Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

  1. Breaking the Rejection Pattern

    3D AGO

    Breaking the Rejection Pattern

    If you don’t think you’re controlling… you probably are. You’re just not doing it in an aggressive way. You’re not doing it in a way that other people would easily recognize. But if you leave a date and you don’t feel high… you feel kind of icky instead… That’s normal — when you didn’t actually feel good in that person’s presence, but you tried hard. You tried to be liked. You tried to be chosen. And then you felt rejected. So what if you didn’t try so hard at all? When it comes to getting your needs met, there are two sides of the same coin. In this case, the need underneath everything is simple: you want to feel appreciated. You want to feel sexy. Desirable. Beautiful. And when someone says “no” to you, it can feel like all of that disappears. Which might mean… we don’t yet have very strong feelings about ourselves. And so what? Very few people feel so self-solid that rejection doesn’t sting. Even the most gorgeous women in the world are devastated by rejection. Even the most stunning women struggle to find partners because they’re stuck in masculine over-efforting, insecurity, and control. You are all gorgeous. I can see that. So you’re here because we’re going to change this whole pattern. We’re going to give up on men as our saviors. We’re going to stop trying to get rescued. We’re going to stop using men to solve our survival and self-worth. And instead, we’re going to come home to ourselves. If this resonates with you, I invite you to officially join us inside the Rori Raye Siren community on Siren Island. Come to the intimate coaching classes. Practice the Feminine State of Being tools. Learn how to soften control, release rejection, and receive everything you want in a way that feels good to you. This is where you practice being present. This is where your feminine is empowered — every single day. I would love to see you inside. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

    14 min
  2. Why Rejection Hurts So Much (and How to Make It Stop)

    FEB 6

    Why Rejection Hurts So Much (and How to Make It Stop)

    How do we actually deal with rejection?How do we signal a man from our soft, confident feminine… when inside we’re feeling vulnerable, exposed, and deeply afraid of rejection — whether that looks like his clear “no,” a sudden hardness in his eyes, or the feeling of not being seen, felt, or met?And here’s the surprising truth: the pain doesn’t come from rejection itself.It comes from trying.Trying to say the right thing.Trying to signal correctly.Trying to prevent rejection before it happens.That effort — the reaching, the strategizing, the self-monitoring — actually works against your best interests. It pulls you out of your feminine energy and into control, which quietly pushes the right partner away.What if you didn’t try to do anything?No fixing.No improving.No managing how he feels about you.Just space. Stillness. Presence.This is not about giving up. And you’ll learn this up, down, and backwards with me and my Siren Island coaches inside the community. It’s about letting go of what was never the attraction secret to begin with. And when you do, rejection loses its power — because you’re no longer trying to use another person to survive.You might love Siren Island.Check it out here:⁠https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/⁠Love, Rori

    13 min
  3. Intimacy Without Overgiving - Don't Trade Love for Sex!

    FEB 2

    Intimacy Without Overgiving - Don't Trade Love for Sex!

    It takes a while — sometimes a year, year and a half — for men to decide that it’s correct, that you’re it, right? So what are you going to do during that time? Do you consider yourself a sexual being, and you need a sex partner? That’s me. I want a sex partner, and I’m okay having sex with somebody that I don’t marry. If that’s not you — and you’re faith-based or something, and you don’t want to be having sex — then you have to ask yourself: what level of physical intimacy am I comfortable with? And in the masterclass, we talk about it. Intercourse is intercourse — is that all that you don’t want to do? Can you do oral sex? Can you do a lot of touching sex? Can you do a hand job for him? Can he do a hand job for you? Is orgasm okay? What are your boundaries here? Where does sex start and end? If you want to go deeper into these conversations with us — love, dating, intimacy, boundaries, and feminine power — come join us inside Siren Island, where we explore the real, lived experience of relationships together. Siren Island is here: ⁠https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/⁠ Love, Rori

    12 min
  4. Stop Drifting Into Exclusivity! How Commitment Happens On A Feminine Timeline

    JAN 24

    Stop Drifting Into Exclusivity! How Commitment Happens On A Feminine Timeline

    We fall into relationships all the time… and we often have no idea what the details actually are. We enter vague relationship deals. So here’s the question: Why do we accept such vagueness from men? This would make an incredible masterclass topic, because the situation often determines what that vagueness looks like and what it’s really about. But underneath it all, it stems from something deeply human: So many of us don’t feel skilled enough to literally get what we want. Not skilled enough to ask for what we want. And even deeper than that… Not actually knowing what we want. We are vague with ourselves. If I asked you right now: What do you want? What would you come up with? Most women say something like, “I want him to do something…” But that’s not a want - that’s a strategy. Those are little pieces. And you can see how we become anxious, scattered, and all over the place when we don’t know the core thing we truly want. People call them “needs” - the six human needs, the Tony Robbins framework… But honestly? I’m much more interested in want. Desire. I love the word desire because it wakes you up. It turns something on inside you. And when you feel turned on, you have so much more power than when you don’t. Because when you’re turned on, you’re looser. You’re more open. You can feel yourself. When you’re not turned on, you’re shut down somewhere. And this is exactly the kind of work we do inside Siren Island. On Siren Island, you’ll have trained coaches walking with you in live classes each month, helping you practice clear, direct communication that actually feels good in a relationship… …and so much more. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ love, Rori

    21 min
  5. When You Don’t Want an Answer — You Want a Hug

    JAN 17

    When You Don’t Want an Answer — You Want a Hug

    The need for validation, clarity, and connection often comes out as a question—because a question feels harmless. But what we’re really doing is throwing a spear at him. We’re literally throwing something at him. He’s completely off base—not because he doesn’t care, but because he was probably thinking about sports… or work… or whatever was already in his mind. He wasn’t thinking anything close to what you were thinking. So here you are, asking him a question. “I forgot—what time are we leaving tonight?” You could have checked your calendar. You could have looked at your phone. But you didn’t actually want the time. You wanted connection. That question was a connection boost. The truth is, when we get into clarity scripting, what’s really happening underneath is this: I feel alone. I feel weird. I feel anxious. I need reassurance. I need to connect with you. What you’re actually asking is: Can I have a hug? Please hug me. Or… I need to kiss you. I need to look into your eyes. I’m not in myself—I’m in my head. I need you to ground me. But instead of saying that, we ask a question. So we’re way up in our head—and he feels pushback. He feels pressure. He feels like he’s being asked to perform or answer correctly. And that’s where things start to miss. On Siren Island, you don’t have to figure this out alone. You’ll have my trained coaches walking with you in live classes each month—helping you practice clear, direct communication that actually feels good in a relationship… and so much more. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

    12 min
  6. Asking Him Questions Doesn’t Create Connection, Do This Instead…

    JAN 11

    Asking Him Questions Doesn’t Create Connection, Do This Instead…

    Look at your hand.  Look at the bracelet you’re wearing.  Look at the shirt you’re wearing. Anything that inspires you to feel grounded, or the floor, or centered — or any of those words we always use — or an object you can touch, that you can feel engaged with. The table right here, the desk, your knee.  Hold your hand. See if you can feel engaged with that. And then see the man, see your boss, see whatever you see — see your work ahead of you — and don’t get lost in the picture for a minute.  I’m here. See if that feels more deep. So instead of “grounded” or “centered,” let’s call it being deep inside you — connected with you, engaged with you. Now tell me: Do you feel the need to ask a question of this person? Or do you kind of feel quiet inside? If you suddenly feel quiet inside, then there’s no need to ask a question.  So what is going on with your vibe now that you’re down there?  Are you feeling angry at him because he’s not engaging with you, and it creates this need inside you?  Are you feeling frustrated that you’re in this moment of discomfort? Or do you feel, oh, I just needed to drop down — I just needed to feel me? I need to feel inside me. I need to feel self. Self. We talk about self-respect, self-regard, self-love… but how about you just feel self? Me. Say me. Say self. You feel that full vibration, that full aliveness of me. And yes, it can make you feel anxious that they will go away if you’re not reaching out.  Of course. So pull it back in. Pull that anxiety, that worry about them, back inside.  Drop it down inside you. It often feels like a reach-out — like a tentacle going out — and then it becomes words, a question.  So what we want to do is notice when that’s happening.  Notice when you feel the need to reach out… and pull it back inside. Feel the loneliness. Feel what’s at the bottom of the feeling that makes you think you need to engage the other human. Turn to a dog, a cat. Feel presence. Feel pleasure. All of a sudden it feels like an invitation. So what we’re really saying is: whenever you feel the need to reach out and ask — even to someone at work, someone on your team — pause and ask yourself: What is the root of that feeling of need? Because it may not be a need at all. You can join us at Siren Island and step into this living, breathing feminine space anytime.Siren Island is here:https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/Love, Rori

    20 min
  7. You’re Not Unlucky in Love — You’re Protecting Your Heart

    JAN 2

    You’re Not Unlucky in Love — You’re Protecting Your Heart

    We’re talking about dating as opposed to deep relationships. So I think in this segment I’m going to go into if you’re deeper into a relationship and there’s so much more baggage and history when you attempt to connect rather than separate through your words, and by getting down into what it is you want when you are already so untaken care of and you have so much anger and all kinds of stuff going on. What I’d like to start with is first a recap of this whole process that I’m talking about. We're starting from a scratch— and if you're not in a loving relationship that feels extraordinary and you’re super happy and amazing... If you’re still not there yet, the way I certainly was until I was 40, then you, like me, have been spending all of your energy literally saying that you want love, but literally pushing it away. That all of your energy has been going into pushing love away, not pulling it in. That your whole—you come to me here with the energetic machine of pushing men away automatically. You’re good at it, and you do it. Even though it sounds and feels like something else to you. It feels like you’re not lucky, or the bad men. It's you pushing men away and love away on purpose, because that is your inner self trying to protect you. So let’s switch that! On Siren Island, you can work with my Rori Raye Coaches every day, in the community, and live over Zoom in five different classes through the month. You can have everything you want from your feminine energy. Siren Island is only $33 each month, and you’ll have me and everyone with you here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ Love, Rori

    18 min
  8. The Language Shift That Invites Masculine Leadership

    12/28/2025

    The Language Shift That Invites Masculine Leadership

    So, connection. What does connection feel like?  I’m really talking to faith-based women and non–faith-based women who can come with me into a spiritual place. And when I say a spiritual place, it’s ephemeral. It’s not concrete.  The people around you don’t know what you’re talking about. They may think you are silly. They may think you’re a “silly feeler” with spiritual leanings. I want you to realize how much you are trying to block that stuff. I don’t know a single woman who is not actually a spiritual person.  You have the ability to build cells in your body.  What could that possibly be? You know, cells go bad in your body—and you can heal.  That’s something completely different. That’s connection: to your body, to life, to self, to everything. Just speaking about it—do you feel like we’re in another world that I could call spiritual?  We’re speaking about what I can’t do with a needle or scissors. We’re speaking about what heals. When you break your leg, isn’t it amazing that it heals by itself? Yes, it’s a function of the way your body works, but it’s kind of magical because you don’t know exactly how it works. Siren Island is where you can practice the magical feminine state of being with me and my Feminine Siren Coaches. The live classes, the practices, the community, the tools— all created to help you feel safe in your feminine power so you can use it everywhere in your life. Join us here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ Love, Rori

    13 min
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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

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