How Did We Get Here? is Mpoomy Ledwaba's best-selling coming-of-age story. Looking back on her upbringing, major milestones and the challenges she’s faced, Mpoomy takes us on her journey of self-discovery. Order your copy here👉: https://a.co/d/08QQzYtq Sign up for the Wisdom & Wellness Private Membership: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/signup Unlimited WalkFest Durban is on the way! Join us on 2nd May at Durban’s Ocean’s Mall, grab your ticket here: https://www.howler.co.za/unlimitedwalkfest2026 … This week, Mpoomy Ledwaba sits down with Dr Reitumetse Mpholle for a deeply insightful conversation about safety, freedom, and what it truly takes for women to move from simply surviving to fully thriving. In a world where many women navigate daily realities shaped by fear, limitation, and systemic barriers, Dr Mpholle unpacks the powerful findings of the Her & Now report, connecting data to the lived experiences of South African women. She shares her perspective as a researcher and strategist, reflecting on the emotional, physical, and financial factors that shape women’s sense of agency and well-being. Together, they explore how safety is not just about protection, but about creating the conditions for women to dream, grow, and live intentionally. The conversation also unpacks the weight of invisible burdens women carry, and what it means to reclaim autonomy in spaces that often restrict it. Through honest reflection and meaningful dialogue, this episode invites us to reimagine what is possible when women are truly supported. It challenges us to consider how different our lives could look if we felt secure enough to choose ourselves fully. If you’ve ever questioned what it means to feel safe, supported, and free to build a life on your own terms, this conversation is for you. This episode is proudly sponsored by 1st for Women. 1st for Women is a licensed non-life insurer and FSP. Ts & Cs online. To read the Her & Now report discussed in this episode, access it here: https://stdigzadigitalbrandsites.digitalcdn.co.za/ffw-blobs/ce9ab5a39afc4cdcbbba52aa6d24f756/91ad6701388544f3970f38e72668b730.pdf Timestamps 03:33 - What brings peace 07:13 - Chaos, growth, peace 09:02 - What is safety 10:02 - Financial safety 11:06 - Emotional safety 12:16 - Consistency and safety 13:01 - Childhood and career 15:44 - Human-centered solutions 17:42 - Misunderstanding women 18:02 - Identity shift 19:15 - Having everything 20:29 - Sacrifices 23:05 - Her & Now report 26:44 - Women are tired 28:59 - Money and joy 31:51 - Sisterhood 37:17 - Stay-at-home pressures 39:26 - From exhaustion to empowerment 41:28 - Peace and expectations 44:41 - Burnout wake-up call 49:00 - Emotional safety 49:08 - Power in softness Follow Mpoomy: Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba?lang=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba?lang=en Follow Wisdom & Wellness: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisdomwellness_/ Facebook: Wisdom & Wellness Website: www.wisdomwellness.co.za Sign up for Mpoomy’s newsletter: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/sunday-nuggets-opt-in Listen to Wisdom & Wellness Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop Tuesday! Spotify Apple Podcasts Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.