You can know exactly how you want to eat and still find yourself reaching for something else when you’re stressed or exhausted. I’ve been there. Our relationship with food is influenced by far more than nutrition knowledge, and blaming ourselves for struggling doesn’t help us understand what’s actually happening. Today, I’m joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Goldman, author of When Life Happens, to talk about the biology and psychology behind cravings, emotional eating, and food noise. We also explore how to care about nutrition without letting food rules take over your life. Here’s what we get into: Why you may reach for food when what you really need is rest, comfort, or a break How to pause before an automatic food choice and figure out what’s driving it How rigid food rules can turn one choice into a cycle of guilt and overeating How GLP-1s can quiet food noise, and what they can’t change about your relationship with food How to build other ways to cope when food has become your go-to response to stress I know what it’s like to want the cookie even when I know it isn’t what I really need. Knowing better doesn’t make us immune to being human. My hope is that this conversation helps you meet those moments with more curiosity and less blame, so your relationship with food can become a source of nourishment rather than stress. View Show Notes From This Episode Sign up for Dr. Hyman’s Brainshaping Academy to learn how to nourish the biological systems that support your mental, emotional, and cognitive health https://drhyman.com/products/brainshaping?utm_source=dr_hyman_show&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=may_27&utm_content=link Get Free Weekly Health Tips from Dr. Hymanhttps://drhyman.com/pages/picks?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast Sign Up for Dr. Hyman’s Weekly Longevity Journalhttps://drhyman.com/pages/longevity?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast Join the 10-Day Detox to Reset Your Healthhttps://drhyman.com/pages/10-day-detox Join the Hyman Hive for Expert Support and Real Resultshttps://drhyman.com/pages/hyman-hive This episode is brought to you by Seed, Paleovalley, Timeline, Rho, Sunlighten, and Seatopia. Make your microbiome part of your daily routine with seed.com/hyman and save 25% with code 25HYMAN. Shop nutrient-rich foods and supplements at paleovalley.com/hyman and save 15% off your first order. Support healthy aging and get up to 20% off when you subscribe on top of the new starting price of $79 at timeline.com/drhyman. Explore science-backed products at rhonutrition.com and use code HYMAN for 20% off the entire site. Discover why so many people are using sunlighten.com. Use code HYMAN to save up to $2,100 today and free shipping. Find a cleaner source of seafood. Check out seatopia.fish and use code HYMAN for free shipping on your first order. 0:00 Introduction: Food industry, brain/microbiome hijack, and Dr. Rachel Goldman 1:17 Challenges in our relationship with food and emotional eating 4:25 Societal messages, body image, and the problem with body comments 6:17 Cognitive behavioral therapy for eating behaviors 9:54 The power of pausing and mindful eating 16:20 Emotional vs. physical hunger and mindful eating 22:17 Stress, sleep, and their impact on hunger and food choices 25:21 The myth of willpower, cravings, and brain studies 31:39 Food addiction, biology, and focusing on controllable actions 35:15 Coping tools and stress management 38:32 Diaphragmatic breathing and managing stress 40:36 Orthorexia, restrictive eating, and seeking professional help 45:19 The restriction-binge cycle and building a healthy relationship with food 49:29 Creating and sustaining a healthy relationship with food 56:08 Critiques of psychiatric practice and the GLP-1 phenomenon 1:00:30 Psychological aspects of weight loss and GLP-1 medications 1:02:58 Fixing biology vs. addressing psychology in eating 1:03:44 Long-term strategies and resources for eating disorders 1:07:00 The psychology of eating, self-talk, and episode conclusion