Plenty of Husbands Podcast

Robin Fisher Roffer
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In the Plenty of Husbands : Success in Midlife Love podcast, Robin Fisher Roffer proves that love isn’t just for the lucky or the young. It’s for women who are older, wiser, and hotter, and anyone willing to dive into the messy, beautiful chaos love throws their way, and still say, “Bring it on, baby!” Each episode features expert guests who share their wisdom on navigating the complexities of finding love later in life—think dating apps, texting etiquette, sex, step kids, and dealing with exes. With humor and candor, Robin reflects on her journey through nine proposals and three marriages, revealing the lessons learned from relationships that fell short and the growth that led her to finding her true love at 55. This is juicy stuff and a true celebration of resilience and self-acceptance, offering hope that love is always within reach, no matter how many husbands it takes.

  1. 2d ago

    Love on the Spectrum: Relationships Beyond Labels

    In this enlightening episode of the Plenty of Husbands podcast, host Robin Fisher-Roffer welcomes Amy Gravino, a passionate relationship coach and autism sexuality advocate. Building on the Netflix series Love on the Spectrum, Amy is part of a movement to give autistic individuals a voice, showcasing their ability to love and experience intimacy like anyone else. With her motto, "If you can't handle my tears, you don't deserve my cheers," Amy emphasizes that love is accessible to all, regardless of neurodiversity. She shares her personal journey navigating romance while advocating for autistic voices, highlighting the importance of comprehensive sex education and open communication. Key Takeaways • Understanding Neurodiversity: Autistic individuals seek the same emotional connections as anyone else. • The Importance of Communication: Effective communication is essential, especially for those on the spectrum. Open conversations can bridge gaps in understanding. • Empowering Autistic Voices: Advocating for better representation fosters inclusivity in the dating world. • Dignity of Risk: Autistic individuals deserve the chance to experience love and heartbreak, which build resilience and self-awareness. • Celebrating Individuality: Partners should appreciate both the everyday nuances and deeper aspects of each other’s personalities. Join us for this empowering discussion as we challenge stereotypes and celebrate the beauty of love in all its forms! You can reach out to Amy at AmyGravino.com, on Instagram at Amy.Gravino or email her at Amy@AmyGravino.com.

    38 min

  2. 3d ago

    Actress Melanie Chartoff On Finding True Love After 60

    This week, our guest is Melanie Chartoff—actress, writer, and author of the enlightening memoir Odd Woman Out. In this episode, Melanie shares her inspiring journey of finding love at 64, navigating the ups and downs of romance, and the delightful chaos of merging lives later in life. From hilarious tales of online dating to heartfelt insights on vulnerability and self-discovery, Melanie's story is a testament to the belief that love can blossom at any age. Discover how she and her husband, Stan, not only forged a deep connection but also expanded their lives through family, travel and shared adventures. With wisdom and laughter, Melanie encourages listeners to embrace their own paths to love, proving that it's never too late to write your own love story. Key Takeaways: • Self-Love is Essential: Embrace your individuality and cultivate a sense of completeness before seeking a partner. • Friendship First: Building a friendship can be the foundation for lasting love; don’t rush into romantic intimacy. • Positive Mindset: Surround yourself with uplifting influences and engage in activities that promote joy and fulfillment. • Embrace Vulnerability: Share your authentic self and be open to the unexpected twists in your love journey. • Keep It Light: A sense of humor and lightheartedness can make navigating relationships in midlife more enjoyable. Tune in for an uplifting conversation about love, laughter, and the unexpected joys of finding companionship after 60.

    41 min

  3. May 20

    Escaping the Cycle: How to Recognize and Heal from Narcissistic Abuse

    In this empowering episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes licensed psychologist Dr. Michelle Maegly, who specializes in helping individuals heal from narcissistic abuse and emotional trauma. Together, they explore the complexities of love and identity in midlife, offering insights and strategies for women navigating new relationships or seeking to reclaim their self-worth. Key Takeaways: • Understanding Narcissistic Abuse: Dr. Maegly explains the signs of narcissistic behavior and how to recognize the patterns that often ensnare empathetic individuals in toxic relationships. • Healing in Midlife: The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-trust and awareness, encouraging women to break free from past cycles and embrace their identities. • Love Bombing and Manipulation: Learn about the tactics narcissists use to draw you in and how to spot red flags early in a relationship. • The Importance of Individual Therapy: Discover why individual therapy is crucial for healing from narcissistic relationships, particularly when couples therapy can sometimes exacerbate the situation. • Empowering Yourself: Dr. Maegly shares practical steps for women to reclaim their voices and navigate their healing journeys, emphasizing collaboration and choice in therapy. • Community and Connection: The episode underscores the importance of support systems and the value of showing up for oneself and others, even during difficult times. Join us for this enlightening conversation that not only sheds light on the emotional struggles many women face but also offers hope and actionable advice for finding authentic connections and loving oneself again.

    37 min

  4. May 13

    Connection Over Chemistry: The New Blueprint for Dating

    Join host Robin Fisher-Roffer in this electrifying episode of Plenty of Husbands! We’re diving headfirst into the wild world of dating after 50 with the fierce and fabulous dating coach, Lisa Copeland. Lisa has made it her mission to help women break free from the frustrating cycle of love and rediscover their power in the dating arena. In this candid chat, Lisa shares her own rollercoaster ride through marriage, divorce, and the exhilarating journey back to love. She’s here to unpack the traps many women fall into—like chasing fleeting chemistry instead of building genuine connections. Get ready for actionable strategies that will have you finding true companionship and embracing your worth. Together, Robin and Lisa dig into the keys to understanding your values, celebrating who you are today, and crafting a quality man template that steers you clear of past pitfalls.Plus, as a special treat for our listeners, Lisa is offering a killer guide packed with 35 Proven First Date Questions to ignite meaningful conversations and 9 Smart Exit Strategies for gracefully bowing out of dates that just aren’t cutting it.Are you ready to step boldly into your new chapter of love? Tune in and discover how to rock this exciting stage of life with confidence and flair! Get your free guide here: 35 Best First Date Questions and  9 Exit Strategies for Leaving A Date Explore more at: Welcome to Find A Quality Man - You Can Find Love After 50 | Find a Quality Man

    31 min

  5. May 6

    Be the CEO of Your Love Life: Dating Strategies For Smart Successful Women

    Do you ever wonder why you're still single after all this time? Maybe you think it’s about your looks, style, or your ability to flirt and keep a man interested. You might feel that spending more time with family means less time for dating, or perhaps you blame men, convinced they only want casual flings and not real connections. If any of this resonates with you, you're not alone. But today, we’re flipping the script on that narrative!Joining me is a true expert in the field of love—Evan Marc Katz. More than just a dating coach, Evan is a dedicated husband and father with 17 years of marriage experience. After going on 300 dates before finding his beloved, he brings a wealth of insights to the table. Evan specializes in helping smart, successful women like you find lasting love. With four books, a popular podcast series, and a vibrant Substack page, he’s on a mission to empower women to take charge of their love lives. Forget about luck or chemistry; it’s time to become the CEO of your love life and make smarter choices when it comes to men. In this episode, you will learn: Understanding "Hetero Pessimism": Explore societal narratives that shape our views on love and relationships. Safe Solitude: Discover how to balance independence with the desire for meaningful connections. Dating Apps Demystified: Learn how to effectively navigate online dating for genuine connections. The Five Keys to a Healthy Relationship: Character, kindness, consistency, communication, and commitment. Becoming the CEO of Your Love Life: Gain actionable strategies to take control of your dating journey. Mindset Shifts: Shift your perspective from scarcity to abundance in love and relationships. Emotional Availability: Learn how to identify truly available men ready for commitment. Breaking Old Patterns: Understand how to recognize and break free from unhealthy dating patterns. If you’re ready to reignite your belief in love and gain practical tips and tools to get back out there, this episode is for you!

    39 min

  6. Apr 29

    Love Unlocked: Decluttering Your Heart with Lisa Begley

    Get ready to break down those emotional walls and rediscover the love you deserve! In this must-listen episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer sits down with the fabulous Lisa Begley, author of The Sock Drawer Philosophy. Lisa, a master of self-reinvention, shares her killer advice on navigating the messy world of dating after heartache. She dives into: • Self-Reflection & Healing: Why taking a breather after a breakup is not just okay—it's essential! Discover how to prioritize yourself before diving back into the dating pool. • The Drawer Method: Forget the chaos! Lisa’s structured approach to dating is a game-changer, offering step-by-step guidance to help you tidy up your love life. • Facing Your Fears: Let’s confront that emotional baggage together! Lisa’s insights on processing past relationships will empower you to step confidently into new love. This episode is packed with wisdom, practical tips, and surprising moments that will leave you ready to declutter your heart with clarity and courage. Tune in and unlock the love you’ve been waiting for!

    26 min

  7. Apr 22

    The Secrets To a Badass Dating Profile

    Welcome back to Plenty of Husbands, your go-to podcast for fierce, fabulous women who are older, wiser, and hotter! This week, we’re diving into the dating jungle of 2026 with the incredible Natalie Post, a dating photographer and coach who’s here to shake things up. Say goodbye to the shame of your past and hello to the empowered, authentic love life you deserve. Get ready to learn how to craft a killer dating profile that doesn’t just attract attention, but the right attention. Natalie’s got the insider tips to help you break free from old patterns and embrace the love that’s waiting for you. Key Takeaways:Own Your Story: Your dating history is your badge of honor, not a scarlet letter. Wear it proudly!Profile Perfection: Your dating profile should scream authenticity and showcase the real you — no filters, please!Connection is Queen: Ditch the convenience culture. Real love requires real effort, so get out there and connect!Friendship First: Strong friendships are the secret sauce to better dating. Surround yourself with those who uplift you.Reimagine Attraction: Let go of outdated expectations. Everyone is a potential dream partner if you look beyond the surface!

    39 min

  8. Apr 15

    Busting the Myths: Hormones, Health and Happiness

    In this empowering episode, Robin welcomes hormone specialist Dr. LaKeischa McMillan to discuss the critical role hormones play in women's lives, especially during midlife. This is not just a medical conversation; it's a vital exploration of self-empowerment, confidence, and the journey of dating in the later stages of life. Dr. LaKeischa draws on her extensive experience to debunk common myths around hormone therapy, explaining how understanding and balancing hormones can rejuvenate energy, enhance mental clarity, and ultimately improve relationships. From tackling the taboo surrounding hormone therapy to emphasizing its life-changing benefits, this episode is a must-listen for women navigating perimenopause and menopause. Join us for an enlightening conversation that encourages women to reclaim their vitality and embrace love again. 5 Key Takeaways from This Episode: Understanding Hormonal Changes: Learn how hormonal shifts during perimenopause and menopause affect not just physical health but also mental clarity, confidence, and relationships. Debunking Myths: Discover common misconceptions about hormone therapy, including the idea that it's dangerous or unnecessary, and understand the science behind safe, effective options. The Role of Hormones in Well-being: Gain insights into how hormones like estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone contribute to overall health, including heart health, bone density, and mood regulation. Empowerment Through Knowledge: Understand the importance of advocating for your health by seeking information and finding practitioners who prioritize your well-being in the context of hormonal health. Practical Tips for Dating in Midlife: Get actionable advice on how to navigate the dating scene with renewed confidence, emphasizing the connection between self-esteem, hormonal balance, and fulfilling relationships. How to Connect with Dr. LaKeischa: Ready to take charge of your hormonal health? Connect with Dr. LaKeischa by visiting TalkHormones.com to schedule a virtual consultation.

    39 min
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In the Plenty of Husbands : Success in Midlife Love podcast, Robin Fisher Roffer proves that love isn’t just for the lucky or the young. It’s for women who are older, wiser, and hotter, and anyone willing to dive into the messy, beautiful chaos love throws their way, and still say, “Bring it on, baby!” Each episode features expert guests who share their wisdom on navigating the complexities of finding love later in life—think dating apps, texting etiquette, sex, step kids, and dealing with exes. With humor and candor, Robin reflects on her journey through nine proposals and three marriages, revealing the lessons learned from relationships that fell short and the growth that led her to finding her true love at 55. This is juicy stuff and a true celebration of resilience and self-acceptance, offering hope that love is always within reach, no matter how many husbands it takes.

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  • Creator
    Robin Fisher Roffer
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
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  • Copyright
    © 2026 Robin Fisher Roffer
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    Plenty of Husbands Podcast

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