I have been struggling in an unhealthy relationship whit a person who could not accept me as i am, tried to change me, has been tearing me down everytime i had oppinion difference or difrend mind as him. It was his way or the highway.
I have been trying to reason with him that i am not the same person as he is. Everything about me that was difrent as it was in his mind was wrong, i was marked as stupid and me trying to understaind my triggers and patterns was marked as exuse making.
After listening to your podcast for a last few weeks, i got the strenght and courage today to end it.
I dont feel sad, i feel releaved that i did that, although he tried to pin all of our problems on me, i stood my ground.
I admitted that i am not perfect and its have been my fault to, but i dont carry the whole weight of problems of our relationship on my shouders, it was his doing to.
Thank you for making me realize that i am ok as i am, i dont need to change so somebody could love me.
I am going to focus on loving myself first and i am certain that in the future somebody is going to love me for who i am and not for who i should be and this podcast has helped me realize that.
THANK YOU, lots of love from Slovenia.
I orderd your new book and i can not wait to read it.