Create Your Fate

Life Coach Meg Ellis
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You can create your Best Life Ever and Meg Ellis will teach you the ways. And guess what? It’s easier than you think. Start with this: Stop thinking about what you don’t want. Start thinking about what you DO want. Yes, it’s really that simple. Meg Ellis is a Certified Conscious Life Coach who has helped thousands of people all over the world rewire their negative mindset into a positive one to create and live their absolute Best Life Ever. She is a writer, a motivational speaker, and she uses the Enneagram and the Law of Attraction to break down self-limiting beliefs to replace self-doubt, guilt, and fear with confidence, fulfillment, and peace. Create Your Fate is designed to show you where sneaky negative thoughts are manifesting in your life and how to direct your thoughts and energy in a positive direction instead so you can begin living your Best Life Ever. Your mind has so much power when you intentionally direct it towards what you want. Create Your Fate will show you how. Are you ready? It’s time to create your fate. To learn more about Meg, life coaching, the Enneagram, and the Law of Attraction, or to submit a topic or question, check out www.letscreateyourfate.com.

  1. 1D AGO

    EP230: Why Your Circle Gets Smaller as You Grow

    "If you are doing the work that 99% of people spend their life avoiding, why are you surprised when less than 1% of people understand you?" -- Meg In this episode: Why growth can create distance—and how old patterns try to pull you back when you changeWhy outgrowing friendships, routines, and hobbies can feel unsettling—even when nothing is “wrong”The grief and loneliness that often accompany evolution—and why they’re part of the processHow to reframe loneliness as availability, alignment, and a sign you’re moving in the right direction Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! If you’ve been doing the work—changing habits, shifting patterns, releasing old energy—and suddenly notice your circle getting smaller, this episode is for you. Growth has a way of quietly changing the people, routines, and conversations around you, even when nothing is “wrong.” What once felt like home can start to feel limiting, and that shift can be confusing—especially when you expected growth to feel exciting, not lonely. In this episode, I unpack why outgrowing friendships, hobbies, and familiar environments is a natural part of personal growth, and why the loneliness that follows doesn’t mean you’ve failed. We’ll talk about the in-between phase where your nervous system is recalibrating, your environment hasn’t caught up yet, and you’re standing with open hands instead of empty ones. If your circle feels smaller right now, this is your reminder that this season is temporary—and often a sign you’re evolving in the right direction. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    32 min

  2. FEB 4

    EP229: Overcoming Self-Doubt: How to Trust Yourself and Choose Your Path | Gustavo Handam

    “Self-doubt comes from a belief about yourself—and a belief is just a pattern of thoughts you repeat until it becomes your reality.” -- Gustavo Handam In this episode: Recognize how repeated thoughts become lived realityReframe chaos as part of the becoming processExplore the difference between ego-driven safety and soul-led growthSee how choosing yourself invites deeper connection and confidence Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! What happens when the life you planned falls apart… and the life you’re meant for starts asking you to be honest? In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with Gustavo Handam—movement coach, wellness leader, and the newest member of the Create Your Fate Retreats team—for a conversation about resilience, self-trust, and what it looks like to keep choosing yourself when the path keeps shifting. Gustavo shares his journey from moving to the U.S. from Venezuela in 2017, to navigating rejection and rebuilding his life from scratch, to betting on himself in a new country with a new career. We talk about the “hurricanes” we all face—external chaos and internal self-doubt—and how he learned to stay grounded in the center of it. This is a real, heartfelt conversation about starting over, rewriting beliefs, and stepping into authenticity—especially when it costs you comfort. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer Connect with Gustavo: Follow Gustavo on InstagramGo to Gustavo's Colombia Retreat December 2026!

    1h 31m

  3. JAN 25

    EP228: 2026 Planning for the Lunar New Year: Direction Over Pressure

    "Direction is more important than speed." -- Meg In this episode: How to plan your 2026 year with soft energy—and stop forcing clarity when your nervous system is asking for space.The difference between goals vs intentions, and how intentions create alignment without the pressure spiral.How to identify what drains you vs expands you—and choose what feels ready to shift without overwhelming yourself.How to turn a big dream into one tiny doable step, a simple non-negotiable, and a word that becomes your North Star. Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Today is our 2026 planning episode—and I designed it intentionally around the Lunar New Year, because this time of year is actually the perfect window to reset your direction without the pressure spiral. The lunar calendar is about cycles, rhythm, and intention—not rushing. So if January felt weird, slow, scattered, or like “new year, same energy”…you’re not behind. You’re just still in the transition. I’m sharing how my own year started off completely different than I expected, and how I stopped trying to force goals out of sheer pressure. Instead, I used this exact practice to create conditions for clarity—and I want you to do the same before we move into the next lunar cycle. This episode is not a vision-and-goals workshop. It’s a soft, interactive planning practice that helps you choose your direction as we approach the Lunar New Year—so you’re not entering the year with hustle energy, unrealistic expectations, or a nervous system that’s already bracing. We’ll focus on how you want to feel as you build your life, because your subconscious responds to emotion—not logic—and that feeling becomes your compass. You will leave this episode with a North Star and a sense of calm direction heading into the Lunar New Year! Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    1h 1m

  4. JAN 15

    EP227: How to Actually Achieve Your Fitness Goals in 2026 | Andres Assef

    “The goal isn’t just living longer. It’s living better—more healthy years, not just more years.” —Andres Assef In this episode: Why “doing the most” in January is usually the reason you burn out—and what actually creates momentumThe real truth about GLP-1s: how to use them wisely without sacrificing muscle, hormones, or long-term resultsThe 3 pillars of longevity that matter more than the scale: muscle mass, bone density, and VO₂ maxHow to build an 80/20 routine that sticks—so you stop starting over and start feeling better for real Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! We're kicking off 2026 with a conversation that makes you feel aligned, educated, and not overwhelmed about your health goals. Today’s guest is Andres Assef, a human performance + optimization strategist and the owner of MPWR Wellness—and you will be absolutely blown away with this conversation. If you’ve tried to lose weight before and nothing sticks… if you’re exhausted by trendy diets… if you want 2026 to be the year something actually shifts in your body—this episode is for you. And if you’re looking for a quick, “bippity-bop-boo” fix… you already know this isn’t that. We go deep into what actually moves the needle (and what quietly sabotages progress), including the truth about GLP-1s, muscle loss, stress + cortisol, and why doing the most is often the fastest way to burn out and quit. We also talk about the mindset piece: the all-or-nothing spiral, the guilt cycle, and why the most powerful question you can ask yourself this year is… “What happens if I don’t?” Want to kickstart 2026? This episode is for you. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer Connect with Andres: Follow Andres on InstagramFollow MPWR Wellness on a href="https://www.instagram.com/mpwr.wellness" rel="noopener...

    1h 27m

  5. JAN 6

    EP226: These 3 Excuses Are Costing You the Life You Want

    "Our time is our most non-renewable resource. If you’re constantly counting down the hours, the days, the weeks—it's not the time that’s the problem. It’s the place." -- Meg In this episode: Identify the subtle red flags that signal you may be settling—even when life looks fine on paperUnderstand why certain excuses feel so convincing and how they quietly reinforce staying stuckRecognize how “someday” thinking forms and what gently interrupts itTake a grounded, doable step that opens momentum toward the life you actually want Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Have you ever had that quiet thought creep in: “There has to be more than this…”—and then immediately talked yourself out of exploring it? In today’s episode, we’re getting honest about what’s actually keeping so many people stuck. I walk through the three most common excuses I hear—especially from thoughtful, capable, self-aware people who want more from life but feel frozen where they are. These excuses often sound practical, responsible, and even selfless. But over time, they quietly stall growth and keep you looping in the same patterns. I also share pieces of my own journey—from living a life that looked “right” on the outside to making aligned choices that changed everything. This episode will help you get honest about what you want, identify the beliefs holding you back, and give you the practical tools to finally move toward it. Because the cost of staying the same is far greater than the cost of going for it. *repeat episode, brought back to you for New Year Motivation! Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    51 min

  6. 12/29/2025

    EP225: Is It Time for a Life Coach? Here’s How to Know.

    “A life coach will help you find balance between your personal life and professional life — and a good life coach will make sure it lasts.” — Meg In this episode: The Top 5 reasons people hire life coaches (especially heading into a new year)How to choose a high-quality, aligned, trustworthy life coachThe biggest misconceptions about coaching and how it actually worksCoaching options for every lifestyle, goal, and budget Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! As we move into the New Year, many people feel the pressure of reflection, growth, unmet goals, or the desire to start 2026 with clarity and intention. This episode is back because so many people tell me they’re craving clarity right now — and if you’ve been wondering whether a life coach might be the next aligned step for you, this is the grounding guidance you’ve been looking for. If you’re feeling scattered, stuck, overwhelmed by expectations, burnt out from juggling family and work, or simply craving deeper purpose — this episode will help you understand exactly how coaching works and whether it’s the right support for your next chapter. You’ll also learn how to choose a good life coach, not just any coach, so you can invest in yourself with confidence. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    23 min

  7. 12/26/2025

    EP224: 2025 Reflection: Choosing What Comes With You Into 2026

    “Before we can consciously create what’s next, we want to honor what brought us here.” -- Meg In this episode: How to reflect on 2025 in a way that creates more momentum for 2026—without skipping the pause.The guided prompts that help you uncover your year’s themes, lessons, growth, and biggest plot twists (even the ones you forgot you survived).How to identify what drained vs. expanded your energy—and why that matters before you set new goals.How to step into 2026 with more softness and self-trust by practicing gratitude, learning to receive, and releasing an old story you’re done carrying. Get Your FateCreator App Special Offer -- Save $250! -- Only For 2025 Reflection Participants This episode is my gift to you at the end of the year—because I don’t want you rushing into 2026 with hustle in your chest and tension in your shoulders. I made this 2025 Reflection episode for the high achievers, the goal-setters, the “what’s next?” people (hi, same) who are so good at raising the bar that we forget to honor how far we’ve come. This is an interactive, journal-in-hand practice where we slow down on purpose, reflect on what this year actually held, and let the pause give us more momentum—not less. Because there is so much power in a pause, and I want you walking into 2026 with clarity, confidence, and self-respect…not pressure. Join The Feminine Frequency Waitlist I guide you through a series of reflection prompts that help you look back on 2025 with honesty, compassion, and clarity—acknowledging your growth, your challenges, your energy, and the parts of you that changed along the way. We soften into gratitude, explore your relationship with support and receiving, and end with a release ritual—choosing what you’re no longer carrying into 2026—so you can move forward from grounded truth instead of old survival patterns. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    59 min

  8. 12/16/2025

    EP223: Other People’s Emotional Reactions Are Not Your Responsibility

    “You’re going to be okay… even if they aren’t okay.” — Meg In this episode: The major self-limiting belief that’s been quietly holding you back.How to reclaim your personal power from emotional dependency.How to be okay even when other people aren’t okay.How to identify where you’ve taken responsibility for someone else’s reactions — and what to do instead. Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! The holiday season brings joy… but let’s be honest, it also brings family dynamics, old emotional patterns, crowded social gatherings, and layers of expectation that can pull you right back into habits you thought you’d outgrown. That’s why this listener-favorite episode is making an end-of-year comeback. It’s the reminder you need as you navigate heightened emotions, tricky conversations, and the pressure to “keep the peace.” In this episode, you’ll learn how to stop managing everyone else’s emotional world so you can finally reclaim your own. You’ll discover where you’ve taken on responsibility that was never yours, why it’s been draining your power, and how to build true emotional autonomy. This conversation is your invitation to step into self-trust, self-worth, and radical emotional freedom. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

    16 min
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You can create your Best Life Ever and Meg Ellis will teach you the ways. And guess what? It’s easier than you think. Start with this: Stop thinking about what you don’t want. Start thinking about what you DO want. Yes, it’s really that simple. Meg Ellis is a Certified Conscious Life Coach who has helped thousands of people all over the world rewire their negative mindset into a positive one to create and live their absolute Best Life Ever. She is a writer, a motivational speaker, and she uses the Enneagram and the Law of Attraction to break down self-limiting beliefs to replace self-doubt, guilt, and fear with confidence, fulfillment, and peace. Create Your Fate is designed to show you where sneaky negative thoughts are manifesting in your life and how to direct your thoughts and energy in a positive direction instead so you can begin living your Best Life Ever. Your mind has so much power when you intentionally direct it towards what you want. Create Your Fate will show you how. Are you ready? It’s time to create your fate. To learn more about Meg, life coaching, the Enneagram, and the Law of Attraction, or to submit a topic or question, check out www.letscreateyourfate.com.

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  • Creator
    Life Coach Meg Ellis
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    230
  • Rating
    Explicit
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