The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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  • Self-Improvement
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

  1. 20h ago ·  Video

    The Art of Engaged Indifference: Strengthening Relationships [Revisit]

    Episode #1164 This is a revisit episode of one of our most important conversations because the message is just as relevant today as when we first recorded it. Do you keep telling yourself you'll focus on your marriage once work settles down? Many successful men believe they don't have the time or energy to work on their relationship, but the real issue often runs much deeper. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen talk about why so many businessmen throw themselves into work while their marriage slowly drifts apart. They discuss the fear of rejection, the pressure of tying your identity to success, and why avoiding the hard conversations at home comes at a much bigger cost than most men realize. You'll also hear why compartmentalizing your work and personal life isn't as effective as you think, how the health of your marriage affects your leadership and business performance, and what it looks like to start making your relationship a priority without sacrificing your ambition. If you've been feeling disconnected from your wife, spending more time at work than you want to admit, or wondering why success doesn't feel as satisfying as it used to, this episode will give you a different perspective and practical steps you can start applying today. If you're ready to understand what's really keeping your marriage stuck, get the free training at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll learn a practical framework to help you rebuild connection and start creating positive change at home.

  2. 3d ago ·  Video

    Reclaiming Your Identity: The Path to Fulfillment in Marriage and Business

    Episode #1163 Do you keep telling yourself you'll work on your marriage when life slows down? If so, you're not alone. Many successful businessmen pour everything they have into growing their business while convincing themselves there's no time left to improve their relationship. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen unpack what's really behind that mindset. They explore why so many men avoid working on their marriage, how fear of rejection and identity can keep you stuck, and why hiding in your business never solves the problem at home. You'll also hear why trying to compartmentalize your work and marriage doesn't actually work, how the quality of your relationship impacts your performance as a leader, and what happens when you start making your family a real priority instead of something you'll get to later. If you've been feeling disconnected at home, questioning where your energy is going, or wondering why success at work doesn't feel as fulfilling as it should, this conversation will give you practical insights and a clear place to start. Want to understand what's really keeping your marriage stuck and learn the first steps to rebuilding connection? Get the free training at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales and discover a practical framework you can start using today.

  3. 5d ago ·  Video

    Navigating Marital Challenges: Staying or Leaving

    Episode #1162 How do you know when it's time to leave your marriage? Or when it's time to fight for it? It's one of the hardest questions a man can ask himself, especially when the connection is gone, communication feels impossible, and you've started wondering if life would be easier with someone else. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher Hansen have an honest conversation about what really happens when a marriage reaches this point. They share personal experiences, lessons from coaching thousands of married businessmen, and the two simple questions every man should answer before making a decision he can't take back. You'll hear why the grass isn't always greener, how emotional distance slowly builds over time, what women are often looking for in a relationship, and why working on yourself first can completely change the direction of your marriage. They also talk about why doing the work is worth it, whether your marriage is restored or you ultimately decide to move on. If you've been asking yourself, "Should I stay or should I leave?" this episode will give you practical guidance to help you make that decision with confidence instead of emotion. Get your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It and discover practical steps you can start using today to rebuild connection and become the man your family needs. Just cover the shipping, and we'll send you the book.

  4. Jul 14 ·  Video

    Redefining Wellness: A Conversation on Body, Mind, and Life [Revisit]

    Episode #1161 Wellness isn't just about losing weight, eating better, or spending more time in the gym. Real wellness is about building a life that gives you the energy, focus, and resilience to show up as your best every day. In this conversation, Doug sits down with wellness coach and gerontologist Kate Abate to talk about what actually creates lasting health. They explore why so many high performing men struggle to prioritize themselves, how stress impacts every part of life, and why small, consistent habits always beat chasing perfection. Kate also shares what she's learned from coaching men through physical transformations and why improving your health starts with understanding what's really getting in your way. In this episode you'll learn: • Why wellness is about more than fitness and nutrition • How stress and decision fatigue quietly sabotage healthy habits • Why perfection keeps so many men stuck • Simple ways to build routines that actually fit your life • The connection between physical health, confidence, and leadership • Why community and support make lasting change possible • How to create a healthier lifestyle without making it feel overwhelming If you've been trying to improve your health but keep falling back into old habits, this conversation will give you a different way to think about wellness and practical ideas you can start using today. Get the free training and learn the proven framework thousands of men have used to rebuild their confidence, strengthen their relationships, and create lasting change. Get instant access at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales.

  5. Jul 11 ·  Video

    Becoming a Conscious Lover: Deepening Intimacy in Your Relationship

    Episode #1160 How do you rebuild intimacy in a marriage? What does it mean to become a better lover, and why does emotional connection matter so much to a healthy sex life? In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Chris dive into these questions and share a practical conversation about creating deeper intimacy with your wife. They explain why great intimacy isn't about performance or technique. It's about trust, presence, communication, and learning how to reconnect emotionally before expecting physical intimacy. You'll hear why intimacy often fades in long term relationships, how shame and past experiences can affect your connection in the bedroom, and why becoming a conscious lover starts with understanding both yourself and your partner. Doug and Chris also discuss simple ways to improve communication, create emotional safety, and bring more curiosity, confidence, and playfulness back into your relationship. If you've been wondering how to improve intimacy in your marriage, reconnect with your wife, or build a stronger emotional and physical relationship, this episode offers practical insights you can start applying today. Get the free training and learn the proven framework thousands of men have used to rebuild connection, restore intimacy, and strengthen their marriage. Watch it now at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales.

  6. Jul 9 ·  Video

    The Art of Dating Your Wife: Date Night Mastery

    Episode #1159 How do you reconnect with your wife after years of marriage? What makes a great date night when life is busy, routines have taken over, and the spark feels harder to find? In this episode, Doug Holt sits down with Coach Chris to answer those questions and share a practical approach to dating your wife again. Instead of focusing on expensive nights out or elaborate plans, they explain why meaningful connection comes from being intentional, playful, and genuinely curious about your partner. You'll hear why simply going out to dinner often isn't enough, how small moments of connection can have a bigger impact than grand gestures, and why bringing fun, mystery, and leadership back into your relationship can change the way you and your wife relate to each other. Doug and Chris also share simple date night ideas, conversation starters, and mindset shifts that make it easier to reconnect without forcing difficult conversations or adding more stress to your relationship. If you've been wondering how to reconnect with your wife, improve your marriage, create better date nights, or build a stronger emotional connection, this episode offers practical advice you can start using right away. Get your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It and discover practical steps to rebuild connection, strengthen your marriage, and become the husband your wife wants to reconnect with. Get your free book here: https://thepowerfulman.com/freebook

  7. Jul 7 ·  Video

    Navigating Relationship Crossroads: Should I Stay or Should I Go? [Revisit]

    Episode # 1158 Some conversations are worth coming back to. This is one of them. If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Should I stay, or should I leave?" you're not alone. It's one of the hardest questions a man can ask, especially when love, commitment, and years of shared history are involved. In this revisit episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith walk through a practical framework to help you stop making decisions based on frustration and start looking at the bigger picture. Instead of asking whether your relationship feels difficult today, they explore the deeper questions that often reveal whether the relationship still has a foundation worth fighting for. In this episode, you'll learn: • The first questions every man should ask before considering separation or divorce • How to tell the difference between relationship struggles and relationship failure • Why avoiding difficult conversations keeps couples stuck • What your wife's anger may actually be telling you • How to know if both partners are still invested in making the relationship work • Why becoming the best version of yourself is the first step before making a life changing decision Whether you're feeling disconnected, questioning your marriage, or simply wondering if things can get better, this conversation offers practical guidance to help you move forward with clarity instead of emotion. If you're searching for answers about whether to stay in your marriage, how to rebuild connection, improve communication with your wife, or decide if your relationship can be saved, this episode provides a thoughtful framework to help you make that decision with confidence. Before you make a decision about your relationship, make sure you have the right tools. Get your free book bundle that's helping married businessmen reconnect with their wives, rebuild respect, and reignite passion without begging, therapy, or waiting for her to change. You'll also get access to our exclusive app, live trainings, and digital resources. Get your free copy today at https://thepowerfulman.com/freebook.

  8. Jul 4 ·  Video

    Navigating Relationships: A Journey of Transformation

    Episode # 1157 Being yourself matters. But if the way you're communicating keeps creating conflict, it may be time to change how you deliver your message, not who you are. In this Ask Me Anything episode, Doug Holt answers real questions from men navigating marriage, rebuilding trust, parenting challenges, and personal growth. Through honest coaching conversations, Doug shares practical insights on how small changes in communication and leadership can create lasting transformation at home. You'll hear stories from men at different stages of their journey, from rebuilding a marriage after years of struggle to learning how to communicate more effectively with a spouse and children. The common thread is simple. Real change starts when you're willing to take ownership and keep showing up. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why being authentic doesn't mean saying everything that comes to mind • What your wife may really mean when she says, "You haven't changed" • How to rebuild trust after years of hurt and disappointment • Why taking ownership creates emotional safety in your relationship • How to avoid complacency once your marriage starts improving • Why personal growth is a lifelong journey, not a finish line If you're looking for practical relationship advice for men, wondering how to improve communication with your wife, rebuild trust after conflict, or become a stronger leader at home, this episode offers real coaching you can apply right away. The biggest takeaway is this. You don't need to become a different man. You need to become a better version of the man you already are, one choice, one conversation, and one day at a time. Get the free training that shows you why your relationship feels stuck and what you can do to rebuild connection, respect, and intimacy. Watch it now at https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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  • Creator
    Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    999
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    The Powerful Man Show

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