No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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Let’s be honest: marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. It takes trust, resilience, reinvention, and serious effort, especially under public scrutiny. Fame doesn’t protect a relationship; it pressures it. Love alone isn’t enough. In No Safe Words, October “Tobie” Gonzalez and Tony Gonzalez, partners of 20 years, pull back the curtain on what it really takes. Part memoir, part comedy, part relationship revolution, the showfeatures raw, unfiltered conversations with high-profile couples about love, conflict, and growth in the modern world. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s the real stuff, messy and honest, so you feel a little less alone.

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    Blind Dates, Vacation Hanky-Panky, and Withstanding the Real Housewives Curse with Terry and Heather Dubrow

    We’re joined by our friends Terry and Heather Dubrow, who open up about how they met on a blind date and Heather’s initial reluctance to settle down. They get candid about the challenges (or lack thereof) of raising four children in Orange County and in the reality TV spotlight, Terry’s ultimate act of betrayal to get Heather to join The Real Housewives of Orange County, and the rules they’ve put in place to keep their marriage strong while laying it all out on television. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Sep 8

    Empty Nesting, Scheduling Sex & Fighting Fair with Chris and Vanessa Spencer

    Chris and Vanessa Spencer are in the house! They take us back to where it all started; a comedy club, Kevin Hart playing matchmaker, and a connection that turned into more than 20 years together. We get into how they’ve balanced two careers in Hollywood while raising kids close in age, the rules that keep their arguments from going off the rails (including a strict no-cursing policy), and why scheduling sex at least three days in advance might actually be the secret to keeping the spark alive. Now that the kids are out of the house, Chris and Vanessa are officially empty nesters; and they’re giving us the real story on what that next chapter of marriage looks like, what they love about it, and what you definitely shouldn’t get your hopes up about. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Sep 1

    Our Meet Cute, Dolly Parton’s Relationship Legacy and the Rules of Marriage | No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez!

    Let’s get into it! Tony and Tobie kick things off by letting you into their world; from their similarities and differences to the story of how they first met at Dennis Rodman’s bar… while Tobie had a boyfriend. They also pay tribute to Dolly Parton, reflecting on her decades-long marriage to Carl Dean and how the couple managed to balance love, independence and life in the spotlight. Tony and Tobie explore whether being opposites can actually make a relationship stronger, and get surprisingly candid about what happens when “till death do us part” becomes a reality. Finally, they break down their own “rules” of marriage, the boundaries and habits that have worked for them, and what they believe has helped their relationship last more than 20 years. It’s love, marriage, death and Dennis Rodman. No topic is off-limits, and there are definitely no safe words. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    Introducing: "No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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Ratings & Reviews

4.5
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

Let’s be honest: marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. It takes trust, resilience, reinvention, and serious effort, especially under public scrutiny. Fame doesn’t protect a relationship; it pressures it. Love alone isn’t enough. In No Safe Words, October “Tobie” Gonzalez and Tony Gonzalez, partners of 20 years, pull back the curtain on what it really takes. Part memoir, part comedy, part relationship revolution, the showfeatures raw, unfiltered conversations with high-profile couples about love, conflict, and growth in the modern world. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s the real stuff, messy and honest, so you feel a little less alone.

Information

  • Channel
    My Cultura Network
  • Creator
    iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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