Pursue Your Spark - Midlife Health & Fitness, Menopause, Empty Nest Confidence, Health & Mindset, Women over 40

Heike Yates
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It’s 3 a.m., and you’re staring at the ceiling, thinking, “How did I end up feeling so stuck?” You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay there. Welcome to the Pursue Your Spark show, where midlife women reclaim strength, energy, and confidence with no fluff, no fads, and no shame. Hosted by Midlife Fitness Expert, Mindset Coach, and author of Pursue Your Spark, Heike Yates, this show is your go-to for midlife health & confidence, menopause support, and empty nest confidence with real tools that work when the old rules stop working. We’re different because we go deeper—no generic tips or quick fixes here. You’ll get proven strategies for strength training, Pilates, intermittent fasting, mindset, and nutrition to support hormone balance, so you can take action without feeling overwhelmed. With over 40 years of experience helping women thrive through menopause, empty nesting, and significant life pivots, Heike’s focus is on consistency, confidence, and reclaiming your spark. This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about reminding you who you are. 🎙️See a list of other "niche podcasts" that I produce https://heikeyates.com/category/podcast/ 📙 Order My New Book Pursue Your Spark https://heikeyates.com/l/pursueyoursparkbook/ 🤩 ⁠Visit My Website!⁠ https://heikeyates.com/ 🆓 Grab your free Midlife Reset Guide https://heikeyates.com/l/midlife-reset-guide/ ⭐️ ⁠Join the Fasted + Fit Over 50 Jumpstart 🙋‍♀️ ⁠https://heikeyates.com/courses/fasted-fit-over-50-jump-start/ 🤩 ⁠Join the 8-week Pursue Your Spark Blueprint ⭐️ https://heikeyates.com/l/spark-blueprint/ 💥 ⁠Follow me on Instagram⁠ https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ ❤️ ⁠Join the club!⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepursueyoursparkclub

  1. 1D AGO

    246. When Childhood Trauma Reawakens: Stacey Hettes on Healing After Midlife

    Have you ever felt like you were finally okay—only to be blindsided by a wave of emotion you didn’t see coming? In this episode of Pursue Your Spark, “When Childhood Trauma Reawakens: Stacey Hettes on Healing After Midlife,” I sit down with Dr. Stacey Hettes, scientist, college professor, and author of Dispatches from the Couch, to explore how deeply buried childhood trauma can resurface in midlife—and how we begin to heal truly. We dig into the ACEs framework (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how Dr. Hettes used it to make sense of emotional shutdown, people-pleasing, and her own journey through PTSD. With her background in neuroscience, she explains how trauma physically rewires the brain—especially the amygdala and hippocampus—and how therapy helped her retrain those fear-based circuits over time. This conversation challenges the idea that healing is quick or clean. We unpack what it means to "fawn" as a trauma response, why shame keeps us silent, and why therapy isn't about being fixed—it's about being seen. Dr. Hettes also shares how one triggering moment in adulthood cracked open decades of buried fear, and how that pain became a catalyst for growth. More than anything, she reminds us that healing begins not when we ask what happened to me, but what did it do to me—and what do I do next? ✨ This is one of a collection of tools to spark your own healing journey. Tune in now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google, or wherever you listen—and share this with someone who needs to know they’re not alone. Connect with Stacey: https://www.staceyhettes.com/ https://www.instagram.com/staceyhetteswrites/ https://www.facebook.com/stacey.hettes

    41 min

  2. OCT 2

    245. What To Eat After 40 To Boost Energy

    Do you find yourself dragging through the afternoon, reaching for coffee or snacks just to stay awake? You’re not alone. After 40, those 2 p.m. crashes become more common—and it has nothing to do with motivation. It’s your hormones and nutrition working differently now, and midlife nutrition plays a much bigger role than it used to. In Episode 245: What To Eat After 40 To Boost Energy, I explain how hormone shifts, stress, and sleep all affect your energy. As estrogen trends down, your body becomes more sensitive to carbs. Add cortisol spikes from stress and poor sleep, and suddenly the same lunch that worked fine at 30 can leave you foggy and sluggish at 45. The solution isn’t another latte—it’s learning how to time and balance your meals so you get steady energy that lasts. You’ll hear the stories of three women who represent different stages of the journey. Emma often skipped lunch and rode the day out on coffee, Lisa ate pretty healthy but leaned on bars and lattes, and Jasmine was highly active yet still crashed on heavy training days. Each of them discovered that small, realistic changes—like eating protein first, moving lunch earlier, or placing carbs around workouts—completely transformed their afternoons. This episode is not about dieting or giving up the foods you love. It’s about simple midlife nutrition shifts that support your body after 40 and help you feel strong, steady, and focused. If you’re ready to stop the afternoon crash and finally fuel your days with consistent energy, this episode is for you. 👉 Want to go deeper? Grab your copy of my book, Pursue Your Spark: Your Guide to Escaping Midlife Traps, Reclaiming Confidence, and Living Fully. It’s filled with real-life stories, practical nutrition strategies, and mindset tools to help you thrive in midlife and beyond.

    26 min

  3. SEP 18

    244. Aqua Yoga for Midlife Strength / Christa Fairbrother

    Struggling with stiff joints, low energy, or feeling unsure how to move your body without hurting it? You’re not alone—and in Episode 244: Aqua Yoga for Midlife Strength, we explore how the pool might just be your new best friend. I talk with Christa Fairbrother, a former farrier turned aqua yoga teacher, who shares how a painful autoimmune diagnosis changed her path—and how movement in the water gave her strength, balance, and confidence again. We go deep into why aqua yoga is one of the best low-impact workouts for midlife bodies, especially when arthritis or chronic illness makes land-based fitness feel impossible. You’ll hear how the water supports you, how balance improves quickly, and how even simple yoga poses become powerful arthritis exercises for women—no yoga experience required. We also tackle the emotional aspects: feeling exposed in a swimsuit, feeling like you’re “not a yoga person,” and how shifting your mindset can change everything. This episode is real talk for real women. It’s about showing up, trying something new, and giving yourself the chance to feel strong again. If you're looking for a smarter, more supportive way to stay strong in midlife, this episode gives you everything you need to take the first step—right in the pool. Ready to feel stronger, steadier, and more confident in your body? Connect with Christa christa@christafairbrother.com= https://www.christafairbrother.com https://www.facebook.com/ChristaFairbrotherYoga/  https://www.instagram.com/aquacontentyogi   Mentioned on the show Grab your copy of my new book Pursue Your Spark here!

    34 min

  4. SEP 4

    243. How to Reset After Summer Without Diets or Guilt In Midlife

    After a season of rosé, ice cream, and skipped workouts, many women feel the urge to “start over.” But here’s the truth: restriction and guilt aren’t the answer. Instead of punishing yourself for summer indulgences, you can embrace a different approach—one that feels empowering, sustainable, and kind. That’s exactly what I share in my new post, Reset After Summer: A Midlife Healthy Eating Guide. This isn’t about diets, detoxes, or a perfect Monday plan. It’s about creating a realistic reset for midlife women—one rooted in food freedom, energy, and confidence. A healthy eating reset works best when you incorporate nourishing habits, rebuild routines that make you feel steady, and engage in activities that feel joyful, not forced. Instead of tracking every calorie, you can check in with how food makes you feel. Instead of dragging yourself back to punishing workouts, you can choose movement that feels like self-care. Instead of cutting things out, you can add habits that actually energize you. A reset isn’t about starting over. It’s about realignment. It’s asking, What helps me feel strong, clear, and confident in this season? If you’ve been caught in the yo-yo eating cycle—indulge, feel guilty, restrict, burn out, repeat—this post will help you break free. You’ll discover how to rebuild healthy habits after summer, stop “starting over” with food, and create consistency without chaos. Your reset doesn’t have to be about shrinking your body—it can be about reclaiming your rhythm. Fall is the perfect time to reconnect with what truly supports you. Links Mentioned On the Show: Podcast: 219. Flip-Flops to Focus: Reclaim Your Fall Routine Today Book: Pursue Your Spark Pursue Your Spark Blueprint Course

    22 min

  5. JUL 24

    242. Holistic Psychology for Stress Relief: Bridging Eastern and Western Healing/ Tatiana Miller

    Ever been told “it’s all in your head” when you know your body is asking for help? That disconnect is more than frustrating—it’s often the very thing that deepens our stress, amplifies burnout, and keeps us stuck. In Episode 242: Holistic Psychology for Stress Relief: Bridging Eastern and Western Healing, I sit down with holistic psychologist Tatiana Miller to explore what happens when we stop chasing symptoms and start listening to our whole selves. Tatiana’s story is powerful—from years of being dismissed by Western doctors to discovering healing through yoga, breathwork, and the philosophies of Eastern medicine. Her journey shows what’s possible when we combine modern psychology with mindful movement and emotional intelligence. In this conversation, we talk about why traditional therapy often misses the mark, especially for women navigating midlife burnout. Tatiana explains how holistic psychology utilizes the four pillars of emotional intelligence—self-awareness, reflection, regulation, and social connection—to foster genuine, lasting change. We also dive into how practices like Yoga, Pilates, and breathwork do more than move your body—they help downregulate the nervous system, signal safety, and rebuild your energy from the inside out. This episode is especially for you if you’re feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or just plain tired of managing stress the old way. It’s not about pushing through. It’s about aligning with your truth, your rhythm, and your spark. ✨ This is one of many ways to pursue your spark. Start here—and explore the full collection to reconnect with your strength, joy, and resilience. How to connect with Tatiana: https://mentalhealthsolutionsonline.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatiana-miller-howtobeahuman/ https://www.youtube.com/@tattimiller1394 https://www.facebook.com/RX4LifeMovement/?locale=zh_CN https://www.instagram.com/tatti_miller/   🎉 Ready to feel strong, clear, and confident in midlife? Grab your copy of Pursue Your Spark and unlock exclusive bonuses designed to help you put the book into action. Get it all here 👉 Get The Book And Bonuses     📙 📙 📙 📙

    39 min

  6. JUL 10

    241. The Confidence Gap In Midlife No One Talks About

    Ever walk away from a conversation thinking, “Why didn’t I just say what I meant?” That gut punch isn’t just frustration—it’s a sign of something deeper. In episode 241, The Confidence Gap No One Talks About, we unpack why so many midlife women silence themselves—and how to break that cycle. This episode is about power. The quiet kind. The kind you feel when you reclaim your voice in midlife and finally say what you mean. We explore what the confidence gap really looks like. It’s not always obvious. Sometimes it hides behind people-pleasing, over-explaining, or brushing off your own needs to keep the peace. But the cost? It’s your clarity, energy, and self-trust. You’ll learn five powerful mindset shifts that help you set boundaries without guilt, stop second-guessing, and speak up—without apologizing for it. We discuss emotional strength in the same way we discuss physical strength. You build it with reps. Practice. One honest sentence at a time. If you’re tired of feeling invisible or like your voice doesn’t matter, this episode gives you tools to shift that, without needing a full life overhaul. ✨ Ready to take that next step? Pre-order Pursue Your Spark, the book, and get exclusive bonuses that will help you stop shrinking and start thriving in midlife—on your terms. Inside, you'll find real-life stories, mindset tools, and practical strategies to help you reclaim your confidence, energy, and spark. 🎁 Pre-order now and unlock your limited-time bonuses! Limited Podcast Series: Intermittent Fasting For Midlife  🎧 Plus, don’t miss Episode 174: How To Reclaim Your Confidence To Do The Things You Want Over 50 with Kelly Howard

    27 min

  7. JUN 26

    240. From Trauma to Times Square: Amy Thurman’s Journey of Healing and Purpose

    Sometimes the most powerful journeys begin not with a step forward, but with a fall that forces you to rise differently. Amy Thurman’s life changed in an instant after a traumatic brain injury left her unable to walk, talk, or see clearly. In Episode 240: From Trauma to Times Square, Amy shares her raw and remarkable story of healing and personal growth in midlife. But her story isn’t just about recovery—it’s about rediscovering purpose and becoming a guide for others. Now a speaker, author, and founder of the Mirror Collective, Amy created the “Polish the Mirror” framework to help women rebuild their confidence, reconnect with joy, and reclaim who they are, beyond their roles, pasts, or setbacks. This empowering podcast episode is for anyone navigating change, loss, or reinvention. Especially for midlife women who feel stuck, this conversation reminds them that they can turn pain into power and that joy can be their North Star. We talk about: How Amy redefined her identity after trauma The mindset shift that changed her healing Why “Polish the Mirror” speaks to every woman’s inner spark What joy and purpose look like in midlife 🎧 Tune in now to hear how Amy rose from trauma to inspire thousands and how you can reignite your spark from wherever you are. Connect with Amy Thurman: Website | getamyshelp.com Facebook | www.facebook.com/amy.thurman1 Instagram | @amycthurman LinkedIn | www.linkedin.com/in/amythurman Connect with us! Website | heikeyates.com Instagram | @heikeyates Facebook / https://www.facebook.com/pursueyourspark   📘 Be the First to Know – Join the Book Pre-Launch Waitlist! Get exclusive early access, sneak peeks, and special bonuses. 👉 Join the Waitlist 🔥 Transform Your Midlife – Join the 8-Week Pursue Your Spark Blueprint Rediscover your purpose, reignite your energy, and create a life you love in just 8 weeks. 👉 Start the Blueprint

    29 min

  8. JUN 12

    239. Why Overthinking Keeps You Stuck in Midlife

    You know that moment when you’re standing in the kitchen, staring at two different snacks, and you just can’t decide? It’s not really about the snack. It’s the mental spiral that’s running the show. In midlife, overthinking becomes the default. You’re juggling shifting roles, changing bodies, and trying to keep up with everything that used to feel automatic. But now? Every decision feels heavier. You’re constantly planning, researching, second-guessing… and feeling more stuck than ever. In episode 239, “Why Overthinking Keeps You Stuck in Midlife,” we explore how mental clutter, perfectionism, and people-pleasing can quietly drain your confidence and energy and how what feels like “playing it safe” is actually keeping you from moving forward. You’ll hear relatable stories—including one about a client who spent so much time creating the perfect workout plan… she never actually worked out. You’ll learn why more effort isn’t what’s missing—and why what you genuinely need is clarity, movement, and self-trust. We talk about: How overthinking in midlife often disguises itself as “being responsible” The real cost of decision fatigue (spoiler: it’s more than mental exhaustion) What it looks like to take messy, empowered action—even if it’s not perfect If you’re tired of living in your head and ready to reconnect with yourself… Take the next step: 📘 Get on the waitlist for my new book: Pursue Your Spark – Your Guide to Escaping Midlife Traps, Reclaiming Confidence, and Living Fully 🎯 Explore deeper support inside the Pursue Your Spark Blueprint course Because of the clarity, confidence, and momentum you’re craving? It’s already within you, and you must trust yourself enough to begin.

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It’s 3 a.m., and you’re staring at the ceiling, thinking, “How did I end up feeling so stuck?” You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay there. Welcome to the Pursue Your Spark show, where midlife women reclaim strength, energy, and confidence with no fluff, no fads, and no shame. Hosted by Midlife Fitness Expert, Mindset Coach, and author of Pursue Your Spark, Heike Yates, this show is your go-to for midlife health & confidence, menopause support, and empty nest confidence with real tools that work when the old rules stop working. We’re different because we go deeper—no generic tips or quick fixes here. You’ll get proven strategies for strength training, Pilates, intermittent fasting, mindset, and nutrition to support hormone balance, so you can take action without feeling overwhelmed. With over 40 years of experience helping women thrive through menopause, empty nesting, and significant life pivots, Heike’s focus is on consistency, confidence, and reclaiming your spark. This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about reminding you who you are. 🎙️See a list of other "niche podcasts" that I produce https://heikeyates.com/category/podcast/ 📙 Order My New Book Pursue Your Spark https://heikeyates.com/l/pursueyoursparkbook/ 🤩 ⁠Visit My Website!⁠ https://heikeyates.com/ 🆓 Grab your free Midlife Reset Guide https://heikeyates.com/l/midlife-reset-guide/ ⭐️ ⁠Join the Fasted + Fit Over 50 Jumpstart 🙋‍♀️ ⁠https://heikeyates.com/courses/fasted-fit-over-50-jump-start/ 🤩 ⁠Join the 8-week Pursue Your Spark Blueprint ⭐️ https://heikeyates.com/l/spark-blueprint/ 💥 ⁠Follow me on Instagram⁠ https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ ❤️ ⁠Join the club!⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepursueyoursparkclub

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