Girl, Date the Good Guy | Christian Dating & God-Led Relationships | Heal Heartbreak, Red Flags, Boundaries & Toxic Cycles

Emily Jordan | Faith-Based Healed Feminine Guide and Relationship Coach
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Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready to heal heartbreak, break toxic cycles, set boundaries, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships. Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, gain discernment in Christian dating, and prepare for the healthy love God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to heal your heart, raise your standards, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. 📌 This podcast is for women who are done chasing confusion and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy—the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, empty promises, and lukewarm men. I’m Emily—your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in painful cycles. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and healing, and let Him rewrite my love story. After spending nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing, and deep restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship cycles… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned love. Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society—a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through: 👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles 🪞 Develop discernment and recognize red flags with clarity and confidence ⚔️ Release past heartbreak, soul ties, and old versions of yourself 📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt 🛡️ Heal your heart and date from wholeness, not wounds 🏛️ Prepare for aligned, healthy, God-led love Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from settling to standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity. You'll also find:  💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday: your royal pause, royal return - a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost.  🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, faith, obedience, and the messy middle of becoming whole. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth—offering real-life stories, gentle clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, listen closely, and let God bring order to their chaos as they grow into wholeness and God-led love. If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be—and attract the kind of God-led love that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven— sis, you’re in the right place. So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play—your royal training begins now.  XOXO EMILY ✨ Start Your Royal Training Here 👑 Subscribe for weekly faith-based episodes on healing, discernment, and God-led love. 🛡️ Join The Royal Guard—our free sisterhood community: www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com  

  1. 3H AGO

    51: “Sis, Can We Be Honest? Why Praying Harder Won’t Change Him: Biblical Truth About Toxic Relationships, Abuse, and Letting Go

    In this emotional and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares her personal testimony of spending years praying for a relationship that never changed—and the painful truth God revealed about staying in unhealthy, disrespectful, and abusive situations. Many Christian women are taught that endurance equals faithfulness. But in this episode, Emily exposes that lie and reveals what Scripture truly says about love, marriage, repentance, and freedom. If you’ve ever wondered why your prayers haven’t transformed your partner, why you keep holding on to hope that leads to more heartbreak, or whether God really wants you to stay in pain, this episode will bring clarity, healing, and courage. Through biblical truth, sister-to-sister encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, you’ll learn: ✔ Why God cannot change someone who refuses Him ✔ The difference between faith and emotional attachment ✔ When it’s time to release instead of endure ✔ Why abuse and disrespect are never God’s will ✔ How to break unhealthy soul ties ✔ How to reclaim your peace, confidence, and identity ✔ What godly love is meant to look like This episode is for Christian women who are: Praying for a husband or partner who won’t change Healing from emotional, spiritual, or physical abuse Recovering from toxic marriages and relationships Breaking cycles of heartbreak and soul ties Learning to trust God after betrayal Rebuilding self-worth through faith Choosing freedom over familiarity If you’re tired of surviving in relationships God never assigned, this episode will remind you that you were created for honor, love, safety, and peace—not pain. 🎧 Listen now and be encouraged: God’s will for you is freedom, not bondage. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    15 min

  2. 1D AGO

    50: Stop Entertaining Mr. Right Now (Why Temporary Men Keep Blocking Your Future)

    Are you stuck entertaining “Mr. Right Now” — the man who gives attention but no commitment? In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan exposes why temporary men delay your destiny and how emotional attachments can block God’s best for your future. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and practical royal training, you’ll learn how to recognize distractions, set godly boundaries, and release relationships that lack alignment. This episode will help you move from confusion to clarity, from emotional attachment to spiritual obedience, and from settling to preparing for covenant love. If you’re ready to break toxic dating cycles, stop entertaining “almost,” and start walking in God-led love, this episode is for you. 📖 Scripture References • Proverbs 13:12 • Luke 16:10 • Jeremiah 17:9 • Matthew 6:24 • Isaiah 60:22 ✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn How To: ✔ Identify “Mr. Right Now” and emotional distractions ✔ Recognize access without commitment ✔ Strengthen your spiritual discernment in dating ✔ Break unhealthy soul ties ✔ Set godly boundaries ✔ Prepare for Christ-centered relationships ✔ Stop repeating broken relationship cycles ✔ Trust God’s timing in love 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    15 min

  3. 5D AGO

    49: Hope While You Wait: Valentine’s Day Encouragement & Prayer for Women Trusting God’s Love Story

    (Christian Dating, Healing, Waiting on God, Faith-Based Encouragement) This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is both a gentle word of encouragement and a powerful prayer for the woman who is waiting on God with her heart. 💗 If you’re single this Valentine’s Day… If you’ve ever wondered when your love story will begin… If you’re healing from heartbreak and learning how to trust again… This episode is for you. In this special Valentine’s Day edition, Emily speaks life, truth, and hope over your season — reminding you that you are deeply loved, intentionally chosen, and never forgotten by God. Then, she covers you in prayer, inviting God to heal, restore, prepare, and strengthen your heart while you wait. This episode will help you remember that: ✨ You are not behind in life ✨ Your waiting season is not wasted ✨ God is preparing both you and your future husband ✨ Healing is happening even when you don’t see it ✨ Your story is safe in God’s hands ✨ You don’t have to chase love — because God is writing it Through Scripture, poetic encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, this episode creates space for you to release fear, comparison, and past pain — and step into peace, confidence, and divine timing. This is your Royal Pause. Your moment to breathe. Your reminder that hope still lives here. Sis, God is still writing your love story. 📌 In This Episode, You’ll Experience: ✔ Encouragement for being single on Valentine’s Day ✔ Biblical truth about waiting on God’s timing ✔ Prayer for healing after heartbreak ✔ Guidance for trusting God with your love life ✔ Emotional restoration and spiritual peace ✔ Preparation for healthy, God-led relationships 💗 Perfect For Women Who Are: • Single or lonely on Valentine’s Day • Healing from toxic relationships • Waiting on God for marriage • Learning to trust again • Rebuilding confidence after heartbreak • Seeking God-centered love 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    9 min

  4. 6D AGO

    48: Don’t Text Him on Valentine’s Day: Let Go, Let God, and Stop Repeating Broken Cycles

    In this powerful Valentine’s Day edition of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily delivers a life-changing message for every woman who has ever been tempted to text the wrong man, reopen an old door, or repeat a broken relationship cycle. If you’ve been trying to make something work that was never sent by God… If you’ve struggled with emotional attachment, loneliness, soul ties, or going back to unhealthy relationships… If you’re ready to finally heal, let go, and walk in God’s best for your love life… This episode is for you. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and Holy Spirit-led encouragement, Emily teaches you how to: ✨ Stop texting your ex and emotional attachments ✨ Break toxic dating cycles and soul ties ✨ Let go of past relationships and trust God’s timing ✨ Choose peace over confusion in Christian dating ✨ Heal from heartbreak and emotional wounds ✨ Discern God-led relationships vs. counterfeits ✨ Protect your crown and emotional boundaries ✨ Stop settling and prepare for healthy, God-centered love You’ll learn why some relationships ended for your protection, how nostalgia can pull you back into bondage, and why obedience to God opens the door to true freedom, healing, and alignment. With scriptures like Isaiah 43:18, Philippians 3:13–14, Jeremiah 17:9, Romans 12:2, and Proverbs 19:21, this episode reminds you that God is doing a new thing — and you don’t want to miss it by holding onto the past. Emily also shares a practical Royal Assignment to help you gain clarity, strengthen your faith, and prepare for the Godly man who will love you with honor, consistency, and Christ-centered leadership. Plus, you’re invited to join the Royal Guard sisterhood and participate in the Valentine’s Challenge for support, accountability, and healing community. Sis, your love story isn’t over — it’s getting aligned. It’s time to put the phone down, release the past, and press forward into God’s promises. Keep your crown on. 👑💛 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    13 min

  5. FEB 11

    47: Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story (Christian Dating, Healing & Waiting on God)

    If Valentine’s Day has you feeling single, forgotten, discouraged, or tempted to settle, this episode is for you. In “Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story,” Emily speaks directly to the woman who is waiting, healing, and trusting God with her heart—especially during a season when love seems to be everywhere except in her own life. Through personal testimony, biblical truth, and Kingdom wisdom, Emily reminds you that singleness is not rejection—it is protection. God is not delaying your love story. He is preparing you for the healthy, God-led relationship you prayed for. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ Why waiting on God in dating builds discernment and emotional peace ✨ How God uses seasons of singleness to heal abandonment, trust issues, and insecurity ✨ The difference between chemistry and Christ-centered character ✨ Why rushing relationships leads to heartbreak—but God’s timing leads to blessing ✨ How God prepares both you and your future husband in the waiting ✨ Practical ways to honor Valentine’s Day as a single, faith-filled woman ✨ A Royal Assignment to help you stay rooted in confidence, purpose, and hope If you’ve ever wondered: “Did God forget about me?” “Why am I still single?” “Am I behind?” “Should I just settle?” This episode will restore your faith, renew your confidence, and remind you that your crown is still on. Sis, you are not overlooked. You are not behind. You are being prepared. Your love story is still being written—and it will be beautiful. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    12 min

  6. FEB 10

    46: Open Up Your Heart: Learning to Trust Love After Pain

    What if the reason you haven’t experienced the fullness of God’s goodness isn’t because He’s holding out on you—but because your heart learned to stay closed just to survive? In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily opens up about heartbreak, healing, and the quiet ways pain teaches us to protect instead of surrender. Inspired by Justin Bieber’s song “Open Up Your Heart,” this conversation explores what it really means to move beyond surface-level faith and into deep, honest relationship with God. Music has always been a second language for Emily—from her past as a singer-songwriter (including her EP Love, Sex & Fire on Apple Music) to the songs she never released, like “You’re Gonna Wish I Never Said Goodbye.” In this episode, she shares how the lyrics “open up your heart, tell me what you’re really feeling” feel like God’s invitation to His daughters—to be honest, vulnerable, and fully known by Him. This episode unpacks why guarding your heart doesn’t mean sealing it shut, how survival mode blocks intimacy with God, and why true healing only begins when we allow Him into the places that still hurt. Through Scripture, testimony, and gentle truth, Emily reminds you that this isn’t about religion—it’s about relationship. As your heart heals in God’s presence, you begin to love from a healed place—no longer desperate or guarded, but rooted in boundaries, standards, and peace. And yes, God desires that kind of love for you first… before anyone else ever enters the picture. If you love God but feel tired, guarded, or hesitant to hope again—this episode is for you. God isn’t done restoring you. He’s not done being good to you. And it might be time to open your heart again.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    12 min

  7. FEB 7

    45: Christ-Like Love in Dating: Trusting God With the Man He Has for You

    In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak hope, peace, and truth into the heart of the woman waiting for God’s best in love. This episode is for the woman who desires a Godly man, but is learning to let God be her first love while she waits. We explore what it truly means to be loved the way Christ loves—with patience, faithfulness, humility, and sacrificial care. Not a rushed, performative, or fear-driven love—but a steady, surrendered, God-led partnership rooted in peace. This episode reminds you that the man God has for you will not compete with God, but reflect Him. His love will feel safe, intentional, and aligned with God’s design—not confusing, chaotic, or conditional. In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember: - Godly love reflects Christ’s love—patient, faithful, and secure - You are not asking for too much by desiring Christ-like love - Letting God be your first love prepares you for healthy partnership - A Godly man leads with humility, protects with love, and chooses with intention - What God has for you will never require panic, striving, or settling If you’re waiting for a Godly man, healing from past relationships, or learning how to trust God with your love life, this episode will gently restore hope while anchoring your heart in truth. This is your royal pause— to rest in God’s timing, to trust His preparation, and to believe that Christ-like love is not a myth—it’s a promise. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    3 min

  8. FEB 6

    44: Why Anxiety Won’t Let You Rest — and Where Peace Is Actually Found

    In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan speaks directly to the woman who wakes up with anxiety, racing thoughts, and a restless spirit — even when life looks “fine” on the outside. With honesty, biblical truth, and deep compassion, this episode explores why anxiety is often a signal of spiritual disconnection rather than personal failure, and why lasting peace cannot be found in the world, self-soothing practices, or the so-called universe. This conversation gently challenges modern ideas of peace rooted in manifestation, energy, and control, and redirects listeners to the only true source of rest: Jesus Christ. Emily explains why the world’s version of peace is temporary and circumstantial, while God’s peace settles the soul even when circumstances haven’t changed. This episode is for women who love God but still struggle with anxiety, exhaustion, and inner unrest — and are ready to stop striving and start resting in the presence of their Heavenly Father. In this episode, you’ll learn: - Why anxiety often appears when we’re disconnected from God - Why the world and “the universe” cannot offer lasting peace - The difference between temporary calm and biblical peace - How to turn to Jesus when anxiety shows up in the morning - Why peace is found in relationship, not control - How God’s peace brings rest to weary and overwhelmed souls Key Scriptures Referenced: - John 14:27 — “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.” - Matthew 11:28 — “Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” - Isaiah 26:3 — “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast.” If anxiety has been loud in your life lately, this episode is an invitation — not to try harder, but to draw closer. You don’t have to carry the weight alone. Peace isn’t something you manufacture; it’s something you receive when you stay connected to God. 🎧 New episodes of Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday. Until next time, sis — rest your heart, fix your eyes on Jesus, and let God do what only He can do. 🤍🎙️ 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    4 min
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Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready to heal heartbreak, break toxic cycles, set boundaries, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships. Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, gain discernment in Christian dating, and prepare for the healthy love God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to heal your heart, raise your standards, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. 📌 This podcast is for women who are done chasing confusion and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy—the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, empty promises, and lukewarm men. I’m Emily—your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in painful cycles. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and healing, and let Him rewrite my love story. After spending nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing, and deep restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship cycles… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned love. Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society—a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through: 👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles 🪞 Develop discernment and recognize red flags with clarity and confidence ⚔️ Release past heartbreak, soul ties, and old versions of yourself 📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt 🛡️ Heal your heart and date from wholeness, not wounds 🏛️ Prepare for aligned, healthy, God-led love Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from settling to standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity. You'll also find:  💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday: your royal pause, royal return - a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost.  🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, faith, obedience, and the messy middle of becoming whole. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth—offering real-life stories, gentle clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, listen closely, and let God bring order to their chaos as they grow into wholeness and God-led love. If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be—and attract the kind of God-led love that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven— sis, you’re in the right place. So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play—your royal training begins now.  XOXO EMILY ✨ Start Your Royal Training Here 👑 Subscribe for weekly faith-based episodes on healing, discernment, and God-led love. 🛡️ Join The Royal Guard—our free sisterhood community: www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com  

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