Out Loud & Laughing

Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
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Presented by Out.com / Out Magazine Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious, heartfelt, and unapologetic podcast hosted by queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz. Bringing their distinct comedic chemistry and shared family history to the mic, Bryan and Jon offer a fresh, unfiltered look at life, love, relationships, and everything in between. Through a sharp comedic lens, they dive headfirst into today's hot topics, essential life lessons, and the messy, beautiful highs and lows of growing up queer. Hosted by two proud queer cousins, our show uses laughter as a compass to navigate navigating identity, culture, and the unique challenges of the LGBTQ+ experience. Together with equalpride—the ultimate home for LGBTQ+ media—we are on a mission to build a community where identity and humor intersect. We’re here to inspire bold self-expression, deep connection, and plenty of side-splitting laughs. With laughter as their guide, Bryan and Jon create a welcoming space that fosters connection, self-expression, and pure, unapologetic joy. Whether you are tuning in for the wild stories, the sharp humor, the deep relatability, or a mix of all three, this is the show that celebrates living life as your truest, most authentic self—out loud and laughing.

  1. 4h ago

    Ginger Minj | The Minj, The Myth, The Legend: Spells, Sisters & Showbiz

    Ginger Minj has upcoming appearances to put on your calendar: she’ll perform a Winifred Sanderson cabaret at Anthem in Orlando, and celebrate her Broadway EP, The Broads Way, at New York City’s 54 Below on November 10. Ginger says the 54 Below show will feature live singing, live music, and special guests, with tickets already going fast. Join Jon and Bryan for a conversation with the drag superstar that’s as heartfelt as it is hilarious. Ginger looks back on growing up in Leesburg, Florida, and finding a home onstage from the time she was a baby. She talks about her lifelong connection to musical theater, the creative path behind The Broads Way, and why she’s embracing her inner theater kid more fully than ever. Ginger also shares what makes her friendship with Jujubee so meaningful: their willingness to be honest with each other, hold each other accountable, and show up when it matters. With warmth and candor, she reflects on sobriety, self-discovery, and learning to appreciate all the different parts of herself.From Broadway standards and cabaret plans to the meaning behind her “Glamour Toad” spirit, Ginger brings plenty of wit, wisdom, and heart. It’s an episode about finding your place, owning your story, and making room for others to belong, too. Website: gingerminj.com 54 Below Tickets: 54below.org/artists/ginger-minj Hokus Pokus Live: www.hokuspokuslive.com/ Big Gay Cabaret: eventbrite.com/e/the-big-gay-halloween-cabaret-starring-ginger-minj-tickets-2000082113442 Ginger Minj's new EP, The Broad's Way, arriving November 6. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Ginger Minj and her career 02:00 Ginger Minj’s childhood in Leesburg, Florida 03:54 Growing up on stage and early influences 07:01 Her journey through sobriety and mental health 10:01 Creating her Broadway EP and musical inspirations 12:00 The importance of authenticity and self-love 14:57 Friendship with Juju B and the drag community 18:00 Reflections on drag persona and self-acceptance 21:00 Her experiences on RuPaul's Drag Race and All Stars 10 24:01 Upcoming projects and performances 28:10 This or That: The Glamour Toad Edition 34:00 Closing remarks and upcoming events —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Ginger Minj | The Minj, The Myth, The Legend: Spells, Sisters & Showbiz

  2. 2d ago ·  Bonus

    The Drillmaster Live in LA on OCT 13 2026 with Caleb Zeringue, Jenny Zigrino & Jeffrey Jay

    The Drill Master: One Night in Los AngelesComedians and co-writers Caleb Zarang, Jenny Zigrino, and Jeffrey Jay join Out Loud and Laughing to talk about The Drillmaster—their funny, irreverent take on the story of Baron Friedrich von Steuben, the queer Prussian military leader who helped shape the American army. The conversation covers the show’s mix of historical detail and theatrical chaos, how the trio’s different creative strengths come together, and why they want queer people and other overlooked figures included in the story of America. Along the way, the guests share how the project began, what they had to cut from the script, and why this is a timely moment to bring the history to the stage. Event details: The Drillmaster returns to Los Angeles for one night on Tuesday, October 13 at 7:30 p.m. at The Elysian. Book tickets @ https://www.thedrillmaster.gay/ Website: https://www.thedrillmaster.gay/ Caleb Zeringue: https://www.instagram.com/calebczeringue/ Jenny Zigrino: https://www.instagram.com/jennyzigrino/ Jeffrey Jay: https://www.instagram.com/heyjeffreyjay/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to The Drill Master and its creators 02:02 The origin story of Caleb, Jenny, and Jeffrey 04:09 The importance of LGBTQ history in America 07:54 Balancing historical accuracy with comedy 12:07 Creative process and collaboration 16:00 Why now is the right time for this story 20:00 Audience reactions and future plans 24:00 The role of humor in activism 28:01 Final thoughts and upcoming performances —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    The Drillmaster Live in LA on OCT 13 2026 with Caleb Zeringue, Jenny Zigrino & Jeffrey Jay

  3. 5d ago

    Paul Wagner | Inside the World of Aesthetic “Perfection”, OnlyFans Reality & Keeping It Real

    Paul Wagner turns the glossy fantasy of adult entertainment into a candid look at what it takes to build a brand, stay grounded, and make it all work. From a sheltered religious upbringing to international modeling campaigns, he shares how he went from feeling overlooked to taking control of his image, career, and income.Jon and Bryan get into the reality behind the scenes: grueling 11-hour shoot days, how studio porn has changed, why OnlyFans gives Paul more freedom, and what it means to build a business when your body is also your brand. Paul opens up about the pressure of being sexualized, the mental toll of internet criticism, and why separating his personal life from work helps protect his peace.In this episode, Paul talks about: How attention became an opportunityHow his upbringing shaped his confidence and self-imageThe differences between studio work and creating on OnlyFansWhy he now values connection over random hookupsFitness, body image, and staying groundedMisconceptions about sex work and content creationPlus, Paul takes on a rapid-fire round covering everything from midnight workouts and scruff to weighted blankets and shower-only energy. It’s candid, funny, and unexpectedly thoughtful.If you’ve wondered what life looks like behind the curated posts and physique shots, this episode offers an unfiltered look at adult content creation, creator independence, and staying human in an industry built on attention.Paul Wagner is a high fashion and fitness model, adult content creator, and digital entrepreneur known for his personal brand across OnlyFans, Instagram, and X. His film work includes Naked Sword’s Eat the Rich and the non-porn short Holt Two. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and guest background 01:58 Paul's fitness routine and motivation 03:47 Growing up religious and reserved 06:08 Realization of career potential in modeling and adult industry 08:00 Behind the scenes of high-pressure shoots 11:04 Impact of industry work on personal sexuality and relationships 14:04 Transition from studio work to independent platforms 18:01 Misconceptions about the adult industry 21:02 Managing boundaries and personal life 22:56 The importance of mental health and self-care 25:56 Preferences in physical appearance and self-image 29:00 Hobbies, interests, and personal passions 30:06 Final thoughts and social media links Paul Wagner, Episode 173, Magic podcast, podcast interview, adult content creator, OnlyFans creator, creator economy, sex work, adult entertainment, fitness model, high fashion model, personal branding, creator independence, mental health, body image, LGBTQ podcast, gay podcast —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Paul Wagner | Inside the World of Aesthetic “Perfection”, OnlyFans Reality & Keeping It Real

  4. Sep 29

    Chris Salvatore & Brandon Shypkowski | Apocalyptic Drama & Finding Yourself in Your 40s: Inside the New

    A queer apocalypse movie gets personal fast when Chris Salvatore and Brandon Shipkowski reveal how they brought the dark, toxic, end-of-the-world thriller Scorch Marks to life. If you love messy relationships, intense character work, and horror with real emotional stakes, this conversation is for you.The chemistry between these two was not an accident. Brandon shares how the pair rehearsed for two months, built trust scene by scene, and found the emotional truth inside a story where one character is manipulative, broken, and still weirdly magnetic. Chris opens up about stepping far outside his rom-com comfort zone, playing a villainous role, and why having space to focus only on acting made this project so different from the work that built his career.In this episode. They also get candid about the emotional residue of playing damaged people, the challenge of switching off after intense scenes, and why some performances call for a decompression period after filming. Then the conversation widens: what hope looks like right now, why community matters, and why queer stories on the fringe deserve center stage.Brandon Shipkowski is an actor and filmmaker who brings depth and precision to his breakout turn in Scorch Marks. Chris Salvatore is an actor, author, and singer known for romantic leads, now showing a completely different side in a darker, more psychologically complex role.Essential listening for fans of queer cinema, behind-the-scenes acting process, and conversations that move from playful to deeply personal. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Brandon and Chris and their new film, Scorch Marks 01:52 Creative roots and journey into acting and filmmaking 04:11 Rehearsal process and building on-screen chemistry 06:54 Exploring dark roles and character empathy 11:06 Transforming physically and emotionally for intense roles 14:54 The emotional toll of portraying dark characters 19:54 Finding hope and community in challenging times 23:53 Fun and light-hearted rapid-fire questions 27:54 Closing thoughts and where to follow Brandon and Chris acting, filmmaking, LGBTQ+ stories, character development, mental health, community, hope, horror film, queer cinema, creative process, Chris Salvatore, Brandon Shipkowski, Scorch Marks, queer cinema, queer film, LGBTQ+ film, horror movie, apocalypse movie, independent film, indie filmmaking, acting, acting process, character development, actor interview, film interview, behind the scenes, toxic relationships, psychological thriller, queer stories, queer representation, filmmaking, movie podcast, podcast interview —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Chris Salvatore & Brandon Shypkowski | Apocalyptic Drama & Finding Yourself in Your 40s: Inside the New

  5. Sep 24

    Maria Sjödin | Fighting for Global Queer Liberation, Finding Joy on the Front Lines, & Swedish Candy

    Queer rights are under attack in too many places, but Maria Sjödin shows why the future is still being built right now. The Executive Director of Outright International shares how global change actually happens, why you can’t “parachute rights” into another country, and what it takes to turn visibility, joy, and local activism into lasting impact. Bryan and Jon sit down with Maria for a conversation that moves from her unexpected path from Stockholm to New York to the front lines of LGBTIQ human rights at the United Nations. She opens up about becoming an “accidental leader" and the power of platforming activists to speak for themselves. Maria also shares the mindset she wants every queer person to hear: you are not alone, queer people exist everywhere, and connection is more possible now than ever before. If you care about global LGBTQIA+ rights, grassroots activism, or the power of community to outlast backlash, this episode is essential listening.Follow Outright International at OutrightInternational.org and join the movement for the future we claim. Learn more and donate to Outright International here. #LGBTQIA #QueerRights #HumanRights #LGBTQActivism #QueerAdvocacy #OutrightInternational #LGBTQPodcast #QueerResilience #OutLoudAndLaughing YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Maria Shudin and Outright International 01:13 Maria's journey from Sweden to New York 02:07 A lazy Sunday morning with coffee and music 03:49 The light bulb moment for Maria's activism 06:08 The global scope of Outright's mission 08:30 Celebrating resilience and joy in activism 10:30 Memorable moments at the United Nations 13:40 Getting involved locally in LGBTQ+ activism 15:12 Upcoming Out Summit and future strategies 17:47 The international community at Out Summit 19:44 Reassurance for young queer people worldwide 21:43 Rapid fire: Maria's preferences and personality 23:48 Favorite candy and personal passions 25:48 Legacy: advocacy or heart? 26:34 Closing remarks and how to support Outright Maria Sjödin, Outright International, LGBTQ rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, queer rights, human rights, LGBTQ activism, global LGBTQ community, queer advocacy, LGBTQ leadership, United Nations LGBTQ rights, international activism, queer resilience, LGBTQ visibility, grassroots activism, Out Summit, LGBTQ nonprofit, LGBTQ podcast, Out Loud and Laughing —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Maria Sjödin | Fighting for Global Queer Liberation, Finding Joy on the Front Lines, & Swedish Candy

  6. Sep 22

    Ricky Cornish | From Red Carpets to Real Life – (And the Ultimate Elevator Kiki with Ariana Grande, Ricky Martin, and RuPaul)

    Ricky Cornish knows how to get celebrities to drop the PR script—and in this conversation, he flips the microphone and reveals the real story behind his own rise, his red carpet secrets, and the queer joy that keeps him going. From Harry Styles saying his name at the Grammys to interviewing Meryl Streep and Anne Hathaway, Ricky opens up about the years of hustle, the journalism grind, and the exact approach that gets stars to relax fast. If you love pop culture, celebrity interviews, or the behind-the-scenes art of making authentic connections in high-pressure moments, this one is for you. Ricky Cornish is a pop culture journalist and red carpet interviewer for Out Magazine and The Advocate, known for viral celebrity moments and effortless on-camera charisma. He shares how a journalism program, theater-kid energy, and a deeply personal coming-out journey shaped the voice audiences now recognize online. In this episode, Ricky shares: Why his secret weapon on the red carpet is making people feel safe, seen, and genuinely understoodHow he turns a quick celebrity soundbite into a real conversation instead of a canned answerWhat actually happened when Harry Styles called him by name at the GrammysWhy his interview with Meryl Streep and Anne Hathaway felt like “magic”The hard work behind the viral clips—years of school, internships, practice, and relationship-buildingHow growing up in a religious environment shaped his coming-out journeyWhy queer joy, authenticity, and chosen family matter more than everFollow Ricky Cornish on TikTok, Instagram, and X: @RickyCornish YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ricky Cornish and his career 01:23 Ricky’s background and journey into celebrity journalism 03:40 Growing up religious and embracing his identity 05:40 How Ricky got into journalism and media 07:25 Secrets to successful celebrity interviews 09:22 Memorable moments with Harry Styles and others 11:01 The hard work behind the glamour 12:07 Making genuine connections on the red carpet 13:02 Memorable interviews with legends like Meryl Streep 14:06 Ricky’s personal life and dating outlook 15:50 His approach to authenticity and connection 18:23 Hypothetical: Celebrity dream team in an elevator 20:55 Quick fire: Ricky’s red carpet preferences 25:42 Favorite beauty routines and fashion choices 28:00 Sports and leisure: Ricky’s fun side 29:05 The importance of passion and heart in his work 30:16 Final thoughts: Making others feel seen and loved Ricky Cornish, queer podcast, LGBTQ podcast, LGBTQ interviews, queer joy, chosen family, pop culture journalist, celebrity interviewer, red carpet interviews, celebrity interviews, Harry Styles, Grammys, Meryl Streep, Anne Hathaway, Out Magazine —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Ricky Cornish | From Red Carpets to Real Life – (And the Ultimate Elevator Kiki with Ariana Grande, Ricky Martin, and RuPaul)

  7. Sep 15

    Daniel Reynolds: Behind the Cover: Inside LGBTQ+ Media with the Editor-in-Chief of Out & The Advocate

    Queer visibility does not happen by accident, and Daniel Reynolds has spent more than a decade making sure it gets seen, remembered, and celebrated. From fighting for LGBTQ students in New Jersey to shaping the front pages at Out and The Advocate, he reveals how media, activism, and culture collide when the stakes are deeply personal. Bryan and Jon sit down with Daniel for a conversation that moves from his early days coming out in high school and organizing campus queer life to the newsroom lessons that turned him into a true custodian of culture. He shares how he learned the power of mobilization, why print still matters in an algorithm-driven world, and what it means to report on marriage equality, Pulse, presidential elections, and the stories other outlets still miss.You’ll hear Daniel break down: Why a 3,000-word profile can reveal more truth than breaking newsHow student activism taught him to build coalitions, raise money, and use media strategicallyThe difference between queer journalism in the print era and the instant-news, social-first landscapeWhy relationship stories, like his own 15-year partnership, often come down to communicationWhat makes someone feel less alone and why that matters more than changing mindsDaniel also opens up about choosing purpose over an easier path, walking away from Disney work to join The Advocate, and why his work is rooted in one simple goal: helping LGBTQ people see themselves reflected with honesty and nuance. Along the way, he and the hosts get delightfully candid about queer culture, musical theater, print magazines, and the traditions that make community feel like home.This one is essential listening if you care about LGBTQ media, queer history, journalism with heart, or the stories behind the stories. Daniel’s perspective is equal parts thoughtful, funny, and urgent—and it leaves you with a powerful reminder that storytelling can be a lifeline Daniel Reynolds, Out magazine, Out.com, The Advocate, LGBTQ activism, queer activism, Daniel Reynolds interview, LGBTQ news, queer storytelling YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Daniel Reynolds' background 01:59 Daniel's early activism and college leadership 04:03 The role of media in LGBTQ visibility 08:06 Storytelling as a tool for community building 12:09 Changes in the media landscape over the past decade 16:00 Challenges of reporting in a polarized environment 19:58 Personal stories of love and identity 22:06 Advice for young LGBTQ individuals 26:00 Fun rapid-fire questions: preferences and insights 34:01 Impact of Daniel's work on the community 35:57 Closing remarks and future milestones —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Daniel Reynolds: Behind the Cover: Inside LGBTQ+ Media with the Editor-in-Chief of Out & The Advocate

  8. Sep 10

    Alexander-Ali Dalipi - The Balance Between Owning Your Own HR-Tech Business & Spilling All the NSFW (After-Hours) Tea

    In this episode, Alexander Ali Dalipi shares his journey from Wall Street to founding HR1 Systems, navigating the challenges of being a queer leader in corporate America, and balancing his personal identity with professional success. Tune in for insights on leadership, authenticity, and building a thriving business. Follow on Instagram: instagram.com/nycculater/ Visit HR1 Systems: https://hr1systems.com/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Alexander Ali Dalipi and his journey 02:02 Early career on Wall Street and initial challenges 04:04 Founding HR1 Systems and the entrepreneurial leap 08:57 Navigating identity and workplace culture as a queer leader 13:58 Lessons learned from building a diverse and inclusive company 20:00 Balancing personal life, travel, and leadership 22:59 Advice for LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs and aspiring leaders 26:59 The importance of authenticity and having a massive heart 29:57 Final thoughts and connecting with Alexander online queer leadership, entrepreneurship, HR technology, authentic leadership, corporate culture, LGBTQ+ in business, startup journey, personal branding, diversity and inclusion, business growth YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Alexander-Ali Dalipi - The Balance Between Owning Your Own HR-Tech Business & Spilling All the NSFW (After-Hours) Tea
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Ratings & Reviews

4.9
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About

Presented by Out.com / Out Magazine Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious, heartfelt, and unapologetic podcast hosted by queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz. Bringing their distinct comedic chemistry and shared family history to the mic, Bryan and Jon offer a fresh, unfiltered look at life, love, relationships, and everything in between. Through a sharp comedic lens, they dive headfirst into today's hot topics, essential life lessons, and the messy, beautiful highs and lows of growing up queer. Hosted by two proud queer cousins, our show uses laughter as a compass to navigate navigating identity, culture, and the unique challenges of the LGBTQ+ experience. Together with equalpride—the ultimate home for LGBTQ+ media—we are on a mission to build a community where identity and humor intersect. We’re here to inspire bold self-expression, deep connection, and plenty of side-splitting laughs. With laughter as their guide, Bryan and Jon create a welcoming space that fosters connection, self-expression, and pure, unapologetic joy. Whether you are tuning in for the wild stories, the sharp humor, the deep relatability, or a mix of all three, this is the show that celebrates living life as your truest, most authentic self—out loud and laughing.

Information

  • Creator
    Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    178
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Out Loud & Laughing

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