and CEO of Honeyfund, the leading wedding registry that lets couples receive the gift of a honeymoon or cash to start their lives together. Launched nearly 20 years ago, Honeyfund has helped millions of couples celebrate their weddings. Check out Sara’s episode: Apple Podcast YouTube Beth HoffbergBeth Hoffberg, known online as @intuitivelybeth, is a certified life coach with over 10 years of experience and a background in psychology and marriage & family therapy. She’s also an entrepreneur who has been practicing tarot for eight years, sharing her journey of healing, intuition, and trauma recovery.  Check out Beth’s episode: Apple Podcast YouTube Kendra MatthiesKendra Matthies is a licensed esthetician, professional makeup artist, and content creator with over a million TikTok followers. She runs her own business, Makeup by Kendra Leigh LLC, specializing in bridal makeup and esthetics.Check out Kendra’s episode: Apple Podcast YouTube CliffNotes GalCliffNotes Gal is a TikTok creator known for her fast‑paced, one‑minute recaps of long, drawn‑out storytimes. During COVID she made a fun summary stitch of a never‑ending video quickly blew up into millions of views, earning her the nickname “CliffNotes Gal” from her followers. Check out CliffNotes Gal’s episode: Apple Podcast YouTube Follow Jubilee, Sara, Beth, Kendra, and Cliffnotes: Jubilee Dawn: Instagram, TikTok Sara Margulis: Instagram Beth Hoffberg: TikTok, Youtube, Website Kendra Matthies: Instagram, TikTok, Facebook Cliffnotes Gal: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  6. Jul 9

    Missing Grooms, Boundary Battles and Nanny Diaries with The Wedding Nanny™ of NYC, Sandra Weir

    What do you do when a groom disappears, the bartender cancels, and your ex somehow ends up saving the wedding? This week, Christa is joined by Sandra Weir, founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, to talk about the unique world of wedding childcare, the wildest situations she's encountered on the job, and why setting boundaries is essential when kids are involved. What do you do when a groom disappears, the bartender cancels, and your ex somehow ends up saving the wedding? This week, Christa is joined by Sandra Weir, founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, to talk about the unique world of wedding childcare, the wildest situations she's encountered on the job, and why setting boundaries is essential when kids are involved. From a wedding that secretly doubled its child count to police showing up over a family dispute, Sandra shares unforgettable behind-the-scenes stories.  Plus, Sandra and Christa react to a listener submission featuring a missing groom, a canceled bartender, a no-show wedding planner, giant Jell-O shots, and an ex-boyfriend who somehow became the hero of the day. You won't believe how this one ends. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Meet the Wedding Nanny - Sandra shares how a single wedding experience inspired her to launch a business dedicated to caring for children during weddings and special events. Why Wedding Childcare Matters - Sandra explains how dedicated childcare allows parents to relax while ensuring children stay safe, entertained, and included. The Wedding with 18 Surprise Kids - What was supposed to be a manageable booking quickly turned into chaos when nearly double the expected number of children showed up. When Boundaries Become Essential - Sandra discusses difficult situations where parents assumed childcare was available for every child at the wedding and why clear boundaries matter. The Police Show Up - A seemingly normal wedding took an unexpected turn when family tensions escalated and law enforcement arrived at the venue. The Groom Who Couldn't Stop Skating - Christa and Sandra react to a jaw-dropping story involving a groom who repeatedly disappeared while wedding-day responsibilities piled up. The Ex Who Saved the Wedding - A listener's former boyfriend unexpectedly stepped in to help when vendors started canceling and wedding plans fell apart. Wedding Day Red Flags - Christa and Sandra discuss how behavior leading up to a wedding can reveal important clues about the future of a marriage. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "Communication goes a long way, especially when everyone's counting on you." - Christa Innis "A wedding day should bring people together, not leave one person carrying all the responsibility." - Christa Innis "Sometimes the biggest wedding drama isn't the guests, it's the person standing at the altar." - Christa Innis "Your wedding day is often a preview of how you'll handle challenges together later." - Christa Innis "The people who show up when things fall apart are the ones you remember most." - Christa Innis "Boundaries aren't rude, they're what keep chaos from taking over." - Christa Innis "Children deserve to feel just as special and included as the adults celebrating." -Sandra Weir "Preparation is everything, especially when you're responsible for someone's child." -Sandra Weir "You can be kind while still holding firm boundaries." - Sandra Weir "The more information you have beforehand, the safer and smoother the day becomes." - Sandra Weir "If your partner isn't backing you up during the easy moments, the hard moments become even harder." - Sandra Weir "Every wedding teaches you something new about people, families, and relationships." - Sandra Weir "The goal isn't just watching children, it's creating a positive experience for them too." - Sandra Weir *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. About SandraSandra Weir is the founder of The Wedding Nanny NYC, a unique service helping couples enjoy their big day without worrying about who's keeping an eye on the kids. With more than 10 years of professional nanny experience, Sandra leads a team that provides personalized childcare for weddings and special events across New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut. From toddler meltdowns and family drama to unexpected wedding-day surprises, Sandra has truly seen it all. In this episode, she shares how she built her business, the importance of setting boundaries, and some of the wildest stories she's encountered while helping couples create a stress-free experience for both parents and their youngest guests. Follow Sandra Weir: Website Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  7. Jul 2

    Private Ceremonies, Financial Fights, and an Uninvited Mom

    One-year podcast anniversary, wedding hot takes, and a family feud that turns an engagement into all-out drama. This week, I dive into a listener story about toxic relatives, broken trust, and the difficult decision to protect your peace, even if it means leaving family off the guest list. Apparently, drama never stops! This week, we are celebrating a major milestone: the one-year anniversary of Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story. There are also exciting updates on book two, Drama Ever After. Before I get into the wedding story, I delve into wedding hot takes and a wedding dilemma involving a vow renewal with one big question: if your family made your wedding miserable ten years ago, do they deserve an invitation this time around? Then we're moving into the spotlight, where a sweet engagement turns into family conflict and financial tension that completely broke a mother-daughter relationship. Will this bride make it to the altar with her peace intact? From cutting off toxic behavior to considering wedding security, this story is a reminder that protecting your peace sometimes comes with hard decisions. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments One Year of Here Comes the Drama - Celebrating the first anniversary of a book and more exciting updates on book two, Drama Ever After. The Vow Renewal Dilemma - A listener wonders whether family members who made their wedding miserable ten years ago deserve an invitation to their upcoming vow renewal.  The Mom Who Showed Up Anyway - After saying she wouldn't attend a venue tour, the bride's mother unexpectedly arrives and leaves everyone confused.  Birthday Drama Over Food Allergies - A family disagreement escalates when the bride's mother blames her fiancé's allergies for ruining her birthday plans.  When Money Becomes the Real Issue - Financial stress and lingering resentment threaten to overshadow the wedding planning process.  The Importance of Wedding Boundaries - Why protecting your peace sometimes means limiting access to the people causing the most drama. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "It's not about what people said, it's about how they made you feel." "Think about your budget ahead of time." "I love Pinterest, but you gotta use it in the right way." "Think about what's most important to you and put that top of your bucket, and don't compare yourself." “Stay on the same page. Cut out the toxic behavior, and then get on the same page when it comes to everything you wanna do moving forward.” *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

  8. Jun 25

    Family Expectations, Types of MILs, and the Relationship Advice Couples Need with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

    This week, I’m joined by psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, and honestly… this conversation felt like therapy for every person who’s ever dealt with difficult in-laws, wedding drama, or the classic “that’s just how my family is” excuse. She’s threatening not to come to the wedding… because of the guest list?” Yeah. We’re going there today. This week, I’m joined by psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, and honestly… this conversation felt like therapy for every person who’s ever dealt with difficult in-laws, wedding drama, or the classic “that’s just how my family is” excuse. We get into the REAL reason weddings bring out so much tension, why mother-in-law relationships can feel so complicated, and how couples can stop getting stuck in the middle of everyone else’s expectations. We also react to listener stories involving crying over wedding invitations, passive-aggressive comments, controlling family dynamics, and boundary-crossing behavior that had me internally screaming. If you’re engaged, married, dealing with family pressure, or just love hearing about messy relationship dynamics… this episode is for you. My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Why Weddings Trigger Family Drama - Dr. Tracy explains how weddings become emotional pressure cookers because families, traditions, expectations, and control issues all collide at once. “That’s Just My Mom” Is NOT Helpful - Christa and Dr. Tracy unpack why dismissing your partner’s feelings damages trust and what supportive responses actually sound like. The Six Types of Mothers-in-Law - Dr. Tracy shares how identifying behavior patterns can help couples stop personalizing conflict and respond more effectively. Guest List Guilt & Wedding Control - A listener story sparks a conversation about crying over wedding invitations, emotional manipulation, and standing firm in your choices. Boundaries Aren’t About Controlling People - One of the biggest takeaways of the episode: boundaries are about what YOU will do when someone crosses the line. The Internet’s “Cut Them Off” Culture - Christa and Dr. Tracy discuss why social media pushes black-and-white thinking and why real relationships are much more nuanced. Love Is Hard… And That’s Normal - The episode challenges the fairytale idea that healthy relationships should always feel easy and effortless. Why Couples Need To Be On The Same Team - From in-law tension to parenting differences, the conversation keeps coming back to one thing: connection between partners matters most. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “People are gonna people. You can’t control every little thing they do.” - Christa Innis “I feel like weddings bring out so much more than just two people getting married.” - Christa Innis “It’s almost set up like a competition between the partner and the family.” - Christa Innis “So many people focus on the wedding and forget about the marriage.” - Christa Innis “The internet is SO quick to tell people to cut everyone off.” - Christa Innis “I think people just want to feel like they’re not alone in these situations.” - Christa Innis “It’s about being confident in who you are and letting the pieces fall where they may.” - Christa Innis  ”Relationship awareness really is about who am I and who am I communicating with.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “It’s not conflict that tears relationships apart. It’s never learning how to repair.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “Boundaries are not about controlling other people. They’re about deciding what YOU will do.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “You and your partner need to be on the same team.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “Difference does not mean someone did it wrong.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “Love is hard. Healthy relationships take work.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “You don’t get to control what family does, only how you respond together.” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish “How much are you willing to shrink yourself to become the version of you someone else wants?” - Dr. Tracy Dalgleish *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation. About Dr. TracyDr. Tracy Dalgleish is a psychologist, couples therapist, author, speaker, and podcast host helping people feel less lonely in their relationships and build stronger connection. With over 18 years of clinical experience, she’s known for her honest, relatable, and evidence-based approach to marriage, communication, boundaries, and family dynamics. She’s the author of I Didn’t Sign Up For This and You, Your Husband, and His Mother, and has been featured in outlets including The New York Times, NBC News, and Parade. Through her books, podcast, online community, and therapy work, Dr. Tracy helps couples navigate the messy, real-life challenges of love, conflict, parenting, and partnership with compassion and practical tools that actually work. Follow Dr. Tracy Dalgleish Website Instagram Facebook Podcast Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it. Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

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Get ready for the wildest ride down the aisle and beyond! Here Comes the Drama dives into the chaos, hilarity, and heartwarming moments of weddings and events. Hosted by Christa Innis, this podcast brings to life the jaw-dropping real-life wedding horror stories sent in by her over one million social media fans.   Each episode features live reactions, advice on setting boundaries, and discussions about all things drama in the world of weddings, parties, and beyond. From outrageous mother-in-law tales to bridesmaid betrayals that could rival reality TV drama and more, no story is too big—or small.   Whether you're a bride-to-be, party planner, or just love some juicy gossip, this show is your ultimate escape into the unexpected drama of some of life’s most celebrated moments. Listen, laugh, and maybe learn how to protect your peace along the way!   New episodes weekly. Follow Party Planning by Christa on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook for more drama, behind-the-scenes moments, and more!

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