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Want help for your real-life relationship problems? We address issues that couples face every day and provide tools to deal with: affairs, limerence, sexual rejection, lying, communication issues, and much more. If you want to know how to make your relationships stronger - this podcast is for you. https://www.MarriageHelper.com

  1. 2d ago

    The 4 Things That Make Your Spouse Want to Come Home

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Your spouse wants to leave. Okay. Let them. But here's what nobody tells you. Even if they walk out that door, there's still one person you're left with. You. So you might as well become someone you actually like living with. And here's the secret most people miss. That's also the one thing most likely to bring your spouse back. In this video, I teach you the framework I call the PIES. Four areas of your life. Four ways you become the most attractive version of yourself. Physical. Intellectual. Emotional. Spiritual. And I teach it while making an actual pie, because every ingredient matters, and so does every part of you. Physical isn't about a magazine cover. It's sleep, movement, food, and the energy to handle a marriage in crisis. Intellectual is becoming a fascinating person to talk to again. Emotional is being the sugar, not the salt. The compliments, not the complaints. Spiritual is living in line with what you actually believe. Here's the part you have to hear. This only works when you do it for you. Not as a tactic. Not to manipulate them back. People don't leave what they have unless they believe what they're going to is better. So be the better. I'll show you how. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    21 min

  2. Jun 5

    The Ultimate Guide To Saving Your Marriage When You're The Only One Trying

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to get the Save My Marriage Course or learn about out Couples Workshops: https://bit.ly/4vzEaps You can't control whether your spouse fights for the marriage. You can only control whether you do. That's the hardest part of saving a marriage alone. You're pouring everything in while they've checked out, filed, or already walked away. And every instinct you have right now (the pleading, the chasing, the trying to make them see) is most likely pushing them further away. In this video, I break down the three things you can start doing today, with or without your spouse on board. How to calm down so you stop reacting out of panic. How to spot the behaviors that are quietly driving them away. And how to start becoming the person they fell in love with in the first place. I've lived this. I was the one crying on the bathroom floor, convinced my husband was the whole problem. Two things turned out to be true at once. He was doing things he shouldn't have, and I was contributing to where we ended up. Owning my part is what changed everything. You can get halfway there on your own. Here's how to start. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    1h 17m

  3. May 29

    Stop Asking Your Spouse To Work On The Marriage – Part 1

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to watch part 2! https://bit.ly/4dLDJRu Asking your spouse to work on the marriage isn't working. Because they don't want to work on the marriage. That's the whole problem. Stop asking. Nobody wants more counseling. Nobody wants another conversation about "us." Nobody wants to be handed a printout of what's wrong with them on Halloween night. They need a different reason to walk through the door. In this video, Amber and I break down how to actually get a resistant spouse to a Marriage Helper workshop, even when they've filed, even when there's an affair partner, even when they've already said it's over. The shift: Stop selling the marriage. Find what actually motivates them. Take "us" off the table. Treat it like a business agreement. Your job is to get them through the door. Our job is the next 3 days. That's how marriages get saved, not by convincing your spouse to love you again, but by getting them in the room where the work actually happens. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    24 min

  4. May 22

    How To Choose Between Yourself And Your Marriage

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to sign up for coaching →  https://marriagehelper.com/coaching ---------------------------------------------------- You don't have to pick between yourself and your marriage. That's the lie that keeps people stuck. Stay and shrink. Leave and grieve. Endure the mistreatment or end the marriage. Those aren't your only options. In this video, Nathan breaks down the difference between pain and damage, and why getting this wrong is the reason so many marriages either dissolve or destroy the people inside them. Pain is what makes you stronger. Damage is what breaks you. One you push through. The other you stop. And most people can't tell them apart. He walks through two real client stories. Both women were hurting. Both were asking the same question. "Do I keep showing up, or do I walk away?" But the right answer for one was the exact opposite of the right answer for the other. One needed to lean in. The other needed to put up boundaries. And the moment they figured out which was which, everything changed. Not just for them, but for their marriages too. Because here's what nobody tells you: What's best for you is often what's best for the marriage. You don't have to choose. But you do have to know the difference between the pain that's making you stronger and the damage that's slowly killing you. That's what this video is about. How to tell which one you're in. What to do about it. And how to stop walking on a broken leg in the name of saving your marriage. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    12 min

  5. May 15

    I've Been Teaching This Marriage Principle Wrong For 14 Years...

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Take The Free Marriage Crisis Assessment Here → https://bit.ly/4nD2kfW ----------------------------------------------------------- I've been teaching this marriage principle for 14 years. And I've been getting it wrong. The principle: your spouse's perception trumps your intention. It's true. But it's only half the story. Because perception can be weaponized. "He scheduled a reminder to send me flowers... if he really loved me, he wouldn't need one." "He spent $60 on roses and didn't even put them in water." "He moved my stuff again." That's not perception. That's negative sentiment override. And it'll kill your marriage faster than the original hurt ever could. In this video, I break down what I missed for 14 years... the push-pull dynamic underneath every interaction, why your spouse's good intentions still land as wounds, and how to respond without weaponizing your perception against the person trying to love you. Grace is needed on both sides. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    14 min

  6. May 13

    Counseling vs. Marriage Helper Coaching... What's The Difference? – MH LIVE

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    1h 1m

  7. May 8

    3 Things To Know Before You Start Standing For Your Marriage

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Marriage advice isn't dead. Bad marriage advice is dead. Nobody wants to "just give it time." Nobody wants to be told to punish their spouse into coming back. Nobody wants a counselor telling them to have a revenge affair to "even the score." (Yes, real counselors actually say that.) You want your marriage back. With your dignity intact. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam walks through the 3 things you HAVE to do before you start standing for your marriage. Decide if you really want this. Get honest about your own contribution. Pick the right path. Not nothing. Not the wrong thing. Most people skip step one and burn out by week three. Most people refuse step two and stay stuck for years. Most people fall into step three's trap and make everything worse. 32 years. Hundreds of thousands of couples. A 70% success rate. If your spouse just told you they want out, watch this before you make a single move. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    21 min

  8. May 1

    The First 3 Steps To Save Your Marriage

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Book a call with someone on our team → https://bit.ly/4udufow ---------------------------------------------------------------- Your marriage didn't fall apart overnight. It won't be saved overnight either. But it can be saved. Most people in a marriage crisis do the wrong things. Not because they're bad people, but because they're in pain. They beg. They plead. They give ultimatums. They go silent and call it "boundaries." They follow every piece of bad advice the internet throws at them. And it pushes their spouse further away. In this video, I walk you through the first 3 steps of our 7-step plan to rescue your marriage and your sanity. Calm down. Get clarity. Stop your pushes and start your pulls These aren't fluffy concepts. They're the same framework we've used with thousands of couples over the past 25+ years. Couples you'd look at and say "there's no way that marriage survives." It survived. The truth is, every marriage is two imperfect people. Both bringing baggage. Both doing things that slowly erode the relationship, sometimes for 6 years before anyone asks for help. You don't need a perfect spouse. You don't need a perfect situation. You need a framework that actually works. That's what this video gives you. I'll show you the breathing technique that resets your brain, the mindset shift that changes everything, and the push-pull dynamic that is the foundation of every healthy relationship. Even mine. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    28 min
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Want help for your real-life relationship problems? We address issues that couples face every day and provide tools to deal with: affairs, limerence, sexual rejection, lying, communication issues, and much more. If you want to know how to make your relationships stronger - this podcast is for you. https://www.MarriageHelper.com

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