Her Story Unscripted

Heather Nelson
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Her Story Unscripted is a podcast where women share honest, unscripted conversations about life, growth, and the experiences that shape us — because the most powerful stories are the ones we stop trying to perfect. Hosted by Heather Nelson, this is a space for real conversations. Not rehearsed. Not polished into tidy narratives with clean endings. Just women showing up, telling their truth, and finding out they are far less alone than they thought. Each episode creates space for stories to unfold naturally — covering identity and personal growth, life transitions, relationships, resilience, and the beautiful complexity of everyday life. Whether you're in the middle of something hard, on the other side of it, or just trying to make sense of where you are right now, there is something here for you. Her Story Unscripted was born out of five years of authentic conversations — formerly known as Life Conversations with a Twist — and has evolved into a podcast with a clearer name and a deeper purpose: to make women feel seen, understood, and a little less alone in their own story. Hosted by Heather Nelson — connector, business strategist, community builder, and someone who genuinely believes that connection starts with being real. New episodes available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and all major podcast platforms. Authentic stories. No script needed. Guest inquiries and collaborations: heather@theconnectionhive.co Website: theconnectionhive.co/podcast

  1. When Life Changes in a Weekend — A Real Conversation About Love, Loss, and the Invisible Clock with Christina Alonzo

    6d ago

    When Life Changes in a Weekend — A Real Conversation About Love, Loss, and the Invisible Clock with Christina Alonzo

    "We only get one life, and we don't know when that invisible clock is gonna run out. So you have to make time for people and for things that are important to you." — Christina Alonzo It started as a normal weekend. By Tuesday, Christina Alonzo was sitting in an ER telling the doctor everything she had been quietly noticing for days. By Wednesday, the diagnosis was in: glioblastoma — an aggressive, inoperable brain cancer. Her husband Kurtis was 44 years old and had never even had a cold. From the date of diagnosis to the date of his death was four months. In this episode of Her Story Unscripted, Christina Alonzo returns to the podcast three years after her first appearance to share the story of the year that changed everything. She opens up about becoming Kurtis's full-time caregiver while raising a toddler, navigating impossible medical decisions, and the termination email from his employer that arrived the very night he died. She also shares the story of her 200-pound weight loss journey — and how losing the weight became something far more significant than she ever expected when Kurtis got sick. This is an honest conversation about grief, love, and what it actually looks like to keep living when someone you love is gone. For any woman who has ever taken time for granted, avoided a hard conversation, or wondered how anyone survives something this big — this episode is an unscripted reminder that life is shorter and more sacred than we let ourselves believe. New episodes every Thursday on all major podcast platforms. Connect with Heather:  Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Youtube Highlights: 00:00 Cold open — Christina on the invisible clock 00:49 Heather introduces Her Story Unscripted 01:15 Welcoming Christina back — three years and a lot of life later 02:21 The normal weekend that wasn't — Curtis gets sick 5:28 The ER visit and the diagnosis — glioblastoma 7:15 Choosing chemo and radiation — a hail mary for a 44-year-old in perfect health 12:18 How quickly he declined, and what caregiving looked like at home 14:18 Curtis's death in March 2025 — four months after diagnosis 18:55 What helped Christina survive this season 22:13 The termination email the night he died 27:22 200 pounds lost — and how the GLP-1 journey intersected with Curtis's care 25:10 How to actually show up for someone in grief 36:10 Life now — Addie, memory-keeping, and saying yes 38:03 Christina's one takeaway for the listener  About Christina Alonzo Christina Alonzo is a mother, content creator, and Sonoma County local who has walked through more grief in the last few years than most people face in a lifetime. From losing babies to navigating a sudden and devastating brain cancer diagnosis in her husband Curtis, she has shown up with remarkable honesty and grace at every turn. In the past year and a half, she has also completed a transformative 200-pound weight loss journey that changed not just her body, but the way she moves through the world. She is raising her daughter Addie with Curtis's love still at the center of their home Instagram Support the show

    40 min
  2. The Story Behind the Her Story Unscripted Rebrand

    Jun 4

    The Story Behind the Her Story Unscripted Rebrand

    "We all have a story to tell. We all have journeys, we've all been through things — and some of us are worse than others. But we all have a story to tell." — Heather Nelson There's something that happens when a woman decides to stop performing and just say it the way it actually is. No script. No polish. No waiting for permission. For Heather Nelson, that decision didn't arrive all at once — it built slowly over five years of sitting across from women who had the courage to share the messy, real, unfiltered truth of their lives. In this very first episode of Her Story Unscripted, Heather pulls back the curtain on the rebrand — and everything that led to this moment. She shares the honest, unscripted story of why she podcasted for five years under a name she never fully loved, what finally pushed her to start fresh, and the mission that has been quietly driving her since the very beginning — creating a space where women can show up as they are and say what they actually mean. If you've ever felt like you were performing a version of yourself instead of living as the real one — this is the conversation you didn't know you needed. Heather isn't here to give advice or hand you a roadmap. She's here to sit with you, ask the questions nobody else thinks to ask, and remind you that your story matters exactly as it is. In this episode, you will learn: The lunch conversation five years ago that made me realize women needed a space to tell their real storiesWhy I never fully loved the name Life Conversations with a Twist — and what finally made me let it goThe months-long rebrand process that pushed me to get clear on my mission, my values, and who I'm really doing this forHow the name Her Story Unscripted came together — and the quiet, powerful reason the word "unscripted" felt so rightWhere I'm headed with this podcast, what you can expect going forward, and why I believe women sharing their true stories is one of the most powerful things we can do Episode Highlights • 0:00 – The moment that started it all — women and their unscripted stories • 0:28 – Welcome to Her Story Unscripted — the new brand intro • 0:55 – Heather kicks off the launch episode • 1:19 – Introducing the rebrand from Life Conversations with a Twist • 1:56 – Five years in hospitality and the conversations that wouldn't leave her • 3:55 – Why women's stories needed a space — the heart behind the podcast • 5:06 – How Life Conversations with a Twist was born • 5:36 – 200+ episodes, 160 women, and what kept Heather going • 7:14 – The Connection Hive, Set & Strike, and finding what truly fuels her soul • 10:02 – The decision to rip the band-aid and start fresh • 11:21 – Naming a podcast — why it had to be perfect • 12:03 – The moment Her Story Unscripted clicked • 13:09 – Why "unscripted" matters — women, silence, and permission to be real • 15:01 – What's coming — new look, new energy, big goals • 17:17 – Thank you, and what you can do to help this podcast grow • 19:20 – Solo episodes, Heather's personal story, and what's ahead • 22:09 – Final thoughts — see you next Thursday Meet Your Host:  Heather Nelson is the host of Her Story Unscripted and founder of The Connection Hive, a business strategy and community brand rooted in the belief that real connection changes everything. A connector by nature and a storyteller at heart, Heather has spent over 25 years in the hospitality industry — and more than five years creating a space for women to share honest, unscripted conversations about life, growth, and the experiences that have shaped who they are. She lives in Sonoma County, California, where she's raising a blended, biracial family, running two businesses, and podcasting with her whole heart. Connect with Heather:  Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Youtube Support the show

    23 min
  3. Wrapping Up 2025!

    Mar 5

    Wrapping Up 2025!

    “I really think sitting down and understanding where you want to go, and the things that make you happy and bring you joy, those are the things that you need to put more energy into. The things that are not benefiting you, you have the power to control that, to take that narrative and change it.” —Heather Nelson We reach a point where pushing harder stops working. The weight builds quietly through responsibility, ambition, and expectations until clarity becomes the only way forward. This conversation sits in that moment of reckoning and choice. In this episode, Heather reflects on a year that forced slower decisions, harder boundaries, and more honesty about what fuels our work and our lives. From podcasting and business shifts to mental health and surrogacy, the year reshaped how focus and care show up. Press play for a real-time reflection and step into what comes next, including: End-of-year reflection and clarity in 2025Rebranding the podcast and future visionLetting go of hustle cultureChoosing focus over doing everythingMental health, anxiety, and burnoutNavigating leadership while carrying family responsibilitySurrogacy journey updates and setbacksRedefining success heading into 2026 Connect with Heather:  Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook  YouTube Episode Highlights: 06:32 Announcement! Podcast Rebranding– Why Now and What’s Next 10:55 Vision for the Future – Podcasting, Aspirations, & New Goals 14:08 Personal Growth, Self-Care & Mental Health Insights from 2025 17:40 Surrogacy Journey: Triumphs, Challenges, and Honest Updates 27:05 Professional Projects: Connection Hive, Coaching, and Set & Strike Goals 31:30 Building Community: Retreats, Masterminds, and Empowerment Events 33:52 Manifesting Success: Vision Boards, Intentional Living & 2026 Goals Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com  Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB  Support the show

    36 min
  4. Scalp Health Care That Goes Deeper Than “Good Hair Days” with Anne Marie

    Feb 26

    Scalp Health Care That Goes Deeper Than “Good Hair Days” with Anne Marie

    “Our scalp, hair, all these are meant to protect our most vital organ, which is our brain. The reason you get itchy, you can feel when you get oily, is because it's that sensitive to protect it. So we need to learn not to ignore those signs.” —Anne Marie We know that “successful” careers can quietly drain our bodies and energy. Many of us push through pain, burnout, and misalignment because it looks stable from the outside, while our health and purpose pay the price. This conversation sits at the intersection of career change, service, and the often-ignored world of scalp health and hair loss. Our guest, Anne Marie, is a stylist, head spa specialist, and head of community events at Dolce Vita Salon. Her path runs from nonprofit work and case management through chronic back pain, grief, and a move to Hawaii, to finally owning her gift with hair and healing-centered scalp care. Hit play to explore how aligned work and intentional beauty rituals can support real healing, not just surface-level change. How Annie went from nonprofit case manager to head spa specialistThe role of service, grief, and chronic pain in reshaping her purposeWhat a Japanese head spa actually is and how it supports scalp healthHow hormones, stress, and DHT drive hair loss in womenWhy scalp microbiome health matters more than trendy productsHow Dolce Vita Salon approaches education, community, and giving back Connect with Heather: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Episode Highlights: 01:17 Meet Anne Marie 04:30 Chronic Back Pain, COVID, Burnout & Losing Her Dad – Hitting Rock Bottom 08:07 What’s Your One Gift? 10:05 Finding Purpose Young vs. Midlife: 15:49 Conditioner Mistakes, Scalp Microbiome & Why You Need a Scalp Serum 20:14 Postpartum Hair Loss, Hormones, Stress & How Scalp Treatments Help 26:58 Creating a Sacred, Grounded Space for Scalp Healing & Nervous System Calm 28:56 Intensive Training: Associate Program, Ongoing Education & Mastering Hair 32:01 Why Scalp Care Matters More Than You Think (Ages Faster Than Your Face) Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB Connect with Anne:  Anne Marie is a scalp and hair health specialist at Dolce Vita Salon in Santa Rosa, California, where she combines advanced Japanese-inspired head spa techniques with a deeply client-centered approach. With a degree in psychology and a background in nonprofit work and direct service, she brings a unique blend of technical expertise and emotional intelligence to her practice. After discovering her innate talent and passion for hair at a young age, she pursued advanced training at Dolce Vita. She now specializes in scalp spa treatments that reset the scalp’s microbiome, support healthy hair growth, and provide a restorative, meditative experience for her clients. Instagram Connect with Dolce Vita Salon Website Instagram Facebook Support the show

    36 min
  5. Weight Loss Drug Reality Check: Not the “Easy Way Out” with Aja Beckett

    Feb 19

    Weight Loss Drug Reality Check: Not the “Easy Way Out” with Aja Beckett

    “That's the thing that's maybe getting lost in some of the fear mongering around it is that, it's not the easy way out. It doesn't mean that you don't have to do the work. It means that when you do the work, the work actually makes the difference.” —Aja Beckett Food noise can sit in the back of the mind all day, from planning the next meal at breakfast to carrying quiet shame after every snack. In a culture that moralizes weight and labels bodies as failures, real medical treatment for obesity often gets buried under hot takes about shortcuts and cheating. This conversation brings the lived reality of GLP-1 medication into the light, with honesty about both relief and responsibility. Aja Beckett shares decades of struggling with obesity, endless diets, and that constant mental hum around food, then walks through how starting a GLP-1 weight loss drug shifted cravings, energy, and hope. Her experience led to building Shotsy, a companion app that tracks doses, side effects, and progress for people on GLP-1 medications. Press play to hear how this new class of medications is reshaping daily life, mindset, and digital tools around obesity care, including: What GLP-1 drugs like Ozempic and Wegovy actually do in the bodyThe difference between “food noise” and genuine hungerWhy weight loss drugs are not a lazy shortcut or moral failureHow mental health, cravings, and compulsive behaviors often change on GLP-1sThe cost, access, and safety concerns around weight loss injections and pillsHow a GLP-1 tracking app grew from one person’s spreadsheet into a fast-growing productWhat long-term obesity treatment and maintenance can realistically look like Connect with Heather: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Episode Highlights: 01:11 Meet Aja Beckett: Founder of Shotsy & GLP‑1 Success Story 04:43 Discovering Ozempic & a Difficult Doctor’s Visit 07:35 Beyond Weight Loss: GLP‑1, Mental Health & Addictive Behaviors 10:43 Losing 90 Pounds: From Obesity to Healthy BMI 13:30 Do You Still Have to Eat Healthy & Work Out on GLP‑1? 16:21 When the Food Noise Stops: First Days on GLP‑1 19:37 Super Bowl Snacks, Portion Control & Balanced Indulgence 22:12 Body Dysmorphia in Bigger & Smaller Bodies 26:00 Safety vs Affordability: Regulation, Shortages & DIY Risks 32:09 Introducing Shotsy: The GLP‑1 Companion App Idea 39:50 Why Tools Like Shotsy Matter for Accountability & Tracking 42:21 GLP‑1 Isn’t the “Easy Way Out”: Doing the Work & Seeing Results Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB Connect with Aja:   Aja is an iOS engineer and GLP-1 user turned founder, combining personal experience with top-tier tech expertise. She has worked with major organizations like Apple, CNN, TED, and The Athletic / The New York Times. She previously built Civil, a platform recognized by WIRED, The Guardian, and TechCrunch. Today, she leads Shotsy, using community-driven design and data insights to help people manage their GLP-1 treatment journey.  Website Shotsy App Support the show

    46 min
  6. When Your Gut Knows First: Health, Loss, And Big Decisions with Jenessa Wyatt

    Feb 12

    When Your Gut Knows First: Health, Loss, And Big Decisions with Jenessa Wyatt

    "It gives people from grief to relief. It gives them a little bit of a lightened load when it comes to their emotional state, and they can not move on, but utilize it better." —Jenessa Wyatt This episode explores how grief, fear, and uncertainty can be faced without losing grounding in real life. Psychic medium Jenessa Wyatt shares how her work blends evidence, intuition, and spiritual connection to help people find healing, protection, and clarity. Through stories of health warnings, house clearings, and personal lessons, she offers a practical, no-fluff perspective on how spirituality and everyday life can coexist.  Tune into this episode and explore how grief, intuition, and spiritual protection can sit side by side with everyday life, not outside it. How Jenessa describes being a psychic medium and why comedy is part of her workTurning “grief to relief” through evidence-based mediumshipSpecific stories of medical warnings, early cancer flags, and ICU “downloads”Daily spiritual protection rituals with white light and candlesA dark entity attachment, poltergeist-like activity, and what finally cleared itHow she protects survivors of abuse during readingsWorking with spirits in homes, from gentle presences to unsafe entitiesSage, rituals, and practical house cleansing stepsChildren as sensitives, signs to watch, and when spirit contact becomes a concernPolitical energy, staged-looking events, and how fear is used to controlCorporations, pharma, food systems, and the economics of fearManaging intuitive downloads without losing mental and emotional stabilityJenessa’s vision for a reality show that normalizes spirituality without scriptsA live mini reading for Heather: her friend’s sudden passing, family health, and career shift Connect with Heather: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Episode Highlights: 01:31 Meet Jenessa: From Grief to Relief  09:00 Carrying Heavy Topics: Death, Cancer, & Emotional Boundaries 13:02 How Forgetting a Candle Opened the Door to a Dark Attachment 17:00 Protecting Trauma Survivors  30:48 When to Take It Seriously 37:09 Who Really Runs Things  47:06 Validating Energy and Personality Traits  53:33 For the Family Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB Connect with Jenessa: Jenessa Wyatt is a Santa Rosa–based psychic medium who helps people move from grief to healing through evidence-based, compassionate readings. She offers private and small-group sessions (in person and on Zoom), engaging stage shows that blend mediumship with humor, and monthly online classes that teach others to develop their intuitive abilities—all with a strong emphasis on validation, protection, and emotional safety. Website Instagram Facebook Support the show

    58 min
  7. Healing After Hell: The Real Truth About Starting Over with Jenica Leonard

    Feb 5

    Healing After Hell: The Real Truth About Starting Over with Jenica Leonard

    “As a person who did not have anything to do but to keep moving forward, I did.” —Jenica Leonard Some lives do not fall apart all at once. They crack slowly under cancer scares, caregiving, impossible workloads, quiet drinking, and the pressure to hold everything together. This conversation sits in that place where careers, bodies, and identities stop cooperating, and starting over is no longer optional. We meet Jenica Leonard, a second‑generation attorney, breast cancer survivor, and sober mom who went from “for the people” prosecutor to criminal defense, from mommy wine culture to DUI, from breakdown to a different kind of service. Her story shows how tables turn when health, addiction, and the justice system collide, and how recovery can reshape the way our work and values line up. Press play to explore how our hardest chapters can become a blueprint for starting again, on our own terms, with our whole lives in the room. Growing up with a pioneering female lawyer and choosing public serviceWhat it really means to be a prosecutor versus a criminal defense attorneyMulti‑generational cancer, BRCA, and a breast cancer diagnosis at 37Double mastectomy, complications, and life in long‑term treatmentThe quiet slide from “normal drinking” into addiction and DUIGetting sober in the same community served as a prosecutorMental health collapse, PTSD, and leaving a stable government jobMidlife, menopause, and building a new legal practice around real valuesFinding support in recovery, women’s circles, and local serviceBoundaries, protecting our energy, and not abandoning ourselves again Connect with Heather:  Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Episode Highlights: 01:42 Meet Jenica— A Life-Changing Career Transition  09:41 Jenica's Family Influence and Career Choices 15:13 Encounters with Former Defendants and The Power of Respect 18:53 A Family of Cancer Survivors  24:28 Surgical Complications, Expanders, and Multiple Surgeries 30:25 Tubbs Fire, Evacuation, and Running the PTA While on Chemo 36:21 Surgical Menopause, Meds, and Long-Term Side Effects 41:44 Pain, Mastectomy, Recovery, & Online Support 48:11 The DUI Arrest that Changed Everything  53:39 Getting Sober in the Same Community You Prosecuted 01:02:22 Grace, Self-Compassion, and Doing Your Best in a Hard World Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB Connect with Jenica:  Jenica Leonard is a Sonoma County–based criminal defense attorney with over 15 years of experience, including a career as a former prosecutor in the Sonoma County District Attorney’s Office. A second-generation attorney, she now advocates for individuals in the criminal justice system, focusing on protecting constitutional rights. She is deeply engaged in community service and women’s empowerment, serving on the Board of Women’s Recovery Services. A breast cancer survivor and woman in long-term sobriety, Jenica brings lived experience into her work, using it to uplift other women and contribute meaningfully to her community. LinkedIn Support the show

    1h 6m
  8. How to Strengthen Trauma Resilience in Real Time with Emma Churchman

    Jan 29

    How to Strengthen Trauma Resilience in Real Time with Emma Churchman

    “You have to, at some point, make a decision about how you're going to show up in the world. I had to make that decision that I am going to be the person that moves towards more life, that moves towards more possibility.” —Emma Churchman Disaster does not arrive politely, and grief does not wait for permission. We are living in a season where trauma is stacking faster than we can process it, & most of us are still expected to keep functioning. This conversation meets that tension head-on, without fixing or softening it. We sit with Emma Churchman, a trauma chaplain and resilience consultant whose life and work were reshaped by Hurricane Helene, compounded loss, and decades of personal trauma. Her lived experience informs how she helps communities, leaders, and organizations navigate crises in real time. Listen with us, then stay with the work. Trauma resilience in the age of constant crisisWhat actually helps in the first days after a disasterCompound grief and how it impacts the nervous systemWhy recovery takes longer than anyone expectsLeadership during natural disasters and uncertaintySupporting others without trying to fix themReal-time trauma tools for everyday life Connect with Heather:  Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube Episode Highlights: 02:27 The Impact of Hurricane Helene and Personal Loss 05:22 Trauma Chaplaincy and Leadership Consulting 10:02 Trauma Recovery Techniques and Business Support 15:30 “Unshattered”  21:27 Advice for Trauma Survivors and Support for Friends and Family 26:47 Normalizing the Experience Resources: 💲Discount CLEARSTEM Get a 15% discount when you shop at: clearstem.com Use Heather’s Code: SFVXPHXB 🔗Link: https://clearstem.com/SFVXPHXB  📖Books by Emma **The Deep End of Hope in the Wake of Hurricane Helene: 40 Days and Nights of Survival and Transformation **Unshattered: Surviving My Mother’s 123 Personalities and Transforming a Legacy of Abuse ✍🏻Sign Up for Free:  Trauma Recovery Program Connect with Emma:  Emma is a speaker, bestselling author, mentor, and spiritual advisor with over 25 years of experience guiding individuals through trauma toward resilience & hope. Drawing from her own experience of childhood adversity, her work spans roles as a Quaker minister, nationally certified trauma chaplain, and creator of a Trauma Recovery Certification Program. Her book, The Deep End of Hope in the Wake of Hurricane Helene, explores spiritual resilience amid disaster. As a PhD candidate in Conscious Business Ethics, Emma integrates soulful leadership with practical trauma-recovery strategies, inspiring individuals and organizations to navigate life’s challenges with strength and purpose. Website Instagram Facebook YouTube  Support the show

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Her Story Unscripted is a podcast where women share honest, unscripted conversations about life, growth, and the experiences that shape us — because the most powerful stories are the ones we stop trying to perfect. Hosted by Heather Nelson, this is a space for real conversations. Not rehearsed. Not polished into tidy narratives with clean endings. Just women showing up, telling their truth, and finding out they are far less alone than they thought. Each episode creates space for stories to unfold naturally — covering identity and personal growth, life transitions, relationships, resilience, and the beautiful complexity of everyday life. Whether you're in the middle of something hard, on the other side of it, or just trying to make sense of where you are right now, there is something here for you. Her Story Unscripted was born out of five years of authentic conversations — formerly known as Life Conversations with a Twist — and has evolved into a podcast with a clearer name and a deeper purpose: to make women feel seen, understood, and a little less alone in their own story. Hosted by Heather Nelson — connector, business strategist, community builder, and someone who genuinely believes that connection starts with being real. New episodes available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and all major podcast platforms. Authentic stories. No script needed. Guest inquiries and collaborations: heather@theconnectionhive.co Website: theconnectionhive.co/podcast

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  • Creator
    Heather Nelson
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    201
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Her Story Unscripted
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    Her Story Unscripted

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