Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

  1. 3D AGO

    Erotic Bodywork, Consent, and Learning to Feel Safer in My Body

    What exactly happens in an erotic bodywork retreat?  In this solo episode, I take you behind the scenes of my experience attending a seven-day Back to the Body retreat in Sicily with Pamela Madsen. Ten days after interviewing Pamela on the podcast, I booked a flight to Italy and found myself immersed in somatic work, erotic touch, sisterhood, consent conversations, breathwork, body-based healing, and some of the most profound nervous system regulation I have ever experienced. I share what the retreat structure actually looked like, what surprised me the most, the emotional and physical shifts that came up during the experience, and why this work was about so much more than orgasms.  I talk about: the importance of consent conversations before entering erotic spaces why safety changes your ability to access pleasure and embodiment sisterhood, connection, and the unexpected emotional impact of the retreat why erotic touch is not just about orgasms, but presence, safety, and healing how to advocate for yourself and your boundaries in erotic spaces If you have ever been curious about erotic bodywork, somatic sex education, or retreats like Back to the Body, this episode is an honest look at what these spaces can actually feel like from someone who experienced it firsthand. This conversation is not about shock value or fantasy. It is about embodiment, consent, safety, pleasure, and what becomes possible when you finally allow yourself to fully drop into your body. Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    28 min
  2. Abortion Positivity: Dismantling Shame and Stigma with Sophie Nir

    MAY 7

    Abortion Positivity: Dismantling Shame and Stigma with Sophie Nir

    Abortion is not shameful, controversial, or up for debate. It is normal, common, and a fundamental part of healthcare. In this episode, I sit down with Sophie Nir, co-founder and CEO of the Abortion Positivity Project, for a bold, unfiltered, and deeply necessary conversation about abortion, stigma, and reclaiming the narrative. We talk about what abortion positivity actually means, why abortion is not a political issue but a politicised one, and how shame has been intentionally taught and reinforced in both culture and policy. Sophie breaks down the language we have been using for decades, from “pro-choice” to “safe, legal, and rare,” and why those frameworks actually distance us from abortion instead of supporting it. We also get into the real-life impact of abortion access, why abortion is overwhelmingly common and supported, and what it looks like to move from apologising for abortion to proudly standing behind it. We talk about: why abortion is not political, but politicized the problem with language like “pro-choice” and “safe, legal, and rare” why abortion does not need to be justified to be valid how stigma directly impacts policy, access, and people’s lived experiences the reality of abortion access, restrictions, and who is most affected why the most common emotional response after abortion is relief how to start having confident, stigma-free conversations about abortion in everyday life If you are ready to drop the shame, question the narratives you have been taught, and start speaking about abortion with clarity and confidence, this episode is your permission slip. You do not need to soften it. You do not need to apologise for it. You can support it, talk about it, and stand behind it fully. Connect with Sophie Nir https://www.abortionpositivity.com/, https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    45 min
  3. Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen

    APR 30

    Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen

    What if the reason your desire feels confusing, inconsistent, or even absent… is because it is not actually aligned with who you think you are? In this episode, I sit down with the OG in the sexual wellness space, somatic sex educator, and founder of Back to the Body Retreats, Pamela Madsen, for a bold and deeply eye-opening conversation about sexual identity and what it really means to live in alignment with your desire. We talk about the sexual authenticity model, the tension between who you believe you are, what you actually want, and how you show up in your relationships. Pamela shares her journey from being the “good girl” who had the perfect life on paper to confronting desire that did not fit her identity, and how that misalignment became the catalyst for everything that followed. We also get into why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, how desire gets suppressed over time, and what it takes to reconnect with your pleasure in a real, embodied way. We talk about: why your desire can feel out of sync with your current life becoming erotically fluent and learning how to feel again why safety is required for women to access pleasure the difference between performing sex and experiencing it reconnecting with your body through somatic awareness why your pleasure is something you actively take ownership of If you have ever felt like your desire does not match the life you are living, or like you are playing a role instead of actually experiencing pleasure, this episode is your invitation to get honest about what you want and start aligning your life around it. Your desire is not random. It is information. And when you learn how to listen to it, everything begins to shift. Connect with Pamela Madsen  http://www.backtothebody.org https://www.instagram.com/backtothebodyorg/ https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/ https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    39 min
  4. Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon

    APR 23

    Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon

    What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life? In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up.  We also talk about: why your pleasure is your responsibility, not your partner’s moving out of “pick me” energy and into self-worth and boundaries how to rebuild confidence and feel safe receiving pleasure again the difference between performing in bed and actually experiencing pleasure why nervous system safety is required for real intimacy and connection how to listen to your body and trust what it is telling you If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body. Connect with Amber Joy Simon  https://www.instagram.com/quivr_method/ https://stan.store/QUIVR Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    48 min
  5. The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers

    APR 16

    The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers

    What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself? In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours. Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency. We talk about: the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shifting how purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desires losing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you are moving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desire grief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart learning how to choose yourself without guilt why becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you do If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own.  Connect with Lauren Elise Rogers https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ https://sexedforyou.com/connect Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    1h 11m
  6. How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Build a Stronger Relationship

    APR 9

    How to Navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy and Build a Stronger Relationship

    Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding. In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections. We talk about: what ethical non-monogamy actually means and the different forms it can take why opening a relationship will not fix communication problems, it will amplify them the importance of having a strong foundation before exploring ENM emotional bandwidth, time, and attention as boundaries people forget to set how different partners can have completely different approaches to non-monogamy why communication needs to be proactive, not reactive dating apps, red flags, and what emotional availability actually looks like fear versus caution when navigating vulnerability and new connections If you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness. Connect with Dr. Lee Phillips https://www.drleephillips.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drleephillips/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    1h 1m
  7. Safe Slut Energy: Rewriting Sex, Stigma & STI Shame with Tricia Wise

    APR 2

    Safe Slut Energy: Rewriting Sex, Stigma & STI Shame with Tricia Wise

    What if the thing you were taught to fear most about your sex life is actually… not a big deal? In this episode, we are dismantling one of the most overblown, misunderstood, and unnecessarily stigmatized topics in sex: herpes. And no, your sex life is not over. Not even close. I’m sitting down with the iconic Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, for a bold, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about what it really means to navigate dating, sex, and identity after a herpes diagnosis. We talk about how she coined “Safe Slut” the same day she was diagnosed, how she turned that into a platform that educates and empowers thousands, and why herpes is way more common and way less dramatic than we have been led to believe. From disclosure and dating to sex work, stigma, and reclaiming the word “slut,” this conversation is equal parts liberating and real. We talk about: why STI stigma is usually worse than the reality how to disclose to partners without turning it into a dramatic confession why sexual health is a shared responsibility between you and your partner/s reclaiming the word “slut” and unlearning shame around sexuality how misinformation around STIs has been shaped by culture, media, and fear why your sex life is not over, it might actually be leveling up If you have ever felt shame around your body, your desires, or your sexual history, this episode is your reminder that you get to define your own narrative. Sex can still be hot, fun, and deeply connected, and honestly, maybe even better when you stop buying into the fear. Connect with Tricia:  OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/safeslvt Twitter: https://twitter.com/safe_slut IG: https://www.instagram.com/safe.slut/?hl=en Substack: https://safeslut.substack.com/ Shop: https://www.safeslut.shop/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/safeslut Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk7lX24XQC8CckzeknAhQ9A Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@safe.slut?_t=8UuUIhvr2be&_r=1 Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    41 min
  8. Compulsory Sexuality: You Don't Have to Want Sex with Jamie Azar

    MAR 26

    Compulsory Sexuality: You Don't Have to Want Sex with Jamie Azar

    What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live? In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need. I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms. We talk about: - what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere - why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you  - the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation - how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship - expanding your definition of sex and intimacy - centring pleasure over performance If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good. Connect with Jamie Azar: https://linktr.ee/eroticexpressionsedu Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    48 min
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

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  • Creator
    Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
  • Show Website
    Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

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