Girl, Date the Good Guy | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

Emily Jordan | Christian Mentor & Relationship Coach
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So… you’re out of the toxic relationship. Now what? What do you do when the war is over… and you’re left standing in the ashes of a breakup, holding a broken heart, feeling heartbroken, confused, and unsure of who you even are anymore? You rise. But first… you heal. Because after heartbreak, we don’t rush into the next relationship. We don’t ignore the red flags we once overlooked. We don’t repeat cycles that left us empty, anxious, and unseen. This is your healing season. You may feel like you’ve lost yourself. Like your identity was stripped in that toxic relationship. Like your heart will never feel safe again. Like you’ll never love the same after the breakup.` But healing is possible. Restoration is real. And your story is not over. I know… because I’ve been there. Girl, Date the Good Guy is a christian podcast for women healing after breakup, navigating heartbreak, and learning how to rebuild after a broken heart. This space is for the woman who is done ignoring red flags, done settling for less, and ready to experience the kind of healthy, God-led love she was always meant for and when the time is right, learn how to walk in it, build it, and sustain it in The Good Guy Society.  Hosted by Emily Jordan, this podcast is your royal training ground for healing, identity, and discernment. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to break free from toxic cycles, heal deeply, strengthen your boundaries, and prepare for a relationship rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. Because if you don’t heal… you risk repeating the same toxic relationship patterns—or choosing another man who reflects what you haven’t yet restored. And you don’t want that. Here, we do the real work: We heal the heartbreak. We confront the broken heart. We learn from the pain. We stop ignoring red flags. We rebuild from the inside out. Because healing isn’t just something you do… it becomes who you are. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Royal Return and walk the Royal Transformation Path: 👑 Reclaim your identity after a toxic relationship 🪞 Strengthen discernment and recognize red flags early ⚔️ Release heartbreak, heal your broken heart, and break toxic cycles 📜 Establish boundaries that protect your peace 🛡️ Date from healing—not wounds 🏛️ Prepare for a healthy, God-led relationship Because God is a God of restoration. He can heal what was broken, restore what was lost, and rewrite your love story in ways you never imagined. This is your Royal Return. So if you’re ready to stop repeating cycles, rise from the ashes of heartbreak, and step into the love God has prepared for you… Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy. Grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play- Your royal training begins now. 👑 XOXO Emily 👑 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com  

  1. APR 22

    When God Calls You to Let Go and Enter a Season of Consecration

    Have you ever felt God asking you to let something go… and it didn’t make sense? In this deeply personal and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about what it really means to enter a season of consecration—when God calls you to step back, surrender control, and trust Him in the unknown. This isn’t about losing something. It’s about being refined, realigned, and prepared for what God has next. Emily shares her own journey of being led into a season of stillness, what it looks like to release your grip on relationships, purpose, or plans, and how to hear God clearly when He calls you into the quiet. If you’ve been feeling a pull to slow down, step back, or lay something at God’s altar… this episode is your confirmation. 👑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode What a season of consecration really means and why God calls you into it How to surrender control to God when you’re afraid to let go Why stillness and solitude are necessary to hear God clearly How unhealed areas can keep you stuck in repeating cycles What it looks like to trust God even when you don’t know the outcome 🔥 Key Takeaways Surrender is not loss—it’s alignment with God’s will You cannot hear God clearly when your life is full of noise God uses seasons of stillness to refine, heal, and prepare you What you refuse to heal, you will repeat Obedience opens the door for God to move in your life 📖 Scriptures Referenced Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Ecclesiastes 3:1 “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Luke 5:16 “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” John 15:2 “He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit… while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” Psalm 46:10 “Be still, and know that I am God.” 📝 Royal Reflection What is God asking you to release in this season? Where is He calling you to be still… but you’ve been resisting? What might He be trying to heal in you before your next level? 📌 Royal Assignment This week, enter your Royal Pause: Lay one thing down before God Spend intentional quiet time with Him Ask: “God, what are You trying to show me in this season?” Write down what He reveals to you. 💌 Stay Connected If this episode spoke to you, make sure you follow the podcast so you’re notified when new episodes are released. Share this with a sister who may be in her own season of surrender. 👑 Closing No perfection. Just total surrender. Here’s to your season of consecration.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with Emily: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    10 min

  2. APR 19

    Christian Breakup Healing: Reclaim Your Identity & Let Go of Toxic Labels

    Who did you become in that relationship… and is that really who you are? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, we’re gently unpacking the identity you may have picked up in heartbreak—the labels, the self-doubt, and the quiet ways toxic love can reshape how you see yourself. Maybe you were called “too much.” Maybe you started to believe you were hard to love. Maybe you’re still carrying words that were never yours to keep. Sis… this is your moment to pause. Through truth, Scripture, and a spirit-led message, this episode will help you begin healing your identity after a breakup and releasing the labels that came from a toxic relationship. God is not calling you what they called you. He’s restoring you back to who you’ve always been in Him. 👑 What You’ll Receive in This Episode Encouragement for healing after a breakup and emotional pain Truth about how toxic relationships can distort your identity A faith-based perspective on finding your worth in God Gentle guidance on letting go of labels that don’t align with who God says you are A reminder that you are still whole, chosen, and deeply loved 🌿 This Episode Is For You If… You’re healing from a toxic or emotionally unhealthy relationship You’ve struggled with feeling like you’re “too much” or “not enough” You’re trying to rebuild your confidence after a breakup You want to reconnect with your identity in Christ You’re ready to release the past and step into God-led love 📖 Scripture in This Episode 2 Corinthians 5:17 “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here.” 💬 Sis, Let’s Stay Connected If this episode spoke to your heart, share it with another woman who may be healing too 🤍 You’re not who that relationship said you were. You’re who God says you are. 👑 Royal Reminder You didn’t lose yourself. You just learned survival. Now… it’s time for your Royal Return. ✨   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with Emily: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    4 min

  3. APR 17

    How to Heal Your Identity After a Breakup (Breaking Toxic Relationship Labels)

    Have you ever looked in the mirror after a breakup and didn’t recognize the woman staring back at you? Toxic relationships don’t just break hearts… they blur identity. They slowly introduce lies like “I’m not enough,” “I’m too much,” or “I’m hard to love”—until you start questioning who you really are. In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re stepping into deep healing and restoration as we talk about what it means to reclaim your identity after toxic love. This is not just about moving on from a relationship… it’s about moving back into the woman God originally created you to be. Together, we’re breaking agreement with the lies, releasing the version of you that survived toxicity, and anchoring your identity in Christ—not your past, not your mistakes, and not what someone else projected onto you. You’ll learn how to: Identify the lies toxic relationships plant in your identity Release shame and forgive your past self with compassion Rebuild your identity on biblical truth and God’s Word Recognize how healing reshapes what you’re attracted to Begin practical steps to restore your self-worth daily Scripture reference: Psalm 139:14, 1 Corinthians 6:20, Galatians 5:22–23 This episode is your reminder that you are not damaged—you are deeply known, fully loved, and already called chosen. Royal Reflection Question What lie from your past relationship are you still unconsciously believing about yourself? Royal Assignment This week: Write down the identity lies you’ve carried Write a forgiveness letter to your past self Speak God’s truth over yourself daily using Scripture If this episode speaks to you, share it with a sister who needs healing and leave a review—it helps more women step into their Royal Return. Until next time… Heal. Rise. Love. 👑   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with Emily: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    16 min

  4. APR 15

    Why You Keep Attracting Toxic Relationships (And How to Stop)

    In this episode, we talk about the deeper reason you keep attracting toxic relationships—and how to finally break the cycle. This is for the woman who is tired of repeating the same patterns and ready to experience healthy, God-led love. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with clarity, conviction, and a new standard for what you allow. What You’ll Learn: How your identity influences what you attract Why ignoring red flags keeps you stuck in cycles How to establish standards and boundaries that protect your heart Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 4:23 1 Corinthians 15:33 Romans 12:2 Your Next Step: Complete your Royal Healing Assignment: Identify your pattern, raise your standard, and bring it to God. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with Emily: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    14 min

  5. APR 11

    The Softness You Buried: How God Heals a Hardened Heart For Healthy Love

    Have you ever felt like you had to harden your heart just to survive what you went through? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, we’re having a real, soul-deep moment about the softness you didn’t lose—but buried. The tenderness you tucked away after heartbreak, disappointment, and loving people who didn’t know how to love you back. Sis… this is your Royal Pause—your moment to exhale and let God meet you right where you are. Through Ezekiel 36:26, we’re reminded that God is not asking you to stay guarded forever. He’s gently restoring your heart—removing the hardness that came from survival and replacing it with a heart that can feel, love, and trust again… this time with wisdom, discernment, and His covering. This episode is for the woman who: Feels emotionally guarded after a toxic relationship Struggles to trust or open her heart again Is healing from heartbreak but doesn’t want to lose her softness Desires God-led love but is afraid of being hurt again You’ll be reminded that your softness is not a weakness—it’s something God is restoring and protecting. What You’ll Receive in This Episode: Encouragement for healing after emotional pain and toxic love Truth about why you hardened your heart—and why it’s safe to soften again A faith-based perspective on emotional healing and restoration A gentle reminder that God is your safe place first Key Scripture: 📖 Ezekiel 36:26 — “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you…” Closing Note: Sis, you don’t have to stay guarded to stay safe. God is restoring your heart… and this time, your softness is covered. 👑🤍 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    4 min

  6. APR 10

    From Hardened to Healed: Embracing Your God-Given Softness and Strength to Receive Love

    In this Real Talk Friday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re diving deep into what it truly means to become a healed, authentic, soft—but strong—woman. If you’ve ever felt like you had to harden your heart to survive toxic relationships, this episode will walk you through how God restores your softness without removing your strength. We’re breaking down: The difference between being guarded vs. discerning Why softness is not weakness (biblically) How healing allows you to be vulnerable and wise The emotional posture required for a God-led relationship With powerful scriptures like Ezekiel 36:26, Proverbs 4:23, and 2 Corinthians 12:9, this episode will help you step into your identity as a whole, healed woman prepared for healthy, Kingdom love. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    12 min

  7. APR 8

    Feeling Stuck? Stop the Cycle and Rebuild Your Identity in Christ After Heartbreak

    You left… so why do you still feel stuck? Even after walking away from a toxic relationship, many women still carry the emotional weight of guilt, shame, and confusion. You may be free physically—but mentally and spiritually, you still feel tied to the past. In this powerful, faith-based episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we walk through how to truly heal after heartbreak by releasing guilt, restoring your identity in Christ, and preparing your heart for God-led love. This is your invitation into your Royal Return—where you stop carrying what broke you and start becoming who God created you to be. 👑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why you still feel guilty after leaving a toxic relationship How toxic relationships distort your identity and self-worth The truth about shame vs. conviction (and how to release both) How to heal emotionally and spiritually after heartbreak What it means to rebuild your identity in Christ How to prepare your heart (“Heart-Soil”) for healthy, God-led love ✨ Key Concepts in This Episode 👑 Cleaning the Crown – Releasing shame and restoring your identity 🌱 Heart-Soil Healing – Preparing your heart for what God has next ✨ The Divine Wash – A 3-step process to release guilt and step into grace 💡 The 3 Steps to Release Guilt & Heal Release the Savior Complex You were never responsible for fixing him—God is. Separate Your Past from Your Identity What you experienced is not who you are. Accept the Finished Work of Grace You don’t earn healing—you receive it through God. 📖 Scripture for This Season Ezekiel 36:26 – “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 – “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.” Romans 12:2 – “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” 🪞 Reflection Question Where are you still carrying guilt for something God has already forgiven? ✍🏽 Your Healing Assignment Release what was never yours to carry Journal: “Who God is calling me to become” Practice surrender instead of self-condemnation 💖 Reminder You are not too broken. You are not too far gone. You are not disqualified from healthy, God-led love. This is your Royal Return.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    9 min

  8. APR 4

    The Silent Saturday: How to Trust God in the In-Between and Wait for Your Breakthrough

    "Are you living in the 'Silent Saturday' of your life? In this episode, we’re exploring The Day In Between—the space between the pain of your past and the beauty of God’s promise. If you are trusting God for a breakthrough but feel like He is silent, this word is for you."   Are you living in the “Silent Saturday” of your life? That space where the relationship has ended… the decision has been made… you’ve walked away from what was breaking you… But the breakthrough hasn’t come yet. In this powerful Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode, we step into The Day In Between—the sacred space between the pain of your past and the promises of God. If you’ve been waiting on God, trusting Him for restoration, clarity, or God-led love—but it feels like He’s silent… this word is for you. Sis, God is not absent in your waiting. He is working. Through Scripture and a spirit-led message, you’ll be reminded that: The silence is not rejection—it’s preparation Your waiting season is not wasted—it’s purposeful God’s promises don’t disappear just because you can’t see them yet This episode will help you release fear, trust God deeper, and rest in His timing as you prepare for the breakthrough that’s already in motion. 👑 What You’ll Receive in This Episode Encouragement for the “in-between” season after heartbreak or letting go Faith-based truth about trusting God when He feels silent A reminder that God’s promises still stand, even in the waiting Perspective on how God is working behind the scenes in your life A powerful prayer to help you surrender, trust, and find peace 🌿 This Episode Is For You If… You recently left a toxic relationship and feel stuck in the aftermath You’re waiting on God’s promise but struggling with doubt or fear You feel like God is silent or distant in this season You’re tired of survival mode and ready to step into peace and trust You want to prepare your heart for healthy, God-led love 📖 Scripture in This Episode Lamentations 3:25–26 “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the one who seeks Him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com 👑 Royal Reminder You are not stuck. You are not forgotten. You are not behind. You are in The Day In Between… And your breakthrough is still coming. ✨

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So… you’re out of the toxic relationship. Now what? What do you do when the war is over… and you’re left standing in the ashes of a breakup, holding a broken heart, feeling heartbroken, confused, and unsure of who you even are anymore? You rise. But first… you heal. Because after heartbreak, we don’t rush into the next relationship. We don’t ignore the red flags we once overlooked. We don’t repeat cycles that left us empty, anxious, and unseen. This is your healing season. You may feel like you’ve lost yourself. Like your identity was stripped in that toxic relationship. Like your heart will never feel safe again. Like you’ll never love the same after the breakup.` But healing is possible. Restoration is real. And your story is not over. I know… because I’ve been there. Girl, Date the Good Guy is a christian podcast for women healing after breakup, navigating heartbreak, and learning how to rebuild after a broken heart. This space is for the woman who is done ignoring red flags, done settling for less, and ready to experience the kind of healthy, God-led love she was always meant for and when the time is right, learn how to walk in it, build it, and sustain it in The Good Guy Society.  Hosted by Emily Jordan, this podcast is your royal training ground for healing, identity, and discernment. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to break free from toxic cycles, heal deeply, strengthen your boundaries, and prepare for a relationship rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. Because if you don’t heal… you risk repeating the same toxic relationship patterns—or choosing another man who reflects what you haven’t yet restored. And you don’t want that. Here, we do the real work: We heal the heartbreak. We confront the broken heart. We learn from the pain. We stop ignoring red flags. We rebuild from the inside out. Because healing isn’t just something you do… it becomes who you are. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Royal Return and walk the Royal Transformation Path: 👑 Reclaim your identity after a toxic relationship 🪞 Strengthen discernment and recognize red flags early ⚔️ Release heartbreak, heal your broken heart, and break toxic cycles 📜 Establish boundaries that protect your peace 🛡️ Date from healing—not wounds 🏛️ Prepare for a healthy, God-led relationship Because God is a God of restoration. He can heal what was broken, restore what was lost, and rewrite your love story in ways you never imagined. This is your Royal Return. So if you’re ready to stop repeating cycles, rise from the ashes of heartbreak, and step into the love God has prepared for you… Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy. Grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play- Your royal training begins now. 👑 XOXO Emily 👑 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com  

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