Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity

Rafael Gomez
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Women on Men is the podcast where women share unfiltered takes on what makes a man attractive, confident, and emotionally mature in today’s world. Through honest conversations, we flip the script on red pill narratives and challenge outdated ideas about what it means to “be a man.” From dating to emotional intelligence, we dive into gender roles, relationships, and modern masculinity.

Episodes

  1. JAN 9

    Dating App Fatigue, Emotional Immaturity, and The "Male Loneliness" Myth with Hailey Ferretti

    In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with skincare specialist and TikTok creator Hailey Ferretti for a candid discussion about dating app burnout and the disconnect between modern men and women. Hailey opens up about: • Why dating apps feel like “people shopping” and why the algorithm rarely leads to love • The "Male Loneliness Epidemic" and why women can’t be the ones to fix it • Why emotional immaturity is the ultimate "ick" (and why money can't hide it) • The critical difference between "shoulder-to-shoulder" bonding vs. "face-to-face" connection • Why the "provider" mindset is outdated in today’s economy and what women actually want From the psychology of the swipe to the importance of male friendships, this episode challenges the "Red Pill" narrative and offers a roadmap for genuine connection in a digital world. 🎧 Subscribe to Women on Men for more unfiltered conversations exploring attraction, modern masculinity, and the evolving language of love. Buy The Attraction Handbook - $9.99 https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a coaching session https://linktr.ee/WomenOnMen Follow Hayley: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ferrettimercury

    54 min
  2. The Plight of the Nice Guy: Bad Boys, Financial Stability & The "Good Man" Distinction w/ Drea Renee

    JAN 7

    The Plight of the Nice Guy: Bad Boys, Financial Stability & The "Good Man" Distinction w/ Drea Renee

    Why do women say they want a nice guy but date the bad boy? In this episode, Rafael joins forces with Drea Renee, host of Hey Babe, Can We Talk?, to explore the evolution of attraction. Drea shares her personal journey from chasing "nervous system dysregulation" in her 20s to finding a "Good Man" who demands respect. They discuss: • Why "Nice Guys" often come across as desperate rather than kind. • The impact of financial instability on relationship dynamics. • How to spot the difference between a man who is a doormat and a man with boundaries. • Why men need to stop playing it cool and start being intentional. Buy The Attraction Handbook - $9.99 https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a coaching session https://linktr.ee/WomenOnMen

    54 min

  3. 10/16/2025

    Michelle Allegra Murad on What Women Actually Find Attractive

    In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with actress, writer, and producer Michelle Allegra Murad for a raw and thoughtful conversation about what women really find attractive—=, and why so many men misunderstand it. Michelle opens up about:  • Why energy, presence, and confidence matter more than looks  • How effort and planning show emotional maturity  • Why dating apps drain connection and in-person chemistry still wins  • The difference between having money and having a plan  • What she’s learned about love, loss, and self-growth after heartbreak From emotional openness to masculine energy and trust, this episode explores what truly makes a man stand out in today’s dating world. 🎧 Subscribe to Women on Men for more unfiltered conversations exploring attraction, modern masculinity, and the evolving language of love. Hashtags: #WomenOnMen #ModernDating #Masculinity #DatingPodcast #Relationships #redpill  Buy The Attraction Handbook - $9.99 https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a coaching session https://linktr.ee/WomenOnMen Follow Michelle:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michelleamurad? TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@michelleallegramurad?

    53 min

  4. 08/29/2025

    How to Flirt Without Being Creepy: Brenna’s Guide for Men

    Brenna Lynn, a speech-language pathologist and viral TikTok creator, joins the show to share her no-nonsense guide for men on dating, flirting, and building real attraction. She explains: What men get wrong about approaching womenThe single most important thing to communicate in the first 5 secondsHow to avoid creeping women out (while still being flirty)Why women aren’t as focused on looks as men thinkThe biological and social factors shaping how women approach datingThis episode is packed with insights men can apply immediately to connect with women more confidently and respectfully. Follow Brenna: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brennatalkstoomuch

    1h 28m

  5. 06/18/2025

    Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider

    Holly Solem has been featured in Vogue, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily—but her bold questions on TikTok’s “Manthropology” series are what drew us in. In this candid conversation, Holly and Rafael unpack what attraction really looks like today, from confidence vs. looks to emotional intelligence in long-term love. Whether you’re dating, partnered, or just curious what women actually want, this episode is a must. Explore more from Women on Men: https://linktr.ee/WomenOnMen Follow Holly Solem: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hollymsolem Instagram: @hollymsolem

    47 min

  6. 05/22/2025

    Marriage, Masculinity & Emotional Intelligence | Lauren Faudree Interview

    What do women actually want in a partner—and how does that change over time? In this episode of Women on Men, Lauren Faudree, a dance teacher, mom, and wife of six years, joins us to talk about the traits that matter most in a relationship. She opens up about how her definition of masculinity has evolved, why emotional intelligence is more important than status, and how vulnerability creates real connection. We cover:  • How attraction shifts over time  • The myth that men have to be providers or protectors  • Why weekly emotional check-ins saved her marriage  • The dating mistake men make trying to act aloof If you’re tired of red pill content and want real conversations with real women, this is for you. Subscribe for more interviews that challenge stereotypes and explore masculinity through the eyes of women. Follow Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenwhodances?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== #masculinity #datingadvice #relationships #emotionalintelligence #womenonmen

    46 min

  7. 04/30/2025

    Kat Clark

    In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael Gomez sits down with Kat Clark — a relational and somatic coach, interior designer, and mother of four — for a powerful conversation about masculinity, authenticity, and relationships. Raised in the Mormon Church and now living a life of expanded consciousness on Kauai, Kat shares her journey of questioning tradition, redefining masculine and feminine energy, and building a 21-year marriage rooted in humor, ambition, and genuine connection. Kat opens up about leaving rigid gender roles behind, why vulnerability is strength, and what she wishes more men understood about attraction, emotional intelligence, and being truly seen. If you’re ready to challenge outdated stereotypes and rethink what it means to be a man, this conversation will leave you inspired and hopeful. Subscribe for more honest conversations exploring masculinity through the eyes of women. #WomenOnMen #Masculinity #Relationships #EmotionalIntelligence #Authenticity

    46 min

  8. 04/14/2025

    Lucy Wilson

    In this premiere episode of Women on Men, Lucy Wilson joins host Rafael Gomez to explore masculinity, emotional attraction, and the real traits that matter in relationships.

    45 min
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Women on Men is the podcast where women share unfiltered takes on what makes a man attractive, confident, and emotionally mature in today’s world. Through honest conversations, we flip the script on red pill narratives and challenge outdated ideas about what it means to “be a man.” From dating to emotional intelligence, we dive into gender roles, relationships, and modern masculinity.

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