Facets of Connection

Sarah Melissa Oswald

This exclusive podcast series delves into the heart of human connection, exploring how we learn, love, and collaborate in a dynamic society. Through intimate discussions with leaders and visionaries, we uncover the power of respectful relationships and their essential role in the human experience. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Views shared by Sarah Melissa Oswald and guests reflect their experience and do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice. Use discretion and consult a qualified expert as needed.

  1. 10/03/2025

    Ep.17: When Love Becomes Culture: Translating RLT into Community Peace

    In this powerful episode, host Sarah Melissa Oswald sits down with therapist and peace facilitator Chiddie Anyasodo to explore her remarkable journey from oil and gas engineer to relational healer. Drawing on her background in engineering systems and her training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), Chiddie has pioneered a groundbreaking approach to conflict resolution, transforming age-old community tensions in Nigeria through the creation of the “Five Masquerades” metaphor. Chiddie shares how she helped a village locked in a 19-year conflict find common ground, peace, and even laughter by translating complex relational dynamics into cultural stories that resonated deeply with her community. From navigating patriarchal structures to disarming resistance and shame, Chiddie demonstrates how relational skills can heal not just couples, but entire communities. This conversation is both inspiring and practical, a glimpse into how systemic change begins with relational courage, creativity, and compassion. Chiddie Anyasodo is a UK based psychotherapist, conflict-resolution specialist, and founder of Chotayah, working at the point where psychoanalytic depth meets community peacebuilding.  She spent her early career in the high-stakes world of oil and gas with Schlumberger and Baker Hughes, leading real-time diagnostics and strategy across Africa, Europe, and the Middle East. This experience honed her eye for the hidden relational dynamics that drive systemic failure. Identifying a critical gap in research on African relationship dynamics, she began a Doctorate in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the University of Exeter. Alongside a thriving private practice, she serves in some of the UK’s most demanding clinical environments: within the NHS as a psychotherapist specialising in personality disorder and complex trauma, and as a therapist for a major UK local authority.  She is the creator of the “Five Masquerades,” a groundbreaking, culturally resonant translation of Relational Life Therapy’s losing strategies that changes behaviour without shame; in 2025 she helped catalyse a breakthrough de-escalation in a decades-long community conflict by pairing parity with accountability under a single, even code. Chiddie is the author of the forthcoming book The Festival of the Five Masquerades, anchors a growing curriculum, and is collaborating with the Relational Life Foundation to shape this work into trainable tools for couples, leaders, and communities worldwide.Show Notes: Scholarship application for RLT Website: ⁠https://chotayah.com/⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/chidiebereanya/⁠

    1h 6m
  2. 09/19/2025

    Ep. 16: Building Resilience in the Next Generation: Supporting Teens & Preventing Suicide

    In this episode of Facets of Connection, host Sarah Melissa Oswald sits down with Iuri Melo to explore the urgent youth mental health crisis and the power of proactive solutions. Iuri is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience and the proud father of five. He’s the co-founder of SchoolPulse, a nationwide student support service that delivers positivity, optimism, and growth mindset tools to students, parents, and faculty via text and email. After several teen suicides in his community, Iuri co-created SchoolPulse in 2017 to proactively support student well-being. He’s also the author of Mind Over Grey Matter and the teen best-seller Know Thy Selfie, and the developer of “Adventure Based Therapy.” With over 300 schools in 25+ states, Iuri’s mission to “bless the human family” is inspiring students every day through kindness, psychology, and powerful weekly videos.Together, Sarah and Iuri dive into: Why positive relationships are the #1 protective factor for student well-being.How proactive, daily check-ins can prevent crises before they escalate.The role of positive psychology and growth mindset in helping teens thrive.How schools, parents, and communities can build stronger systems of support.​This heartfelt conversation is filled with optimism, practical strategies, and a shared commitment to ending the epidemic of loneliness by fostering connection at home, in schools, and across communities.​ Learn More About School Pulse: 2 Minute VideoAll School Pulse VideosSchool Pulse: Most Comprehensive Mental Health Resource Page in the Country (for every school, parent, and student)Know Thy Selfie BookMind Over Grey Matter BookEmail Iuri at Iuri@schoolpulse.org Connection CompassCommunity Conversation SeriesRLT Relationship Skills BootcampsSliding Scale RLT Relationship Revival Course

    1 hr

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This exclusive podcast series delves into the heart of human connection, exploring how we learn, love, and collaborate in a dynamic society. Through intimate discussions with leaders and visionaries, we uncover the power of respectful relationships and their essential role in the human experience. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Views shared by Sarah Melissa Oswald and guests reflect their experience and do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice. Use discretion and consult a qualified expert as needed.

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