Fat and F****d Where Fat Sex and Fat Justice Collide

Hello again, sweet listeners! After a lil hiatus, Suzy and Krista are back with the inimitable Pucks A'Plenty!  Join us as we dish about how fat burlesque and fat kink created a roadmap to fat joy for Pucks, who, in turn, works so hard to share fat joy with others.  After eight years on the burlseque scene, Pucks founded Fatlesque Fest NW and worked with a team to produce the first FatCon in Seattle, all while raising their son to be a kind, compassionate human, and enjoying life inside of their polycule. Pucks dives deep with us as we talk about creating fat community, how to celebrate their favorite holiday of Thickmas, and their new kink: using fat joy to piss off trolls.  We hope you enjoy this conversation as we much as we did! 
You can support Pucks' work with Fatlesque Fest NW and FatCon by clicking HERE.
SHOW NOTES
ChubRub Clothing plus size fashion
Fetlife online BDSM community
BLOOM dating app
Feeld dating "for open minded individuals"
Leather Reign Seattle leather/kink fest
Kinkfest Portland, OR
 
 
 

 
In an intimate and amusing half-hour, Dr. Krista and Suzy discuss Suzy's experience with socialized medicine in a fat body, Krista's journey into the intersection of ADHD and intuitive eating, and the importance of self-care in an exhausting, oppressive culture.  Our hosts are taking a much-needed break for a couple of months, but they'll be back soon with hot fresh fat lib content.  Who loves ya, babies?  WE DO.  Take good care of yourself and we'll do the same. 
 

Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon, and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com.  Be fat, be fab, and be free!

 
RESOURCES
I Want Seconds plus size secondhand
The principles of intuitive eating
Neurished Eating with ADHD - free workshop
 

On this week's episode of Fat and F****d, Sophia Apostol of Fat Joy pod joins Suzy and Krista to discuss her journey as a podcaster, her experience writing fat sex, the importance of choosing joy, and the "glory of a fat body" that she found in herself with a boudoir photo session.  Tune in for this fun, thoughtful, and informative conversation if you need a dose of fat joy in your life!  And I mean, really, who among us doesn't?!
Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com. ! Keep on loving your fabulous fat selves, and catch us next episode!
Resources:
Aphantasia
Adrienne Maree Brown  and the liberation of pleasure
Jeanie Finlay , director of Yr Fat Friend documentary about Aubrey Gordon
neural entrainment and the synchronization of brain waves in response to storytelling
Gottman's repair bids
Hyperion Cantos series by Dan Simmons
Volcano the newest album from Jungle
Mel Tufts, boudoir photographer

Episode 17 is juicy, sexy, and fun! In this week’s release, we dig into the transformative power of fat folks being seen and represented as beautiful and sexy. Your hosts talk with artist Craig Hayward (@craigsarthole) and his partner, confidante, and muse Jo Hayward about Craig’s sexy art, how they navigate their relationship and parenting when sexy content abounds, and how Craig’s creativity moves the needle towards fat liberation.  Suzy and Krista have a blast digging into discussion with the couple; the result is a fun listen! 
Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com. ! Keep on loving your fabulous fat selves, and catch us next episode!
 
Resources:
Craig’s art: @craigsarthole, and @arthole_a_bit_ruder
“Taking the piss out/taking the mick out” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taking_the_piss
Toon Blast https://apps.apple.com/us/app/toon-blast/id1176027022
Crisps https://www.bbcamerica.com/blogs/10-iconic-british-crisps-and-crispy-savory-snacks-youll-want-to-try--1015254
Silence of the Lambs basement https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102926/
Paul Mescal https://www.esquire.com/entertainment/tv/a32304100/normal-people-hulu-paul-mescal-connell/
Jacob Elordi https://www.thecut.com/2023/11/saltburn-jacob-elordi-eyebrow-piercing.html
Jeremy Allen White https://www.cnn.com/2023/12/14/entertainment/jeremy-allen-white-gene-wilder/index.html
 

In this episode, Krista and Suzy dive deep into the topic of pleasure, dissecting its various forms, societal perceptions, and personal experiences. They explore pleasure in a fatphobic society, the joys of feeling good sexually and non-sexually, and the cultural and gendered layers that influence our relationship with pleasure. The rich conversation evolves to cover a number of important pieces of pleasure:

The hosts discuss the childhood modeling of pleasure for them and its long-term impact


Gendered expectations regarding pleasure, especially in sexual contexts


Societal and cultural influences on individuals' perception and expression of pleasure


The role of religion, capitalism, and diet culture in shaping attitudes towards pleasure


Understanding pleasurable sensations in various forms, including orgasms and tactile experiences


The evolving nature of pleasure and the intentionality required to prioritize it in our lives


The orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships and strategies to address it

- Krista and Suzy warmly invite listener feedback, questions, and shared experiences. Listeners can support the podcast by subscribing to Patreon and leaving reviews. Hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com. ! Keep on loving your fabulous fat selves, and catch us next episode!
 
Resources
 
Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz explores the orgasm/pleasure gap in-depth.
Sex for One by Betty Dodson is all about masturbation and self-pleasure.
Pleasure Activism by adrienne marie brown centers pleasure within Black feminism and as a tool for change.
Better Sex Through Mindfulness by Lori Brotto explores the importance of embodiment in experiencing pleasure.
The Pleasure Gap by Katherine Rowland
 

Hey there, Fat and Fucked listeners!
Get ready to grab your favorite snack and snuggle into your comfiest spot because Krista and Suzy are back with an episode with the fabulous hosts of Big Sexy Chat. On "Fat and F****d in a Big Sexy Way with Chrystal and Merf," they're chopping it up with two fat liberationist sex positive podcast hosts and let me tell you, this convo gets good!
 
In this episode, they dig into the relationship between capitalism and anti-fat bias, wonderful opportunities for inclusivity for fat bodies, tips for flying, finding clothes for your body and of course, sex toys. We also name drop some future dream guest as we share our fat idols. We always want to center fat joy, so we hone in on why being fat is actually the t**s.
 
Now, don't forget to hit us up with any thoughts or stories at @fatandfuckedpod on Instagram or email fatfabfree@gmail.com—we're all ears! Keep on loving your fabulous fat selves, and catch us next time for even more realness from the Fat and Fucked crew.
 
Resources
 
Big Sexy Chat - www.bigsexychat.com, @bigsexychat on IG
Bridget Everet - https://www.bridgeteverett.net/
Aubrey Gordon - https://www.aubreygordon.net/
Gabourey Sidibe - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2829737/
Dr. Ruth - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruth_Westheimer
Michelle Buteau - http://michellebuteau.org/
Nicole Byer - https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/
Big Fig Mattresses - https://www.bigfigmattress.com/
Southwest Person of Size Policy - https://www.southwest.com/help/booking/extra-seat-policy