Order of Man

Ryan Michler
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

  1. 1d ago

    Chicks Dig Scars | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the core fundamental needs that dictate relationship success or failure: women crave safety, while men crave respect. Drawing from his own 18-year marriage, divorce, and years of self-reflection, Ryan dispels common misconceptions around modern dating and red-pill rhetoric. He explains why safety isn't about avoiding conflict, but about consistent emotional regulation, clear leadership, and unwavering stability. Conversely, he addresses why men desperately need genuine respect and appreciation - not entitlement or passive compliance. Tune in to learn actionable ways both men and women can step up, fulfill each other's core needs, and build a resilient, long-lasting partnership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Welcome & Qualification Through Failure 03:09 The Core Need of Women in Relationships 04:45 Why Uncertainty Destroys Relationship Safety 07:45 Consistent Emotional Regulation vs. Volatility 10:08 How Men Build True Safety & Security 14:54 Rejecting Red Pill Myths Around Leadership 17:02 The Core Need of Men: Respect & Appreciation 19:29 The Entitlement Trap & Earning Devotion 21:48 Raising the Bar for Masculine Standards 25:09 How Women Can Soften & Support Their Men 29:49 The Power of Complementary Dynamics   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    Chicks Dig Scars | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

  2. 3d ago

    A Son Joining the Military, A Job Outsourced to AI, and Dealing with a Cheating Friend | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle seven challenging questions from listeners about fatherhood, career uncertainty, marriage, finances, relationships and personal responsibility. They discuss how to guide a teenage son considering military service, rebuilding a career after AI-driven job losses, coming clean about hidden debt, and navigating difficult family relationships. They also explore breaking generational patterns of anger, dealing with a friend's infidelity, and standing up to disrespectful in-laws. Along the way, Ryan shares thoughts on community involvement, personal accountability, networking and preparing for life's inevitable hardships.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening Conversation and Catching Up 01:55 - Ryan's Experience with Vortex and Exceptional Customer Service 05:59 - Building Stronger Communities and Taking Personal Responsibility 09:34 - The Iron Council and Upcoming War Room 10:37 - Should My Son Join the Marines or Go to College? 16:20 - Rebuilding Your Career in the Age of AI 24:24 - How to Confess $30,000 in Hidden Debt to Your Wife 29:35 - How to Handle a Daughter's Difficult Relationship 34:32 - Breaking the Cycle of Anger with Your Children 41:37 - Should You Tell Your Friend's Wife About His Affair? 45:52 - Standing Up to Disrespectful In-Laws 50:30 - How to Respond to Insults Without Becoming Defensive 53:01 - War Room: Preparing for the Inevitable Hardships of Life 54:30 - Ryan's Conversation with Jim Caviezel and Closing Remarks   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    A Son Joining the Military, A Job Outsourced to AI, and Dealing with a Cheating Friend | ASK ME ANYTHING

  3. 4d ago

    JIM CAVIEZEL | Pick the Right Fight. Stand on Principle

    Most men know what they're supposed to do and still look for a reason not to do it. It's too risky, too costly, or someone with more credentials says it's a mistake. Today we're talking about how to make the hard call anyway. That means finding your "Michael Jordan talent," pairing it with a walk-on mentality, and putting your spirit first. We also get into programming your response before the moment arrives, choosing the right fight over the easy one, and why staying open-handed matters more than ever. My guest has stood on that line more than once. He turned down advice that would have protected his career so he could play Christ, nearly died twice in the years that followed, and built a body of work on characters who choose to get involved when they could stay out of it. His name is Jim Caviezel. We talk about what dying taught him about fear, the moment he believes God called him to act, why he says he doesn't get the easy movies but the right ones, and what his new film Ghost Soldier says about a man stepping up to protect people who can't protect themselves. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening 00:40 - Introduction & Living by Core Values 01:54 - Following Your Dream & Modern Culture 04:07 - Faith, Acting, and "Ghost Soldier" 06:10 - Open Hand vs. Fist Bump: Trust and Civility 08:45 - Navy SEAL Training & "The Passion of the Christ" 13:15 - Jim Caviezel's Near-Death Experience 17:47 - Jimmy Stewart, Legacy, and Paying It Forward 22:59 - Discovering Purpose & The Walk-On Mentality 29:31 - Standing Firm Against Hollywood Ideology 33:24 - The Lone Wolf Mindset & Feeding the Spirit 41:28 - Overcoming Fear: Lessons from Great White Sharks 46:54 - Authenticity in Action Cinema 50:44 - Lucifer, Saint Michael, and Spiritual Warfare 56:57 - Ryan Michler Shares a Personal Encounter with God 01:00:22 - "The Count of Monte Cristo" & A Man's Search for Meaning 01:04:34 - Legacy, Fatherhood, and Passing the Torch   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    JIM CAVIEZEL | Pick the Right Fight. Stand on Principle

  4. Nov 6

    5 Disturbing Facts About Masculinity and Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler returns to the studio to address a critical and disturbing trend: the rapid decline of modern men. Diving into five alarming statistics, Ryan breaks down the uncomfortable truths about male suicide rates, the epidemic of isolation, and dropping testosterone levels.  He doesn't just highlight the problems; he offers practical, hard-hitting solutions to help men break free from societal traps. Whether it's building a brotherhood, taking charge of your physical health, or stepping up to lead in your relationships, this episode is a wake-up call to reclaim your masculinity. Tune in to discover how you can stop isolating, boost your vitality, and become the protector and provider you were meant to be.    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:13 - Back in the Studio & Vortex Optics 02:19 - Five Alarming Statistics About Men 03:10 - Statistic 1: The Tragedy of Male Suicide 04:50 - Statistic 2: The Epidemic of Isolation 08:40 - Where to Find Good Men 11:35 - Statistic 3: The Single Status of Young Men 17:20 - Statistic 4: The Decline in Male Education 21:05 - Statistic 5: Plummeting Vitality and Testosterone 22:12 - How to Naturally Boost Testosterone 28:50 - Upcoming Interview with Jim Caviezel   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

  5. Nov 4

    Why Your Relationships Need More Leadership and Less Control | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Kipp and Shawn tackle four questions about the challenges men face in leadership, relationships, personal growth, and fatherhood. They discuss how to earn respect as a newly promoted supervisor without becoming an authoritarian boss, how to bring excitement and connection back into a long-term marriage, and how to stop letting past mistakes define your future. They also explore the challenges of parenting teenagers and rebuilding a relationship with a son who is becoming increasingly distant. Along the way, they share personal experiences and practical advice about influence, intentional relationships, and becoming a better father. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Catching Up and Hunting Stories 03:16 - Establishing Authority Without Losing Respect 06:30 - Leadership Through Influence, Not Authority 10:56 - Bringing the Spark Back Into Marriage 15:00 - Dating Your Spouse Again 17:25 - Overcoming Regret and Moving Forward 21:00 - Turning Your Past Into an Advantage 26:04 - Reconnecting With Your Teenage Son 30:00 - Understanding Teenagers and Their Behaviour 36:00 - Parenting With Peace Instead of Conflict 38:30 - Creating Lasting Family Memories 41:30 - Closing Thoughts and Where to Connect 42:27 - Iron Council Announcement   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

  6. Nov 3

    JASON KHALIPA | Touch Grass and Train Hard

    Most men don't have a fitness problem as much as they have a "no" problem. Your kid asks you to jump on the trampoline, wrestle, or go for a hike, and you're too tired, too out of shape, or too worried about getting hurt to say yes. Say no enough times and they stop asking. My guest today knows that if you want to protect, provide, and show up for the people who count on you, being physically capable is the price of admission. Jason Khalipa and I talk about learning new skills well past 40, why tools like TRT and GLP-1s should never become crutches, and what it means to stay ahead of your sons in the weight room for as long as you can. We also get into the Train Hard Men's Club, the free weekly workouts Jason started in a library parking lot that have grown to more than 100 clubs around the world. Men need a reason to get together, and a hard workout followed by a cup of coffee might be exactly the excuse you've been missing.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening: Tactical Fitness and Smith & Wesson Partnership 01:16 - Preparing for First Big Game Hunt in Texas 04:19 - Upcoming Whitetail Hunts & Long Range Shooting 07:03 - Evolving with Age: Police Academy & BJJ at 41 09:25 - Maintaining Physical Capability as You Age 10:53 - Muscle Retention, GLP-1 Weight Loss Drugs, and Strength Baselines 13:44 - The "Never Zero" Approach & Modern TRT Tools 16:31 - The Protect and Provide Mandate of Modern Men 18:52 - Training to Always Say Yes to Your Kids 21:31 - Friendly Competition Between Fathers and Sons 24:19 - Inspiring the Next Generation Through Strength 30:40 - Recording Break & Mid-Show Pause 32:44 - The Origin of the Train Hard Men's Club 35:30 - Scaling Free Men's Clubs Worldwide 38:59 - Restoring Real-World Groundedness and Connection 41:09 - The Unique Value of Male Brotherhood and Accountability 45:08 - Why Men Need Purpose-Driven Gathering 51:13 - Breakdown of the Train Hard Burpee Test 52:50 - Breathwork, Heart Rate Control, and Managing Stress at Home 56:45 - How to Join or Start a Local Train Hard Club   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

  7. Oct 30

    3 Habits That are Quietly Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler broadcasts from a whitetail hunting lodge in Minnesota to discuss three insidious habits that are quietly destroying modern men: distraction, isolation, and sedation. It is dangerously easy to justify your distractions when they look like noble work, grinding at the gym, or even church service, but running from your core responsibilities will ultimately destroy your home. Isolation might feel like the path of an alpha male, but cutting yourself off from a trusted brotherhood makes you significantly weaker. Finally, sedation—whether through drugs, porn, or simply tuning out—is a desperate attempt to regain control when life feels chaotic. Real strength comes from confronting your challenges head-on. Tune in to learn how to break these destructive patterns. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:40 - Episode Opening 00:40 - Broadcasting from the Hunting Lodge 02:22 - The Danger of Noble Distractions 07:05 - The Lie of the Lone Wolf and Isolation 11:40 - Sedation and the Illusion of Control 16:25 - Confronting Challenges Head-On 20:57 - Closing Thoughts and the Iron Council   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    3 Habits That are Quietly Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

  8. Oct 28

    Public Confrontation, Winning as a Step-Dad, and Building Boundaries for Adult Kids | ASK ME ANYTHING

    How do you become a better man, lead your family, and navigate life's toughest challenges? Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore the power of brotherhood, explaining how meaningful relationships create possibility, accountability, and growth. They answer five listener questions covering freezing during confrontation, leading as a stepfather, helping an adult child become independent, raising resilient children, and moving beyond a troubled past. Along the way, they discuss conflict resolution, personal responsibility, repentance, and the importance of taking action rather than seeking validation. Plus, learn how the Iron Council can help you build stronger connections and become the man you're meant to be.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction and Opening 00:40 - Brotherhood, Purpose, and Meaningful Conversations 01:44 - Why Men Need a Band of Brothers 04:12 - Inspiration: From Motivation to Action 07:08 - The Power of Accountability and Connection 11:16 - Ideas, Growth, and the Value of Brotherhood 12:56 - Self-Determination: Autonomy, Mastery, and Relatedness 17:10 - Handling Confrontation and Protecting Your Family 21:32 - Preparing for Conflict Through Training 29:16 - Leading as a Stepfather 35:54 - Supporting Adult Children Without Enabling Them 43:25 - Raising Resilient and Grateful Children 47:11 - Moving Beyond Your Past and Reputation 48:17 - Why You Don't Need to Prove You've Changed 50:30 - Repentance, Making Amends, and Personal Growth 53:25 - Iron Council: Take Action Before the Year Ends   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    Public Confrontation, Winning as a Step-Dad, and Building Boundaries for Adult Kids | ASK ME ANYTHING
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

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  • Creator
    Ryan Michler
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    1.6K
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    Copyright © Order of Man 2024
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