Simplify

Kollo Media, Caitlin Schiller

Simplify is a podcast for anyone who’s taken a look at their habits, their happiness, their relationships, or their health and thought, “There’s got to be a better way to do this.” Join Caitlin Schiller and Ben Schuman-Stoler for conversations with authors and thinkers you know—and some you might not, yet—that sit at the intersection of reading, thinking, and daily life. Simplify is now independently owned by Caitlin Schiller and Ben Schuman-Stoler.

  1. 2h ago

    Elinor Cleghorn: Mothering Isn't Instinct. It's Work.

    What if the most flattering thing anyone ever said about women was also the most limiting? Feminist cultural historian Elinor Cleghorn—who kicked off Simplify's independent relaunch with Unwell Women—makes a triumphant return with her new book, A Woman's Work: Reclaiming the Radical History of Mothering. The premise she and Caitlin pull apart sounds harmless enough: that mothering is the natural province of every woman. Follow that idea back a few thousand years, though, and it turns out to be doing an awful lot of work for someone. Just not for mothers. The conversation moves from a tiny clay boat crewed by women sailors in a Cretan cave to the founders of Silicon Valley, by way of Aristotle's distinctly horticultural theory of conception. They get into a stretch of history when a pregnant woman's word was the only evidence that counted, a Parisian midwife to royalty who was centuries ahead of modern maternity care, and the surprisingly tender origins of a word we now use as an insult. There's also a thread about the Virgin Mary that might change how you hear the phrase "good mother"—and a clear-eyed take on what baby bonuses and motherhood medals actually reveal about the governments handing them out. And keep an ear out for Zeus's forehead. It explains more about the AI boom than you might think. Resources Elinor's book: A Woman's Work: Reclaiming the Radical History of Mothering Elinor's earlier book: Unwell Women , and our first conversation with her about it. Ben's Rec: Caliban and the Witch by Silvia Federici Caitlin's Rec: Frankenstein by Mary Shelley Honorable mention: Midwifing the Mother, the Substack by former Simplify guest Angela Natividad. Let us know what you thought of this episode! Find us on Instagram at @simplifypod. Subscribe to our newsletter on beehiiv here. Also, you can email us at info@kollomedia.com This episode of Simplify was produced by Caitlin Schiller, Ben Schuman-Stoler, and Molly Hart, and engineered by João Lucas in Berlin, Germany, for Kollo Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  2. Oct 26

    Deep Listening is a Scam with Julian Treasure

    We live in an increasingly noisy world, yet most of us spend almost no time thinking about how sound shapes our thoughts, focus, and relationships. In this episode, world-renowned sound and listening expert Julian Treasure breaks down why most of us aren't actually listening - and what would happen if we did. What usually happens is that people do what they think is "deep listening" - they nod and say "mmhmm" a bunch. But is that really listening? True deep listening is actually conscious listening. Gifting your entire attention to someone in a moment. And the truth is, conscious listening is difficult! It requires energy and focus and time. But the upshot is massive: Truly feeling heard is such an amazing feeling. It leads to more connection and less suffering. In this episode, Julian talks to Ben about actionable frameworks for changing your "listening position." They also unpack the difference in experience with video vs. audio content - and why audio quality in your remote meetings can make a big difference. We spoke to Julian back in 2017 and that episode is definitely worth revisiting. Julian's TED talk: How to speak so people will listen. Check out Julian's app: Master Conscious Communication. Resources Guest's Recs: The DOSE Effect by TJ Power, Sounds Wild and Broken by David George Haskell, myNoise by Stéphane Pigeon Ben's Rec: A Philosophy of Walking by Frédéric Gros Caitlin's Rec: The Turnaround, Jesse Thorne's interview series with the world's great interviewers (Maximum Fun) Sound generator Mynoise.net: This is a link to Caitlin's fav. Please remember to turn the whispers down- otherwise it's way too Halloween for everyday use. --- Let us know what you thought of this episode! Find us on Instagram at @simplifypod. Subscribe to our newsletter on beehiiv here. Also, you can email us at info@kollomedia.com This episode of Simplify was produced by Caitlin Schiller, Ben Schuman-Stoler, and engineered by João Lucas in Berlin, Germany, for Kollo Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  3. Sep 28

    Raising Boys Who Can Feel Things with Ruth Whippman

    What does a five-year-old boy learn from the word "buddy"? When Ruth Whippman started shopping around a book about boys in 2021, publishers mostly shrugged—boys, surely, have it great. Ruth, a British journalist, former BBC documentary-maker, and raising three boys, suspected masculinity was full of blind spots nobody was bothering to look at. By the time BoyMom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity came out in 2024, masculinity had become one of the defining arguments of an election year, and her hunch looked a lot like foresight. Caitlin and Ruth start with some science neither of them has stopped thinking about—what boys need from the very beginning, and what we tend to give them instead. From there, the conversation moves through a first day of kindergarten, an all-boys classroom that fell hard for Mr. Darcy, and the strange math of an identity defined mostly by what it isn't. Then it goes somewhere harder. Ruth spent months building rapport with self-identified incels, and what she found in those forums surprised them both. It's a tender, unsettling stretch of conversation, and it lingers. Afterward, Ben—father of two sons—joins Caitlin in the bookend to talk through what landed. Ruth's parting thought is one line from the book that quietly rearranges the whole ledger of who wins under patriarchy. Resources Caitlin's Rec: The Will to Change, bell hooks Ben's Rec: Shuggie Bain, Douglas Steward Ruth's book: BoyMom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity --- Let us know what you thought of this episode! Find us on Instagram at @simplifypod. Subscribe to our newsletter on beehiiv here. Also, you can email us at info@kollomedia.com This episode of Simplify was produced by Caitlin Schiller, Ben Schuman-Stoler, and Molly Rose Hart, and engineered by João Lucas in Berlin, Germany, for Kollo Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  4. Sep 21

    Simplify EXTRA: The Human Premium

    Why do commencement speeches suck so often? That's easy. They suck when the speaker is out of touch with their audience - new graduates. That's why legendary ones like from David Foster Wallace and George Saunders and Steve Jobs are so good, because they balance personal experience in a way that connects with a new generation. This year, multiple tech CEO commencement speakers were booed across the US for being so out of touch with new grads' realities. When you’ve spent four years paying up for a degree, hearing an ultra-wealthy AI sponsor tell you to "get on the rocket ship" or whatever while the entry-level job market evaporates feels less like inspiration and more like an insult. Honestly, I'm proud of the grads for booing. In this second edition of our new format - we're calling it Simplify EXTRA - we look at why traditional career advice is failing Gen Z, and what a genuinely useful path forward looks like. Ben drives this episode and brought Caitlin Jasmine Sun’s Substack article, 🌻 the old world is dying: opinionated advice for c/o 2026 graduates which offers some tips from one Gen Zer to other Gen Zers toward building a meaningful life when the old rules no longer apply. Then Caitlin and Ben trade some life advice and share what they think future grads need to hear. And yes, we’re still testing out our new video format! We’re tweaking the studio setup, playing with lighting, and dialing in the camera angles, so please send us your feedback - we’d love to know what you think. Resources Jasmine Sun's articleBill Burnett - designing your lifeEmail us at info@kollomedia.comSimplify on YouTube Simplify on InstagramSubscribe to our newsletter here. This episode was produced by Caitlin Schiller, Molly Rose Hart, and Ben Schuman-Stoler. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Simplify is a podcast for anyone who’s taken a look at their habits, their happiness, their relationships, or their health and thought, “There’s got to be a better way to do this.” Join Caitlin Schiller and Ben Schuman-Stoler for conversations with authors and thinkers you know—and some you might not, yet—that sit at the intersection of reading, thinking, and daily life. Simplify is now independently owned by Caitlin Schiller and Ben Schuman-Stoler.

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