Order of Man

Ryan Michler
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

  1. Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

    16H AGO

    Fix This or Stay Single | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into personal growth, relationships, and modern masculinity. They explore lessons from Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, including humility, grit, and knowing when to "tap" in life before things spiral. The conversation tackles real listener questions on anger, marriage struggles, dating challenges, fatherhood, and leadership at home. They also break down the concept of the "integrity gap" and how misalignment between who you are and who you want to be creates frustration. This episode is a practical guide to self-mastery, emotional awareness, and becoming a more intentional man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro & Weekend Recap 03:12 - Jiu-Jitsu Lessons for Life 08:29 - The "Tap" vs Life Crisis Analogy 12:59 - Peptides Discussion 14:13 - Low-Level Anger Explained 22:59 - What It Means to Be a Man Today 26:49 - Fixing Emotional Distance in Marriage 32:22 - Dating Without Becoming Cynical 39:21 - Leading a Stronger Partner 45:11 - Connecting with a Distant Teen 55:05 - Patience with Kids vs Strangers 01:02:59 - Feeling Stuck Without Direction Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 9m
  2. RYAN LEE | This is Why Most Men Stay Broke

    1D AGO

    RYAN LEE | This is Why Most Men Stay Broke

    Men, one of the greatest lies of our time is that if you just work hard enough, everything will somehow work itself out. Yet too many men are grinding every day and still feel trapped by debt, fear, and the pressure of provision. They're earning, but they're not building. They're surviving, but they're not creating freedom. Today, I'm joined by Ryan Lee from Cashflow Tactics, and we're talking about what it really means to take command of your financial life as a man. This is bigger than money. It's about leadership, stewardship, and refusing to stay dependent on a system that keeps men stuck. We break down the mindsets that sabotage wealth, the principles that actually create it, and how to give every dollar a job so you can build real assets, real cash flow, and real security for your family. If you've ever felt the weight of responsibility or wondered whether you're truly leading well in this area of your life, this conversation will challenge you. Because this isn't about getting rich. It's about becoming the kind of man who builds, protects, and leaves something that lasts. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:01 - Intro & podcast setup 00:34 - The burden of being a provider 02:56 - The moment responsibility becomes real 04:25 - Money mindset vs tactics 06:43 - Identifying money "demons" 07:44 - The power of a "major definite aim" 10:55 - Life as a game & learning the rules 13:43 - First financial rule: create value 15:20 - Discovering your unique abilities 19:40 - Fear of failure holding men back 21:36 - The "let's find out" mindset 23:08 - Rule #2: keep the money you make 24:43 - Awareness of spending habits 29:34 - Recording interruption / reset 30:00 - Aligning money with values 32:21 - Why investing advice is broken 33:17 - Cash flow vs net worth 36:12 - Dependency vs ownership economy 38:54 - 2008 wake-up call story 40:24 - Real estate as a wealth builder 44:11 - The 4 wealth forces explained 47:47 - Opportunity cost & leverage 49:02 - Critique of traditional financial advice 50:12 - Building income independent of time 51:52 - Book breakdown & final thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    57 min
  3. Men Without Direction Create Chaos | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    5D AGO

    Men Without Direction Create Chaos | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the real root of chaos - not just on the global stage, but in your own life. While most people blame politics, religion, or circumstance, Ryan argues that the real issue is far closer to home: a lack of direction, discipline, and leadership among men. He challenges you to stop looking outward and start looking inward - at your role as a man, husband, father, and leader. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Real Cause of Global Chaos 01:40 - It's Not Politics (Here's What It Really Is) 03:50 - Why Conflict Never Gets Resolved 05:50 - Chaos Is a Leadership Problem 06:20 - How You're Creating Chaos in Your Own Life 08:15 - Why Men Feel Lost Today 10:00 - "Just Be Happy" Is a Lie 11:50 - Why Lack of Direction Is Dangerous 12:05 - The 3 Types of Directionless Men 12:15 - The Passive Man 13:50 - The Drifting Man 15:45 - The Undisciplined Aggressive Man 17:05 - From Global Problems to Personal Responsibility 18:20 - Direction Is the Cure 18:40 - Step 1: Define Your Mission 20:05 - Step 2: Set Non-Negotiable Standards 21:40 - Step 3: Control Your Emotions 22:50 - Step 4: Think Long-Term 24:40 - Where Are You Creating Chaos? 26:00 - The World Needs Strong Men 27:00 - Are You Creating Order or Noise? Because the truth is simple: Chaos isn't accidental - it's the result of poor leadership. Ryan walks through:  - Why undisciplined leadership leads to destruction (globally and personally)  - The 3 types of directionless men - and how to identify where you fall  - How modern culture has removed standards without replacing them  - Why "just be happy" is terrible advice for men  - A tactical framework to build direction, discipline, and purpose If you feel stuck, frustrated, or like you're drifting through life - this episode will give you the clarity and structure you need to take control. Key Takeaway:  - Direction creates order.  - Lack of direction creates chaos. The question is: Are you leading your life - or reacting to it?   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    27 min
  4. Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

    MAR 25

    Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into integrity, self-sabotage, and what it actually means to live as a man of principle. They break down the four quadrants of the battle plan, discuss why men struggle with consistency, and explore how unresolved guilt and avoidance quietly drain energy.  Listener questions cover everything from building brotherhood and fitness routines to fatherhood and cultural influence. Ryan also shares a powerful story about his "integrity tour" and why owning your mistakes—without excuses—can completely transform your life.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening + mindset on agreement and self-awareness 16:00 - Transition into listener Q&A 17:18 - The four quadrants of the battle plan 27:40 - Boxing training and fitness consistency 34:12 - How past wounds shape your mission 49:34 - Misconceptions about Order of Man 52:49 - Building brotherhood from scratch 57:58 - Fathers vs culture: the real battle 01:00:25 - Men's Forge event + closing thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    56 min
  5. GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within

    MAR 24

    GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within

    Today, we're talking with a man who chose courage when it would've been easier to stay quiet. Back in May of 2020, during the height of COVID restrictions, he stood up for himself, and paid the price, facing serious fallout including a wrongful termination suit in a time when being a cop was already under fire. This is a conversation about what it means to stop living through other men, to stop outsourcing adventure, and to answer that internal call - even when it costs you everything. We get into his mission to row the Pacific, the realities of isolation, risk, and mental warfare, and what it takes to prepare - physically, operationally, and emotionally - for something this extreme. From growing up on a fishing boat in Alaska to navigating fear, family, and the unknown, this is about courage through adversity - and what a man discovers when there's nowhere left to hide. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Reconnection After 6 Years 00:30 - Speaking Out Against COVID & Losing His Job 01:12 - Fired from the Police Department 03:41 - Failed Lawsuit & Letting It Go 05:52 - From Police Work to Jiu-Jitsu Entrepreneur 07:18 - Faith, Purpose & Looking Back on Hard Times 08:20 - The Idea to Row Across the Pacific 10:14 - From Inspiration to Action 12:05 - The Boat, Gear & No-Support Mission 14:01 - Is This Reckless with a Family? 16:25 - Why Men Need Adventure 19:23 - Commitment, Risk & No Turning Back 21:27 - Survival Logistics: Food, Water, Safety 24:25 - Team Dynamics & Avoiding Conflict 27:50 - Mental Cycles in Extreme Environments 30:03 - The Power of Mission & Purpose 33:52 - Biggest Fears: Ocean, Isolation & Survival 37:40 - Fear vs Excitement Mindset 41:02 - War Stories & Conditioning to Danger 46:21 - Conversations with Family & Wife's Support 49:53 - Why His Wife Believes in Him 52:48 - Identity, Risk & Living Fully 56:43 - The Reality of Life on the Boat 59:04 - Training, Nutrition & Physical Prep 01:00:37 - How to Support the Mission Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 15m
  6. Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    MAR 20

    Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    We've been sold a dangerous lie - that the goal of life is comfort. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down why comfort is quietly destroying ambition, discipline, and purpose in modern men. What feels good in the moment is often the very thing holding you back long-term. If you've been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or drifting, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything. Ryan shares 5 practical ways to reintroduce challenge into your life, build discipline, and become the man you're meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Lie of Comfort 00:35 - Why Comfort is an Addiction 01:10 - Life is Too Easy (Not Too Hard) 02:15 - The Slow Fade Into Mediocrity 03:00 - Comfort Mimics Progress 04:20 - Do One Hard Thing Daily 05:30 - Eliminate a Comfort Crutch 06:45 - Stop Hiding (Accountability) 08:40 - Schedule Discomfort 10:05 - When Comfort Destroys Your Life 11:50 - Earn Your Comfort 13:10 - Comfort Creates Weak Men 15:30 - Ask "What's Required?" 17:00 - Final Challenge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    19 min
  7. Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

    MAR 18

    Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer listener questions on masculinity, business, relationships, and personal discipline. They discuss common misconceptions about manhood, why men can't succeed alone, and the hidden "inner work" behind strong masculinity. The conversation also covers social media side hustles, financial decisions, building business networks, and how to break out of destructive habits. Ryan and Kipp also tackle relationship dynamics, including respect in marriage and the real reason attraction fades in long-term relationships. This episode is packed with practical advice on taking ownership, building momentum, and becoming a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Opening conversation 02:33 Iron Council preview call announcement 03:14 Question: Beliefs about manhood that proved wrong 16:50 Question: Is my social media side hustle a waste of time? 25:53 Question: Thoughts on peptides 29:48 Question: Is $2,200 rent on $6K income realistic? 36:00 Question: Building a construction trade network 43:44 Question: Breaking destructive habits and starting over 49:05 Question: Respect and cooperation in marriage 53:11 Question: Why wives lose attraction Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1h 6m
  8. JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

    MAR 17

    JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward

    Today I'm joined by Jon Acuff, a New York Times bestselling author who has spent years studying why so many of us procrastinate and how to finally get out of our own way. We talk about the real reasons people stall out—fear, rejection, imposter syndrome, perfectionism—and how comparison, when used correctly, can actually become a source of inspiration rather than insecurity. Jon also shares practical frameworks for focusing on effort instead of obsessing over outcomes, creating your own personal scorecard for success, and adopting a "let's find out" mentality when it comes to pursuing goals and navigating uncertainty. If you've ever felt stuck between what you say you want and what you're actually doing, this conversation will give you some tools to start closing that gap. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro & Jon Acuff returns to the podcast 01:14 - Why Ryan hates the term "Imposter Syndrome" 03:12 - Healthy vs destructive comparison 06:01 - "Audition your goals" instead of committing immediately 08:25 - Why men create fictional problems before starting 09:56 - Perfectionism and the "all or nothing" trap 12:21 - Thinking long-term to make better decisions 14:56 - "Noble obstacles" and how we sabotage ourselves 20:57 - The danger of attaching too much to outcomes 23:27 - Holding two opposing truths in leadership 25:26 - The "Let's Find Out" mentality 27:57 - Why men need other men to push them 33:18 - Ryan's story of channeling anger through wrestling 35:15 - The four permissions that beat procrastination 38:48 - Discipline vs desire 43:36 - Hustlers skipping the planning stage 45:12 - Becoming the best salesperson of yourself 49:22 - Why men overcommit their schedules 50:04 - How men hide inside hobbies 55:12 - Measuring success as a father 58:45 - Parenting example: the tattoo story 01:02:13 - Where to find Jon Acuff and his new book   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

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  • Creator
    Ryan Michler
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    1.5K
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    Copyright © Order of Man 2024
  • Show Website
    Order of Man

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