Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast Ali & Erica

Psychotherapist Charisse Cooke is back on the pod this week and Erica & Ali could have talked to her for hours! Our conversation focuses on attachment theory, answering listener questions such as how to self soothe an anxious attachment, best strategies for navigating an anxious/avoidant dynamic, and why avoidant attachment gets such a bad rap.

In Updates, Ali reflects on project management in a relationship while Erica plans her third date with Tony Soprano.

Where to find Charisse: On Instagram @charissecooke, on TikTok @charissecookeofficial, and grab her book at www.charissecooke.com.

Timestamps: Charisse joins us at around minute 26.

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We hear about cheating a lot, but it’s rarely from the perspective of the person who does the cheating. This week, standup comedian Chloe Radcliffe opens up about her pattern of cheating (which she wrote a solo show about!). We dive into her thoughts on the origins of cheating, what she’s learned from her pattern and is applying in her new relationship, and so much more culminating in a round of rapid-fire Debate Team!

In Updates, Erica has an adorable second date with Tony where they get deeper on values and life goals. Meanwhile, Ali is back from a weekend away with Skyline’s friends.

Where to find Chloe: On Instagram @chloebadcliffe, on TikTok @chloebadcliffe, at www.chloeradcliffe.com.

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Timestamps: Chloe joins us at around minute 22.

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We had so much fun talking about our past beliefs the other week that we’re bringing it back for a series including your submissions! We discuss submissions such as “your person will complete you,” “trying hard isn’t cool,” and “you should share many common hobbies with your partner.” Let us know if you like this series and submit more of your past beliefs for future episodes!

But first, Erica has an exciting first date with (new nickname alert) Tony Soprano and Ali has a heck of weekend with old friends, volleyball wins, and a fun day with Skyline. We also chat about NYC’s dating scene vs other cities, emotional hangovers, and a new spot to meet men in LA.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 34.

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Ali & Erica are joined this week by Kelly, a listener who wrote in to share her story about dating with depression & anxiety. Kelly shares her journey towards getting diagnosed, how depression impacted her dating, & what growing in her first serious relationship has been like. It’s a powerful, relatable story that we can’t wait to share.

But first, Erica has a long-awaited update on Comic Con while Ali reflects on more Skyline learnings.

Timestamps: Kelly joins us at around minute 35.

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We asked for your submissions about dating philosophies or “rules” you used to believe, but don’t anymore, and WOW did you deliver! So much so that we’ll be continuing this topic in future episodes. We’re starting this week with things that Ali & Erica used to believe, but don’t anymore, such as: when you know you know, men should ask women out for the second date, don’t save phone numbers until you’re official, and more.

In Updates, Erica is back from her travels and has learned something veryyyy interesting about her photos organization methods. Meanwhile, Ali opens up about the anxieties of relaxing into a new relationship.

Timestamps: Topic Talk joins us at around minute 43.

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We’re debuting a new segment on the pod this week…Debate Team! Ali & Erica will each be assigned a side of a debate and debate each other. This week, we’re starting with “should you live together before getting engaged?” and “can you be friends with an ex?” It gets especially fun when we have to argue for the side we don’t actually agree with!

But first, it’s a BIG week of updates on the pod. Ali recaps her long-awaited reunion with Skyline - did she follow through on her hard commit to DTR??

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 42.

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