Guyset

Josh Felgoise

Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

  1. 12H AGO

    10 Things I Learned at 25

    Turning 26 made me realize how much can change in a single year. In this episode, I talk about the 10 biggest lessons I learned at 25 about confidence, comparison, relationships, career growth, self-doubt, gratitude, and believing in yourself when you're still figuring life out in your 20s. I talk about developing a growth mindset, putting yourself out there, building confidence through action, handling uncertainty, getting out of your head, and learning how to actually enjoy your life while you're building it. If you've ever felt behind, overwhelmed, anxious about the future, or unsure where your life is going, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:18 Turning 26 and reflecting on the past year 06:00 The "4 out of 7 days" mindset 10:00 Why a growth mindset changes everything 12:00 You choose how you handle life 15:50 Increase your surface area 18:15 Nobody is going to do it for you 20:30 Building a network and asking for help 24:50 Living more and getting out of your head 26:30 Making your head a better place to be 27:15 Practicing gratitude every day 29:30 Why you should believe in yourself 31:00 Final thoughts For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    33 min

  2. MAY 19

    Pick Up Lines, Age Gaps, and Salary Negotiations, Dear Guyset

    In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like everyone else secretly knows what they're doing except you, this episode is for you. Topics: 02:31 What are your thoughts on age gaps in relationships? 11:40 Why do I keep meeting people I hate on dating apps? 16:35 Are there good pickup lines? 20:05 How do you prepare for an interview quickly? 28:05 How much should you be texting when you first start seeing someone? 30:45 How do I negotiate my salary? 38:00 How often should you wash your work shirts? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    44 min

  3. MAY 12

    How To Start Figuring Out What You Want To Do

    This week, I wanted to talk about something I think so many people struggle with after graduation, during their first jobs, or honestly at any point in their 20s: how to actually figure out what you want to do with your life. I talk about why I think we spend so much time obsessing over what could be or what could've been instead of paying attention to the things already right in front of us that are trying to point us somewhere. The projects that excite you. The conversations you actually look forward to. The things that come naturally to you that you keep dismissing. I also talk about the idea of finding your "through line" and how the experiences, jobs, interests, and moments in your life eventually start connecting in ways you can't fully understand yet. In this episode, I talk about: How to figure out what you actually want to do Why you can't connect the dots looking forward What your first job is really teaching you How to stop comparing your path to everyone else's Why curiosity matters more than certainty How to use what's already in front of you to start building a life that actually feels right for you If you've been feeling lost, stuck, overwhelmed, behind, or unsure of what direction your life is supposed to go in, I really hope this episode helps. New episodes of Guyset every Tuesday. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    32 min

  4. MAY 5

    What Life Actually Feels Like After College

    No one really tells you what life actually feels like after college. There's no clear structure anymore. No defined path. And for the first time, it's fully on you to figure out what comes next. In this episode, I talk about post-grad life and why this phase can feel so uncertain. The pressure to have things figured out, the questions about your career, your friends, your future, and the feeling that you might be falling behind. I get into why this happens, why you start to doubt yourself, and how to handle uncertainty when you don't have clear answers. What it means to feel lost in your 20s, how to deal with big life transitions, and how to start trusting yourself as you figure things out. If you've been feeling lost after college, unsure about your next step, or you're about to graduate and starting to feel this coming, this is that experience put into words. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    28 min

  5. APR 28

    The Internal Monologue of Lifting

    Why does it feel like everyone is watching you at the gym? Why do you feel like an imposter, even when you've been showing up consistently? In this episode, I break down the internal monologue of lifting, what gym imposter syndrome actually feels like, and why that voice in your head doesn't fully go away. I talk about the moment I felt like I didn't deserve a bench, how that brought me back to when I first started, and the mindset shift that changed everything. If you've ever felt judged, out of place, or unsure of yourself at the gym or in your life, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:18 Why I started lifting 2:30 Feeling like an imposter at the gym 3:45 The bench moment 7:10 "I don't deserve to be here" 9:20 The realization: no one is watching you 12:00 Why you have to keep showing up 15:00 Why guys don't talk about this 18:30 Everyone feels this way 24:30 The mindset shift 27:10 Take up space New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe for more conversations on confidence, dating, mindset, and the questions you don't know where to ask. For more Guyset: Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask me anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything More episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@Guyset If You're Going On A Date This Week: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE See you next Tuesday!

    29 min

  6. APR 21

    Breakups, Bad Sex, and What To Do Next, Dear Guyset

    How do you respond to a breakup text? Should you send one after a few dates? What if sex felt awkward the first time? And how do you actually come across as confident on a date? In this episode of Guyset, I answer real questions guys are asking about breakups, awkward sex, confidence, rejection, and navigating situations no one really prepares you for. If you've ever overthought a text, felt unsure after a hookup, or questioned how you come across on a date, this episode will give you real, honest perspective on what to do next. This episode covers: How to respond to a breakup text (and what not to say) Whether you should send a breakup text after 2–3 dates How many drinks is too many at a work happy hour What to do if sex felt awkward or "bad" How to come across as more confident on a date How to deal with rejection (especially when you really wanted something) Timestamps: 02:33 How do I respond to a breakup text? 06:55 Should I send a breakup text after 2–3 dates? 09:16 How many drinks should you have at a work happy hour? 15:36 I felt bad after having sex, where do I go from here? 20:53 How do I come across as more confident on a date? 25:20 I didn't get the job I wanted, how do I deal with rejection? For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    35 min

  7. APR 14

    The Daily Practice: How to Stay Consistent When Motivation Fades

    How do you stay consistent when motivation disappears? What does it actually take to build something, stay disciplined, and get better over time? In this episode of Guyset, I break down the concept of the daily practice and why consistency, discipline, and belief are the real difference between people who succeed and people who don't. I talk about a Juilliard flute player who practices 5+ times a day, Elizabeth Gilbert's perspective on handling both failure and massive success, and what 150 episodes of Guyset has taught me about showing up every single day. If you've been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or unsure if what you're doing is working, this episode will help you build momentum and stay consistent even when motivation fades. This episode covers: How to build a daily practice and actually stick to it Why success and failure can feel more similar than you'd expect What 150 episodes taught me about long-term consistency How to stay disciplined when motivation is completely gone The mindset shift that separates people who build something from people who don't Motivation is fleeting. Belief isn't. And consistency is the flex. Timestamps: 00:45 150 episodes in and what this episode is about 02:30 The daily practice concept explained 03:30 The Juilliard flute player story 07:15 What it actually takes to be great 08:45 Elizabeth Gilbert and handling success vs failure 13:45 Coming back to what you love 16:00 What building Guyset taught me 18:30 The reality of inconsistency, doubt, and rejection 20:30 Why motivation isn't enough 22:00 Consistency, belief, and long-term growth 23:45 Final takeaway: consistency is the flex Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@guyset Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/ See you next Tuesday!

    27 min

  8. APR 7

    How To Stand Out In Dating

    How do you actually stand out in dating today? What makes someone memorable on a first date, and what small things actually make a difference? In this episode of Guyset, I break down how to stand out in early dating, from texting and confirming plans to what to say on a date, how to ask better questions, and the small details that make you more attractive without trying too hard. I talk about: • How to confirm a date (and why it matters more than you think) • What to text before and after a date • The best questions to ask on a first date • How to show confidence without being cocky • First date etiquette, paying, and planning • How to stand out through communication, energy, and effort If you've ever wondered: How do I stand out on a date? What makes someone attractive early on? What should I text before or after a date? How do I stop overthinking dating? This episode breaks it down in a way that's simple, practical, and actually useful. Timestamps: 02:30 Modern Dating Has Changed 04:40 Confirming the Date (The #1 Way to Stand Out) 06:50 What to Text Before a Date 11:30 Asking Questions (What Most Guys Get Wrong) 18:20 Easy Conversation Topics 20:50 Confidence vs. Cockiness 25:30 First Date Etiquette (Manners and Who Should Pay) 29:45 What to Text After a Date 32:00 Planning the Second Date 34:15 Extra Ways to Stand Out 41:10 Final Thoughts + Outro Subscribe, give this episode 5 stars, and leave a review! For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    45 min
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Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

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  • Creator
    Josh Felgoise
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    156
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Guyset

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