79 episodes
Bedside Bedside
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4.8 • 23 Ratings
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How do I have better orgasms? How do I even date these days? How do I build amazing relationships? What's the secret to Good Sex anyways? Each week on Bedside, you'll hear intimate interviews and explorations into modern day sex, dating, love, and wellness. With a little manifestation sprinkled in there too! We chat with the sexperts and wellness leaders about the many and unique approaches to sex & pleasure all while keeping you curious, informed, and of course having fun. Join our host and founder, Tatiana, as we delve into all things love, sex, and tangible how-to's!
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GHOSTING: Quickie with Amanda Blair
QUICKIE: Ghosting...the original bad boy. Everyone has a ghosting story and most people have been on both sides of the equation. Ghosting refers to the disappearing act people pull when they want to leave a relationship or potential relationship. If a breakup wasn’t bad enough, Ghosting takes it to new levels as it gives absolutely no explanation, follow up, or point of further communication. Today we've got Amanda Blair here to break down all the ins, outs, energetics and tips for ghosting. We also cover the Science of Ghosting — yes, this has been a scientifically researched topic! I remember when I was going through a recent ghosting experience and wondered how to handle it with “grace”. This episode is the answer I wish I had during that time.
We also cover:
What ghosting is and isn'tFriendship vs. romantic ghosting dynamicIntimacy in friendshipScience of ghosting (mentioned research paper linked here)How to handle being ghostedThe energetics of what ghosting means and impliesTips for navigating various ghosting situationsMentioned Resources:
Scientific Research Paper: Ghosting and Destiny: Implicit Theories of Relationships Predict Beliefs about GhostingFriendship Breakup episode with Amanda Connect with Bedside:
@thebedsidewww.thebedside.coConnect with Amanda Blair:
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Am I Queer Enough? with Casey Tanner
INTERVIEW: Today I’m in conversation with Casey Tanner: certified sex therapist and Founder + CEO, at The Expansive Group therapy practice. You also may be familiar with them online under the social platform @queersextherapy. On the show today we are talking all about queerness specifically Casey’s insights between the intersections of mental health and identity and sex. Casey shares with Bedside their own story of embracing their sexual identity and what that process looked like for them, as well as advice around navigating sexual evolutions. Whether you're queer, queer-ish, or just curious to learn more tune in!
We also cover:
sexual evolutionssex + mental health intersectionsbeing queer enoughqueer sexsexual communication gender dysphoriagender expression& so much more!
Keep up with Bedside:
@thebedside
thebedside.co
Connect with Casey:
@queersextherapy
theexpansivegroup.com
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The 18 Love Languages with Anne Hodder-Shipp
INTERVIEW: Did you know there are actually more than 5 Love Languages? Yep! Today joining me on the podcast is Anne Hodder-Shipp, a certified sex and relationships educator and author. On the show, Anne is here to chat about their latest written work around the topic of the modern love. Specifically, the 18 Languages for Modern Love which is Anne’s much-needed and expansive update to the classic Love Languages.
On this episode we cover:
Why there are more than 5 Love LanguagesIdentityQueernessGrowing upSexual scriptingPlatonic loveGiveaway!!! Leave a podcast review for a chance to WIN a Good Sex™ Hoodie!
Keep up with Bedside:
@thebedside
thebedside.co
Connect with Anne:
@theannehodder
annehoddershipp.com
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Finding Your Match with Dating Expert + Matchmaker April Beyer
INTERVIEW: Today I’m in conversation with matchmaker extraordinaire and relationship expert April Beyer. A pioneer in the Personal Matchmaking industry, April has been one of the most sought after dating experts for 20 years having graced the likes of Dr. Phil, Good Morning America, the NYT, and many more. On the show today April shares her insights on the current dating landscape and her many tips on finding love. We get into dating apps, finding "the one", debunk chemistry, the dating formula, and setting boundaries. This episode covers SO much and whether you are in a single season or not what April has to share applies to everyone’s relational success.
Current landscape of datingMatchmaking “Gameification” of dating appsDating standardsSettling Finding “the one”ChemistryNeeds vs. desiresMaking The List Dating with intentionHaving relational successGiveaway!!! Leave a podcast review for a chance to WIN a Good Sex™ Hoodie!
Keep up with Bedside:
@thebedside
thebedside.co
Connect with April:
@april__beyer
@levelconnections
levelconnections.com
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Secrets & Confessions: Relationship Checkins, Butt Play, and Exes
You confessed, I'm answering. I've been having such a good time answering your burning Q's and confessions around sex, love, and relationships over on the 'gram that I thought why not bring this over to the podcast. So I'm here, answering your call, and getting down to business. This week I'm covering how to have a good old RelationshipCheckin™, how to introduce butt play to a fling, confronting someone who won't stop bringing up their exes and more! Tune in cuties
Mentioned Resources:
Starter butt plug kit (not sponsored)Get Turned On! with sex therapist Dr. Ian Kerner Connect with Bedside:
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Dating Desperation: Quickie with Amanda Blair
QUICKIE: Welcome back to another Quickie! This week I’m back with my co-host and relationship expert Amanda Blair as we chat desperately dating and the energetics of finding love. In our chat we unpack our fave tv shows of the moment (Sex Lives of College Girls is SO good), stalking flings, obsessive crushes, core wounds, and we also reframe single-hood and how incredible this season is.
In this episode we also cover:
Obsessive crushes Energetics of desperately datingOn & off relationships Stalking flings Co-creating with the Universe Jumping off cliffs GhostingRejectionConnect with Bedside:
@thebedsidewww.thebedside.coConnect with Amanda Blair:
amandablair.org@xoamandablairBe sure to rate, review, and share this episode with a friend!
Customer Reviews
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this is what life is all about and the host effortlessly navigates the world of sex with grace + empathy
You don’t know what you don’t know...
My wife and I listened to the pod cast interview with Mieka Hollendar while touring New England this week. Lots of windshield time. There are so many things in our modern society that we either take for granted or accept at face value... or both. Many are beneficial and too many are not. Our society is awash in harmful chemicals that have been sold to us as “safe” yet we see rising rates of cancer, leukemia, and other non-source specific diseases that defy explanation.
As a family, we have as chemical a free home as we can. When Mieka brought up a point that many cotton based tampons have trace amounts of glycosides (Roundup) in them, and when used, pass those chemicals directly into the blood stream, it prompted a very serious discussion about $.25 vs $.45 a tampon. Taking a cancer risk for $.20 is not a good idea...unless you don’t know it’s a risk. So, thank you for having serious, educational discussions in this space that needs to be had. Well worth a listen.