Breaking the Silence

Raynea Wallace
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Welcome to Breaking the Silence—honest conversations about grief, faith, healing, and becoming whole again. I’m Raynea Wallace, joined by my cohost Kelli. This podcast is for women navigating the quiet after loss—finding their footing, identity, and voice again. We talk about motherhood in hard seasons, midlife shifts, relationships, unanswered prayers, and learning to live again. Real stories, deep conversations, and grace—because healing doesn’t happen alone. You’re not alone. Welcome to our community.

  1. Faith, Attachment & Fear of Abandonment - Why Consistency Matters More Than Perfection

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    Faith, Attachment & Fear of Abandonment - Why Consistency Matters More Than Perfection

    If love has ever felt like anxiety, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we talk about why so many of us learned to chase perfection—not because we’re controlling or “too much,” but because somewhere along the way, love felt inconsistent. And when love feels unpredictable, our nervous systems do what they can to stay safe. We explore how fear of abandonment shows up in relationships and even in our faith, why performance can never create real security, and how consistency—not perfection—is what actually heals. Because healing doesn’t happen when you finally get everything right.It happens when love proves it will stay. If this month stirred something in you, this episode is a gentle exhale—a reminder that you are not broken, you adapted. And you don’t have to rush your way into safety. You were never meant to be perfect to be loved. 🤍

    37 min

  2. FEB 11

    What Secure Love Actually Feels Like (and Why It Might Feel Unfamiliar)

    What if the problem was never that you were “too much”…What if your nervous system simply learned a different language of love? In this episode of Breaking the Silence, Raynea and Kelli gently explore what secure love actually feels like—not as a definition or diagnosis, but as a lived, embodied experience. Together, they get curious about the patterns many of us grew up with: love that felt intense, unpredictable, or required constant vigilance. They talk about why calm can feel suspicious, why consistency can feel underwhelming, and why safety sometimes feels unfamiliar when chaos was once normal. This conversation isn’t about fixing yourself or labeling your attachment style. It’s about releasing shame and asking kinder questions—of your body, your story, and even God. You’ll hear about: Why secure love often feels quiet instead of exciting How the nervous system clings to what’s familiar—even when it’s painful Why walking away from healthy love isn’t self-sabotage, but protection How curiosity softens shame and opens the door to healing A gentle faith lens on unfamiliar peace and steady love There’s no pressure here. No checklist. No “do better.” Just an invitation to notice, to get curious, and to remember:You’re not behind. You’re becoming.

    35 min

  3. FEB 4

    The Anxious–Avoidant Dance: Why We Keep Missing Each Other

    Have you ever felt like the more you lean in, the more someone pulls away? Or the moment you take space, someone panics? In this episode of Breaking the Silence, Raynea and Kelli gently unpack what’s often called the anxious–avoidant dance....not to label or diagnose you, but to name a pattern so you can finally stop thinking you are the problem. Together, they talk honestly about: what anxious and avoidant attachment actually look like in real life why texting and conflict can feel so activating how both sides are simply trying to feel safe, using opposite strategies and why not responding right away is somethmes a capacity issue They also share personal insight around fearful-avoidant attachment, earned security, and what it looks like to care deeply while learning to honor your nervous system. This is a shame-free conversation for anyone who: feels conflicted inside relationships loves deeply but tires easily wants connection and needs space is learning how to feel safe with themselves again You’ll leave with a sense of clarity, compassion, and a few gentle anchor questions to return to when things feel confusing. No pressure, no fixing, just awareness. We’re not rushing. We’re not proving. We’re healing. And as always… we send you off with so much love. 🤍

    21 min

  4. JAN 28

    What We’re Carrying Into 2026 (and What We’re Leaving Behind)

    What are you carrying into 2026… and what are you finally ready to put down? In this episode, Raynea and Kelli sit down for an honest, faith-rooted conversation about the things so many women are holding right now—pressure, grief, emotional exhaustion, and the quiet fear of not being “okay” yet. Together, we talk about what we’re bringing with us into this new year (real healing, secure faith, honest relationship work, and even laughter)… and what we’re leaving behind (performing strength, rushing the process, self-abandonment, and the need to overexplain our pain). This isn’t an announcement. It’s an invitation. If you’ve been doing everything alone, let this be your reminder: you don’t have to anymore. 🤍

    35 min

  5. JAN 21

    The Sacred Pause: What Happens When You Step Away to Hear God Again

    A conversation about obedience, rest, and trusting God when the next step isn’t clear. Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is pause. In this episode, I share what a season of quiet revealed, what I expected God to say, what surprised me, and how obedience in this season looked more like being than doing. If you’ve been feeling tired, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step, this conversation is an invitation to breathe, listen, and trust that God is still working in the silence. .

    10 min

  6. JAN 18 · BONUS

    Breaking the Silence: A New Season

    A new season of Breaking the Silence. A space for honest conversations about faith, healing, grief, relationships, and the quiet seasons that shape us. New episodes begin January 21.

    2 min

  7. 11/05/2025

    The Bittersweet Season: Holding What Was and What’s to Come

    As we close out this year, Kelli and I sat down for one last episode — a tender, honest conversation about what it means to navigate this season holding both grief and joy. With Raynea's son's wedding just around the corner, there’s so much excitement for what’s ahead — love, new beginnings, and celebration. But there’s also that quiet ache for who’s missing, for the moments we wish they could still be part of. We talk about honoring the past without getting stuck there, looking forward with hope, and learning to live in the beautiful, bittersweet “and.” Because life really is both — grief and joy, loss and love, endings and new beginnings. This is our final episode of the year, and what a year it’s been. Thank you for showing up, listening, and sharing your hearts with us. We’ll be taking a little break to rest, reflect, and celebrate the season — and we’ll be back in January 2026 with more conversations from the heart.

    29 min

  8. 10/31/2025

    "Mom, Are You Dating Someone?" - Navigating Love After Loss with Kids at Home

    After loss, the thought of dating again can feel… complicated. There’s the guilt, the fear of getting hurt again, and the worry about how your kids will handle it — all tangled up with the quiet hope that maybe, just maybe, your heart could open again someday. In this episode, we're talking honestly about what it’s like to even consider dating after loss — especially when you still have kids at home. From knowing when (or if) you’re ready, to navigating your children’s feelings, to rediscovering the parts of yourself that still long for connection — we’re breaking the silence on what this season really looks like. Because moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting. You can hold grief in one hand and hope in the other — and still believe that love, in its own time, can find you again. 💞

    40 min
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Welcome to Breaking the Silence—honest conversations about grief, faith, healing, and becoming whole again. I’m Raynea Wallace, joined by my cohost Kelli. This podcast is for women navigating the quiet after loss—finding their footing, identity, and voice again. We talk about motherhood in hard seasons, midlife shifts, relationships, unanswered prayers, and learning to live again. Real stories, deep conversations, and grace—because healing doesn’t happen alone. You’re not alone. Welcome to our community.

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  • Creator
    Raynea Wallace
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    62
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Raynea Wallace
  • Show Website
    Breaking the Silence