Plenty of Husbands Podcast

Robin Fisher Roffer
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In the Plenty of Husbands : Success in Midlife Love podcast, Robin Fisher Roffer proves that love isn’t just for the lucky or the young. It’s for women who are older, wiser, and hotter, and anyone willing to dive into the messy, beautiful chaos love throws their way, and still say, “Bring it on, baby!” Each episode features expert guests who share their wisdom on navigating the complexities of finding love later in life—think dating apps, texting etiquette, sex, step kids, and dealing with exes. With humor and candor, Robin reflects on her journey through nine proposals and three marriages, revealing the lessons learned from relationships that fell short and the growth that led her to finding her true love at 55. This is juicy stuff and a true celebration of resilience and self-acceptance, offering hope that love is always within reach, no matter how many husbands it takes.

  1. 22h ago

    Stop Auditioning and Waiting to Be Chosen

    In this transformative episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer and clinical psychologist Dr. Stephanie Byrd challenge women to stop auditioning for love and waiting to be chosen. They emphasize that love is not just about being selected by a partner but about understanding oneself and recognizing personal worth. By shifting the focus from seeking validation to evaluating compatibility, women can embrace their midlife journeys with confidence, fostering genuine connections that prioritize emotional availability and self-love. Key Takeaways: • Redefining Love: Love is not just about being chosen; it’s about understanding oneself and what truly matters in relationships. • Dating as Evaluation: Shift from auditioning for love to evaluating compatibility. Focus on connection rather than chemistry. • Emotional Healing: Doing the inner work is crucial. Unresolved wounds can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns. • Chemistry vs. Connection: Recognize the difference between genuine attraction and familiar emotional triggers. Pay attention to body signals. • Boundaries and Self-Love: Establish healthy boundaries and prioritize self-love to cultivate deeper relationships. • Reciprocity in Relationships: Look for mutual communication and emotional availability in partners to gauge relationship potential. • Slow Down: In this fast-paced dating culture, take the time to build meaningful connections rather than rushing into relationships Tune in to redefine true love and what it means to take charge of your dating experience. Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

  2. Jul 22

    Love Beyond Borders: navigating cultural differences

    Join Robin Fisher Roffer on this enlightening episode of Plenty of Husbands as she explores the intricate tapestry of love across cultural divides. This week’s guest is Dr. Carlene Lawson, a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, who specializes in guiding couples through the complexities of cultural differences. Whether you are dating someone from another country, religion, culture or upbringing, you’ll find answers on how to turn off the judgment and find common ground. Dr. Lawson emphasizes the importance of embracing our authentic selves, letting go of assumptions, and fostering curiosity to build genuine connections. Whether you’re in a multicultural relationship or simply navigating the dating landscape, this episode provides essential insights and practical strategies for fostering acceptance and respect. Key Takeaways: • Understanding the impact of trauma on relationship dynamics • The vital role of curiosity in dismantling barriers • Practical exercises for self-discovery and authenticity • Differentiating between connection and compatibility • Strategies for nurturing acceptance across cultural divides Tune in to uncover the secrets to love that transcends borders and celebrate the beauty of diversity! Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

  3. Jul 15

    Rediscovering Love: Julie's Incredible Second Chance

    Have you ever wondered what happened to your high school or college sweetheart? Or that guy at work you couldn’t date at the time, but secretly wished you could? As we journey through life, our perceptions of love and relationships evolve, and it’s never too late to rewrite your story. In this inspiring episode of Plenty of Husbands, Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes Julie Ferman, a renowned matchmaker and dating coach. Julie shares her remarkable love story, recounting how a simple card led her to reconnect with a college friend and ultimately find true love. Together, Robin and Julie explore how one of the world’s best matchmakers finally met her match, as well as the complexities of dating in midlife, the importance of self-love, and the courage it takes to pursue happiness. Tune in for this heartfelt narrative, practical advice, and essential keys to overcoming emotional barriers as you navigate the world of love and relationships. Key Takeaways: • It’s Never Too Late: Love can blossom at any age, even after years of feeling unfulfilled. • Self-Love is Essential: Prioritizing your own emotional well-being is crucial for attracting the right partner. • Reconnecting Matters: Revisiting old connections can lead to unexpected opportunities for love. • Courage to Change: Leaving unfulfilling relationships opens the door to new possibilities. • Clear Criteria: Identifying your top relationship criteria can help avoid settling in future partnerships. • Sending Out Ships: Be proactive in your love life by reaching out to potential connections and nurturing relationships. • Embrace Transformation: Growth and self-discovery often lead to deeper, more meaningful connections. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love in midlife, providing hope, inspiration, and actionable advice for anyone who is looking for love, especially if they want to reconnect with an old flame.

  4. Jul 8

    Love After Loss

    Join us for a transformative episode of Plenty of Husbands! In this must-listen conversation, host Robin Fisher Roffer teams up with expert Justin Pere, a licensed mental health counselor, to explore the intricacies of finding love again after heartbreak. What can you expect? • Uncover the Truth: Get inside the minds of single men in midlife and discover what they genuinely want in a partner. • Emotional Safety Matters: Learn how to create emotional safety in new relationships, paving the way for deeper connections. • Practical Insights: From overcoming mental barriers to reigniting intimacy, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Whether you're freshly single or simply seeking a new perspective, this episode will inspire hope and empower you to embrace love once more. Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story. Grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s embark on the journey to love again!

  5. Jul 1

    Shamelessly Sexy: A Guide to Embracing Your Desires

    In this upcoming episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes the inspiring Tash Doherty, a Wharton Business School graduate who has transitioned from a successful career in finance to becoming a celebrated author and advocate for shameless sexuality. With her works like The Intimacy Journal and her engaging Substack: Misseducated by Tash Doherty.. Tash empowers women to embrace their desires unapologetically.. Key Takeaways: • Embrace Your Desires: Tash emphasizes that being "shamelessly sexy" is about knowing what you want and believing you deserve it. This can range from personal fulfillment to intimate relationships. • Self-Discovery and Authenticity: The episode explores how living authentically and pursuing pleasure can lead to a more fulfilling life. Tash shares her journey of self-discovery in vibrant Mexico City, illustrating the importance of surrounding yourself with what brings joy. • Challenge Societal Norms: Women are encouraged to reject societal pressures regarding body image and sexuality. Tash discusses how embracing imperfections can lead to a more liberated and enjoyable life. • Cultivate Curiosity: Tash advocates for sexual exploration and curiosity, suggesting that women should feel empowered to express their needs in intimate relationships. The importance of communication and mutual satisfaction is a recurring theme. • Self-Care Practices: Practical tips are offered, from journaling to engaging in activities that stimulate the senses, helping women to reconnect with their bodies and desires. • Community and Support: Tash discusses the value of having a supportive network of friends to share experiences with, making the journey of self-exploration less daunting and more enriching. Join us for a conversation that promises empowerment and inspiration for living your most authentic and sexy life. Tune in and discover how to embrace your journey of self-love and pleasure unapologetically!

  6. Jun 24

    Transform Your Love Life: Astrology, Shadow Work, and Finding Your Match

    In this week’s episode, Robin speaks with renowned astrologer Rebeca Eigen, a relationship expert who combines astrology with Jungian shadow work to illuminate the hidden dynamics in our love lives. Key Highlights: • Astrological Compatibility: Discover how your zodiac sign impacts your romantic relationships. Rebeca emphasizes the role of the seventh house in your birth chart, revealing the unconscious traits we are drawn to in partners. • Understanding Your Shadow: Rebeca explores the concept of shadow work, explaining how our attractions often reflect unrecognized aspects of ourselves. Learning to embrace these qualities can lead to healthier relationships. • Personal Stories: Robin shares her own relationship journey, illustrating how her experiences with different astrological signs have shaped her understanding of love. • Practical Advice: Rebeca provides actionable insights on how to navigate relationships with awareness, encouraging listeners to recognize patterns and work on personal growth. • Real-Life Transformations: Rebeca shares success stories of couples who have benefitted from understanding their charts and engaging in shadow work, highlighting the profound changes they experienced. • The Age of Aquarius: The discussion delves into the transformative energy of the current astrological age, emphasizing the importance of honesty and friendship in relationships. ✨ Join the conversation and unlock the secrets of your love life! The stars reflect our hearts. Love is about growing together and celebrating each other's uniqueness. By understanding astrological influences and embracing our shadows, we can unlock deeper connections and transformations. Connect with Rebeca Eigen, schedule a consultation, buy her book or join a webinar at shadowdance.com and take the first step towards a vibrant love life!

  7. Jun 17

    From Weddings to Graduations: Handling Exes with Grace

    In this episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes licensed marriage and family therapist Todd Malloy to explore the dynamics of dealing with ex-partners during significant summer events. Their conversation dives into managing emotions, preparing for social gatherings, and reigniting intimacy in new relationships. Key Takeaways: Prepare Emotionally for Major Events: Understand your feelings and create a plan to navigate encounters with exes at weddings, graduations, and family gatherings.Utilize Allies: Have a trusted friend or family member who can provide support or an escape route if emotions become overwhelming during social interactions.Reignite Your Spark: After a period of celibacy, focus on self-discovery and understanding your needs to foster intimacy in new relationships. Join Robin as she dives into Todd's insights on handling exes with grace and building fulfilling relationships. It’s a conversation that promises to inspire and enlighten!

  8. Jun 10

    Keys to Relationship Success After The First 90 Days

    In this enlightening episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes Dr. Bethany Harris, a compassionate psychologist and owner of Haven Psychology Group. As the conversation unfolds, they delve into the intricacies of building and maintaining healthy relationships, especially for women navigating midlife. Dr. Harris emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, honest communication, and emotional safety in nurturing deep connections. They explore the differences between new love and long-term partnerships, highlighting how vulnerability and intentionality are key to evolving relationships. Listeners will gain insights into breaking free from patterns like people-pleasing and conflict avoidance and learn effective strategies for reinforcing emotional intimacy. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to cultivate fulfilling, authentic partnerships. Key Takeaways: Self-Awareness: Understanding your own patterns and emotional needs is crucial for healthy relationships.Vulnerability: Engaging openly and honestly with your partner fosters deeper connections and trust.Intentionality: Relationships require ongoing effort and intention to thrive beyond the initial excitement.Conflict as Growth: Healthy relationships include navigating conflicts together, leading to stronger bonds and resilience.Emotional Intimacy: Regular check-ins and expressing gratitude can enhance intimacy and connection over time. This episode will inspire and empower you, encouraging you to embrace love in all its forms as they journey through midlife. If you’re ready to rethink your approach to relationships, tune in and discover how to step into your next chapter with confidence!

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In the Plenty of Husbands : Success in Midlife Love podcast, Robin Fisher Roffer proves that love isn’t just for the lucky or the young. It’s for women who are older, wiser, and hotter, and anyone willing to dive into the messy, beautiful chaos love throws their way, and still say, “Bring it on, baby!” Each episode features expert guests who share their wisdom on navigating the complexities of finding love later in life—think dating apps, texting etiquette, sex, step kids, and dealing with exes. With humor and candor, Robin reflects on her journey through nine proposals and three marriages, revealing the lessons learned from relationships that fell short and the growth that led her to finding her true love at 55. This is juicy stuff and a true celebration of resilience and self-acceptance, offering hope that love is always within reach, no matter how many husbands it takes.

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  • Creator
    Robin Fisher Roffer
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Robin Fisher Roffer
  • Show Website
    Plenty of Husbands Podcast