Guyset

Josh Felgoise
  • 3.8 (46)
  • Society & Culture
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Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

  1. 2d ago

    Commitment, Lifting, and Feeling Lost, Dear Guyset

    Welcome back to another Dear Guyset episode, where I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, relationships, work, confidence, fitness, and everything in between. I'm no expert, but I am going through all of this alongside you, sharing what I've learned so far and what I continue to learn along the way. Is it weird to want a relationship but not know if you're ready for one? How do you get your boss to notice your work? How do you start lifting when you have no idea what you're doing? In this episode, I answer your questions about commitment, confidence, work, fitness, side hustles, and the uncertainty that comes with being in your 20s. One of my favorite things about these episodes is realizing how many of us are asking the same questions. A lot of the time we think we're the only ones who feel lost, unsure, or confused about what to do next, when in reality almost everyone is wondering the same things. If one guy has a question, chances are a lot of other guys are wondering the exact same thing. That's why I love opening the vault on these conversations and talking about the things we don't always say out loud. Timestamps: 03:18 Is it weird that I want a relationship but don't know if I'm ready to be in one? 08:45 My boss doesn't really notice my work. How do I change that? 13:04 I've been talking to this girl for three weeks. How do I ask where it's going? 17:24 How did you start lifting? 26:08 Is it normal to still have no idea what I'm doing? 29:35 I want to start a side project, but I'm exhausted after work. How do people do both? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    37 min

  2. Jun 9

    The Intern Survival Guide

    Intern season is here. In this episode, I share the advice I wish someone gave me before my first internship, including how to meet people, make yourself known, ask better questions, stand out at work, and create opportunities for yourself. Whether you're starting your first internship or your first full-time job, these are the lessons that helped me build confidence, earn trust, and get the most out of every opportunity. If you're trying to figure out how to stand out professionally without pretending to have everything figured out, this episode is for you. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    39 min

  3. Jun 2

    What Guys Can Learn From Off Campus

    What can guys learn about confidence, vulnerability, relationships, and communication from one of the biggest shows in the world right now? In this episode, I break down the biggest lessons I took away from Off Campus and why I think it might secretly be one of the best guides to dating, relationships, and becoming a better man. Before you skip this because you haven't seen the show, you don't need to have watched a single episode to get something from this conversation. The lessons we're talking about go far beyond Off Campus and apply to dating, friendships, confidence, communication, and life in general. From putting yourself out there and showing genuine confidence to building trust, communicating better, and learning how vulnerability can become a strength, there's a lot more beneath the surface of this story than most people realize. Whether you've watched Off Campus five times or have no idea what it is, this episode is about the bigger lessons hiding inside the things we watch and what they can teach us about becoming better men, friends, and people. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    34 min

  4. May 26

    10 Things I Learned at 25

    Turning 26 made me realize how much can change in a single year. In this episode, I talk about the 10 biggest lessons I learned at 25 about confidence, comparison, relationships, career growth, self-doubt, gratitude, and believing in yourself when you're still figuring life out in your 20s. I talk about developing a growth mindset, putting yourself out there, building confidence through action, handling uncertainty, getting out of your head, and learning how to actually enjoy your life while you're building it. If you've ever felt behind, overwhelmed, anxious about the future, or unsure where your life is going, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:18 Turning 26 and reflecting on the past year 06:00 The "4 out of 7 days" mindset 10:00 Why a growth mindset changes everything 12:00 You choose how you handle life 15:50 Increase your surface area 18:15 Nobody is going to do it for you 20:30 Building a network and asking for help 24:50 Living more and getting out of your head 26:30 Making your head a better place to be 27:15 Practicing gratitude every day 29:30 Why you should believe in yourself 31:00 Final thoughts For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    33 min

  5. May 19

    Pick Up Lines, Age Gaps, and Salary Negotiations, Dear Guyset

    In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like everyone else secretly knows what they're doing except you, this episode is for you. Topics: 02:31 What are your thoughts on age gaps in relationships? 11:40 Why do I keep meeting people I hate on dating apps? 16:35 Are there good pickup lines? 20:05 How do you prepare for an interview quickly? 28:05 How much should you be texting when you first start seeing someone? 30:45 How do I negotiate my salary? 38:00 How often should you wash your work shirts? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    44 min

  6. May 12

    How To Start Figuring Out What You Want To Do

    This week, I wanted to talk about something I think so many people struggle with after graduation, during their first jobs, or honestly at any point in their 20s: how to actually figure out what you want to do with your life. I talk about why I think we spend so much time obsessing over what could be or what could've been instead of paying attention to the things already right in front of us that are trying to point us somewhere. The projects that excite you. The conversations you actually look forward to. The things that come naturally to you that you keep dismissing. I also talk about the idea of finding your "through line" and how the experiences, jobs, interests, and moments in your life eventually start connecting in ways you can't fully understand yet. In this episode, I talk about: How to figure out what you actually want to do Why you can't connect the dots looking forward What your first job is really teaching you How to stop comparing your path to everyone else's Why curiosity matters more than certainty How to use what's already in front of you to start building a life that actually feels right for you If you've been feeling lost, stuck, overwhelmed, behind, or unsure of what direction your life is supposed to go in, I really hope this episode helps. New episodes of Guyset every Tuesday. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    32 min

  7. May 5

    What Life Actually Feels Like After College

    No one really tells you what life actually feels like after college. There's no clear structure anymore. No defined path. And for the first time, it's fully on you to figure out what comes next. In this episode, I talk about post-grad life and why this phase can feel so uncertain. The pressure to have things figured out, the questions about your career, your friends, your future, and the feeling that you might be falling behind. I get into why this happens, why you start to doubt yourself, and how to handle uncertainty when you don't have clear answers. What it means to feel lost in your 20s, how to deal with big life transitions, and how to start trusting yourself as you figure things out. If you've been feeling lost after college, unsure about your next step, or you're about to graduate and starting to feel this coming, this is that experience put into words. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here See you guys next Tuesday!

    28 min

  8. Apr 28

    The Internal Monologue of Lifting

    Why does it feel like everyone is watching you at the gym? Why do you feel like an imposter, even when you've been showing up consistently? In this episode, I break down the internal monologue of lifting, what gym imposter syndrome actually feels like, and why that voice in your head doesn't fully go away. I talk about the moment I felt like I didn't deserve a bench, how that brought me back to when I first started, and the mindset shift that changed everything. If you've ever felt judged, out of place, or unsure of yourself at the gym or in your life, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:18 Why I started lifting 2:30 Feeling like an imposter at the gym 3:45 The bench moment 7:10 "I don't deserve to be here" 9:20 The realization: no one is watching you 12:00 Why you have to keep showing up 15:00 Why guys don't talk about this 18:30 Everyone feels this way 24:30 The mindset shift 27:10 Take up space New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe for more conversations on confidence, dating, mindset, and the questions you don't know where to ask. For more Guyset: Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask me anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything More episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@Guyset If You're Going On A Date This Week: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE See you next Tuesday!

    29 min
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Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

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  • Creator
    Josh Felgoise
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    159
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Guyset

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