The Victim to Warrior Podcast

The 8 Side
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Explore the journey of healing and empowerment with our podcast on narcissistic abuse and recovery. Each episode delves into the dynamics of narcissistic relationships, the psychological impact of abuse, and practical strategies for rebuilding self-esteem and reclaiming your life. Featuring expert insights, personal stories, and supportive advice, this podcast is a safe space for anyone seeking understanding, validation, and tools to thrive after trauma. Whether you’re still in it, just beginning your recovery or well on your way, this podcast offers guidance, hope, and community.

  1. 1d ago

    Lost Yourself After Abuse_ Here's How to Find You Again

    Lost Yourself After Abuse? Here’s How to Find You Again You survived the abuse—but somewhere along the way, you may have lost yourself too. If you’ve been asking, “Who am I now?”, this episode of Warrior Talk is about finding your way back. John and Melissa, both survivors of abuse, explore why people can lose their identity, confidence, self-trust, and sense of purpose during abusive relationships—and what it actually takes to begin rebuilding. Melissa also shares from her own healing journey and explains why recovery isn’t necessarily about becoming the person you were before the abuse. It’s about deciding who you want to become next. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why abuse can cause you to lose your sense of identity How to rebuild self-trust and confidence Practical ways to reconnect with your own voice, wants, and needs Why journaling can help with healing and self-discovery How to begin rebuilding your mind, body, relationships, confidence, and life Why surviving doesn’t have to be the finish line 🌟 FREE 7-DAY WARRIOR WELLNESS RESET — LAUNCHING SEPTEMBER 1 If you’re ready to start rebuilding but aren’t sure where to begin, the free 7-Day Warrior Wellness Reset will help you understand where you are today and identify the areas of your life that need the most support. 📖 Rewired to Rise Melissa’s book explores how to reshape your beliefs, break old patterns, rebuild genuine self-confidence, and begin creating the life you want after abuse. 👉 https://amzn.to/3UnoLuO 📱 The Warrior App Ongoing recovery resources and a private community of people who understand what you’re going through. 👉 https://victimtowarrior.mn.co/plans/1983667 Use code 1STMONTHFREE If you’ve survived abuse and you’re ready to reclaim your identity, rebuild your confidence, and create your next chapter, this episode is for you. Victim to Warrior: https://victimtowarriormethod.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Aug 10

    Frozen After Narcissistic Abuse? Do This to Start Moving Again

    Frozen After Narcissistic Abuse? Do This to Start Moving Again You know you need to move forward. You want to feel like yourself again. But somehow, you still feel stuck. In this episode, Melissa breaks down why survivors of narcissistic abuse can feel emotionally and physically frozen even after the relationship ends — and the first step you can take to begin moving forward again. You’ll learn why feeling stuck isn’t simply about motivation, how prolonged stress can keep you in survival mode, and what you can begin doing today to rebuild your confidence, energy, and sense of control. If you’ve been asking yourself, “Why can’t I just move on?” this episode is for you. You are not meant to stay in survival mode. There is life after abuse — and you can become stronger than ever. Learn more about Victim to Warrior and our recovery resources at: www.victimtowarriormethod.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Aug 3

    Survived Abuse But Still Feel Like a Stranger? Here’s Why

    Survived Abuse But Still Feel Like a Stranger? Here’s Why Survived narcissistic abuse but still feel exhausted, numb, foggy, or like a stranger in your own body? You are not broken. You may still be stuck in survival mode. In this episode of the Victim to Warrior Show, John and Melissa break down why survivors of narcissistic and domestic abuse often feel disconnected, overwhelmed, and exhausted long after leaving the relationship — and how to begin moving from just surviving to truly rebuilding. You’ll learn about the 4 Pillars of Recovery: • Mental• Emotional• Physical• Financial / Spiritual These pillars create a practical foundation for healing after abuse, especially when you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin. In this episode, John and Melissa discuss: • Why your body can stay in fight-or-flight mode after narcissistic abuse• The recovery symptoms survivors often do not talk about enough• How journaling and meditation can help rebuild mental clarity• Simple steps to recover physically, emotionally, and financially• How to reconnect with your purpose, identity, and sense of self after abuse Melissa also shares part of her personal story of surviving narcissistic abuse, losing herself, and rebuilding her life piece by piece. If you are navigating life after narcissistic abuse, healing from trauma, or trying to rebuild your confidence and identity after a toxic relationship, this episode is for you. Resources: Try the Warrior App free for your first month:https://victimtowarriormethod.com/the-warrior-app/ Use code 1STMONTHFREE at checkout. Melissa’s Daily Wellness Journal:https://amzn.to/45y9dGY Victim to Warrior: The Ultimate Recovery Guide, 2nd Edition:https://amzn.to/4g3HbJo Financial Empowerment Series:https://bio.victimtowarriormethod.com/Financial-Empowerment-Series Boho Beautiful morning meditation:https://www.youtube.com/@BohoBeautifulMeditation Visit Victim to Warrior:https://victimtowarriormethod.com/ Follow Victim to Warrior: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/v2w_victimtowarrior/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/v2wvictimtowarrior TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@v2wvictimtowarrior See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. Jul 28

    Was It Menopause… or Narcissistic Abuse? | Melissa Rymer on Menopause Mastery

    Was It Menopause… or Narcissistic Abuse? | Melissa Rymer on Menopause Mastery In this powerful guest appearance on Menopause Mastery, Melissa Rymer — Co-Founder of Victim to Warrior — shares how chronic stress from an abusive marriage affected her health, identity, and healing journey. Melissa opens up about going through early menopause at 46 and the hidden connection between long-term emotional abuse, gaslighting, coercive control, financial abuse, anxiety, brain fog, and exhaustion.Melissa Rymer originally appeared as a guest on Menopause Mastery for this conversation. We are grateful for permission to share the interview with the Victim to Warrior audience.  Resources: 🧠 Take our free quiz: “Are They a Narcissist?” → https://amzn.to/4pzeZRP 📖 Grab the book "Blood Does Not Mean Bond" Free on Kindle: https://amzn.to/4pzeZRP 🌐 Visit the Victim to Warrior Method website: https://victimtowarriormethod.com/ 📱 Join the Warrior App for daily support and a private community: https://victimtowarrior.mn.co/plans/1983667 Many women are told their symptoms are “just hormones” or “just stress,” but sometimes there is something deeper happening behind closed doors. In this conversation, Melissa discusses what she calls invisible abuse — the manipulation, isolation, control, and confusion that can leave survivors questioning themselves for years. She also shares: 📌 Red flags that often go unnoticed 📌 Why narcissists can appear charming to everyone else 📌 How financial control can start subtly and escalate 📌 The “words vs. actions” test for spotting manipulation 📌 Why forgiveness does not mean excusing abuse 📌 How she rebuilt her life and found healthy love again 📌 The Victim to Warrior Method for moving from surviving to thriving If you’ve ever wondered whether your anxiety, brain fog, emotional exhaustion, or sense of overwhelm is “just menopause” — or something more — this conversation is for you. This episode originally appeared on Menopause Mastery. 🔗 Watch the full original episode on Menopause Mastery: https://youtu.be/spUH031hVqA?si=oT07ECe9r8cPCq0j Video Timeline: 1:10 — Melissa names the abuse: gaslighting, manipulation, financial control 6:24 — Becoming a “research junkie” to understand narcissism 9:23 — Why it’s so hard to recognize you’re being victimized 13:34 — Financial abuse in action: the shrinking budget 19:11 — Future faking — the fake future abusers promise 23:50 — A narcissist has many faces: the chameleon exposed 28:06 — The letter Melissa wrote and burned to reclaim her identity 33:41 — Recognizing “I no longer want to be in this relationship” 38:08 — Accepting crumbs of love and trauma bonding explained 40:51 — Why reading isn’t enough — you have to take action steps See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  5. Jul 20

    I Had a Restraining Order and Still Went Back I Trauma Bond

    Why Couldn’t I Leave? The Truth About Trauma Bonds In this episode of the Victim to Warrior Show, John and Melissa talk about trauma bonding — why leaving a narcissistic relationship can feel so difficult, even when you know the relationship is hurting you. Melissa shares how powerful her trauma bond became, including the painful reality of going back even after a restraining order was in place. John also shares his experience of returning multiple times after devastating fights and the confusion that came with not understanding why he kept getting pulled back in. Trauma bonding is not weakness. It is not stupidity. And it does not mean you are crazy. It is a conditioned response to a repeated cycle of love bombing, devaluation, cruelty, relief, and just enough kindness to keep hope alive. In this episode, John and Melissa discuss: • What trauma bonding actually is• Why your brain can confuse trauma bonding with love• How the cycle of idealization, devaluation, and intermittent kindness creates attachment• Why going back can feel so confusing and shame-filled• The role of no contact, distance, journaling, and support• How connection and education can help break the cycle• What helped John and Melissa finally begin healing and rebuilding their lives If you are currently in a narcissistic relationship and feel like you cannot leave, or if you have already left but keep getting pulled back, this episode will help you understand what is happening and why it is not your fault. You are not broken. You are trauma bonded. And there is a way out. Resources and support: Victim to Warrior Method website:https://victimtowarriormethod.com/ Victim to Warrior: The Ultimate Recovery Guide:https://amzn.to/4f9hqHs Join the Warrior App for daily support and a private community:https://victimtowarrior.mn.co/plans/1983667 Private Facebook Support Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/thev2w See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. Jun 13

    7 Narcissistic Abuse Red Flags You Ignored for Years

    Narcissistic abuse can hide in plain sight for years. In this conversation, Melissa Rymer breaks down the red flags many survivors miss until they finally begin to see the truth. If you’ve ever questioned your reality, walked on eggshells, or felt emotionally drained in a toxic relationship, this podcast will help you recognize the warning signs of narcissistic personality disorder and begin your healing journey. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. Jun 13

    Divorcing a Narcissist: Avoid These 7 Mistakes

    Divorcing a narcissist, narcissistic abuse divorce, and high-conflict separation can be emotionally overwhelming and legally complex. If you're planning to leave a narcissist or toxic partner, avoiding critical divorce mistakes is essential to protect your finances, children, and future. Divorcing a narcissist can be one of the most stressful and manipulative experiences you may ever face. Without the right strategy, you can easily become trapped in a cycle of emotional abuse, legal manipulation, and financial loss. In this podcast, we break down the 7 most common and costly mistakes when divorcing a narcissist and how each one can significantly impact your divorce outcome. From telling a narcissistic spouse too early about your plans, to failing to create a strong exit strategy, these errors can give them more control over the situation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  8. May 15

    My Narcissistic Sister Almost Broke Me… Here’s How I Healed

    Can you heal from a narcissistic sister? This real story of narcissistic sibling abuse proves recovery is possible. If you're dealing with a toxic family member, this journey will show you how healing from narcissistic abuse truly begins. In this powerful episode of the Victim to Warrior podcast, hosts John and Melissa sit down with Christa Harrison to discuss the painful reality of sibling narcissistic abuse. For years, Christa felt like the "Cinderella child," overlooked and manipulated by a self-centered sister who used everything—from her marital status to her career—as a weapon against her. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Explore the journey of healing and empowerment with our podcast on narcissistic abuse and recovery. Each episode delves into the dynamics of narcissistic relationships, the psychological impact of abuse, and practical strategies for rebuilding self-esteem and reclaiming your life. Featuring expert insights, personal stories, and supportive advice, this podcast is a safe space for anyone seeking understanding, validation, and tools to thrive after trauma. Whether you’re still in it, just beginning your recovery or well on your way, this podcast offers guidance, hope, and community.

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  • Creator
    The 8 Side
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
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