148 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Relationships
    • 4.7, 94 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy

    Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy

    Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one…again?  In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress on dates, you may be dealing with the same need for control and fears you'll hear Emily describe in this episode. 
     
    EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Ditch The Dating “List”:  Coaching With Kimmy
     
    Kimmy and Emily dive right in to talk about Emily's previous dating experience and how she grew up as a dedicated student, determined to create the best outcomes for herself. Now as a high achieving, successful career woman she's applying that same energy to her love life by creating checklists. This conversation reveals that the myriad ways Emily is exerting control over her dating life are actually hindering her ability to be open to finding the kind of fulfilling relationship she really wants. If you've escaped from a toxic marriage or relationship and are feeling eager to have a corrective experience with a new person, this show will help demonstrate that slowing down is the antidote -- not racing towards the finish line. Listen in to hear explicit steps you can take to learn how to date differently by prioritizing your needs, giving yourself permission to be a little selfish, and reserving your time and energy for guys that actually deserve you. 
     
    If you want to find out is you're a List Lady, like Emily, or another one of Kimmy's 5 Dating Archetypes click here  https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY to take her quiz. And, if you really want to dive into this full throttle, check out Kimmy's brand new mini audio series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating here https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series is curated to help you discover why you haven't found success in dating and love and give you concrete, practical tips to change your story. Plus, you'll hear exclusive coaching with five women who fit each one of the archetypes so you can learn how these archetypes show up in practice. Check it out! 
     
    EPISODE 149 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Ditch The Dating “List”:  Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 38 min
    Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends

    Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends

    There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship. 
     
    EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends
     
    This week you'll hear Kimmy's top tips for navigating this new reality as the weather gets warmer so you can create attainable goals you can actually accomplish this season.  This summer, take the time to check back in with yourself and zone in on what you really want. What are you bringing to the table? What are your non-negotiables? What are some short term steps you can take to make progress? This episode is all about what you can do right now to increase the likelihood that you attract the kind of people into your life who are worthy of you! If you need help navigating the new dating reality we're all living in, you're not alone. First, you'll learn to ride the waves of change as they come.  Being social is a muscle you have to exercise to see results. The more you give into isolating yourself from others, the harder it will be to get back out there.  Learn about how not being able to meet in person right away isn't all bad!  You'll hear how to get back in touch with the long lost art of courtship and how it can benefit your relationships. Hear from Kimmy on why talking on the phone *without* having your video on will help you become a better listener and connector. With modern dating technology, your ability to meet a high volume of people is greatly increased but, you might be surprised to learn how this variety actually gives you *more* control over who you spend time with than not. 
     
    Kickstart your dating life this summer by signing up for a complimentary coaching call with Kimmy today at https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let this seasons pass you by without building your dating muscles to meet the moment with a new, sexy confidence!  Remember the longer you are away from it, the harder it becomes. 
     
    EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers




     

    • 27 min
    Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy

    Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy

    Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks. 
     
    EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy
     
    This week on Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear her live conversation with Lindy who is a teacher, mom of three, and accomplished musician. As an exceptional, independent woman with two master's degrees, Lindy knows her worth and wants to find a man who deserves her. This conversation centers around the unknown armor Lindy's built up around her for protection as a result of trauma from her past marriage that has been preventing her from attracting the men she wants and creating the dry spell she has undergone.
     
    Kimmy and Lindy jump right in and talk through Lindy's past dating experience and upbringing to discover why she's in a dry spell and can’t progress on dates. If you have ever felt like you'd rather skip flirting and small talk in favor of just getting to the deep conversation like Lindy, you'll want to listen close!  Kimmy pin points and uncovers some surprising mistakes that Lindy is doing as a serial relationship gal that has been pushing great guys away.  And, if you have a tendency to get in your head instead of being in your body, you'll hear some great tips on how to access your inner sexy before a date. Listen in as you Lindy’s insight into how her constant battles of being a people pleaser and sticking to “safe” topics rather than turning her cab light on have acted as a love shield. You'll hear actionable advice on how being playful and creating mystery when you're flirting can yield different results. 
     
    If you are experiencing a dating dry spell and are operating out of desperation or you've simply disengaged, you have the power to break that pattern! You can sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Learn how to create a new energy when you're flirting so you can start creating chemistry on your dates and interactions.
     
    EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 35 min
    Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook

    Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook

    Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're observing ever-shifting distancing guidelines can be daunting, but you may have a better opportunity virtually to connect with others than ever before! 
     
    EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection:  Interview With Geoff Cook
     
     
    This week, Kimmy addresses this issue with an authority on the topic of virtual connection, serial entrepreneur Geoff Cook. Geoff is the CEO and co-founder of Meet Group, a social dating and live streaming company behind Meet Me, Tagged, and Growlr. Kimmy and Geoff jump right in to talk about how people are using technology differently to connect, date and find sustained love. 
     
    Kimmy asks Geoff to shed some light on the major trends in the virtual dating space and how our current reality of physical distance has created a space for fun new ways to connect. You'll hear some fascinating stats on how the increased desire for virtual and video options across all age groups. Plus, Geoff delves into the future of virtual dating. You may be surprised to find out that video and live streaming are here to stay, even after quarantine -- listen in to hear why!  Kimmy highlights the importance in combining technology, first impression management and conversational skills training in order to be a successful dater today.  This discussion is incredibly informative and will help broaden your perspective about how to navigate the dating landscape now and in the future. 
     
    If you are feeling disconnected and you want to know how to make a great first impression online to meet someone, reach out to Kimmy for help. You can sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's one thing to swipe through matches at a record pace, and it's another to understand how to make a real, genuine connection online. All it takes is one call to start your journey to meet this new reality.
     
    EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection:  Interview With Geoff Cook.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 27 min
    Modern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

    Modern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

    We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms.  Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process. 
     
    EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends:  Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
     
    This week on the show, Kimmy has an incredibly timely conversation with the women of the popular Dateable podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. This episode gives you an insider's look into the universe of modern dating trends that covers traditional vs. modern gender roles, virtual sex parties, surprising fetishes, and the common issues that everyone trying to find love experiences in this new dating world. 
     
    These three jump right in to dissect tons of juicy topics, provide some much needed comic relief, and bring a broad perspective that will help you  find ways of how you can progress in your dating life in this new era.  Kimmy asks Yue and Julie to analyze major dating trends that prove that everyone's dating experiences, desires and challenges are often more similar than you might think. If you are struggling to engage in online dating, especially amid a global pandemic where online dating may be your only way to meet someone new, this interview demonstrates how it's actually possible.  Based on Yue and Julies research, Kimmy gives insightful tips in how to navigate dating during the pandemic and what to focus on to create a deeper emotional connection online. 
     
    If this conversation sparked your curiosity and you want to learn how to date in this new world, consider getting in touch with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary exploratory call. This just might be the push you need to get unstuck and making progress in meeting someone in today’s world.
     
    EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends:  Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
     
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

    • 44 min
    A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena

    A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena

    This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic.
     
    Kimmy's back with another inspirational episode of, Where Are They Now? On these shows, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success which will motivate and show you that finding love is possible, even during a pandemic!
     
    EPISODE 144 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena
     
    In this show, you'll meet Dena who is in an incredible new relationship with a great guy she met online during lockdown.  Dena started her journey with Kimmy doing one of the first live Coaching With Kimmy episodes two years ago on this podcast and then shortly after became a client.  As a teacher from a small town who'd gone through two marriages, Dena was comfortable caring for other people. She came to Kimmy because she was ready to start putting herself first, even though she was terrified and completely confused how to do so. Kimmy and Dena talk through why Dena was willing to appease the men she dated and not express her needs, wants, or emotions. This conversation looks back at the breakthrough moment where Dena realized she needed to change something and the skills she learned working with Kimmy that allowed her to move forward. You'll hear tips on how to share your feelings and draw boundaries, all while fortifying your relationship. You'll be uplifted by hearing how Dena came around to prioritizing and loving herself so she could attract the kind of man she really wanted. You may be surprised to learn the various tactics Dena did to land her new relationship while social distancing and how it has flourished and grown through video chatting.  If communication is a big value for you, this episode also dives deep on how couples can communicate effectively, even on a cross country road trip! 
     
    Despite what is happening during this time, we all seek love and connection which is what we need right now. If you are wanting to seek that love but not quite sure how to get it, consider a free coaching call with Kimmy and take action here meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. It's possible to build a healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationship even while in quarantine! This is the perfect time to check in with yourself, ask yourself if you know what you really want, and trust yourself to make the decision to grow.
     
    Episode 144 is: A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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    The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
    ************************************************⁣
    Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    This Podcast is available on:⁣
    Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
    Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
    And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
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    • 37 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
94 Ratings

94 Ratings

jk7983 ,

Kimmy has fantastic advice!

Kimmy has really practical and valuable advice of how to present yourself on dates, show up as the best you, and just how to handle all the crazy situations thrown at us all with modern dating! Love this podcast and highly recommend.

Nice Guys on Business ,

Way cool. Let’s connect peeps

Business AND personal life is all about connections. Get with it people we are all in the PR business. People and Relationships! Keep preaching Kim, you are amazing. Great work sharing your skills!!

Clarisse Gomez ,

Awesome Podcast!!!

Kim, host of the Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love podcast, highlight all aspects of relationships and more in this can’t miss podcast! The host and expert guests offer insightful advice and information that is helpful to anyone that listens!

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