Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. 1D AGO

    This Week’s Love Note: Get Love Moving Towards You

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    6 min

  2. 2D AGO

    Why She Gets The Guy And You Don't

    There are women who find love easily… And then there’s your experience 💔 ✔️ You’ve followed all the dating advice. ✔️ You’re swiping on apps. ✔️ In your “feminine energy”. ✔️ Playing hard to get. ✔️ Trying really hard. And yet, you’re the one who’s left confused, frustrated and why you’re always the single friend. This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will. Because the reason she gets the guy and you’re perpetually single?? It’s NOT because she’s prettier. Better at dating. Someone men just like more. You’re just unlucky. Or destined to be single forever. There’s something happening beneath the surface. Something you can’t see… But that changes EVERYTHING! Inside this episode, you’ll hear: Why some women seem to attract incredible men and loving relationships without tryingWhy doing “all the right things” in dating can actually keep you stuckThe real difference between women who find love easily and those who don’tWhat really determines your dating experience (without you realising it)The simple steps to become the woman love happens easily for. This episode will help you understand how love really happens, so it can finally happen for you too. If you’ve ever asked yourself: “Why do I have to always be the single friend?”“What am I missing?”“Why is love so easy for everyone else and so hard for me?” Hit play on this episode now! You'll get the answers you've been looking for. 💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    16 min

  3. APR 19

    This Week's Love Note: When Dating Feels Like the Same Disappointing Story

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 🧲 Episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series to listen to this week:  Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    5 min

  4. APR 18

    Why You Attract The Men Who Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern)

    Men who only want sex. Men who run from commitment. Men who don’t care about getting to know you. Men who only want casual.   ❌ This isn’t "just how dating is" in 2026.   There are still plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are meeting genuine, kind, loyal men and ending up in committed, loving relationships.   If that not your experience and you’re stuck attracting the men who only want one thing… There’s a simple reason for this that typical dating advice rarely mentions.   It’s the reason that it feels like all men are the same. No one’s looking for commitment. You find it hard to cut men off who tell you they don’t want “anything serious.”   Once you understand what’s happening under the surface, then you get what you need to break out of this pattern. And finally attract the kind, genuine men who want the loving relationship you do.   Inside this episode, I walk you through: The unconscious mistake that keeps you stuck attracting the men that only want sex The subtle ways you reinforcing this pattern without realisingWhy expecting the wrong men to become the right one is draining your chances of finding loveAnd what actually needs to shift so you can start attracting men who want love This episode will stop you feeling like dating is something happening to you, as though there’s nothing you can do but just hope for the better. You can change the men you attract. 🎧 Hit play, so I can walk you through how! 🧲 Other episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series:  Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    19 min

  5. APR 15

    Dating Is NOT How You Find Love

    If dating feels exhausting 😔 No matter how much you try, nothing ever actually leads to love… This episode is going to hit HARD. ...because what if the reason it’s so hard for you to find love, isn’t because you haven’t figured out dating yet? What if it’s actually because dating was never the thing that creates love in the first place?!? I know. That probably goes against everything you’ve been told: ✔️ Put yourself out there more. ✔️Go on more dates. ✔️ Fix your profile. ✔️ Get better at texting. ✔️ Learn how to “do dating right.” And yet… You’ve done all of that. And you’re still here... Still single. Still trying. Still wondering why it’s not working. In this episode, I’m breaking down the missing piece to find love that almost never gets mentioned in dating advice. It’s the reason that dating can feel like a complete waste of time. Even when you’re doing everything “right”. Once you hear this, why dating hasn’t helped you find love will finally make sense. You’ll understand: Why dating more, trying harder, following all the advice hasn’t brought you any closer to loveWhat’s actually been missing this whole time (and why you’ve never heard this about love before!) The subtle ways you might be unknowingly pushing love away while you’re dating Why some women meet their person quickly, while others stay stuck for years The one shift that takes dating from exhausting and pointless to the place where love can finally meet you. Because finding love isn’t about apps. Or strategies. It’s not about doing the “right” things to have a man choose you. It’s about something much deeper. You deserve love. You deserve to have it happen easily for you. This episode unlocks that for you. FINALLY! …so hit play and listen now!! 🎧 💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 (Energy & Emotions) Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 (Thoughts, Beliefs & Subconscious Patterns) READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    15 min

  6. APR 12

    This Week's Love Note: For When You Can’t Get Dating “Right”

    Each week in This Week’s Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week you’ll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesn’t come from trying harder, “fixing” yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know won’t work). It’s only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    6 min

  7. APR 11

    "Is It Too Late To Find Love And Become A Mum?"

    If it feels like you’re running out of time to meet the right man and have the baby, family and life you’ve always wanted… This episode will help no end 🙌 Because the truth is: That pressure you feel to find love and start a family last, is the very thing stopping it from happening. I know that’s hard to hear, but you already feel this, don’t you? Dating feels hard. Connections feel forced. Nothing clicks the way you so badly want it to. This isn’t because you’re doing anything wrong. But because of the energy you’re in when you’re dating. In this episode, I break down what actually happens when you feel like you’re “running out of time” and that intense pressure to find love and start a family while it feels like you still can. And why it creates a cycle that only pushes love further away. You’ll hear: Why rushing and trying to find love fast (even if it’s only under the surface) kills connection before it’s had a chance to buildWhat your brain and body do when you feel that timeline pressure and how it works against youThe real reason dating never gets you any closer to love (even when you’re doing everything “right”)Why focusing on the BIG vision (man + relationship + baby) makes it harder for you to find The simple shifts that take you out of this pressure and back into the energy of love so it all finally fall into place for you. This isn’t about “pretending like you don’t care” or not worrying anymore (you already know does advice doesn’t help at all). This is about understand how love really works so you can stop pushing it away without realizing. …only the most important lesson of your lifetime!! Because love doesn’t respond to pressure. It responds to love. And once you see this, you unlock everything you need to finally live that vision you’ve always had for your life. If you’re done with all the pressure, feeling like time’s running out for you to find love and become a mum… 🎧 Hit play and listen to this episode a few times over! Because this is love happens.  💖 Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    25 min

  8. APR 8

    The Uncomfortable Truth About Following The One Rule Love Does

    If dating, finding love feels hard, exhausting and honestly, a bit hopeless right now… I want to gently point something out to you. Without realizing, you’re kinda, actually choosing this. NOT consciously. NOT because you want it. But because it’s familiar 🧸   The same relationships that end in heartbreak. The same types of men. The same conversations that go nowhere. The same feeling of “why does this keep happening to me?” Yes, it’s painful. It’s not what you want. But it’s what you know. And your subconscious mind (which drives 95% of what you do, without you realizing) will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven. Every. Single. Time. This means that finding love in a way that you haven’t before (like following the one rule love does)… It doesn’t feel natural at first. It feels weird, uncomfortable. Maybe even like you’ve lost your mind 🤪🤯 I’m here to tell you that’s normal. I went through it all myself. Inside this episode I’m taking you BTS of what it actually looks like to find love in a way you haven’t before. Why there are so many doubts and fears. Why it feels so uncomfortable to start. What’s happening underneath it all. And why discomfort is actually a sign you’re finally moving towards love. Not away from it any more 🙌 Inside this episode you’ll see: What “familiar hell vs unfamiliar heaven” actually looks like in your love life Why you keep going back to the same patterns (even when they aren’t what you want) The real reason doing something new feels so uncomfortable My honest experience going through this (and what happens on the other side) A simple way to start breaking these patterns keeping you away from love this week If you keep doing what you’ve always done… You already know how that ends 💔 This episode is your way out of that. 🎧 Hit play and listen now! READY FOR LOVE?!?!? Follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man: Get the trusted steps, tools and practices that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast   CONNECT WITH ME: Send me a DM on Instagram @findlovewithemily If you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too. And don’t forget to follow/subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you don’t miss the exciting upcoming series!

    13 min
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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  • Creator
    Emily Bucknell
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 null All Rights Reserved.
  • Show Website
    Find Love With Emily

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