78 episodes

People-pleasing and perfectionism aren't your story anymore!

I'm licensed psychotherapist and anxiety treatment specialist, Justine Carino. Welcome to my virtual therapy couch, where we unpack modern mental health for modern women.

I'm breaking down the easiest ways to manage anxiety, stress, perfectionism, "people-pleasing" habits and burnout.

You're just minutes away from setting better boundaries around your time and relationships so you can finally enjoy both your career and motherhood.

Thoughts from the Couch Podcast Justine Carino, LMHC

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 77 Ratings

People-pleasing and perfectionism aren't your story anymore!

I'm licensed psychotherapist and anxiety treatment specialist, Justine Carino. Welcome to my virtual therapy couch, where we unpack modern mental health for modern women.

I'm breaking down the easiest ways to manage anxiety, stress, perfectionism, "people-pleasing" habits and burnout.

You're just minutes away from setting better boundaries around your time and relationships so you can finally enjoy both your career and motherhood.

    78. The Set Back Cycle

    78. The Set Back Cycle

    In this episode, I sit down with Amy Schoenthal, author of "The Setback Cycle," to discuss how major setbacks can unexpectedly lead to powerful breakthroughs for successful women. Drawing from her interviews with hundreds of leaders, Amy shares the four-stage framework from her book that helps individuals embrace pivotal moments and carve new paths forward.



    This episode dives into:


    Amy's four phases for the "setback cycle" - establish, embrace, explore, emerge - and how this cycle aids growth through challenges.
    The crucial role of self-reflection, values, exploration, and crafting a personal mission during setbacks is to realign with your driving goals.
    Overcoming common pitfalls like rumination, blame, and rashly jumping into the next thing without careful planning.
    Developing mindset shifts and comfort with discomfort is needed to experience post-traumatic growth and redefine success.


    Guest Info:

    Connect with Amy on Instagram @amysho or her website here. 

    Resources Mentioned: 

    Stages of She Podcast

    Worry Workshop

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    • 36 min
    77. The Five Essential Routines Every Working Mom Needs for Better Work/Life Balance

    77. The Five Essential Routines Every Working Mom Needs for Better Work/Life Balance

    In this episode, we delve into the lives of working mothers striving for that elusive “work-life balance”. Our special guest, Anna Dearmon Kornick, a time management coach, podcaster, wife, and mom, shares her personal journey from a high-pressure job on Capitol Hill to offering invaluable time management strategies she has developed along the way as a time management coach.


    This episode dives into: 


    The challenges of aligning your career with personal values
    The five essential routines every working mom needs for a better work-life balance.
    The importance of having habits and routines that support your desired life.
    Strategies for setting boundaries, managing distractions, continually reevaluating priorities, and evolving time management as circumstances change.



    Guest Info:

    Connect with Anna on Instagram @annadkornick or her website here. 

    Resources Mentioned: 

    Juniors Bedtime Lotion! Use code JUSTINE51432 for 10% off

    What Type of People-Pleaser Are You Quiz?

    Anxiety Coaching

    Podcast Disclaimer

    • 59 min
    76. Changing the Unfair Division of Labor in Marriages

    76. Changing the Unfair Division of Labor in Marriages

    In this episode, we dive into the gender-based division of labor at home with Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of "Fair Play" and "Find Your Unicorn Space." We discuss the toxic myths and societal messages that have conditioned women to shoulder the majority of unpaid domestic and caregiving responsibilities and explore how reclaiming your time and enacting fair, mutually agreed upon boundaries can significantly improve your mental health and well-being.

    This episode dives into: 


    The toxic myths and societal messages have conditioned women to accept an unequal division of labor.
    How to effectively communicate with your partner and establish fair, mutually agreed upon boundaries and systems.
    The powerful "Fair Play" framework that will help you reclaim your time, energy, and sense of self.
    How regaining control of your domestic workload can significantly improve your mental health and wellbeing.

    Guest Info:

    Connect with Eve on Instagram @fairplaylife or her website here. 

    Resources Mentioned: 

    Anxiety Coaching

    Moondbird- use code Justine20 for $20 off

    The No BS Human Design Podcast

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    • 36 min
    75. High Achieving Identity and Depression

    75. High Achieving Identity and Depression

    In this episode, we meet Reshona Jessamy, Assistant Attorney General turned skincare entrepreneur. Reshona shares her inspiring story of resilience after struggling with depression and attempting suicide as a result of identity loss. We delve into the impact of career setbacks on mental health, the struggles with depression high-achieving women face, and the power of therapy in changing lives. 

    This episode dives into: 


    The emotional toll of perfectionism.
    Understanding and coping with depression and suicidal thoughts.
    Mental health challenges faced by high-achieving women.
    How self-care and a sense of purpose can be catalysts for healing.


    Guest Info:

    Connect with Rashana on Instagram @officialnovara or her website here. 



    Resources Mentioned: 

    Anxiety Coaching

    Moondbird- use code Justine20 for $20 off

    The No BS Human Design Podcast

    Podcast Disclaimer

    • 50 min
    74. Maternity Leave for Self-Employed Women

    74. Maternity Leave for Self-Employed Women

    Juggling motherhood as a self-employed entrepreneur? You're not alone! Although there are so many benefits to being your own boss, there are also a ton of struggles that add the challenge of thriving in parenting and career. This episode dives deep into the topic of the lack of maternity leave for self-employed women. I speak with Jessica Figueroa, a powerhouse attorney, broker, and mom of two and she shares her inspiring journey of building a business while navigating the unique challenge of having a newborn. 


    This episode dives into: 


    The lack of service available for self-employed mothers trying to take maternity leave.
    The pressure of maintaining a business during the postpartum period.
    The differences between Jessica's maternity experiences with her first child while working in corporate America and her second child while running her own business.
    The emotional toll of hiding a pregnancy to maintain professional relevance.



    Guest Info:

    Connect with Jessica on Instagram @jfigco or her website here. 

    Resources Mentioned: 

    Anxiety Coaching

    Moondbird- use code Justine20 for $20 off

    Holding Space Podcast with Dr. Cassidy

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    • 47 min
    73. How to Reignite Your Libido

    73. How to Reignite Your Libido

    Let’s talk sex, ladies! Dr. Carli Blau, a licensed sex and relationship therapist and women's health expert tells us all about how to reignite our libidos as busy, working moms in long term relationships. 

    This episode dives into: 


    The impact of life transitions, such as becoming a parent, on libido and sexual intimacy.


    The importance of pleasure in sex and the need for women to prioritize their own sexual satisfaction.


    Tips for reigniting the libido and maintaining a fulfilling sex life on top of the demands of work and family responsibilities.


    How to reignite our libido’s when on anxiety medications, such as SSRI’s.



    Guest Info:

    Connect with Dr. Carli on Instagram @SexDocCarli or her website here. 

    Resources Mentioned: 

    Follow me on IG @_thoughtsfromthecouch_

    Sexapalooza 

    Anxiety Coaching

    Bekome- use code Justine20 for 20% off

    Moondbird- use code Justine20 for $20 off

    Podcast Disclaimer

    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
77 Ratings

77 Ratings

AnnaDKornick ,

Informative, Helpful, and Encouraging!

If you struggle with anxiety or perfectionism, this podcast is a must-listen! Justine shares actionable tips on setting better boundaries so you can thrive (instead of just survive) in both motherhood and your career. Definitely subscribe to this one!

the wow girl ,

Honest. Relatable. Empowering!

Honestly, listening to Justine's podcast makes me feel heard. She has such amazing guests that talk about topics that are so relatable. I learn something new from each episode and find new and exciting people to follow and continue to learn from. I would recommend her any day!

SexDocCarli ,

Brilliant. Bold. Brave. Honest

Justine is a brilliant psychotherapist with incredible insight and much to learn from. This podcast has taught me a lot, and has given me much to think about in my own therapy journey. I’m honored to have been featured on it and to have learned from it!!

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