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T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica‪)‬ T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

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    • 4.9 • 81 Ratings

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)

    Warnings About Dating After Divorce | S4, Ep. 9

    Warnings About Dating After Divorce | S4, Ep. 9

    It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear episode with dating stories from the one and only Carmindy! (Guest: Carmindy, Founder Carmindy Beauty, Entrepreneur)

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to ⁠⁠⁠www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com⁠⁠⁠


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    • 28 min
    Step-parenting (Bonus Parenting) Done Right! | S4, Ep. 8

    Step-parenting (Bonus Parenting) Done Right! | S4, Ep. 8

    If you have kids, then there's a very good chance there will be some type of stepparent role after your divorce - either with your new partner and their kids or your ex's new partner and your own kids. We know it's hard to accept a stepparent in your kids' lives, mostly because we don't want someone else involved in decisions being made and of course the fear of how much our kids will like/love this new person, and how it will affect our relationships with our kids. But there are so many things to know about how to be a stepparent and how to handle your kids having a stepparent, and it really doesn't have to be the nightmare we've seen in movies. We dig deep in this episode and it will be a huge help to everyone out there trying to deal with this situation. (Guest: Maria Napatov, Stepparenting Coach)

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to ⁠⁠www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com⁠⁠


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    • 33 min
    Divorce and Taxes (Part 2) | S4, Ep. 7

    Divorce and Taxes (Part 2) | S4, Ep. 7

    It's not a sexy topic, but tax time is coming and there are some specific things you need to know so you don't get hit with any penalties or fees if you're getting divorced. If your divorce wasn't finalized before the end of the year, do you file jointly or separately? If you have kids, how do you determine who claims them? We go through all the important basics so you're set up for success! (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA and Financial Expert)

    FYI - Divorce and Taxes Part 1 is S2, Ep 26 with Michele Spence

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to ⁠⁠www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com⁠⁠




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    • 33 min
    Harmonious Coparenting | S4, Ep. 6

    Harmonious Coparenting | S4, Ep. 6

    Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach)

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to ⁠www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com⁠


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    • 41 min
    Recovering From a Narcissist | S4, Ep 5

    Recovering From a Narcissist | S4, Ep 5

    We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll learn the top tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship - as well as what all of that even means. (Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Coach)

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com


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    • 29 min
    What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation | S4, Ep. 4

    What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation | S4, Ep. 4

    The type of divorce you choose depends on who your ex is, but mediation is a common practice in several kinds of divorce. But who does it serve? What can go wrong? In this episode you'll learn exactly what goes on in mediation, how to best prepare for it, what can go wrong and how to prevent that so you come out feeling good about your result. This is a must-listen for anyone getting divorced! (Guest: Gabrielle Hartley, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Author Better Apart)



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81 Ratings

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Jessica & TH are a great resource for anyone even considering divorce. Their realistic advice is based on living through their divorce & it is extremely helpful!

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Jessica & TH are the BEST! They ask thoughtful questions and offer powerful insights from their own personal experiences. Listen up!

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No nonsense information and guidance

TH and Jess have clearly been there, done that and Divorce Etc offers listeners the gift their experience and wisdom along with their guests’ expert knowledge. A great, well rounded podcast that provides comfort, insight and just the right touch of humor. It has been an honor to be part of this podcast and to share my expertise with your listeners!

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