Echoes & Edges

Patria Rector
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Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast is a storytelling and healing podcast hosted by Patria Rector — coach, mentor, and founder of The Broken and Beautiful. Through trauma-informed storywork, the Enneagram, and real-life relationship insights, Patria explores what it means to grow, grieve, and live with authenticity. Season 1 themes include: You Are Enough as You Are, You Are Not Too Much, Can I Trust My Voice?, How Do I Hold My Story?, When Healing Feels Lonely, Do I Belong Anywhere?, Learning to Rest Without Guilt, Becoming Who I Didn’t Have, Letting Joy In, and The Work Takes a Lifetime. Listeners will hear personal narratives, practical tools for emotional health, and gentle practices for self-awareness. Each episode invites you to discover beauty in the middle of life’s messiness — and to embrace your story with kindness. Perfect for anyone interested in emotional healing, self-discovery, relationships, or the Enneagram, Echoes and Edges is your companion for the journey toward hope and wholeness. You are not too much. You are not too late. You’re right on time — and you’re welcome here.

  1. 5D AGO

    Spiritual Disillusionment: Naming Harm, Finding Healing w/ Kate Petersen & Stephanie Rose

    In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector joins guests Kate Petersen and Stephanie Rose to delve into the themes of spiritual harm and heartache, exploring the impact of religious systems on personal identity and the emotional toll of self-abandonment. Together, they unpack the complexities of navigating trauma responses, the importance of naming harm to access grief, and the ongoing journey toward healing and reclaiming one’s true self. Connect with Kate Petersen @thebrokenandbeautiful.com @facebook.com @instagram Connect with Stephanie Rose @thebrokenandbeautiful.com @instagram.com If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    49 min

  2. OCT 30

    Building New Relationships & Choosing Wellbeing w/ Monica Aksamit

    This is the second episode of a two part series on "The Cost of Connecting to Yourself." In this episode of Echoes and Edges, Patria Rector and transformational coach Monica Aksamit delve into the themes of personal growth, the importance of community, and the nuances of well-being. They explore the liminal space of transformation, the role of support in navigating discomfort, and how to build new relationships aligned with one's true self. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding anxiety as an indicator rather than a problem, and the necessity of community as a support system in sustaining personal change. Connect with Monica Aksami at The Broken & Beautiful Website If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    51 min

  3. OCT 23

    Redefining Identity & Having Hard Conversations w/ Carla Rousseau

    This is the first episode of a two part series on "The Cost of Connecting to Yourself." In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector and spiritual director Carla explore the profound themes of identity and connection. They discuss the costs associated with reconnecting to oneself, the disruptions that come with awakening, and the challenges faced in relationships as individuals evolve. The conversation delves into the importance of navigating the in-between spaces of transformation, recognizing signs of fluidity in relationships, and the necessity of course correction when disorientation arises. Carla leads a guided reflection, encouraging listeners to connect with their inner selves and embrace the journey of personal growth. Connect with Carla Rousseau: Bio Related Meditation Blog Post: A Meditation on the Gift of Stillness If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    56 min

  4. OCT 16

    Ep.11: "Type 6 or 9?" Enneagram Session Pt.2 w/ Stephen R. Sanders

    In Part 2 of this behind the scenes coaching session, Patria and Stephen delve into the complexities of personality traits, particularly focusing on introversion and extroversion, the role of fear in personal experiences, and the dynamics of trust and authority. They explore the importance of self-awareness, the balance between optimism and pessimism, and the quest for authenticity. Please note: it is not normally acceptable to tell someone their type. Patria named what she believed was showing up over a couple of hours of interview time as well as years of work that Stephen has done.  So please, if you are listening to this episode, don’t take this as education on how to do an enneagram interview. It takes time, intentionality and education to become certified in enneagram typing.  The discussion touches on themes of insecurity, empathy, codependency, and the often-overlooked role of anger in personal growth. Through honest dialogue, Stephen reveals his desire to live with greater authenticity, grounding, and emotional presence. Connect with Stephen: linktr.ee/stephenrsanders stephenrsanders.com Getting Started with the Enneagram: Narrative Enneagram The Emotional Habits of the Nine Personality Types Typeology Wisdom of the Enneagram The Complete Enneagram Enneagram 2.0 If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    34 min

  5. OCT 9

    Ep.10: "Type 6 or 9?" Enneagram Session Pt.1 w/ Stephen R. Sanders

    In this conversation, Stephen R. Sanders joins Patria Rector to explore his ongoing journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram, particularly his identification as a Type Nine. Together, they unpack the complexities of relationships, emotional awareness, and identity. Stephen reflects on how external opinions, career transitions, and past relationships have shaped his sense of self and connection with others. The discussion also touches on emotional habits and the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth, leading to insights about self-forgetting and the feeling of something missing in life. Connect with Stephen:  linktr.ee/stephenrsanders stephenrsanders.com Getting Started with the Enneagram: Narrative Enneagram The Emotional Habits of the Nine Personality Types Typeology Wisdom of the Enneagram The Complete Enneagram Enneagram 2.0 If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    39 min

  6. OCT 2

    Ep.9: Double Nines: Marriage on the Enneagram (with Jerry & Patria Rector)

    In this tender and insightful episode, Patria is joined by her husband, Jerry, for an honest conversation about what it’s like to be two Enneagram Nines in relationship. Married for over 30 years, they reflect on the joys and challenges of navigating life together as a “double nine couple.” From conflict avoidance to finding peace in their bodies, Jerry and Patria open up about how their unique differences shape their relationship — and how those patterns might resonate with your own story. Whether you’re a Nine yourself, love a Nine, or simply want to better understand relational dynamics through the lens of the Enneagram, this episode offers wisdom, laughter, and practical encouragement. Key Themes Conflict & Avoidance: Why Nines often struggle with voicing preferences, avoiding tension, or merging with others — and how Jer and Patria have learned to face those challenges together.Body & Intuition: How early family dynamics shaped Jer’s awareness of his body and Patria’s connection to her intuition, and the ways both contribute to peace.Speaking Up: The risks and rewards of sharing personal preferences — and why using our words can deepen intimacy and connection.Being Seen: Tender stories of moments when each felt celebrated and truly seen by the other.Conflict Transformation: How their understanding of anger shifted from something to avoid into a pathway to honesty and growth.Aliveness & Belonging: What helps them feel most alive, from adventure to belonging, and how showing up creates connection.Gentle Practice Take a slow breath and notice your body. Where do you feel tension?Where do you feel peace or joy? Ask yourself: What is one thing I want today, just for me? Don’t fix, don’t analyze — simply listen.Reflection Questions How do you experience the difference between peace and avoidance in your own life?In what ways do you hold back your preferences — and what happens when you speak them?When have you felt most seen or celebrated by someone you love?How does your family of origin shape the way you experience conflict and connection?Resources & Links Learn more at thebrokenandbeautiful.comConnect with Patria through the website’s contact pageShare this episode with someone who loves a Nine or needs encouragement on their journeyClosing Reminder: You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re right on time. Ad Affiliate: Reclaiming HER Resilence with Robrenna Parker If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    46 min

  7. SEP 25

    Ep.8: Raised to Obey, Learning to Choose (Interview with Stephanie Rose)

    In this episode of Echoes and Edges, host Patria Rector engages in a profound conversation with Stephanie Rose, who shares her journey of navigating a coerced marriage, the struggles of her upbringing, and the path to reclaiming her identity and voice. The discussion delves into themes of resilience, empowerment, and the importance of trusting one's gut feelings. Stephanie reflects on her experiences of coercion, the challenges faced during her honeymoon, and the eventual realization that she needed to prioritize her own well-being. Through her story, she aims to inspire others to find their own voices and embrace their true selves. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Healing and Transformation 10:08 Stephanie's Journey: From Daughter to Wife 24:12 The Dynamics of Control and Manipulation 32:19 Understanding Choice and Responsibility 33:02 Understanding Coercion in Relationships 38:28 Navigating the Honeymoon Experience 49:46 The Struggles of Early Marriage 56:48 Emotional Assault and Its Aftermath 58:10 The Journey of Healing and Ownership 01:00:04 Rediscovering Inner Strength 01:02:33 The Cost of Curiosity and Community 01:07:24 Reclaiming Voice and Identity 01:12:46 Empowering Others Through Story 01:16:43 Finding New Communities and Freedom If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Stephanie: Stephanie's Bio Instagram If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

    1h 15m

  8. SEP 22

    Ep.7: Navigating Attunement, Containment & Repair (Storywork Pt.2 with Christine Schuele)

    In this episode, Patria Rector and Christine Schuele delve into the concepts of attunement, containment, and repair within the context of storywork. They explore how these elements play a crucial role in healing trauma and fostering healthy relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of presence over technique, the impact of unhealed stories on trust and love, and the significance of generational patterns in perpetuating trauma. Ultimately, they highlight the journey of reawakening faith, hope, and love as essential components of personal and relational healing. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Storywork and Attunement 02:53 Exploring Attunement in Depth 05:46 The Importance of Containment 08:34 Understanding Misattunement 11:37 The Role of Repair in Relationships 14:29 Faith, Hope, and Love as Birthrights 17:29 The Power of Presence in Healing 20:27 Navigating Trauma and Relationships 23:08 Generational Patterns and Healing 26:09 The Journey of Reawakening Faith and Love 📖 Resources & Mentions: The Allender Center – Narrative Focused Trauma Care Training: theallendercenter.org/offerings/trainings/1 Corinthians 13Dr. Dan Siegel – Interpersonal Neurobiology: drdansiegel.comRecommended Resources Page thebrokenandbeautiful.comStorywork Groups & Coaching at The Broken and Beautiful: thebrokenandbeautiful.com If this episode resonates with you, follow or subscribe to Echoes and Edges on your favorite podcast platform, leave a five-star review, and share with a friend who might need a gentle invitation to self-understanding. Connect With Patria Facebook Instagram The Broken & Beautiful Website Credits: Echoes and Edges is Produced and Edited by: Stephen R. Sanders Music Promoted by Envato Echoes and Edges is a part of VividLivid Podcast Network - Where bruises speak and healing finds its voice.

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Echoes and Edges: The Broken and Beautiful Podcast is a storytelling and healing podcast hosted by Patria Rector — coach, mentor, and founder of The Broken and Beautiful. Through trauma-informed storywork, the Enneagram, and real-life relationship insights, Patria explores what it means to grow, grieve, and live with authenticity. Season 1 themes include: You Are Enough as You Are, You Are Not Too Much, Can I Trust My Voice?, How Do I Hold My Story?, When Healing Feels Lonely, Do I Belong Anywhere?, Learning to Rest Without Guilt, Becoming Who I Didn’t Have, Letting Joy In, and The Work Takes a Lifetime. Listeners will hear personal narratives, practical tools for emotional health, and gentle practices for self-awareness. Each episode invites you to discover beauty in the middle of life’s messiness — and to embrace your story with kindness. Perfect for anyone interested in emotional healing, self-discovery, relationships, or the Enneagram, Echoes and Edges is your companion for the journey toward hope and wholeness. You are not too much. You are not too late. You’re right on time — and you’re welcome here.

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  • Creator
    Patria Rector
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Patria Rector/Stephen R Sanders
  • Show Website
    Echoes & Edges

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