213 episodes

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica‪)‬ T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

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    • 4.8 • 84 Ratings

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)

    "Don't F*cking Say That!" (S4, Ep. 29)

    "Don't F*cking Say That!" (S4, Ep. 29)

    Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situations, and help you think about it all in a way you never have before. (Guest: Mellissa Librach, Coach, Trainer & Author)

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    • 16 min
    Divorce Tips from The Divorce Journalist | S4, Ep. 28

    Divorce Tips from The Divorce Journalist | S4, Ep. 28

    We learn our best tips form hearing others that have gone through it, and Ilyssa Panitz has been writing and reporting on divorce for years, so she's picked up some great tips and advice from interviewing others. Here's what she learned! (Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist)

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    • 27 min
    How to Help Kids Through Divorce | S4, Ep. 27

    How to Help Kids Through Divorce | S4, Ep. 27

    If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert)

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    • 39 min
    5 Things You Need to Know Mid-Year About Taxes | S4, Ep. 26

    5 Things You Need to Know Mid-Year About Taxes | S4, Ep. 26

    We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy during divorce, and we want you to be up on everything you need to know and when. In this episode of Divorce etc..., you'll find out why you can't wait until Feb to start dealing with your taxes, and why it's so important to actually consult with an accountant in the midst of your divorce process - so that you are factoring in all of the numbers that will impact you. (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA)

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    • 28 min
    5 Ways to Save Money on Mediation | S4, Ep. 25

    5 Ways to Save Money on Mediation | S4, Ep. 25

    Mediation is a method that it used is so many divorces (even when you are litigating) but you can waste a LOT of money and time if you don't know how to prepare yourself. In this episode we go through five things you must do before starting mediation that will save you money. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Pearl Mediation)

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    • 35 min
    Relationships Renewed with Divorced Dad Daren | S4, Ep. 24

    Relationships Renewed with Divorced Dad Daren | S4, Ep. 24

    Even though we're always giving you two perspectives on everything, we're still both women. In this week's episode, T.H. sits down with one of our favorite good guys, Daren Douglas, to talk about his community Relationships Renewed, and what other good guys are going through as they get divorced. (Guest: Daren Douglas, Certified Divorce Specialist)

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    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
84 Ratings

84 Ratings

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On the Money!

Jessica & TH are a great resource for anyone even considering divorce. Their realistic advice is based on living through their divorce & it is extremely helpful!

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Amazing Hosts!

Jessica & TH are the BEST! They ask thoughtful questions and offer powerful insights from their own personal experiences. Listen up!

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No nonsense information and guidance

TH and Jess have clearly been there, done that and Divorce Etc offers listeners the gift their experience and wisdom along with their guests’ expert knowledge. A great, well rounded podcast that provides comfort, insight and just the right touch of humor. It has been an honor to be part of this podcast and to share my expertise with your listeners!

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