The Impact Marriage Podcast with Allan & Nicole Blain | For Those That Want to Live Relationship-Rich!

Allan & Nicole Blain
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Welcome to the Impact Marriage podcast — a podcast created to strengthen and inspire yours. This is a space for honest, real-life conversations about marriage—the joys, the challenges, the growth, the grit—and the practical tools that help couples build a God-honoring, joy-filled marriage. We’re your hosts, Allan & Nicole Blain. Married young at 20, now 33 years and counting, parents to six, and more in love today than when we began. We believe marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a calling, a mission, and one of the most powerful ways to make an impact in the world. Our heart is simple: to help you cultivate a passion-filled, mission-driven, relationship-rich marriage—one marked by faith, friendship, fun, intimacy, and unwavering commitment. If you’re ready to grow deeper, love stronger, and build a marriage that leaves a legacy…you’re in the right place. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway” 

Episodes

  1. 004 - The 7 Pillars of Intimacy for a Red Hot Marriage

    1D AGO

    004 - The 7 Pillars of Intimacy for a Red Hot Marriage

    In this episode of the Impact Marriage Podcast, hosts Allan and Nicole Blain discuss the essential elements of intimacy in a marriage. They explore seven pillars of intimacy: spiritual, emotional, physical, intellectual, conflict resolution, intentional pursuit, and shared mission. The conversation emphasizes the interconnectedness of these pillars and how they contribute to a fulfilling and God-honoring marriage. The hosts share personal experiences and practical advice to help couples deepen their intimacy and strengthen their relationship. Who are we? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Intimacy in Marriage01:24 Exploring the Seven Pillars of Intimacy03:50 Spiritual Intimacy: The Foundation of Marriage11:33 Emotional Intimacy: Creating Safety and Vulnerability19:40 Physical Intimacy: God's Design for Oneness27:53 The Importance of Intimacy in Marriage32:29 Conflict Resolution and Forgiveness42:02 Intentional Pursuit and Romance48:00 Shared Mission in Marriage Takeaways: Intimacy is multi-faceted, including spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and physical aspects.Spiritual intimacy is foundational for a strong marriage.Emotional intimacy fosters safety and vulnerability between partners.Physical intimacy is God's design for marital oneness.Intellectual intimacy involves dreaming and growing together as a couple.Conflict resolution is essential for maintaining intimacy and connection.Intentional pursuit and romance are necessary to keep the relationship vibrant.A shared mission strengthens the bond between spouses and gives purpose to the marriage.Couples should prioritize open communication and forgiveness to navigate conflicts.Investing in these seven pillars can lead to a thriving and passionate marriage. Keywords: marriage, intimacy, spiritual intimacy, emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, conflict resolution, romance, shared mission, relationship advice, Christian marriage

    57 min
  2. 003 - Power of Planning the Year Together: Two Hearts, One Vision

    FEB 5

    003 - Power of Planning the Year Together: Two Hearts, One Vision

    FREE DOWNLOAD: Yearly Planning Guide for Couples In this episode of the Impact Marriage Podcast, Allan and Nicole Blain discuss the importance of planning the year ahead as a couple. They emphasize the need for unity, communication, and intentionality in creating a shared vision for the year. The conversation covers various aspects of life, including spiritual growth, marriage protection, family relationships, health, and finances. The hosts provide practical tips for effective planning, including starting with prayer, dreaming together, and evaluating key areas for growth. They encourage couples to make planning fun and life-giving, while also addressing potential tension points and the importance of building margin in the calendar. The episode concludes with actionable steps for couples to take in their planning process. Who are we? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes — she played volleyball, I played baseball — just five days after Nicole’s 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after her 20th, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Impact Marriage Podcast00:27 Planning the Year Ahead Together02:24 Importance of Communication in Marriage05:14 Building Trust and Teamwork through Planning07:55 Starting with Prayer and Seeking God's Guidance09:50 Creating a Shared Vision for the Year12:10 Key Areas for Growth: Spirituality, Marriage, and Family14:29 Health and Wellness as a Priority24:26 Financial Freedom and Planning26:22 The Importance of Unity in Family Decisions28:10 Navigating Homeschooling Decisions30:22 Proactive Communication in Relationships33:13 Building Margin and Flexibility in Planning36:01 Making Planning Fun and Engaging38:18 Effective Calendar Management for Couples41:11 Prioritizing Big Rocks in Your Calendar45:48 Integrating Health and Finances into Planning48:38 The Challenge of Intentional Planning Takeaways: Planning together reduces stress and builds unity.Communication is key to preventing resentment.It's never too late to plan your year.Start with prayer to set the right tone.Vision casting creates buy-in and unity.Identify key areas for growth in your life.Protect your marriage through intentional planning.Create family memories through intentional time together.Health is vital for a fulfilling life.Financial freedom allows for greater choices and impact. Keywords: marriage, planning, communication, trust, vision, family, health, finances, intentionality, unity

    54 min
  3. 002 - Our Story (Part 2) - From First Date to Lifelong Partnership

    JAN 29

    002 - Our Story (Part 2) - From First Date to Lifelong Partnership

    In this episode of the Impact Marriage Podcast, Allan and Nicole Blain share their journey from their first date to over 33 years of marriage. They discuss the challenges they faced, including financial struggles, health issues, and family crises, and how these experiences shaped their relationship. The couple emphasizes the importance of faith, communication, and community in navigating the ups and downs of marriage. They also introduce their new podcast, aimed at providing practical advice and encouragement for couples seeking to strengthen their relationships. Sound Bites: "I viewed Nicole as way out of my league." "She surprised me, shocked me and said yes." "We can look back and see how God showed up." Who are we? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes — she played volleyball, I played baseball — just five days after Nicole’s 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after her 20th, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Impact Marriage Podcast00:55 The Beginning of Their Love Story09:56 Early Marriage Challenges and Financial Struggles11:47 Faith and Family: The Desire for More Children22:31 Finding Community and Mentorship24:43 A Leap of Faith: Moving to Georgia25:35 The Journey to Expanding Their Family27:56 Family Growth and Life Changes29:18 Career Transitions and Financial Struggles32:36 Health Challenges and Resilience36:47 Navigating Personal Loss and Addiction46:15 A New Direction: Building a Home-Based Business51:47 Launching the Impact Marriage Podcast Takeaways: Authenticity in marriage is crucial for a fulfilling relationship.Early challenges can strengthen a marriage if faced together.Communication is key in navigating family planning and desires.Financial struggles can teach valuable lessons about money management.Health issues can impact relationships but can also lead to growth.Spiritual growth can transform personal and marital dynamics.Navigating family crises requires support and understanding.Career changes can lead to discovering true passions and purpose.Building a supportive community is essential for marriage.Sharing experiences can help others facing similar challenges. Keywords: marriage, relationship advice, family, love story, health challenges, personal growth, financial struggles, parenting, podcast, Christian marriage

    56 min
  4. 001 - Our Story (Part 1) - Unpacking Our Love Story

    JAN 22

    001 - Our Story (Part 1) - Unpacking Our Love Story

    In this episode of the Impact Marriage Podcast, hosts Allan and Nicole Blain share the first part of their love story, delving into their childhoods and the experiences that shaped their perspectives on marriage. They discuss the importance of understanding one's backstory in the context of relationships, highlighting how their unique upbringings influenced their views on faith, family, and personal growth. The episode culminates in their meeting during college, setting the stage for the next part of their story. Who are we? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes — she played volleyball, I played baseball — just five days after Nicole’s 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after her 20th, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Sound Bites: "We all come with a past.""Sports saved me.""I want a bodyguard!"Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Impact Marriage Podcast01:24 The Importance of Backstory in Marriage01:47 Allan's Childhood and Upbringing06:31 Nicole's Childhood and Family Dynamics12:05 The Role of Sports and Freedom in Their Lives15:12 Meeting in College: The Beginning of Their Love Story28:04 The Complexity of Faith and RelationshipsTakeaways: The importance of sharing personal backstories in marriage.Everyone comes into marriage with different experiences and 'baggage'.Childhood experiences shape our perspectives on relationships.Allan grew up in a strict, legalistic church environment.Nicole's upbringing was marked by freedom and a lack of parental guidance.Sports played a significant role in both Allan and Nicole's lives.Meeting in college was a pivotal moment in their relationship.Faith and personal beliefs can complicate relationships.Understanding each other's backgrounds fosters deeper connections.The journey of faith is ongoing and can evolve over time. Keywords: marriage, love story, childhood, family dynamics, faith, relationships, sports, upbringing, podcast, personal growth

    30 min
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Welcome to the Impact Marriage podcast — a podcast created to strengthen and inspire yours. This is a space for honest, real-life conversations about marriage—the joys, the challenges, the growth, the grit—and the practical tools that help couples build a God-honoring, joy-filled marriage. We’re your hosts, Allan & Nicole Blain. Married young at 20, now 33 years and counting, parents to six, and more in love today than when we began. We believe marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a calling, a mission, and one of the most powerful ways to make an impact in the world. Our heart is simple: to help you cultivate a passion-filled, mission-driven, relationship-rich marriage—one marked by faith, friendship, fun, intimacy, and unwavering commitment. If you’re ready to grow deeper, love stronger, and build a marriage that leaves a legacy…you’re in the right place. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway” 

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