Balance & Beyond

Jo Stone

Balance and Beyond is the podcast for ambitious women refusing to accept burnout as the price of success. Here, we’re committed to empowering you with the tools and strategies you need to achieve true balance, where your career, relationships and health all thrive and where you have the power to define success on your own terms.

  1. 1d ago

    The Hidden Strategy Behind Your Success

    Discover your dominant Success Strategy here. You can be capable, reliable and wildly productive, and still feel like your life no longer fits. That tension is often not a motivation problem. It can be a success strategy that worked brilliantly for years, then quietly started costing more than it gives back. We dig into how patterns like over-helping, over-planning, over-working and over-perfecting become default settings in the brain. When a strategy brings rewards like validation, promotions or praise, it can shift from something you do into something you believe you are. The tricky part is the blind spots: we stop noticing the emotional labour, the cognitive load, the resentment, the constant vigilance or the fear of stillness that rides along with the “success”. I walk you through five common success strategies I see in women’s coaching and leadership work: the Sponge, the Controller, the Hustler, the Achiever and the Pleaser. You’ll hear what each one looks like at its best, what it costs over time, and the key question each strategy needs to face when life gets more complex. We also break down why generic productivity and mindset tips can fail, because two women can share the same symptoms, like overwhelm and exhaustion, but need completely different solutions depending on what is driving them. If you’re ready to stop playing whack-a-mole with your wellbeing, listen now, take the free success strategy assessment in the show notes, then subscribe, share with a friend and leave a review so more women can find what they need. Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  2. 5d ago

    When Your Whole Life Feels Like It's at a Crossroads (Jo Moment)

    We talk about why so many of us feel stuck at multiple crossroads at once, from work and relationships to health and identity. We share a simple filter that cuts through overthinking by separating irreversible choices from decisions you can test and adjust.  • feeling overwhelmed by interconnected decisions and too many options  • why more information and more choice can create decision paralysis  • using the one-way door vs two-way door framework  • examples of reversible decisions in career and health choices  • treating two-way doors as experiments so outcomes become information  • giving ourselves permission to make mistakes and move faster  If this resonated, share it with a friend who needs to hear it today. And don't forget to subscribe to Balance and Beyond for full episodes and more of these bite sized breakthroughs.  Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  3. Jul 21

    Why So Many Successful Women Are Questioning Everything

    If you feel like you’re holding a dozen competing problems and somehow still making no real progress, you’re not broken, you’re overloaded. Jo Stone speaks straight to high-achieving women who look fine on the outside but privately know the old model of success no longer fits. The cultural conversation used to centre on burnout and pushing through. Now it’s fractured into a “soup” of questions about career change, perimenopause and hormones, neurodiversity, parenting pressures, ageing parents, and even how AI is reshaping work.  We talk about the quiet grief that can hit when you finally “arrive” and realise it doesn’t feel the way you expected. That emotional clash often sends us searching for certainty through more books, more specialists, more podcasts, more hacks. The twist is that knowledge isn’t the main problem anymore. The real challenge is deciding what applies to you, first, and resisting the temptation to outsource your judgement to the loudest expert voice, the most convincing algorithm, or the latest trend in women’s health and wellbeing.  Jo unpacks how decision fatigue shows up as productivity, how perfectionism keeps you gathering information instead of making change, and why “fixing” your hormones or routines won’t automatically solve a toxic workplace or missing boundaries. The goal is to find the one question that will move the needle most in your life right now, then take small, deliberate steps that rebuild trust in your inner knowing.  If this resonates, listen through, then tap “send a message to Jo” and tell us what question is on repeat for you. Subscribe, share with a woman who needs it, and leave a review to help the Ripple Effect reach the people it’s meant for. Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  4. Jul 17

    The Most Valuable Failure I've Had This Year (Jo Moment)

    I cancel a workshop after ticket sales fall flat, and I unpack why that “public failure” ends up being one of my most valuable lessons this year. I show how to separate disappointment from self-doubt so we can move faster, learn more, and stop paying the hidden cost of personalising outcomes.  • cancelling a workshop after strong early signs but no sales  • perfectionism wounds and the urge to make it mean something  • how personalising failure becomes expensive over time  • why speed matters and self-doubt slows us down  • the difference between disappointment and losing confidence  • treating outcomes as experiments to protect self-worth  • using feedback and data to refine and try again  • the question that reveals what we are ignoring  If this resonated, share it with a friend who needs to hear it today.  And don't forget to subscribe to Balance and Beyond for full episodes and more of these bite sized breakthroughs. Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  5. Jul 14

    What Your Escape Fantasy Is Really Trying to Tell You

    Your feed isn’t random. If you’ve been obsessing over chateau renovations, Tuscan villas, eco farms, bookshops, or van life, it might not be wanderlust at all. It might be the clearest signal you’ve had in years that the old model of success no longer fits and that something in you is asking to come back online.  I talk through why so many high-achieving women in their 40s and 50s are having an “escape fantasy” moment, even when they have the career, the family, the home, and the life they once wanted. We pull apart the classic midlife crisis narrative and name what the quieter, heavier version can look like for women: back-to-back meetings, constant notifications, school logistics, emotional labour, and a creeping numbness that makes you wonder where the fun went.  Then we get practical and honest about what “France” really represents: lightness, freedom, presence, aliveness, and a life that feels like yours again. Instead of the false binary of blowing it all up or sucking it up, we explore how to use your fantasies as a signpost, uncover what you’re truly longing for, and make space for change that’s real and sustainable. If you’ve been thinking, surely I’m made for more than this, you’ll feel seen here.  If it lands, subscribe, share it with a woman who needs to hear it, and leave a review so it reaches the people it’s meant for. Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  6. Jul 7

    Why Work Doesn't Work Anymore

    Work is louder than ever, and plenty of us are calling that “progress” while quietly wondering why we’re exhausted. I sit down with Dr Kat Page, organisational psychologist, leadership adviser and author of Good Work: Transforming Your Work from the Inside Out, to name what’s actually broken and what we can redesign so women don’t have to keep paying the price with their health, time and identity. We talk about the modern intensity trap: constant interruptions, longer days, and the very real second and third shifts many women carry. Kat unpacks why “be more resilient” is the wrong default, how Australia’s psychosocial safety focus can help shift responsibility back to workplaces, and why we need to stop measuring productivity as hours. With AI changing what work looks like, the new benchmark is value: judgement, creativity, learning, problem solving and the quality of conversations, even when that doesn’t deliver the dopamine hit of ticking a task off a list. We also go deep on the inner work. How do you hear your own voice when the collective definition of success is so loud? What does it take to build boundaries in a boundaryless world, tolerate the discomfort of disappointing people, and make brave career choices like moving to a purpose-led role or building a portfolio career? If you’ve been asking “Do I even want to be here anymore?”, you’re not alone. Subscribe for more honest conversations, share this with a woman who needs it, and leave a review to help the Ripple Effect reach the people it’s meant for. Want to learn more about how to redesign your relationship with work? Connect with Dr. Kat Page here: https://www.drkatpage.com/ Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  7. Jun 30

    The Day I Stopped Filtering Myself

    Doors are now open for the July 6 intake of Balance & Beyond! If you've recognised yourself in the patterns we've explored in this episode and you're ready to move beyond awareness into real change, we'd love to support you. Find out more and book a conversation with our team here: https://www.balanceinstitute.com/balance-and-beyond You can be wildly capable and still feel like your life doesn’t fit anymore. If you’re the woman who keeps everything running, explains yourself three times, softens your truth, and carries everyone else’s emotional load, this conversation will hit. I’m Jo Stone, and I’m sharing the real reason so many high performing women feel stuck: it’s not a lack of tools, it’s loyalty to an identity that once kept you safe and now keeps you small. We unpack “Friday Night Jo”, the version of me who stops cushioning, stops apologising in advance, and just says the thing. What shocked me wasn’t backlash, it was relief. Directness took less energy, not more, and it became more useful for my clients because it landed cleanly. We talk about over responsibility, people pleasing, and the fear under the fear: if you stop being the helper or the reliable one, what if the version that emerges is “too much”, selfish, or a bad mum? You’ll also hear Lindsay’s story and her “Crazy Craft Lady” identity shift, a grounded example of how confidence and boundaries aren’t a performance, they’re a bridge back to who you actually are. We call out the most believable trap of all, “not a good time”, and why ready isn’t a feeling, it’s a decision. If you’re searching for balance, burnout recovery, better boundaries, and a way to feel like yourself again, this is your nudge. Subscribe, share this with a woman who needs it, and leave a review so it finds the people it’s meant for. Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

  8. Jun 26

    The Four Versions of Me That Were All Hiding the Same Thing (Jo Moment)

    Doors are now open for the July 6 intake of Balance & Beyond! If you've recognised yourself in the patterns we've explored in this episode and you're ready to move beyond awareness into real change, we'd love to support you. Find out more and book a conversation with our team here: https://www.balanceinstitute.com/balance-and-beyond I share the secret belief that kept me stuck for years: I thought my circumstances made me the exception to change. I unpack the roles I hid behind and the moment I realised the real shift had to happen inside me, not around me.  • believing change was for everyone else but me  • stacking real-life pressures into an airtight “exception” story  • using external circumstances to avoid an inward look  • over-delivering at work to protect self-worth  • guilt and the stories we tell ourselves about family and ambition  • optimisation as a way to avoid being human  • trying to blow up the outside instead of changing the inside  If this resonated, share it with a friend who needs to hear it today. And don't forget to subscribe to Balance and Beyond for full episodes and more of these bite sized breakthroughs.  Send a text message to Jo The Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance Institute For women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process. We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself. If something landed today, there's more where that came from. And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way. 🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com 💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne 📷 @therealjostone

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Balance and Beyond is the podcast for ambitious women refusing to accept burnout as the price of success. Here, we’re committed to empowering you with the tools and strategies you need to achieve true balance, where your career, relationships and health all thrive and where you have the power to define success on your own terms.