Demystifying the Transgender Journey

Lynn W. Murphy
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This podcast features a diverse array of voices of people who were born transgender, their families, friends, coworkers, and healthcare professionals. Your cohosts, Lynn W. Murphy, a cisgender woman, and Wendy Cole, a transgender woman, created a unique partnership to interview a wide array of transgender individuals and allies. Their goal is to combat misinformation and disinformation by educating people and facilitating compelling conversations. (c) 2026, Key Innovative Solutions, Inc.  For More Information: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com

  1. Episode 45: Intersex Uncovered: Myths, Truths, & Lived Experience with Vickie Boisseau and Jim Costich

    5d ago

    Episode 45: Intersex Uncovered: Myths, Truths, & Lived Experience with Vickie Boisseau and Jim Costich

    Intersex: The Hidden Reality, Forced Surgeries, and Why Sex Isn’t Either/Or | Demystifying the Transgender Journey In this episode of Demystifying the Transgender Journey, hosts Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole focus on intersex experiences with guests Vickie Boisseau (Organization Intersex International) and Jim Costich (retired medical lab professional and speaker). They explain how intersex has been historically pathologized and deliberately hidden, discuss the lack of adequate language and the conflation of sex and gender, and challenge the cultural insistence on a strict binary, emphasizing “all/and” rather than “either/or.” Jim shares being born in 1957 with ambiguous anatomy, being sent to a gender clinic at 14, and later discovering at 44 that he has a vagina. Vickie describes being surgically altered starting at eight months, undergoing 14 failed hypospadias repairs, hormone interventions, partial androgen insensitivity, and a later adult amputation and ovotestes removal. They criticize non-consensual infant surgeries, note intersex is common but rarely discussed, and recommend books by Hida Viloria, Sharon Preves, and work by Cynthia Mulit.   For More Information about Vickie Boisseau: https://www.facebook.com/vickie.boisseau  Elder A. Vickie Boisseau - Intersex Campaign for Equality IC4E | LinkedIn  https://www.instagram.com/vickie2spirit    For More Information about Jim Costich: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-costich-34919340 https://www.facebook.com/jim.costich/  https://jamescostich.substack.com/   Writers Mentioned: Katrina Karkazis Hida Viloria: Intersex and Identity: The Contested Self Sharon Preves Cynthia Mulit: "Intersex Experiences, Activists' Perspectives, and Counseling Implications"   For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202 https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney https://womenwhopushthelimits.com (c) 2026 Key Innovative Solutions, Inc.    To contact Wendy: MeetWendyCole.com. https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326 https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 30m
  2. Ep 44: From Role Playing to Role Model: Dr. Grace Kinsley Finds Joy in Community and LGBTQ Visibility

    Jun 12

    Ep 44: From Role Playing to Role Model: Dr. Grace Kinsley Finds Joy in Community and LGBTQ Visibility

    From Role Playing to Role Model: Dr. Grace Kinsley Finds Joy in Community Care and LGBTQ Visibility In this episode of Demystifying the Transgender Journey, hosts Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole speak with Dr. Grace Kinsley, a retired locum GP in Nova Scotia and trans woman who knew she was not a boy at age six but hid for decades, describing puberty as terrifying and living behind a “mask” until a “transition or die” moment at 55 amid extreme stress and suicidality. Grace shares how she came out to her wife Sandra (who supported her immediately), faced resistance from her mother, began socially transitioning right away, and started HRT five months later after WPATH assessments, describing profound physical and emotional changes, increased confidence, and sustained joy. She discusses gender-affirming surgery in Montreal, her advocacy with GSAs and queer youth, safety in public spaces, and the importance of education, science-based care, and empathy for both transition and detransition.   For more about Grace Kinsley: https://www.facebook.com/grant.kinsley   For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202 https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney https://womenwhopushthelimits.com   (c) 2026 Key Innovative Solutions, Inc.    To contact Wendy: MeetWendyCole.com. https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326 https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 24m
  3. Ep 43: The Last Big Step: Krystal Franqui's Experience Before, During and After Gender-Affirming Surgery

    May 29

    Ep 43: The Last Big Step: Krystal Franqui's Experience Before, During and After Gender-Affirming Surgery

    Krystal’s Gender-Affirming Surgery Journey (Part 3): Preparation, Recovery, and Finding Peace In part three of Krystal’s three-episode series on Demystifying the Transgender Journey, Wendy Cole and Lynn Murphy welcome back Krystal following her recent gender-affirming surgery at Mount Sinai in Manhattan. Krystal explains how her dysphoria and safety concerns led her from considering surgery to realizing she needed it, how she chose her surgical team, and the lengthy requirements involved, including letters, BMI goals, tucking, and extensive hair removal. She describes the emotions and logistics of moving up her surgery date, the hospital experience, early recovery challenges, and key post-op care such as swelling control and long-term dilation. Krystal shares that post-surgery she feels “normal,” calm, and at peace, reflecting on gratitude, womanhood, and what trans perspectives reveal about gender.   Video Content Mentioned in this Episode: Pt 1 of Krystal’s Story on DTTJ: https://youtu.be/o-EMMRsf3bk Pt 2 of Krystal’s Story on DTTJ: https://youtu.be/LroRkCwUiJo “Born To Be” Documentary on Mount Sinai: https://www.borntobefilm.com/   For more information about Krystal Franqui: https://www.instagram.com/krysfran2472  https://bsky.app/profile/ember83.bsky.social   For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202 https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney https://womenwhopushthelimits.com   To contact Wendy: MeetWendyCole.com. https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326 https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 18m
  4. Episode 42: Krystal Franqui's Journey Part 2: Adult Life, Acceptance, and Advocacy

    May 22

    Episode 42: Krystal Franqui's Journey Part 2: Adult Life, Acceptance, and Advocacy

    Krystal Franqui on Dysphoria, HRT Relief & Choosing Visibility (Part 2 of 3) | Demystifying the Transgender Journey In part two of Krystal Franqui’s three-episode series on Demystifying the Transgender Journey, Krystal describes years of trying not to transition by using detailed mental stories and intense hobbies like Civil War reenacting to distract from dysphoria, until COVID-era stress triggered severe panic attacks and breakdowns at work. After starting therapy and being diagnosed with gender dysphoria, she began HRT in 2021 and describes rapid improvements in mood, relationships, and mental clarity, alongside losing a job after coming out to HR. Krystal shares her family’s reactions, including supportive children and an accepting mother, recounts early experiences of gender euphoria, and explains being trans through analogies like a pebble in a shoe and describing color to someone born blind. She also explains why she chose visibility and education over going stealth. For more information about Krystal:  https://www.instagram.com/krysfran2472  https://bsky.app/profile/ember83.bsky.social For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202 https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney https://womenwhopushthelimits.com To contact Wendy: MeetWendyCole.com. https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326 https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 7m
  5. Episode 41: Krystal Franqui's Journey Part 1: Childhood Dysphoria, the Navy, and Choosing Visibility

    May 15

    Episode 41: Krystal Franqui's Journey Part 1: Childhood Dysphoria, the Navy, and Choosing Visibility

    In Part 1 of this 3-episode series on Demystifying the Transgender Journey, hosts Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole introduce Krystal Franqui, a 42-year-old woman who affirmed her gender four and a half years ago, is married, and has two adult children. Krystal describes early childhood discomfort with her body, neurodivergent diagnoses (ADD and later autism), isolation at school, and a pivotal dream and puberty experience that intensified dysphoria and depression. With little representation or support in the late 80s and 90s, she tried to “learn” boy behavior by masking and creating rules for what boys could say and do. She joined the Navy in 2001 to prove “manhood,” deployed on an aircraft carrier, and later worked in civilian aviation, still feeling socially out of place. Around 2006 a counselor raised “gender identity disorder,” but family resistance led her to repress it for 15 years, using elaborate internal stories and intense hobbies to cope, ending as COVID approached. For more information about Krystal:  https://www.instagram.com/krysfran2472  https://bsky.app/profile/ember83.bsky.social For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202 https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney https://womenwhopushthelimits.com To contact Wendy: MeetWendyCole.com. https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326 https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    57 min
  6. Ep 40: Demystifying Late-Life Transition: Stephanie Donnell on 10+ Years of HRT, Surgery, and Living Authentically

    May 8

    Ep 40: Demystifying Late-Life Transition: Stephanie Donnell on 10+ Years of HRT, Surgery, and Living Authentically

    Transitioning Later in Life: Stephanie Donnell on 10 Years of HRT, Surgery, and Living Openly In this episode of Demystifying the Transgender Journey, hosts Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole interview Stephanie Donnell, a lifelong electronics professional and YouTuber who completed her transition about 11 months ago at age 66 after more than a decade of medical transition. Stephanie shares early experiences of dysphoria and cross-dressing in an era with anti–cross-dressing laws and little language or representation, her 43-year marriage and her wife’s acceptance, and the step-by-step realities of transition: support groups, informed-consent HRT, orchiectomy, extensive hair removal, WPATH letters, weight-loss requirements, gastric bypass and panniculectomy, and a long path to vaginoplasty. She discusses workplace experiences, unexpected changes from progesterone, safety and authenticity, and the importance of empathy, visibility, and better public understanding of sex vs. gender.  For more about Stephanie Donnell: https://www.facebook.com/stephanie.donnell.4  https://www.youtube.com/@radiodf

    52 min
  7. Episode 39: Amplified Advocacy: Podcasting, Mental Health & LGBTQ+ Allyship with Todd Rennebohm

    May 1

    Episode 39: Amplified Advocacy: Podcasting, Mental Health & LGBTQ+ Allyship with Todd Rennebohm

    Transgression: A Mental Health Advocate Investigates the “Real Trans Agenda” in Saskatchewan | Todd Rennebohm   Hosts Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole interview Todd Rennebohm, a Saskatchewan-based mental health advocate, author, and podcaster who created the eight-part documentary podcast series “Transgression: My Search for the Real Trans Agenda in Saskatchewan.” Todd shares his background with lifelong mental health and addiction struggles, a suicide attempt, treatment and sobriety, and how a widely shared letter sparked his advocacy and led to his podcast “Bunny Hugs and Mental Health.” He explains why trans-related policies in Saskatchewan compelled him to investigate, how he built trust with the trans community through allyship training and consultation, and what he learned about the diversity of trans experiences, the political motivations behind Bill 137, “Parent Bill of Rights,” and the mental health impact of limiting information and support for youth—especially in rural and Indigenous communities.   For More About Todd Rennebohm: https://bunnyhugspodcast.com/  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transgression-my-search-for-the-real-trans-agenda-in/id1841926991 https://www.instagram.com/bunnyhugspodcast/ Sometimes Daddy Cries: Rennebohm, Todd, Stueck, Jessie: 9780228834670: Amazon.com: Books    For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202  https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney  https://womenwhopushthelimits.com    To contact Wendy: https://www.MeetWendyCole.com   https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm  https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326  https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 1m

  8. Apr 17

    Episode 38: Intersex Insights: John Schindler Confronts the 4 S's of Intergender Living

    Intersex, Identity & the “Four S’s”: John Schindler on Surgery, Secrecy, Shame, and Silence In this episode of Demystifying the Transgender Journey, Lynn Murphy and Wendy Cole interview intersex advocate John Schindler, who explains what intersex means, how variations can involve hormones, chromosomes, and gonads/g******s, and why non-consensual infant surgeries remain a civil rights issue. John shares their personal medical history, including early surgeries, a missing or atrophied pituitary, participation in an NIH human growth hormone program, and delayed puberty until testosterone treatment at 20, which shifted their identity from asexual to gay. John discusses frequent misgendering, coming to identify as intergender and non-binary, and the “four S’s” of the intersex experience: Surgery, Secrecy, Shame, and Silence. John also describes how speaking publicly supports families and students, references research on intersex biology and cancer resistance, and highlights resources including Intersex Friends and Families and Organization Intersex International. For More Information about John Schindler and organizations mentioned in this episode: Email John: jpjscogar@gmail.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/747602648624184/ https://oiiusa.org/ https://genderequalityny.org/ https://www.seaofvisibility.com/ For more information about this project: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-the-transgender-journey/id1799458202  https://www.facebook.com/thetransgenderjourney  https://womenwhopushthelimits.com    To contact Wendy: https://www.MeetWendyCole.com   https://www.facebook.com/wendycolegtm  https://www.youtube.com/@wendycole8326  https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-cole-gtm

    1h 10m
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4.3
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This podcast features a diverse array of voices of people who were born transgender, their families, friends, coworkers, and healthcare professionals. Your cohosts, Lynn W. Murphy, a cisgender woman, and Wendy Cole, a transgender woman, created a unique partnership to interview a wide array of transgender individuals and allies. Their goal is to combat misinformation and disinformation by educating people and facilitating compelling conversations. (c) 2026, Key Innovative Solutions, Inc.  For More Information: https://www.thetransgenderjourney.com

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