SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

Transformational Teacher and National Best-Selling Author
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SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.

  1. 5h ago

    464: Celinne da Costa on The Story That's Secretly Running Your Life (And How to Rewrite It)

    What if the greatest obstacle standing between you and the life you're meant to live... is the story you've been telling yourself? In this deeply moving conversation, Kute Blackson sits down with Celine DeCosta, author of The Burning Ground, to explore what happens when life falls apart, not as a punishment, but as an invitation from the soul. Through heartfelt storytelling and profound spiritual insight, Celine shares how burnout, heartbreak, loss, and unexpected synchronicities became the catalysts for awakening to a life of deeper purpose, freedom, and alignment. Together, Kute and Celine unpack how our greatest wounds can become our greatest teachers, why the soul speaks in whispers while fear shouts, and how rewriting the meaning of our past has the power to transform our future. This is more than a conversation about healing. It's an invitation to trust life's unfolding, surrender what no longer serves you, and remember who you truly are beneath the stories you've carried for so long. If you've been feeling stuck, disconnected, or quietly wondering whether there's something more waiting for you, this episode may be exactly the message your soul has been waiting to hear.   Timestamps (00:02:15) – The invisible story that was quietly shaping Celine's entire life (00:07:07) – What if your greatest crisis is actually your greatest awakening? (00:12:31) – The radical decision that changed the course of her life forever (00:18:06) – How to leap into the unknown without blowing up your life (00:24:33) – How to tell the difference between fear... and the voice of your soul (00:32:00) – The mysterious encounter in Indonesia that awakened her true calling (00:41:43) – Rewrite your story, reclaim your power, and discover your deepest gift (00:54:40) – A final invitation to trust the unfolding of your soul's journey  Some Questions I Ask Why do some people seem unstoppable while others remain trapped in the same cycles? What finally gave you the courage to stop living the life everyone expected of you? How can someone tell the difference between the voice of the soul and the voice of fear? What happened during your journey that completely changed how you see life? How do we stop identifying with painful stories we've carried for years? What would you say to someone who knows they're meant for more, but feels too afraid to take the first step? In This Episode You'll Learn Why the story you've been telling yourself may be the very thing keeping you stuck. The surprising reason life's biggest breakdowns often become your greatest breakthroughs. How to tell the difference between fear speaking... and your soul calling. The hidden emotional addictions that quietly shape your choices and relationships. A powerful framework for transforming pain into purpose and reclaiming your authentic life. Why your greatest wound may actually hold the key to the life you were born to live.   Get in Touch: Celinne da Costa https://celinnedacosta.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

  2. 3d ago

    463: Dr. Cheryl Fraser on The Biggest Lie About Love (That's Quietly Destroying Your Relationship)

    "Great love isn't found. It's created by two imperfect people willing to do the work." What if the relationship you're longing for isn't created by finding the perfect person, but by learning how to love imperfectly, consciously, and courageously? Why do so many relationships begin with passion... only to end in distance, disappointment, or disconnection? In this deeply eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned Buddhist psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Cheryl Fraser to challenge some of the biggest myths we've been taught about love. From the illusion of soulmates to the belief that the right partner should make us happy, Cheryl reveals why these stories quietly sabotage even the strongest relationships. Blending modern psychology with Buddhist wisdom, she shares a radically different approach to lasting love: One built on conscious communication, emotional intimacy, shared adventure, and intentional sensuality. Rather than searching for someone new when the excitement fades, Cheryl explains why the deepest relationships are created when two imperfect people choose to grow together, embrace discomfort, and make love itself a spiritual practice. If you've ever questioned your relationship, wondered whether you've found "the one," or felt the spark slipping away, this conversation may completely change the way you love and the way you see your partner.   Key Timestamps (00:03:10) — Why we suffer when we expect our partner to make us happy (00:12:20) — The Passion Triangle: the three pillars of lasting love (00:29:50) — Why the soulmate myth quietly destroys relationships (00:38:40) — Should you stay or leave? Knowing when love is worth fighting for (00:49:40) — Why relationships are one of life's greatest spiritual practices (00:50:20) — The hidden truth about sexless relationships (00:56:30) — Why scheduling intimacy can actually deepen passion (00:01:07) — The one lesson every couple needs to hear about lasting love Some Questions I ask What if your partner was never meant to make you happy? Have you mistaken chemistry for compatibility? Are you waiting for love to feel effortless instead of learning how to build it? Could the relationship you're ready to leave be the one that's asking you to grow? What if the problem isn't your partner, but the expectations you've placed on them? Are you searching for "the one"... or becoming the partner your relationship needs? In This Episode You'll Learn Why finding "the one" isn't the secret to lasting love The hidden beliefs that slowly erode even great relationships How to rebuild intimacy when the spark begins to fade Why your relationship can only grow as much as you do The daily choices that create extraordinary love over time How to stop waiting for love to happen and start creating it Get in Touch: Dr. Cheryl Fraser https://drcherylfraser.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

  3. Jul 7

    462: The Hidden Addiction To Being Needed

    "What if the reason you're exhausted isn't because you're doing too much... but because you've built your identity around being needed?" You help. You give. You support. You show up when everyone else falls apart. From the outside, it looks selfless. But what if beneath all the helping, fixing, rescuing, and taking care of everyone else is a deeper need you've never fully questioned? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson explores one of the most socially rewarded yet emotionally draining patterns many people carry: the addiction to being needed. From childhood conditioning to relationship dynamics, he reveals how many of us unconsciously learn to earn love through usefulness, build our identity around helping others, and mistake being needed for being loved. Kute unpacks the hidden cost of constantly rescuing, carrying, and fixing everyone around you and why true love isn't about making others dependent on you. It's about trusting their journey, honoring your own needs, and recognizing that your worth has never depended on what you do for others. If you've ever felt responsible for everyone, struggled to receive support, or found yourself exhausted from always being the strong one, this episode may help you discover a deeper truth: You don't have to earn your value. You are already worthy.   Timestamps (00:03:25) – The surprising reason being needed feels so good (00:07:04) – Where the need to earn love really begins (00:09:15) – The Emotional Caretaker: carrying everyone's emotions (00:11:02) – The Rescuer: when helping becomes a trap (00:14:45) – The hidden rewards keeping this pattern alive (00:17:37) – Why receiving love can feel uncomfortable (00:21:12) – Helping vs. rescuing: a life-changing distinction (00:24:16) – The path from proving your worth to knowing your worth   Some Questions I Ask Who would you be if nobody needed you? Have you confused being needed with being loved? How much of your identity is built around taking care of everyone else? Are you helping people or preventing them from learning their own lessons? What would change if you stopped trying to earn your worth through sacrifice? Can you allow yourself to receive the same love and support you so freely give to others?   In This Episode, You'll Learn Why constantly helping others can become a hidden form of emotional dependency. The four archetypes of people addicted to being needed and which one you might be. How childhood survival strategies can quietly shape your adult relationships. Why rescuing others often creates exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection. The crucial difference between being loved and being needed. How to reclaim your worth, receive support, and experience healthier, freer relationships.   Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

    462: The Hidden Addiction To Being Needed

  4. Jul 1

    461: Byron Katie on Why You're Still Suffering: The One Belief That Could Change Everything

    "Most of the suffering in your life doesn't come from what happened. It comes from the story you've been telling yourself about it." What if the pain you've been carrying for years isn't being created by your circumstances, but by the thoughts you've never stopped believing? In this eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with world-renowned teacher Byron Katie to explore a simple yet revolutionary idea: suffering begins when we argue with reality. Drawing from decades of helping people transform their lives through self-inquiry, Byron reveals how unquestioned beliefs shape our relationships, fuel resentment, keep us stuck in the past, and prevent us from experiencing the peace that is already available to us. Through her powerful process known as The Work, she demonstrates how a single question can begin to unravel years of emotional pain and open the door to greater freedom, clarity, and self-awareness. This conversation isn't about changing your life. It's about questioning the thoughts that prevent you from fully living it. If you've ever felt trapped by recurring patterns, emotional suffering, or a story you can't seem to let go of, this episode may help you discover that freedom is closer than you think. Timestamps (00:01:29) – The cause of suffering and how to end it (00:10:15) – Byron Katie's four-question process for freedom (00:12:15) – Childhood beliefs and the stories we inherit (00:19:49) – The powerful "turnaround" that changes everything (00:27:30) – Why Byron calls the world a gift (00:29:58) – Who were you before your first memory? (00:40:11) – Fear, ego, and the nature of suffering (00:42:05) – Responsibility, freedom, and caring without obligation (00:47:48) – Why no two people live in the same world (00:49:48) – The practice that transformed millions of lives Some Questions I Ask How much of your suffering is being created by a story you've never questioned? What if the person you blame for your pain is not the source of it? Are you living in reality or in a version of reality created by your mind? What belief are you holding onto that is costing you your peace? Who would you be if you stopped arguing with what is? Could the freedom you've been searching for begin with a single question? In This Episode, You'll Learn Why one unquestioned thought can create years of unnecessary suffering. The powerful question Byron Katie uses to dissolve fear, resentment, and emotional pain. How to stop believing every thought your mind tells you and reclaim your peace. Why arguing with reality keeps you trapped, stressed, and disconnected from life. The hidden stories shaping your relationships, identity, and sense of freedom. How a simple shift in perspective can change your entire experience of life. Get in Touch: Byron Katie https://thework.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

  5. Jun 29

    If You Are Ready To Change Your Life… Listen.

    If you know that you are ready to breakthrough whatever it is that has held you back from living your full potential.   If you have felt a stirring in your soul and have been thinking about this Boundless Bliss journey with me for awhile now……..   Then I invite you to take the first step on the Hero's journey and say "Yes" to the calling you feel.    Your life will transform in miraculous ways.  If you are ready, the next step is to APPLY for an interview at www.boundlessblissbali.com    You will see the magic begin to happen from that very moment.   I look forward to seeing you in Bali. Your time is NOW. Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

    If You Are Ready To Change Your Life… Listen.

  6. Jun 24

    460: The Fear of Being Seen: What's Really Stopping You From Living Fully?

    "What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you desire isn't a lack of talent, confidence, or opportunity but a fear of being truly seen?" In this deeply powerful episode, Kute Blackson explores one of the most hidden fears we all carry: the fear of visibility. Beneath perfectionism, procrastination, self-doubt, and the endless search for the "right time" often lies something much deeper: The fear of judgment, rejection, misunderstanding, and even the fear of stepping into our own power. Kute reveals how childhood experiences and old survival patterns shape our relationship with self-expression, why the masks that once protected us can eventually become prisons, and how many of us unknowingly reject ourselves before the world ever has the chance. He unpacks the five hidden fears that keep us playing small and the subtle ways fear disguises itself as preparation, humility, and perfectionism. If you've ever felt called to share more of yourself, pursue a bigger vision, speak your truth, or step into a greater purpose, but found yourself hesitating, this episode will help you understand why. More importantly, it will show you how to move beyond fear with greater courage, authenticity, and self-trust. Because the world doesn't need a perfect version of you. It needs the real you. TIMESTAMPS (00:04:20) – What are you hiding from the world? (00:07:08) – Why your purpose requires visibility. (00:11:06) – How childhood experiences create the fear of being seen. (00:14:35) – The five fears that keep people playing small. (00:20:55) – How perfectionism and procrastination disguise fear. (00:22:33) – Practical steps to overcome visibility fears and share your gifts. QUESTIONS THAT MAY CHANGE HOW YOU SEE YOUR LIFE • What am I hiding from the world and why? • When did I first learn that it wasn't safe to be fully seen? • Am I truly preparing or am I using preparation to avoid exposure? • What would become possible if I stopped worrying about being judged? • How much of my life is still being shaped by old survival patterns? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER • Why the fear of being seen, not a lack of confidence, is often what keeps you stuck. • The five hidden fears that prevent people from fully expressing their gifts. • How childhood experiences silently shape your relationship with visibility and self-expression. • The surprising ways fear disguises itself as perfectionism, procrastination, and "waiting for the right time." • Why judgment, rejection, and even success can feel threatening to your nervous system.   Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

    460: The Fear of Being Seen: What's Really Stopping You From Living Fully?

  7. Jun 17

    459: Inna Segal on The Secret to Trusting Yourself and Protecting Your Energy (Part 2)

    "What if the answers you've been searching for have been quietly living inside you all along—but fear, self-doubt, and old wounds have taught you not to listen?" In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Kute Blackson continues his exploration with intuitive healer and bestselling author Inna Segal, diving into one of life's most important skills: learning to trust yourself. Together, they uncover why intuition often whispers while fear demands attention, how emotional wounds disconnect us from our inner knowing, and why healing is the gateway to clarity. The conversation goes beyond intuition into the realities of relationships, energetic boundaries, narcissistic dynamics, and the subtle ways we give our power away without realizing it. Inna shares practical insights for recognizing unhealthy patterns, strengthening self-trust, protecting your energy, and making decisions from a place of wisdom instead of fear. Whether you're navigating uncertainty, questioning a relationship, or simply longing to feel more connected to yourself, this episode is an invitation to quiet the noise, reconnect with your heart, and discover that the guidance you've been seeking may already be within you.   Timestamps (00:02:18) – Why intuition becomes difficult to hear (00:08:05) – Fear versus inner knowing: how to tell the difference (00:14:27) – The hidden signs of narcissistic and draining relationships (00:24:11)– Building energetic boundaries without closing your heart (00:34:42) – Practical ways to strengthen intuition and self-trust (00:45:18) – Reclaiming your power and living from your inner truth Some Questions I Ask: What if the voice you've been ignoring is actually your deepest wisdom? How often do fear and past wounds make decisions that your intuition never would? Are you giving your energy away without realizing it? What if trusting yourself is a skill that can be strengthened every day? How would your relationships change if you truly listened to your inner knowing? In This Episode You'll Learn Why intuition often speaks quietly while fear demands your attention How emotional healing strengthens your ability to trust yourself The subtle signs of unhealthy relationships and energetic manipulation Simple practices to reconnect with your inner guidance and build discernment How to create healthier boundaries, protect your energy, and make decisions with greater clarity   Get in Touch: Inna Segal www.innasegal.com   Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

  8. Jun 17

    458: Inna Segal on The Secret Language of Your Body: What Your Symptoms Are Trying To Tell You (Part 1)

    "What if the headache, anxiety, fatigue, chronic pain, or illness you've been fighting isn't working against you... but trying to communicate something you've never stopped to hear?" Most of us have been taught to see our bodies as machines that break down and need fixing. We silence symptoms, push through exhaustion, ignore stress, and hope things will simply go away. But what if your body is speaking a language of its own and every symptom is an invitation to pay attention rather than something to fear? In this fascinating episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned intuitive healer and bestselling author Inna Segal to explore the profound connection between the body, emotions, beliefs, and spiritual wellbeing. Together, they uncover how unresolved grief, suppressed emotions, inherited family patterns, and limiting beliefs can quietly shape our physical health; and why true healing often begins by understanding the message beneath the symptom. This conversation isn't about blame or magical thinking. It's about curiosity. It's about learning to see your body as an ally instead of an enemy and discovering how greater awareness can open the door to deeper healing, resilience, and transformation. If you've ever wondered why certain patterns keep returning, why stress shows up physically, or whether your body might be revealing something your mind has overlooked, this episode may forever change the way you think about healing.    Timestamps (00:01:35) – Where intuition really comes from (00:05:00) – The relationship lesson that changed everything (00:07:48) – Why intuition is often quieter than fear (00:10:02) – The surprising practice that builds self-trust (00:13:11) – Why highly sensitive people often attract narcissistic partners (00:17:16) – Recognizing and leaving unhealthy relationships (00:25:32) – Was it really love, or something else? (00:28:51) – Reclaiming your power and creating healthy boundaries (00:33:13) – Practical ways to protect and strengthen your energy (00:39:33) – Developing intuition through sensitivity and awareness Some Question I Ask: Have you ever ignored your intuition because you wanted a different answer? Can you distinguish between fear, desire, and genuine inner knowing? Where might you be abandoning your own wisdom in relationships? What agreements with yourself have you been breaking? What would change if you trusted yourself more deeply?   In This Episode You'll Learn Why healing the heart is essential for developing intuition The difference between emotional intensity and genuine inner guidance Practical exercises to strengthen intuition and concentration How self-trust is built through honoring commitments to yourself Common signs of narcissistic and emotionally manipulative relationships Why many intuitive people ignore important red flagsHow to reclaim your voice and personal power after unhealthy relationships Powerful methods for protecting and strengthening your energetic field Get in Touch: Inna Segal www.innasegal.com   Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

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SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.

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  • Creator
    Transformational Teacher and National Best-Selling Author
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    481
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020 The Blackson Group LLC
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    SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

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