Rising Tribes Podcast

Nick Urankar & Braxston Cave

Welcome to the Rising Tribes Podcast — where raw conversations meet real growth.Hosted by two former professional athletes turned husbands, fathers, and high-performance leaders, this is the podcast for people who look like they’ve got it all together… but still carry the silent weight of pressure, expectation, and self-doubt.We talk about what most people only think about — the stuff that lives in your chest and keeps you up at night. From marriage and parenting to sex, business, faith, fitness, money, mental health, and the quiet battle of “am I enough?” — nothing is off-limits here.Alongside our wives and powerful guests, we’re building a tribe of everyday warriors who are deeply rooted in character and relentlessly rising in every area of life.This isn’t therapy. It’s not self-help fluff.It’s honest, bold, unfiltered conversation — with people who get it.Because the strongest tribes don’t fake it. They rise together.

  1. Sep 21

    Why More Discipline Isn't Fixing Your Life

    Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever said “I just need more discipline,” we’re going to challenge that assumption and give you a cleaner framework that actually holds up when life gets busy. We start with a deceptively simple story from The Dark Side of Discipline: two people sit in a room with a burger. One person is dieting and has to fight an inner argument every minute. The other is vegan and barely needs willpower because the decision is already made. That’s the difference between chasing a goal and living by a standard. From there, we get real about values and alignment. We talk about how discipline often gets spent on the easy, visible wins like fitness, hustle, or “wake up at 4 a.m.” content while the quiet priorities like marriage, parenting, faith, and character get neglected. We share how annual planning, honest self-scoring, and accountability with the right people can raise your standards and reduce decision fatigue. If you’ve felt pulled by social media productivity culture, this will help you rebuild your habits around your actual why. We also bring in the elevator analogy from Peter Kaufman: most people mirror what you give them. Smile and you’ll usually get a smile back. Scowl and the world scowls back. Say nothing and you get nothing. The point is leadership in everyday moments: go positive and go first, even if you risk the 2%. If you want better relationships, stronger self-discipline, and a more grounded mindset, this is a practical place to start. If this helps, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s chasing “discipline,” and leave a review so more people can find the show. What standard are you ready to set today? Support the show Let us know your feedback! We'd love to hear from you!

  2. Sep 7

    Trying to Fix Everything Is Hurting Your Relationships

    Send us Fan Mail You ever hit a season where all your go-to moves stop working and it feels personal? We get real about what happens when you’re used to being the fixer, the fast responder, the guy with the plan, and suddenly God keeps putting you in moments that require patience, restraint, and a totally different kind of strength. We talk about faith in the “quiet” season, the kind where you feel like you’re being prepared for something bigger, even if you can’t see the finish line yet. From there, we zoom in on family life and marriage communication. One of the biggest shifts for us lately is learning how to show up for our wives without trying to solve every low moment, especially in high-pressure seasons like real estate and sales. We also unpack the tension of parenting as the kids get older: dating starts, independence grows, and bedtime turns into a nightly push-pull between needing time as a couple and realizing these small moments won’t last forever. If fatherhood, raising kids, and being a present husband are on your mind, this conversation will hit home. We also share a practical fitness update: HYROX training, running mileage, strength work, and what it looks like to stay mentally steady through an injury. Then we bring it into leadership and business transition, including why so many men are hungry for real community and deeper conversations. We end with a simple standard for relationships: don’t step down hoping someone will step up; build relationships where both people raise the bar. If this resonates, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What part of life is asking you to slow down and grow right now? Support the show Let us know your feedback! We'd love to hear from you!

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Welcome to the Rising Tribes Podcast — where raw conversations meet real growth.Hosted by two former professional athletes turned husbands, fathers, and high-performance leaders, this is the podcast for people who look like they’ve got it all together… but still carry the silent weight of pressure, expectation, and self-doubt.We talk about what most people only think about — the stuff that lives in your chest and keeps you up at night. From marriage and parenting to sex, business, faith, fitness, money, mental health, and the quiet battle of “am I enough?” — nothing is off-limits here.Alongside our wives and powerful guests, we’re building a tribe of everyday warriors who are deeply rooted in character and relentlessly rising in every area of life.This isn’t therapy. It’s not self-help fluff.It’s honest, bold, unfiltered conversation — with people who get it.Because the strongest tribes don’t fake it. They rise together.

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