The One Pebble Podcast

Kristine Fladeboe-Duininck

One pebble, so many ripples. What will you do to make a difference? Join host Kristine Duininck, along with her adult children, Elsie and Harris, as they interview guests who have stepped out in courage to make a difference in the world. 

  1. Oct 13

    Phil Kassel - Grace Fueled GRIT: Receive Your Identity. Run Your Race.

    What if the key to finishing well isn’t more grit, better performance, or greater success—but learning to live from an identity you’ve already been given by grace? Whether you're navigating leadership challenges, pursuing personal growth, strengthening your family, or trying to understand your purpose, this conversation will challenge you to stop striving for an identity you already have in Christ—and start living from it. In this episode, Phil Kassel, President of Prinsco, author of Grace Fueled Grit, husband to Amanda, and father of four, shares how God transformed his understanding of identity, success, leadership, and purpose. After many years of chasing achievement and performance, Phil discovered that true success isn’t about climbing the ladder—it’s about surrendering control, leading well at home, and faithfully running the race God has set before you. Phil unpacks the life-changing truth that your identity is received by grace, not earned through performance and grit alone can only carry you so far. Through the lens of Scripture, personal trials, wrestling, and Ironman training, he reveals why grit alone will eventually run out, but grit fueled by grace can sustain you for the long haul. As Phil puts it, “Your identity is a gift received by grace through God. That's it. And when you understand that, you are a gift to the world.” Connect with Phil Kassel:  Learn more about Phil and his book, Grace Fueled Grit, at PhillipKassel.com.  The book is available in paperback and Kindle, with an audiobook coming soon. Phil’s Bio: Phil Kassel is President of Prinsco, a national manufacturing company, and co-founder of 365 GRIT, an organization that helps leaders, athletes, and teams build resilient identity and disciplined endurance. He is also a speaker, author, and coach. Raised in the church, Phil understood faith in his head for years before he experienced it in his heart. That shift reshaped both his identity and the direction of his life. An accomplished athlete and scholarship wrestler, Phil carried his competitive drive into the corporate world, rising into executive leadership at a multi-billion-dollar organization and twice earning one of the company’s highest leadership honors. Along the way, he learned that achievement can be rewarding, but it can’t answer life’s deeper questions of identity and purpose. Answering God’s call, Phil stepped away from a rising corporate career for a season to pursue ministry and mission-driven leadership. That journey brought growth, struggle, failure, and refinement—and a deep conviction that grace doesn’t remove hardship; it redefines strength within it. From wrestling mats and Ironman finish lines to boardrooms and quiet seasons of prayer, Phil has learned a foundational truth: grit alone can only carry you so far. The endurance that finishes well is fueled by grace. Phil is passionate about equipping leaders, athletes, and organizations with practical tools for resilience and sustained performance, centered on a simple rhythm: Reflect. Reset. Refocus. Reengage. His message comes down to these two truths: • Identity is received before it is achieved. • Grace fuels the grit needed to run the race well. He and his wife, Amanda, are raising four incredible children who remind him daily that the most important leadership begins at home. Among his unofficial honors: the title of “Best Wiper,” awarded by his oldest son—a distinction you won’t find on LinkedIn, but one he’s deeply earned. Together, Phil and his family are pursuing the finish line that matters most: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Check out our Facebook page; find us on Instagram or send us an email at theonepebblepod@gmail.com.  You can also watch this episode on YouTube!

    Phil Kassel - Grace Fueled GRIT: Receive Your Identity. Run Your Race.
  2. Sep 29

    Shug Bury - Saying Yes to God!

    The One Pebble Podcast host Kristine interviews Shug Bury. In this conversation, Shug is captivating with her wit, enthusiasm, authenticity and stories of God’s incredible power. Shug is an evangelist, speaker, podcaster and Founder of HIM4Her Ministries.  Shug discusses her 12-year battle with liver disease, her diagnosis with cancer, and her miraculous liver transplant. She also shares about the power of Scripture, transformational "God moments" from her Mayo Clinic treatment, advocates for organ donation, talks about her passion of 30-years in prison ministry work and her podcast (Women's Hot Topics with Shug Bury).  Throughout, Shug emphasizes faith over fear and the ripple effect of saying "yes" to God. Bio: Shug Bury was born and raised in Minnesota and holds degrees from the University of Minnesota. Her hobbies include cycling and traveling in their RV. She has been married for over 40 years to her high school sweetheart, Blair. They have two beautiful grown children and one adorable Pit-bull, Blu. Shug is the Founder and President of HIM4Her Ministries. She is a captivating speaker, leader and evangelist who feels right at home in the middle of the darkest places in the world. For decades, Shug has been encouraging people nationally and internationally through conferences, church events, radio, podcast and prison ministry to claim back what is theirs…a resurrected, victorious life! Shug’s evangelistic invitations have taken her to some of the most spiritually troubled places around the globe. Her stories and experiences will astound you! As she continued to say “yes” to God’s invitations, she realized receiving the Gospel is just the beginning of a new life in Christ.  Shug founded HIM4Her Ministries to carry out the work of healing and redemption beyond the walls of prison. HIM4Her Ministries exists to unleash God’s power through the Gospel, to empower women to rise up in Jesus Christ and to equip them to live victoriously! In her role, Shug is instrumental in leading and developing each ministry initiative, including: Podcast (https://www.him4herministries.org/him4her-podcast) Speaking Engagements (https://www.him4herministries.org/speaking-engagements) Prison Ministry (https://www.him4herministries.org/prisonministry) Mentoring (https://www.him4herministries.org/him4her-mentoring) If you would like more information on inviting Shug to speak or to simply encourage her - her email is listed below and she would absolutely love to hear from you!  A sincere thank you. -Kristine & The One Pebble Podcast Team Shugbury@him4her.org Check out our Facebook page; find us on Instagram or send us an email at theonepebblepod@gmail.com.  You can also watch this episode on YouTube!

    Shug Bury - Saying Yes to God!
  3. Sep 15

    Cookie Lockhart: From Only Woman in Auction School to the Auctioneers Hall of Fame! 

    Meet Cookie Lockhart - a true legend in the auction industry. At 88 years old, Cookie sits down with host Kristine to discuss her trailblazing 60+ year career, from breaking into a male-dominated field to becoming the first woman ever inducted into the National Auction Association Hall of Fame.  In this inspiring and candid conversation, Cookie reveals the philosophy that's guided her entire life: be yourself, believe in yourself, develop your God-given gifts, and never let fear stop you from showing up. Cookie shares fascinating behind-the-scenes stories; she opens up about the life-changing mentorship of her father and brother, her fearless entry into auction school as the only woman in her class in 1963, competing in a 1975 World Livestock Auctioneer Championship Contest (a decision that helped to transform her career), how she has navigated selling high-stakes properties from guest ranches to a 3-year project selling 200 properties across 18 states for an oil company, and so much more.  Cookie emphasizes that her favorite part of the auction business has been helping people, and Cookie is still helping people today! Cookie Lockhart grew up in the sale barn alongside her brother Darwin and father Si, learning the craft under the best possible tutelage. She never stopped. Cookie has traveled the world auctioning, been featured on television, and built a reputation that reaches every corner of the American auction community. She is still actively auctioneering today — at 88 years old — a living testament to the Lockhart standard of hard work and lifelong dedication. Her place in history is secure: Cookie became the first woman ever inducted into the National Auctioneers Hall of Fame, a milestone that opened doors for generations of women in the industry. She didn't just carry the Lockhart name — she made it legendary. Learn More about Lockhart Auctions Here Listen to Steamboat Bid Chant on Jeff Richard's podcast here Check out our Facebook page; find us on Instagram or send us an email at theonepebblepod@gmail.com.  You can also watch this episode on YouTube!

    Cookie Lockhart: From Only Woman in Auction School to the Auctioneers Hall of Fame! 
  4. Sep 1

    Dave & Deanna Sutherland: An American Expat Couple Leaving Corporate Comfort to Follow God’s Call to Serve in Asia & Beyond 

    This is a podcast between Kristine (host), Harris (her son), and Dave and Deanna Sutherland - leaders of International Care Ministries (ICM).  Their conversation explores how the couple navigated corporate America to ultimately end up in Non-Profit poverty relief in Asia and beyond.  Over the last 25+ years, the Sutherland’s along with their team, have led ICM to transform the lives of 2.2+ million ultra-poor people through disciplined, scalable programs combining spiritual, health, and livelihood training.  This episode wrestles with finding our purpose, obedience versus fear, success versus significance. Central to their message: don't wait for perfect clarity; however, say yes to the next step, trust God's provision, and use whatever gifts and resources you've been given.  To learn more about International Care Ministries click here David Sutherland is ICM’s CEO and Chair of the board. Since 1999, David has scaled ICM from a small start-up charity to a US$15M organization that has transformed the lives of more than 2.2+ million ultra-poor people through partnership with 20,000 slum churches.  Until early 2013, David was Morgan Stanley’s Chief Financial Officer in Asia Pacific, responsible for the company’s businesses in China, India, Korea, Australia and other countries. Before his role as CFO, David spent more than a decade as a Morgan Stanley Managing Director, overseeing its tax department in Asia. Prior to Asia, David worked for Arthur Andersen; Cadwalader, Wickersham & Taft; Caplin & Drysdale; and the U.S. Department of Treasury, where he was the Associate International Tax Counsel. In addition to his role with ICM, David also serves as the board chair of Asian Charity Services and Friends of Hong Kong Charities. Check out our Facebook page; find us on Instagram or send us an email at theonepebblepod@gmail.com.  You can also watch this episode on YouTube!

    Dave & Deanna Sutherland:  An American Expat Couple Leaving Corporate Comfort to Follow God’s Call to Serve in Asia & Beyond 
  5. Aug 4

    Ben Peterson: A Former Combat Veteran’s Mission to End Military Suicide & Prepare Christians for AI

    Ben Peterson, founder of Engage Your Destiny, shares his journey from Iraq combat veteran struggling with trauma and suicidal ideation to building a faith-based ministry on 10 U.S. military bases. His approach combines emotional intelligence training, community building, and spiritual formation to combat military suicide—a crisis where active service members are 9x more likely to die by suicide than in combat. He also discusses his new book on navigating AI safely while maintaining our God-given identity as creators. Ben's new book - When Intelligence Isn't Human: Navigating Your Faith in the Age of AI - comes out August 25th, 2026. Learn more about Engage Your Destiny here! Ben Peterson is the driving force behind Engage Your Destiny—one of the most impactful movements bringing the Gospel to the U.S. military. Ben served in Iraq during the 2008–2009 Surge as a Chaplain’s Assistant—both bodyguard and ministry support—where he lost seven brothers in his first week in combat. Carrying trauma, addiction, and deep brokenness, he turned to God and emerged with a mission: to help transform the most powerful fighting force in the world through the hope of Christ. Engage Your Destiny is rapidly expanding across the military and influencing lives internationally. In 2022, Ben launched the Heroes Honor Festival, a historic “welcome home” event for Vietnam Veterans. It featured Toby Keith, Gov. Ron DeSantis, Oliver North, and partnerships with Toyota, The American Legion, Harley-Davidson, Humana, NASCAR, and Fox Nation—drawing more than 40,000 attendees. It became the largest Gospel outreach to veterans in American history. Over the last decade, more than 300,000 service members, veterans, and families have heard Ben’s message. He has been trusted to train and speak across elite units including the 101st Airborne, 3rd, 5th, and 10th Special Forces Groups, the 75th Ranger Battalion, Navy SEALs, Recon Marines, Space Force, the 11th Arctic Airborne, and the 4th Infantry Division. Ben’s passion is raising, equipping, and leading men that other men will follow. He has personally raised over $14 million for nonprofit causes and advises nonprofits, companies, churches, and senior leaders on building cultures of emotional intelligence, resilience, and bold vulnerability. As one Fortune 500 Founder & CEO said: “Ben is on a mission. His passion is contagious. He is the best speaker I’ve ever worked with.” Check out our Facebook page; find us on Instagram or send us an email at theonepebblepod@gmail.com.  You can also watch this episode on YouTube!

    Ben Peterson: A Former Combat Veteran’s Mission to End Military Suicide & Prepare Christians for AI
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One pebble, so many ripples. What will you do to make a difference? Join host Kristine Duininck, along with her adult children, Elsie and Harris, as they interview guests who have stepped out in courage to make a difference in the world. 

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