South of Normal

Jheri South
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Hosted by Jheri South, Certified Master Transformational Coach, ADHD specialist, and mother of seven neurodivergent kids, you’ll find real-life strategies for ADHD in adults and teens: executive-function tools, routines that actually stick, and support for issues like rejection-sensitivity (RSD), emotional regulation, and school or work follow-through. We dive into honest conversations, coaching demos, and guest stories from the neurodivergent community. If you’re ready to build systems that fit an ADHD brain (not fight against it), you’re in the right place

  1. 4D AGO

    #19: Same Team, Different Brains in an ADHD and Autism Marriage with Brad South

    Tiny things should not feel this big. But in a neurodivergent marriage, they can . Jheri South, ADHD educator and mom of seven neurodivergent kids, sits down with her husband Brad South, who is on the autism spectrum, to play “Same Team, Different Brains.” What starts as a fun rapid fire game quickly reveals why ADHD and autism can clash over plan changes, shutdowns, overwhelm, reassurance, and communication. Brad needs time and space when stressed. Jheri needs clarity and conversation. One brain shuts down. The other processes out loud. Neither is wrong, but without understanding the wiring, it can feel personal. This episode shows how to stop misreading each other and start translating each other instead. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:37) When Plans Change Last Minute, My Brain… (02:33) When I’m Overwhelmed, I Need… Not… (06:28) When I’m Stressed, It Looks Like… (12:40) One Thing That Resets My Nervous System (15:37) When I Need Support, I Want… (18:28) A “Simple” Situation That Feels Heavy (24:30) If You Want to Communicate With Me Better… (22:01) The Warning Label on My Brain Are you and your partner wired the same way, or does it feel like two totally different brains? Let me know in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    30 min
  2. #18: How to Turn ADHD Into a Superpower With Chandler Pearce

    FEB 15

    #18: How to Turn ADHD Into a Superpower With Chandler Pearce

    You were probably told ADHD was a problem. Too loud. Too impulsive. Too much. What if that same wiring is the reason some people become elite entrepreneurs and unstoppable creators? In this episode, Jheri South sits down with entrepreneur and former MMA gym owner Chandler Pearce to unpack what ADHD really looks like in real life. Chandler built businesses, thrived in sales, and credits his hyperactive, obsessive, dopamine-driven brain as a competitive advantage. Together they explain the five things that activate the ADHD brain, why teens struggle with consistency, how dopamine chasing can turn destructive, and why community, mentorship, and physical training can radically change outcomes. If you have ever felt like ADHD is ruining your life, this conversation will challenge that belief and show you how to turn it into leverage instead. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (02:33) How School Labels Damage ADHD Confidence (07:53) Hyperfocus and Entrepreneurial Obsession (13:51) Why ADHD Teens Struggle With Consistency (14:36) The 5 Triggers That Activate the ADHD Brain (18:46) What To Do When You Feel Stuck (19:05) Why Martial Arts Rewires the ADHD Brain (22:22) Body Doubling and Accountability (25:21) Instant Gratification and Teen Anxiety (28:37) Life Rewards Effort FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    31 min

  3. FEB 10

    #17: ADHD and Autism in Marriage: Pet Peeves, Problems, and Understanding Each Other

    Tiny things can feel huge in a neurodivergent marriage. Jheri South, ADHD educator and mom of seven neurodivergent kids, sits down with her husband Brad South, who is on the autism spectrum, to play “Pet Peeve or Problem” and show what ADHD and autism actually look like in real life. They get into the stuff that usually starts as a joke and then turns into a fight, like clutter, laundry, texting with no context, short replies, sudden plan changes, shutdowns, and impulse decisions. The goal is not to blame either brain. It is to name the pattern so you can stop taking it personally and start translating each other better. If you have ever felt like you are speaking two different languages in the same house, this episode will help you see what is happening and what to do next. (00:00) Introduction (03:11) Loud Noises and Kids Repeating Questions (06:11) Garbage, Laundry, and “Put It Away” Anxiety (07:39) Losing Keys and Phone in an ADHD Autism Home (10:35) Random Items and the Work Boots in the Walkway (14:08) Texting Tone, “Sure,” and No Context Messages (15:15) Change of Plans, Drive Through Stress, and Clutter Fights (24:46) Shutdowns, Silence, Planning, and Impulsivity in Marriage What is one “small” thing in your relationship that turns into a big fight? Leave your answer in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    33 min

  4. FEB 3

    #16: Cassandra Syndrome and Undiagnosed Autism in Marriage

    Feeling emotionally alone in your marriage can be devastating, especially when love is still there but connection feels gone. In this episode, Jheri talks about Cassandra Syndrome, a relationship dynamic that often appears when autism goes undiagnosed and one partner is neurotypical. Drawing from her professional work with neurodiverse couples and her own lived experience in a neurodivergent marriage, Jheri explains why autistic partners are frequently misread as cold or indifferent, why neurotypical partners feel chronically unseen, and why traditional therapy often misses the real issue. This conversation reframes emotional disconnection as a neurological mismatch rather than a character flaw and shows how understanding autism can replace blame with clarity and restore connection. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:06) What Is Cassandra Syndrome (02:23) How Autism Gets Misread as Emotional Absence (04:58) Signs You’re Stuck in a Cassandra Dynamic (06:42) What Changes After Autism Is Identified (09:58) Living This Inside My Own Marriage Have you ever felt emotionally alone in your marriage even though love is still present? Leave your answers in the comments. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:06) What Is Cassandra Syndrome (02:03) How Autism Gets Misread as Emotional Absence (04:24) The Shame Autistic Partners Carry (05:24) Signs You’re Stuck in a Cassandra Dynamic (06:31) What Changes After Autism Is Identified (09:15) Living This Inside My Own Marriage Have you ever felt emotionally alone in your marriage even though love is still present? Leave your answers in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    11 min
  5. #15: Living With ADHD In A World Not Built For Your Brain with Ryan Jones

    JAN 27

    #15: Living With ADHD In A World Not Built For Your Brain with Ryan Jones

    Growing up with ADHD can feel like nonstop failure, especially in a world built for neurotypical brains. In this episode, Jheri sits down with Ryan Jones, an ADHD advocate who has spent years helping families understand ADHD through lived experience and real world support strategies. Ryan shares what it was like growing up with ADHD long before awareness, support systems, or realistic expectations. He opens up about being medicated without explanation, struggling socially, repeating grades, failing classes, and carrying deep shame around school and graduation. Together, Ryan and Jheri reframe ADHD as a brain wiring difference, not a character flaw, and explain what actually helps, including support systems, realistic expectations, education, and practical tools that make the “superpower” side accessible. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:01) Were You Ever Diagnosed, Or Just Put On Medication (03:12) What Made Childhood So Hard With ADHD (08:41) What Were The Thoughts Running Through Your Head At Your Lowest (11:11) What Helped People Survive ADHD Before Awareness And Treatment (13:16) What Happened With Graduation And Why It Hurt So Much (21:30) Analogy to help Explain ADHD To Parents So They Finally Get It (26:23) How Do You Shift From “What Is Wrong With Me” To “This Is My Strength” What is one thing you wish a teacher, parent, or friend understood about your ADHD? Leave your answer in the comments FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8 Connect with Ryan Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Ryan-Jones Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryantheazrealtor/

    32 min
  6. #14: Why ADHD Feels So Hard During the Teen Years and What Actually Helps with Grace Pitts

    JAN 20

    #14: Why ADHD Feels So Hard During the Teen Years and What Actually Helps with Grace Pitts

    High school can feel unbearable when you have ADHD. Everything is louder: rejection, friendships, self-image, and the constant pressure to fit in. In this episode, Grace Pitts shares what it really felt like to be a teen with ADHD, including rejection sensitivity, shame spirals, impulsive reactions, and the way one comment could derail her entire day. We talk about why ADHD teens often feel “too much,” how RSD can destroy friendships, and why punishment rarely creates change. Grace also explains what coaching gave her that therapy never did: simple tools that helped her rewire patterns, build emotional control, and finally feel like she is in control. This conversation is for teens who feel misunderstood and for parents who want to support their child with connection instead of constant correction. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:19) What Was Hardest About High School With ADHD? (03:46) What Does RSD Feel Like in Real Life, and Why Is It So Intense? (10:20) Why Did You Switch Schools and Try Online School? (13:19) Who Are You Now Compared To Two Years Ago? (18:33) Why Did Coaching Work When Therapy Did Not? (22:03) What Do Parents Need To Know About ADHD Teens? (27:21) What Does Life Feel Like Now, and What Changed Most? (31:11) How Does Social Media Make Teen ADHD and Self Image Harder? What is the hardest part of ADHD for teens right now? Teens share your experience. Parents share what you see your child struggle with most in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    33 min

  7. JAN 13

    #13: How to Design a Morning Routine with ADHD

    Mornings feel impossible for so many ADHD adults not because we are lazy or undisciplined, but because our brains struggle with the shift from asleep to awake unlike anyone else. In this episode, I talk about why traditional morning routines fail ADHD brains and walk you through a flexible. five-step system designed to work with your energy, and nervous system instead of against them. We cover why alarms are not enough, why visual routines matter more than motivation, and how to build consistency without rigid repetition. If mornings leave you feeling behind, overwhelmed, or burned out before the day even starts, this episode will help you design a morning that actually supports you. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:55) The Three ADHD Morning Barriers Explained (02:42) A Flexible ADHD Morning System (02:52) Wake Up With Stimulation, Not Just Alarms (03:22) Front-Loading Dopamine Before Productivity (04:07) Movement, Sunlight, and Nervous System Regulation (05:09) Consistency Without Rigid Repetition (07:35) Structure with Variety for ADHD Success What is the hardest part of your morning with ADHD right now? Leave your answer in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    8 min

  8. JAN 6

    #12: The Overlap Between ADHD and Autism Most Adults Never Learn About

    I see so many adults get an ADHD diagnosis but still feel like something is missing, and it is often because autism was dismissed and never screened. In this episode, I walk through what autism in adults can look like when it hides behind ADHD, including masking, sensory overload, and predictive anxiety. I also share the exact questions to ask so you can get a real assessment, not a quick dismissal. If you have ever felt misunderstood, too sensitive, or like you are performing your way through life, this conversation will help you put language to your experience and build support that fits your actual wiring. Chapters (00:00) Introduction (01:42) What Autism Can Look Like In High Masking Adults (02:33) Adult Autism Signs: (04:24) Predictive Anxiety And Pattern Scanning (05:09) Autism Screening Questions To Ask Your Clinician (06:56) The Cost Of Undiagnosed Autism (07:51) Labels As An Instruction Manual, Not A Crutch (10:53) Your Brain Was Not Broken, Only Misunderstood Where in your life do you feel the most unheard or misunderstood? Leave your answer in the comments. FREE RESOURCES ✨ ADHD Quiz: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-quiz RSD Webinar: https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-emotions-webinar-opt-in More resources at: https://jherisouth.com GET SUPPORT ✨ ADHD Simplified Course (just $97!): https://jherisouth.com/page/adhd-simplifed FREE consult for ADHD coaching: https://jherisouth.as.me/schedule/f39adc54 FOLLOW ME ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjherisouth/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jherisouth TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jherisouth8

    12 min
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Hosted by Jheri South, Certified Master Transformational Coach, ADHD specialist, and mother of seven neurodivergent kids, you’ll find real-life strategies for ADHD in adults and teens: executive-function tools, routines that actually stick, and support for issues like rejection-sensitivity (RSD), emotional regulation, and school or work follow-through. We dive into honest conversations, coaching demos, and guest stories from the neurodivergent community. If you’re ready to build systems that fit an ADHD brain (not fight against it), you’re in the right place

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  • Creator
    Jheri South
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Jheri South
  • Show Website
    South of Normal

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