Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

Rori Raye
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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

  1. The Trust Test Most Women Never Give a Man

    5d ago

    The Trust Test Most Women Never Give a Man

    How can you find a man who is a giver rather than a taker? A man who is masculine rather than feminine? What do you do if you have a history of being attracted to men who are in their feminine? What do you do if you’re in a long-term relationship that you’re no longer happy with and you want something different? Trust starts internally—with trusting yourself, your intuition, your ability to make decisions, your ability to make the right choices, and your ability to open up to love and be a receiver. Being a lean-back receiver of everything. Every moment of every day. When you’re on a walk. No matter who you’re taking care of. Even when you’re taking care of your child—a screaming child—you are still on the receiving end of love coming from that child, coming from the air, coming from God if you’re into God, coming from the trees if you’re not, coming from the molecules, coming from the experience of life itself. You are a receiver of energy. As soon as you get that into your being, you’ll no longer see yourself as this run-dry person constantly giving and giving and giving. You are a channel. The energy comes into your receiver, and then it comes out in love—to the child, to the dog, to yourself, to the other person. This has to be the core of everything you do from this moment on. If you want to truly embody this work—not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body—come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    12 min
  2. What Happens When a Man Decides You’re The One

    May 30

    What Happens When a Man Decides You’re The One

    Can I trust you with me? Can I trust you with the real me? I can trust you with the me that can do everything. I’ll take care of everything and you can just be there. And if I can’t trust you some of the time, I’ll just shut down and that’s okay. That’s, I think, the way most of us live. I don’t really trust you. So I’ll just be my ‘10 self’ around you a lot of the time. And when you leave the house, I’ll be my real self. That trust creates emotional intimacy, right? But here we’re talking about trusting his intentions. His intentions to move forward. His intentions to be good to you. His intentions toward what a connected relationship is… what a lifetime relationship is… what a marriage is… as opposed to a fabulous experience with a man that’s not forever. When a good man decides you’re the one, he doesn’t give you reasons to distrust him… but being chosen is not the same as experiencing deep intimacy. If you want to truly embody this work — not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body — come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    9 min
  3. How to Build Trust With a Man Through Feminine Energy

    May 22

    How to Build Trust With a Man Through Feminine Energy

    See everything as giving to you, which naturally places you in a position of receiving. Imagine walking around all day receiving from the walls, the rugs, the doors, the food, the refrigerator, the cat, the dog, the man standing in the corner — no matter what he’s doing. The man on the phone or on Zoom — no matter what he’s doing — energetically, you're on the receiving end of everything. Forget about the “magnet” idea for now if that feels like too much. Just focus on this: You are on the receiving end of everything. Like a football receiver. Like a catcher. As soon as you get into that state, you start building trust because you begin to recognize what it feels like. Your whole body softens a little. Anybody feeling that? Even if your mind is racing, it doesn’t matter. Drop down into your belly. Feel your feminine energy expanding. Let your body soften and open. Let yourself fill up. Then look at anything — the rug, for example — and imagine the energy coming toward you. You are receiving love from the rug. When you look at your dog, instead of a blank “there’s my dog,” you begin taking in the love. You begin to receive. Just use that word: Receive. Paste it in your mind. Paste it on your face. You are going to receive self-worth. You are going to receive esteem. You are going to receive everything. You are on the receiving end. If you want to truly embody this work — not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body — come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    10 min
  4. How to Stay Open When Things Don’t Feel Good With a Man

    May 15

    How to Stay Open When Things Don’t Feel Good With a Man

    The only thing you can trust, to start the process of trusting the external, is the internal. That means you. If you are like 99.9% of women in the world, you’ve been taught since birth to other-esteem. We are constantly on the lookout for gathering our self-esteem through others — how they look at us, how they respond to us, whether they move toward us or away from us. When we don’t allow ourselves to imagine love coming toward us, we start trying to get it. Can you feel the difference in the body? Here, it’s just coming toward me — I’m leaning back. Here, I’m trying to get it — I’m leaning forward. We instinctively look for approval, love, appreciation, desire — all on a subconscious level. And then consciously, we fight it. Part of you wants to lean forward and grab him. Another part of you remembers being a Siren. And another part feels angry at yourself for needing anything at all.”“So here we are, all of us pushing and pulling at the same time — pushing against our own deep-seated need to receive love from others. If we truly felt love was always coming toward us, then of course we could trust him automatically. You are energetically assuming love is coming toward you and letting it land on you. As soon as you get this into your being — ‘I can’t control everything’ — something softens. The weather is bigger than you. You cannot control the weather. And when you really feel that, something inside you begins to let go. You begin to look at everything differently — your dog, your cat, the books in front of you — and feel life itself coming toward you. Inside Siren Island, you’ll get access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love.Inside Siren Island, you’ll have access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    11 min
  5. How To Do Marriage by Saying What You Actually Need

    May 8

    How To Do Marriage by Saying What You Actually Need

    Marriage means you change. You start to open up and stand up for yourself, and suddenly you feel irritated and unsure. It’s not just him anymore—it’s everyone—and you keep asking: what do I want? I lost my dog and realized how much I had been ignoring my own wants because other people didn’t approve. I thought being “free” meant giving myself up. When I finally chose what I needed, everything shifted. I stopped blaming and started saying: I need this. I want this. I want to feel this way. And I learned that being honest is harder than being angry—but it changes everything. If he wants to be with you, he will shift. As long as you shift into saying the truth, the second you start laying fault on him, he’s going to back up and it won’t work. When you have rage, talk about your rage to the women and all of us here on Siren Island or your coach, and learn how to say: I’m feeling enraged. I want to hit things. Instead of “you’re an idiot.” I actually discovered I said to myself, “oh my God, I’m an idiot,” and I didn’t even realize it. And my husband said, “you’re not an idiot. Don’t say that to yourself.” And I went, “thank you.” That’s the relationship you want. You can join us on Siren Island here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    18 min
  6. I Thought I Was Broken For Chasing Unavailable Men

    May 1

    I Thought I Was Broken For Chasing Unavailable Men

    Do not allow any unavailable man to take any of your time, period. That's the law. Don't do it.If he stops calling, if he stops making dates, lean back and see if that's you trying to push him out of your way. But mostly he's got to really try hard for you.And if you are not encountering men who are trying hard for you, that's because you're not letting those guys in because you really, really, really inside don't want that intimacy, that emotional intimacy, and they are too close.So you have to take baby steps by dating men who you would normally not allow because they are available.On Siren Island—my creative feminine energy playground—you'll be first to see what new coaching tools and programs come next, because you help inspire it all. You'll be able to turn all of this around. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/Love, Rori

    12 min
  7. If You Don't Feel Desired, You're in the Wrong Room

    Apr 24

    If You Don't Feel Desired, You're in the Wrong Room

    The only way you're ever going to get the love you want is if you're able to receive it. If you're busy giving, wanting, and chasing — there's no room for you to receive. You're not as big as you want to be. Leaning back isn't about playing games. It's about becoming the kind of woman men can actually move toward. Even if you're an extrovert with a big personality — especially then! And you can learn this in your bones — the feminine energetics of all of this — on Siren Island. My official course and community. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    10 min
  8. Why Men Come to You… or Don’t (And It Has Nothing to Do With Looks)

    Apr 17

    Why Men Come to You… or Don’t (And It Has Nothing to Do With Looks)

    Here's the Question: I want to be friends with a recent ex, and I know that we want different things romantically, but how can I build back the trust and support as friends when he refuses to talk to me?From Rori: All right. You may hate me, but don’t. Don’t do it. Stop it.Too much energy. Ridiculous. For your real wants. He’s a friend.He’s not going to help you. Forget it.Plus, you’re trying to convince him because he’s not coming towards you. You’re totally staying in your masculine energy for a reason.And the reason is you feel lonely, right?You want to, and you want to win too.Let’s see. Yes, you want the win of winning him over.Please don’t do it. Please step away.If I was doing one-to-one with you, I would… even in a master class, I know you’d fight me and you’d say, “oh, but he’s really a worthwhile person. There’s so many things that he could offer me. He could get me a job. He could do this. He could do that.”Doesn’t matter.He’s… like this. You’re going like this forward and he’s moving away. You’re just chasing him.And guess what? All this energy that you’re using on that is just crippling you from what you really want, which is an honest relationship.But I’m here to tell you, I know because I know this in myself.If you meet a man who starts moving towards you, you’re going to run because internally, this is all you can handle.You have to practice.You have to practice just staying like this, like a flower open and let guys come to you and try to pollinate you.Just let them come to you.If you feel scared and you start to run away, I want you to notice that.But going forward is always the losing strategy.Going forward after someone is always a losing strategy.Any strategy is losing.But you’re in your mind, you’re in your masculine.Don’t.Stay still.Being a siren is all about stillness.It’s all about serenity.It’s all about staying on your island.It’s all about singing.It’s all about you singing.If you recognize yourself here, if this feels familiar…Siren Island is where you want to be.Join me on Siren Island here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/Love, Rori

    11 min
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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

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