168 episodes

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love Kimmy Seltzer

    • Relationships
    • 4.7 • 104 Ratings

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kim Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kim and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

    A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable

    A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable

    This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. If you can consistently live in gratitude, it will actually impact your personal wellbeing for the better which will, in turn, make you more dateable! 
     
    EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable
     
    On this show, Kimmy breaks down her top tips on how to stop negativity in its tracks and transform that bad attitude into positivity and gratitude. First, Kimmy jumps in with 2 pro tips for positive self-reflection. This year has thrown countless challenges at you and now is a great time to do the work needed to fill up your cup of love for yourself. It's all about shifting your perspective. This week, take the time to pay attention to your thoughts and notice if any of your gremlins are popping up and contributing to negative self-talk. The more negativity infiltrates your thoughts the more it will leak out into your energy and conversations. Kimmy brings the tough love in this episode when she shares that what you put out is what you get back, especially on dates! Listen in to hear some expert advice on how to stay in the present, focused on being curious and connected. Of course, switching into a gratitude mindset won't happen overnight but this episode walks you through some tangible steps you can take to get there.  
     
    If you keep asking yourself why you are still single and feeling powerless and negative about your love life, you'll want to be one of the first to sign up for Kimmy's new LIVE virtual event: The Flirt Immersion Experience! This one-of-a-kind interactive workshop is designed for women who are looking to find hands-on training to increase their sexy confidence and dating skills. This also includes speed-dating with men *hand-selected* by Kimmy and getting feedback with a Man Panel. This is the ultimate way to meet men, go on dates and actually hear what the guys thought so you can learn without the pressure. Plus, right now Kimmy's offering a 50% off deal for Black Friday. Get in while you can, space is limited and these spots will go fast so just click here and enter “BlackFriday” during checkout to receive the discount  https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ 
     
    EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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     This Podcast is available on:⁣
     Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
     Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
     And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
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    • 29 min
    Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins

    Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins

    In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. 
     
    EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Falling In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Wendy Wilkins
     
    Wendy dives right in by sharing her unconventional journey from being a cop, to one of the top realtors in Australia, to her writing and working in the creative arts. Kimmy and Wendy discuss the pitfalls of compartmentalizing your life. If you're experiencing success in your career but your personal life doesn't stack up, this conversation will ask you to identify the strengths you can bring from one area of your life into another. And, you'll hear one of Wendy's secret tricks to boosting confidence that you can use to focus before you spend time on dating apps and especially before you go on a date! If you've ever found yourself prematurely getting into a relationship (or a "situationship") before you're ready, it could be a sign that you are masking a deeper issue with not loving yourself. Right now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Dating is simply a tool you can use at different stages of the process to get clarity on what you want, what works for you and what doesn't. Kimmy brings up a story of a recent client of hers that shows the power of what can happen when you lift the pressure off and let go of the attachment to an outcome. Listen in to hear about the importance of giving yourself what you need instead of waiting for others to do so and being comfortable doing things alone. Once you access the strength within, you'll open yourself up to finding a lasting love that complements your life instead of complicating it. 
     
    You have endless resources at your fingertips that are designed to help you start loving yourself. First, check out Kimmy's exclusive audio course *This May Be Why You Suck at Dating*! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. Perhaps you have Chief qualities, just like Wendy. And, if you've noticed that you're just passively swiping through dating apps, numbing out and not getting anywhere, you're invited to join Kimmy's new Flirt Immersion Experience coming up on Saturday, December 5 https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/ In this small interactive workshop, you will actually practice your skills that will bring control back into your dating life. Take this opportunity to put yourself in the driver's seat and take direct action to level-up your dating game!  But hurry slots are limited.

     
    EPISODE 168 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Falling In Love With Yourself:  Interview With Wendy Wilkins.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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    • 40 min
    Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy

    Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy

    When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Julia, who's eager to transform her body image, gain sexy confidence, and find love. Julia has struggled in the past to feel confident in her body, especially because she heard negative messages from men about her weight early in her dating life. Now, she's on a mission to take back control of her sexy confidence and thrive. 
     
    EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Sexy Confidence:  Coaching With Kimmy
     
    Kimmy and Julia dive right in and talk through Julia's dating history. If you're like Julia and you lack confidence in your physical body, this episode will challenge you to look into how those feelings have manifested in your dating life. Julia shares that she had been operating in a cycle that wasn't serving her. She was accepting crumbs from men, getting physical too soon, and rushing into a commitment before reaching a mutual level of emotional depth and connection. You'll hear tips from Kimmy on how to create a dating mission statement and layout exactly what you love about your body so you can rebuild that confidence muscle. Remember, working on you *is* working on your dating life!  This conversation makes important connections between your upbringing and the nature of your current relationships. If you are familiar with partners being unavailable in your life, you might be replaying that old script and unconsciously attracting unavailable people. The key is to recognize this pattern, maintain your awareness, and make a plan to counteract this familiarity. Sometimes, even when things don't serve us, we go back to them because we're comfortable.  Right now, we're all feeling a sense of uncertainty and in dating this feeling can be even more pronounced. You'll hear how Julia has evolved on this issue and is ready to take things in stride, not getting too attached to dating outcomes, and actually having fun in the process!
     
    If you are not feeling confident in your skin and it's holding you back, sign up for a free coaching session with Kimmy, just like Julia did. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.  And if you want to learn how to play up your strengths, feel sexy in your skin, and make yourself memorable in the best way through ninja dating and flirting skills, come to Kimmy’s special virtual event Flirt Immersion Experience November 21.  You will get hands-on flirt training, get advice from men, and put it all to practice through speed dating.  Spots are limited so sign up today  https://e4avwe2y.pages.infusionsoft.net/

     
    EPISODE 167 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Dating With Sexy Confidence:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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     This Podcast is available on:⁣
     Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
     Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0x

    • 45 min
    Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John

    Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John

    Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes it's really difficult to get unstuck and release the negative thoughts that dominate your mind when you're feeling the pressure. This week, Kimmy's diving into a term you may have heard: Head Trash. Kimmy interviews an expert in eliminating your Head Trash, Noah St. John. Known widely as the "Power Habits Mentor", Noah is a bestselling author, motivational keynote speaker, and business expert. 
     
    EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash:  Interview With Noah St. John
     
    Noah jumps right in to talk through his origins as a poor kid in a wealthy neighborhood, his battle with depression, and a suicide attempt at a young age. From there, Noah was able to rise out of these circumstances and create a successful business helping people to get rid of their own head trash and manifest success for themselves. This conversation will help you get a handle on what your own personal head trash is, so you can discern if it's blocking you from finding the love you deserve. Noah and Kimmy break down the importance of understanding your destination and releasing yourself from negative, cyclical patterns that don't serve you. If you've noticed you're repeating patterns, dating the same people, making the same mistakes, this conversation will help push you to see a different perspective. Listen in to this conversation to understand the steps you need to take to become aware of your limiting beliefs and then take action to combat your head trash one step at a time. This conversation is all about getting out of your head and getting rid of your head trash so that you can get unstuck to find love.
     
    If you want help to pinpoint the limiting, negative beliefs you hold about yourself when it comes to love and relationships, sign up for a FREE session with Kimmy right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough.  Remember, what shows up in one area of your life often leaks into others. Take the time to identify what's holding you back so you can let go, move forward, and start seeing the success you deserve!
     
    EPISODE 166 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash:  Interview With Noah St. John.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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     This Podcast is available on:⁣
     Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
     Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
     And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

    • 30 min
    Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers

    Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers

    Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving relationship. If you're working on yourself (and therefore working on your dating life), tapping into your spiritual side could be key to getting to know yourself more deeply and overcoming what's holding you back from achieving your goals. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic who helps her clients to communicate with loved ones, angels, spirits, and other energy beings. Powers is the author of seven books and hosts the Healing Powers Podcast.
     
    EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Spirituality And Your Love Life:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers
     
    These two jump in right away to talk through Laura's journey from working in politics to following her intuition to embrace both her psychic abilities and her creativity as a rewarding and successful career path. Everyone has the ability to tap into their empathic self, which is the ability to feel the emotions and energy of others in your body. Laura and Kimmy discuss the value of welcoming this ability and how it can open up new ways of seeing the world, yourself, and others. This conversation will invite you to explore how you can look inwardly for answers and certainty, instead of relying on others to validate for you. You'll learn some helpful tips to distinguish whether fears or hesitations that have blocked you from taking action in the past truly originate from you or from others. If you have a tendency to shapeshift in order to please other people, this episode will help you to investigate what's going on for you internally so you can take full ownership of your needs and desires. This conversation will invite you to develop an awareness of your empathic abilities and work to release the fears you have around the unknown so you can create a plan to go for what you really want. 
     
    If you've struggled with being in your body, acknowledging or expressing your emotions to others (or to yourself) take 30 minutes and get on the phone with Kimmy by clicking right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The answers you're seeking around your love life are within your reach! If this conversation resonated with you and you're looking for more certainty around dating, take action by starting with a call.
     
    EPISODE 165 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Spirituality And Your Love Life:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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     This Podcast is available on:⁣
     Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
     Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
     And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
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    • 35 min
    Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy

    Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy

    Are you an “overcaretaker” and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself?  You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the “takers.”  This week on a live Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with yourself, and can actually help build your relationships with other people! You'll hear Kimmy coach Spike, a guy who's on a quest to find a healthy relationship. He's had a hard time putting his needs first and not defaulting to old behavior patterns that only serve the needs of others, sometimes at his own expense. 
     
    EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Time To Get Selfish:  Coaching With Kimmy 
     
    Spike opens up immediately and shares how he grew up, the abuse he suffered as a child, and his struggle with addiction. If you find yourself always bending over backward to take care of other people's needs before your own, listen up! Kimmy zeros in on the telltale signs of being a people pleaser, and how that generosity and altruism can leak into your dating life which causes lopsided relationships. This conversation addresses how societal expectations around gender affect everyone from women to men in different ways. If you've ever felt like you didn't fit into societal expectations of your gender, this conversation will speak to you. Spike shares several examples of how some of his fears around dating and relationships have showed up in his life recently. This session zones in on tips on how to better express your needs and trust that your needs are valid -- especially if this is a new practice for you. If you find your confidence in what you can do for others, take a chance to get a little selfish and be open to receiving more! 
     
    If you've questioned whether you're too needy or you analyze how you can provide for others over you in relationships, sign up for a coaching call with Kimmy and talk it out here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Maybe it's time for you to try putting you first! 
     
    EPISODE 164 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Time To Get Selfish:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣
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     The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣
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     Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
       ************************************************⁣
     Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣
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     This Podcast is available on:⁣
     Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣
     Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣
     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g
     And many other podcast sites.
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    Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣
    Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
    Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣
    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣
    Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/
    Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
104 Ratings

104 Ratings

WendyWilkinsoz ,

Fun and informative podcast about relationships yes please

I love this podcast so many great episodes with advice in a lively way on how to be your best you and in turn attract the best relationships for you. Kimmy is a delight to listen to and she has some wonderful guests.

jk7983 ,

Kimmy has fantastic advice!

Kimmy has really practical and valuable advice of how to present yourself on dates, show up as the best you, and just how to handle all the crazy situations thrown at us all with modern dating! Love this podcast and highly recommend.

KrusherBass ,

Very good.

Some good observations and advice. I would give it five stars but it’s mainly a podcast for women, although there are some points for men. I wish it was more balanced for all to take advantage of.

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