103 episodes

From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast Ali & Erica

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 350 Ratings

From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

    The First Dating Theories One

    The First Dating Theories One

    It’s time for a debate! A TikTok dating theories debate, that is. This week, we’ve found some popular theories to discuss, including red nail theory, having a “roster,” coffee as a first date, and manifesting your perfect partner.

    In updates, Ali meets (another!) man in the wild and Erica gets a blast from the past in her DMs.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 32.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 6 min
    The Plastic Surgery One

    The Plastic Surgery One

    It’s a longgg awaited topic on FMH - plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures. We dive into the shift in recent statistics in these areas and how the last few years have shifted all of our perceptions of ourselves. Then, we get personal, both sharing our own experiences with plastic surgery and how we feel about it years later.

    In updates, Erica has a fun facetime and a promising mini golf adventure. Meanwhile, Ali has her first first date of 2023.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 31.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 5 min
    The Tinder Live One ft. Lane Moore

    The Tinder Live One ft. Lane Moore

    Have you ever swiped on a dating app in a group of friends and felt a sense of community in your shared experiences? Our guest this week, Lane Moore, brings that feeling to the stage in her hilarious Tinder Live shows. We chat about green (and red) flags on a dating app profile and share our best tips!

    In updates, Erica has a man in her DMs and Ali starts the year off with 2 cancelled dates (whomp).

    Where to find Lane: On Instagram @hellolanemoore and @tinderlive. Her upcoming book You Will Find Your People: How To Make Meaningful Friendships As An Adult is now available for preorder, and her first book How To Be Alone is available now.

    Timestamps: Lane joins us at around minute 26.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 3 min
    The Seventh Hot Topics One

    The Seventh Hot Topics One

    We’re back with our latest Hot Topics, where we answer listener questions from our submission form! This week, we start out with a motion-sickness-related AITA. We then advise a listener on communication in between a second and third date, analyze a drawn-out dating app conversation, and discuss how to frame when you’re taking a break from work.

    On the dating front, Ali & Erica both have dates lined up with men they met in the wild!

    Timestamps: Hot Topics begins at around minute 40.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 20 min
    The Third Ask A 30-Something Man One

    The Third Ask A 30-Something Man One

    Ask and you shall receive…it’s Ali’s brother on the pod! Drake (no, not *that* Drake) joins us for our third installment of Ask A Thirty-Something Man and we answer a ton of listener questions ranging from how guys - or at least Drake - feel about a woman asking them out to whether “bad timing” is just an excuse.

    In Updates, Erica shares some health news and Ali proposes a new use for the nickname Kirk.

    Timestamps: Drake joins us at around minute 21.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 12 min
    The Dating Wrapped One

    The Dating Wrapped One

    You’ve seen the videos all over social media…for our last podcast of the year, we are bringing you our own FMH version of Dating Wrapped! We share YOUR annual dating stats plus review our own year in dating, including how many first dates we went on, how many we actually wanted second dates with, and how many went…further. We wrap things up with our dating goals for 2023, informed by what we’ve learned from this year!

    In Updates, Erica has a major comedy career update and went on a first date while Ali schedules dates for next year.  

    Timestamps: Topic Talk begins around minute 20.

    If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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    • 1 hr 7 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
350 Ratings

350 Ratings

Brian Peoples ,

It’s Just Great

There aren’t enough podcasters out there who know how to know how to both hit the check boxes, and keep things light/funny. The banter is charming. Erica’s quick wit really brings something special to the show. Really an amazing option in the world of dating shows.

5 Stars!

Lovely Lady Lydia ,

One of my fave dating podcasts

Loved the original podcast with Roark and am totally on-board for its latest iteration with Erica. Excited for future episodes!

Rhody19 ,

Erica and Ali

I LOVE Erica! The dynamic between Ali and Erica is just perfect. It’s more laid back and relaxed. The conversation seems to flow a lot easier and it seems the conversations are honestly a lot better. It’s even a little spicer than the normal content, which I love. Love this new host with Ali!

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